This brought sooo much comfort to me, I’m also multi generationally mixed & finally feel included!! There’s still a lot of self-discovering for me to do♡ but thank you for embracing & educating us about the MGM community this video was a such gift👼🏽 sending you lots of love & blessings - Harmony Williams :))
@iLikeCok8 күн бұрын
🫶🏽sameee
@harmonywilliamsss6 күн бұрын
@@iLikeCok MGM club🤍🤍🤍
@ExoticalHoney28 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for speaking on this topic! 💛
@Nazirra999Ай бұрын
Just found out im MGM! New sub
@WESTCOAST-dh3zu2 ай бұрын
New subscriber. I took an ancestry test from CRI genetics. My results are 59% African 26% European and 15% Native American. I'm triracial MGM. Do more content
@WESTCOAST-dh3zu2 ай бұрын
I'm a quiet light skin. Dark skin blacks tried to fuck with me but they were hesitant to face me. It's because they didn't know the type of harm I would put on them. It would've been lethal. The quiet ones are dangerous/lethal. They know quiet people are not to be fucked with.
@WESTCOAST-dh3zu2 ай бұрын
New subscriber. My ancestry is 59% African 26% European & 15% Native American
@sweetsweetgirl2 ай бұрын
yes i feel like it’s a completely different experience being mixed but having mixed parents. my mom told me about her experiences being mixed and the jealousy and hatred that people had towards her. she always taught me that those kinds of people were just envious and to not let it affect my self-esteem. i’m glad for this because i see a lot of other mixed people feeling shame for their race just because of something a racist or jealous person said.
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
yes it really makes a difference when you have that wisdom and support form your mom and other women in the family🩷
@mschoy15972 ай бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯💯
@Choompam2 ай бұрын
It is such a male model thing to say that he likes women that’s gonna be their provider, male models and people in this industry are such red flags unless they’re passionate rather than about their image. I’m glad you stood your ground, major respect to you!
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
@@Choompam thanks! Yea he’s trying the wrong one.
@EreenLewis2 ай бұрын
222❤
@user-he4lj5wl7w2 ай бұрын
Great story time ❤
@slavafricanpersephone2 ай бұрын
i don't think being a muse to anyone is a flex. as an artist who has had her fair share of muses (though I've never been one myself), its more or less the fantasy or idea of the person you admire rather than them. at first, they seem like a wonderful and beautiful person, then once the fantasy wears off you no longer feel the same. you realise they're not special - they're just like everyone else. thus the fantasy is gone. in reality, you're far more in love with your own imagination than anything else. instead of realising this, the muse continues to be a distraction to what you're actually in love with. its also a derealisation process in many ways. thats not to mention in some extreme cases, you're channeling your self worth through someone else, which is NEVER a healthy thing to do. pedestalising anyone to the degree where they have that much power is unhealthy. which is why its so important to become your own muse, especially as an artist - fall deeply in love with yourself first, so you can love others just as deeply.
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
@@slavafricanpersephone yass! This is so true. It’s a way of projecting in a sense.
@maggidiy2 ай бұрын
This vid made me subscribe.
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
@@maggidiy Welcome🫶🏼💗
@nikicarrie40712 ай бұрын
Seriously i swear . Howwww many videos 📹 mixed women are Not blk🗣🗣🗣 fast forward A mixed woman: i am biracial Blasphemy! She hates blk people she hates herself, im offended MAKE YOUR MINDS UP
@ExoticalKiss2 ай бұрын
omg i totally get it, people are already so jealous by our visibility and magnetism that they feel like it's too overwhelming for us to have more, it's so petty and immature 😭
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
@@ExoticalKiss 🎯 it’s like, let us live! dang.
@Laïla-h4i2 ай бұрын
Regular ppl are always trying to cope with compensatory narcissism. When I was studying software engineering, a lot of people especially men didn't believe me. Now that I've graduated and getting into the field I can only imagine what people are going to say. They just think I'm interested in modeling or entertainment but I've never been in anything like that 🤣.
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
@@Laïla-h4i first off congrats boo ✨🎉 and yes, it’s like they just can’t imagine you being more than what meets the eyes. Also, compensatory narcissism is a great way to describe this attitude.
@yahainHotPink2 ай бұрын
I wish you success with your company!!
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
thank you so much!
@yahainHotPink2 ай бұрын
Exsqueeze me!! She called you lame?? So Rude!! 😮😮
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
ikr! I was like, oh thats what you reallyv think huh?! Noted!
@SihamAdan-pc8mr2 ай бұрын
Can ask are East Africans (Somali) considered excotical genuine question?
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
I would say so. especially if they are in America or another predominately white country.
@yahainHotPink2 ай бұрын
New video!! Yayyy!!
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
heyyyy!!
@yahainHotPink2 ай бұрын
@@LoverGirlsAnonymous Hello again!
@Vickiluv2 ай бұрын
You are completely right about how our culture buys products to cover up our beauty. I will say however, that even if you as a black woman love your phenotype, we aren’t always able to work around folks that accept our hair. Getting correct quality hair care for our own hair isn’t always available. Think of celebrities who must wear wigs because stylists on movie and tv sets don’t do black hair right. I live in a very white rural area and actually love just being in the beauty supply cause it’s the only place I feel like I not an outsider and can hear something besides country.
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
that seems like a tough situation to be in. I get why you would still appreciate it bc at least its something.
@legslikewhoa2 ай бұрын
And I’d respond loudly “AND WHATS WRONG WITH BEING BLACK?!?!” Yeah UNO REVERSE! Stand on it and explain what you meant. 😂
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
lmaooo uno reverse!! exactly!
@donnafernandez7712 ай бұрын
Love the volcano background effects 🌋🌋
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
thank youu!!
@kendallfrazier57892 ай бұрын
CARDI-B IS A CULTURE VULTURE JUST LIKE DRAKE!!!!!😮😮😮😮😮
@Sintax6662 ай бұрын
I've always been hard to like connect with any other groups of people being native African and Latin I don't really consider myself Latin that much because it's such a small percentage of My blood.. but the native and the Black culture I've always felt connected to but never welcomed by anyone so it's been kind of hard to be honest
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
yes, that's why its so important to define yourself for yourself.
@saintlove95942 ай бұрын
In Latin America it exists, my parents are super mixed
@AnneJoseph-qk2ns2 ай бұрын
If I had plastic surgery I would never go after someone's looks. That makes no sense
@tamarapowell89822 ай бұрын
Umm that lady went after her looks first so she has a right to come after her looks back plastic surgery or not. If you’re jealous and that you want plastic surgery but can’t afford to get it done just say that! If you see women that have had success plastic surgery as a threat and serious competition, just say that!🙄
@AnneJoseph-qk2ns2 ай бұрын
@@tamarapowell8982 no I used to make fun of the chicks with fake boobs because my boobs looked as perky and bigger and i never got plastic surgery. It's a hierarchy those of us who have what those seek with surgery will always feel better
@somtoobiorah2062 ай бұрын
@tamarapowell8982 no she didn't Cardi b definitely came after her looks first
@jstillperfect90702 ай бұрын
This topic is interesting, I see discord between black and mixed/light-skin women all the time and it always sounds like someone is blaming the other. I think that people like cardi b definitely rage bait and unfortunately black women run with it. I wish we could learn to stop blaming each other and learn how to work together as women.
@tamarapowell89822 ай бұрын
Ummm someone defending themselves against people that are bullying them isn’t “rage baiting”
@Spawned-uy8ip2 ай бұрын
Also, Vanessa Williams didn't get to be Miss America back in the day because she was seen as a BW in the eyes Caucasians. They weren't ready for that. Just as Meghan Markle got her N-word wakeup call from the royal family and other British people.
@ritasmith9722 ай бұрын
That 300-pound woman can't take anything from anyone.
@ritasmith9722 ай бұрын
I am so glad that I found your channel because I always felt that I was the only person experiencing this. It feels good to that I'm not alone.
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
Yes! Welcome to the channel.
@Spawned-uy8ip2 ай бұрын
Ok, let me try to clear this up for you all. At least 80% of the so called "blacks" in the US are of multi-mixed ancestry. Most American blacks have Caucasian/Asian/Native American/Hispanic/Jewish DNA inside them. It's the One Drop Rule that determined most were black back in the day. And like it or not, but that ODR type of mentality persists to this day. Most mixed race blacks ARE blacks in the eyes of every other race aside from blacks themselves. And a lot of blacks will see mixed race blacks as black people. It's just the extremely prejudiced ones that don't. But IF a mixed-race black is biased against black people, then they need to try to get with the people they identify with the most. Just don't go running back to blacks if they get that N-word wake up call.
@RicoMyers-f6n2 ай бұрын
Mix race people are not black they different Race real black people are dark skin and jet black
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
@@RicoMyers-f6n do you hear anything in the video? 🎤…is this thing on?
@RicoMyers-f6n2 ай бұрын
@@LoverGirlsAnonymous I'm telling you about genes and science your not black your mix race you not dark skin ok forget the video 😈👹 is not important
@Music453872 ай бұрын
🤣 I watched Cooley High and was not impressed!
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
@@Music45387 ikr. I was like 🥱😂
@Dentsun42282 ай бұрын
it was groundbreaking for its time. a black version of american graffittti which was a huge coming-of-age movie. these days with so much black media it would not stand out.
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
@@Dentsun4228 I can appreciate that perspective on it.
@Music453872 ай бұрын
@@Dentsun4228 🤣 That’s your opinion and in my opinion, there’s nothing groundbreaking about a bunch of teens skipping school and trying to have sex- no matter what demographic the teens are.
@Dentsun42282 ай бұрын
@@Music45387 no there's nothing groundbreaking about teenagers being irresponsible. However the fact that this movie was made in 1970s about a group of black teenagers during a transformative period in their lives was groundbreaking, just as the movie American graffiti was considered groundbreaking for depicting white teenagers in the same stage of life. No movie before had ever examined the black experience in this way.
@dwanacoulter6042 ай бұрын
This is definitely a thing DSW created and it’s sad. We just need to ignore them and their jealousy and insecurities that they try to project onto us. Let them sit in there misery we don’t owe them ANYTHING and we don’t need their acceptance
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
@@dwanacoulter604 definitely do not need their acceptance💅🏼✨
@Dentsun42282 ай бұрын
i am not a woman. but i think this whole "dsw are jealous of lsw" is really overstated at least in america. there's a lot of competition among women and its on complexion, looks, hair etc. for example, my ls aunt told me that when she was teen, she was jealous of my ds aunt who happened to be more petite with a nicer shape. the ds aunt was envious because guys seemed to be attracted to the ls aunt's complexion. but those attitudes should change over time with maturity and education. for example, my 33 yo sister is a dsw and she has friends of all complexions. i have know bw all my life and they have ds and ls friends, but they still have competition and envy based on different attributes.
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
@@Dentsun4228 yes the thing is, once women decenter males’ opinions and attention, women as a whole will be better off.
@Dentsun42282 ай бұрын
@@LoverGirlsAnonymous well, i wish you women luck decentering men from your lives. i hope you know it means men will respond by decentering women as well.
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
@@Dentsun4228 We don’t want you centered on us. We want you centered on your mental health, emotional intelligence, integrity and ya money. Then come see about us💅🏼
@samanthamari33762 ай бұрын
Cardi comes each time with singles who cares about album albums make low sales nobody cares about it or music videos only streams
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
yea, thats definitely one take on it. She keeps herself in the public eye one way or another.
@samanthamari33762 ай бұрын
@@LoverGirlsAnonymous again a story about ice again with hairstylist don't knw what really so bad this time about her copying nicki looks I know cardi had similar experience with hairstylist for me at this point American people r sensitive I'm from south africa if ice really is disrespectful she wil go on live and swear to nicki and barbz now that will be disrespectful like latto and cardi did but now they actually want this to happend so they want to cancel ice for me just is jealous black women that's against ice spice appearance I never seen them hating on jt Normani or any other ghetto black rappers I c pattern now very clear even they say few bad things when doja was at festival performing
@laexotical2 ай бұрын
Interesting
@yahainHotPink2 ай бұрын
I'm finally back. 😊
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
@@yahainHotPink welcome back love✨💅🏼
@yahainHotPink2 ай бұрын
@@LoverGirlsAnonymous Thank you. This was a good video. 😊
@StephTheYah2 ай бұрын
I don’t like cardi’s behavior toward black women at all but your take is solid: bwe spaces keep these kind of women relevant, so what’s the purpose of even complaining? It’s like how black women complain about Chris brown being colorist but they refuse to stop supporting/talking about him.. weird.
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
I don’t really like anything Cardi B stands for. But they just keep on focusing on her. There are so many UAB women artists who get looked over and not promoted by UABW with platforms and it’s a shame.
@StephTheYah2 ай бұрын
@@LoverGirlsAnonymous it’s why the community isn’t winning. I want the best for them so bad, and I feel so tempted to come to their defense having that I used to be in those spaces. But when I come to our space I’m always slapped back into reality about the truth: uab black women only care about being victims. No matter what they claim 😥
@tamarapowell89822 ай бұрын
@@StephTheYah what do you mean her “behavior towards black women” when those same black women attack her first unprovoked and ps she doesn’t only clap back at black women so I really don’t know where this “she only comes for black women” narrative is even coming from because you must’ve have not seen her on her love and hip hop days or her ig model days because she hasn’t only clapped back at black women
@StephTheYah2 ай бұрын
@@tamarapowell8982 because the video is about black women. That’s why I said black women lol. I’m not denouncing that cardi doesn’t do this to everybody at all.
@far63112 ай бұрын
Yes i do notice lots of cute type 4 wigs, kinky straight textured ponytails, etc. And no one buys them! The deep wave and the curly were always sold out, and the type 4 wigs collected dust 😢
@far63112 ай бұрын
Literally every time i see a trendy, stylish black owned beauty supply store it ends up closed. Why don't we like supporting ourselves? We buy from the Koreans all day long but not our own peers? Yikes
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
@@far6311 I swear!! So many have opened in my city and closed down before a fiscal quarter even passes.
@far63112 ай бұрын
My sister tried to yo call my daughter white. Honey she has your DNA too as my sister. Wtf are you talking about? Mixed is not white, stop being delusional 😂
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
@@far6311 trying to throw some sort of shade out there. And for what reason?!
@KevinSutton-te8cs2 ай бұрын
YOU CAN CLAIM WHATEVER NOBODY HONESTLY CARES. SO STOP THE PURE AND UTTER BS. LOL. WHO CARES... BLACK PEOPLE DON'T CARE. YOU'RE ABOUT A 6-7 SO RELAX. NO ONE IS JEALOUS OF YOU. JUST BEING HONEST NO SHADE. IT'S SO MANY BLACK GIRLS THAT LOOK WAY BETTER AND THAT'S A FACT. SO JUST RELAX CAUSE YOU HAD A COUPLE BAD EXPERIENCES... SMH...
@Dentsun42282 ай бұрын
i think you got your feelings hurt too easily. the girl was just having fun...yes, it was in bad taste. yes, she put you on the spot. but i will go out on a limb as presume nobody noticed or really cared. it was a bad attempt at a joke. she's fat and probably gets overlooked by people all the time. so, she's trying to get attention. you should have just laughed along with everybody else and let it slide instead of getting all uptight and offended and shit. your reaction made people tense and uncomfortable. EVERYBODY knows in america light skin blacks are black too and they are accepted that way. i mean look how many light skin celebrities and idols we have in the aa community. you seriously think people see your lightskin as problematic? that sh*t is only an issue among teenage girls and ignorant, low-class people. not your crowd.
@AnneJoseph-qk2ns2 ай бұрын
You are part black at least right and you're with a black man. What would you expect to have? I would treat her like an idiot what's wrong with you. What what is not clicking in your head you thought I didn't know. What's wrong
@AnneJoseph-qk2ns2 ай бұрын
Is it because you look white or something I'm just curious. Who would say that to someone who is black where is she Caribbean or something foreign
@tamarapowell89822 ай бұрын
@@AnneJoseph-qk2ns yeah you’re clearly new here 😂
@cosmicrae2 ай бұрын
So the Black community discriminates on their own people????
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
you could say that.
@StephTheYah2 ай бұрын
9:36 definitely true. I kinda felt bad about it but it’s the truth. I don’t resonate with full on black features and I don’t want to force myself to. I’d rather just keep it to my own phenotype but I don’t want to offend anyone.
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
I know an UAB man who (from the history I know about him) has a propensity to date only mixed and light skinned women. He complained to me that some of them told him he’d be a good husband but they don’t want to have kids with him bc they want their kids to look MGM like they do. He was deeply offended by this but I don’t feel it was wrong of her to say that. The only thing I can see is it may have indicated that he has internalized colorism and an inferiority complex.
@StephTheYah2 ай бұрын
@@LoverGirlsAnonymous that’s the thing I don’t get about Ian proplr and men. They’re offended when mgm people would prefer to be with their phenotype but they like to justify why they don’t like their own phenotype.and I believe this is another reason they one drop rule is because they want us to them. I have a biracial mom, a mixed grandfather and native grandparents on both sides but because my skin is a deeper brown there are black people who will attack me for preferring what actually matches me lol.
@StephTheYah2 ай бұрын
@@LoverGirlsAnonymous idk what happened to my other comment but: I believe this is why uab black people like to one drop rule us. Because when we prefer to be with our own, now they're "deeply offended" lol. I have a biracial mother and a mixed grandfather with native on both sides of my family. But I have a deeper skin tone. so if i say I prefer an MGM, I know some black people will call me self hating just because of my complexion. I know nothing about the experience of a person with full features and kinky hair. I have small plump-medium features and loose curly hair. Yes I would prefer to keep that in my bloodline because I want to be with what I relate to. There are black friends I had that get angry with me for dating other MGMs because they're lightskin. I get pursued by MGM's alot so whats the problem? lol.
@StephTheYah2 ай бұрын
You can’t speak on your other cultures throughout your blood because it seems as if it bothers black people not to just call yourself “black” anyways. Although you keep hearing the question “are you mixed?” “You can’t just be black” . It’s so weird lol. If you admit that yes you have other mixes in your blood, you just don’t wanna be black. If you say “no, I am just black” then they argue with you like “girl no you are not, you have to be mixed” lol
@LoverGirlsAnonymous2 ай бұрын
it is so dysfunctional and it shows who actually has the real identity issues.