My ex cheated, I divorced him. Same year he married her. I was single for 13 years then got married.. My ex is miserable with the other woman and heartbroken that I am happy and my husband is smoking Hott!! Karma is a bitc#! I was as sweet as pie the entire time. Kill em with kindness!

It really is

Saul also had free will and look what happened to him lol😂🤣

Going on 6 yrs standing for a change in my spouse. Have a house have a job have money have hobbies have health and looks have my youth have friends. But its still lonely with no woman😢

I know what you are going through. My husband of 38 years (married 35) cheated on me with a younger woman. I was heartbroken and my world just fell apart. That all happened between 2022 and 2023 and eventually I told him to go because I could not put up with his behavior anymore. I am struggling to get over this and still cannot see a light at the end of the tunnel.

I really love your videos and your niche here trying to put marriages back together. God made marriage, it belongs to him and it’s a one flesh covenant-that means only death separates it.

The 3 C’s you didn’t Cause it , you can’t control it , you can’t cure it . I can relate to some of her trying to heal him . My son just went through the same issue staying thinking he could fix it . We can’t fix anything only God can but like she mentioned God gives us free will .

So unfortunate...

Well, as I’m listening to you talking to her-you’re saying exactly what she should have done/said to her then “married boyfriend” she met on WhatsApp , instead of getting involved with him in the first place-right? How you get ‘em is how you lose ‘em!

The mom dying kicked this crisis/divorce/separation off. Curious why you aren’t/didn’t talk about this? My wife almost same exact story even a trip to Disney. All started with her mom dying of breast cancer. Just like this story she told her dad, the courts and anyone who would listen that I was a fire breathing Dragon. Great advice to keep showing up because they eventually figure it out. When the courts gave me custody of our three kids that changed some minds. Mine left with our children and her high school boyfriend shoe box only. She was also suffering from depression and anxiety which runs on her mother’s side. Her mother was a hoarder/ depressed. She ended up in the emergency room and now has a psychiatrist. She’s in her early 40’s so I’m sure her hormones aren’t helping.

Well, that was amazing. I really appreciate her sharing and felt encouraged. My husband left 9 years ago and also involved lots of manipulation with our 3 boys, so my story yet basically similar seems different because I have the element of child/parent estrangement, which has been the hardest.

Give up the right to BE RIGHT 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷

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Fake eyelashes look so out of place on older women. It screams an unwillingness to be yourself. Hardly an attribute of someone who advises others on relationship issues. And the arrogance of someone thinking that they know what 'god' wants is off the charts.

We've been married for 32 years and I'm ready to move on, I am tired of the broken promises, being shut out, and tired of having nothing really to show from it.

Yeah well when they promise to change to save the marriage and she does but it only lasts for a few months, that says a lot on it's own. Second is when she can't keep her promises she makes, it's time to make a decision.

They are chasing her because she has money

LOL! Dating horse face just the same way he dated her 27 yrs ago…. Yeah I know that creepy feeling! It’s strange. My ex is reliving me through his current gf. He also told me he doesn’t want to divorce me because I’m crazy, I cause him so much anxiety and anger, and he doesn’t care if we’re married forever as long as we’re living in different places, he’s good…. His horse face is completely ok with their relationship too…. He remains married to me and she is just a horse face. Make that make sense to me. His mind is irrational. He needs help. He hurt me enough, so I’m out.

Going through this with my h.... 😞

No, God does not want you to marry and stay married. St. Paul said it was a lesser state and recommended celibacy. And Jesus was anything but pro-family.

I agree that she should find out more. Being the 'cool girl' is going to hurt her in the end because her husband will think none of it is a big deal since clearly his wife doesn't think it's a big deal. Plus, she will be wondering what is going on even if she's pretending she doesn't want to know.

I love your message about stepping past fear and talking to your spouse even if you think they'll take it negatively. Society ingrains in women the idea that we have to be 'cool girls', not real people with feelings. If a guy wants to do something, we have to be cool with it even if we find it disrespectful and then we end up afraid to voice our true feelings. No more of that. If she tells him she wants him to come home and he thinks she's manipulating him and he refuses to come home - then she'll have her answer. But if he does come home, maybe they have something they can work on. Either way, it's better than living in limbo. Also agree that there's no point in staying in a relationship with a compulsive cheater or a narcissist because they will never change.

This guy doesn't sound like a prize at all. I hope the first wife left him in the end and found herself a real man.

I respect him for coming on and telling his story but it was difficult to listen to him talking about how he's effectively stringing his wife along. On one hand he feels shame and is afraid to ask for a second chance (which is very real and I feel for him) but on the other hand, he doesn't know if he wants to try and that maybe they should just have a platonic relationship. If he's in this state of limbo, then he needs to let his wife go. It is unfair to her if she's thinking that he might come back to her given that he hasn't filed for divorce but he's still in contact with affair partner and doesn't even know if he wants to stay with wife beyond the comfort and convenience aspect. I really hope he seeks the counsel that he's looking for and he let's her off the hook one way or another because keeping her in limbo is cruel.

Lady your attitude is wrong. This poor woman has been through hell. Have some empathy and quit the fake smiling and acting like you've got the secret answer. You don't.

This lady is a money driven monster, using God as a weapon.

There is no way I'd stay with a man like that. He is crazy. A delusional narcissist. Let him go crash and burn on his own. You do not deserve this, and you have to have boundaries. Cheating is my boundary. This guy has gone way beyond that. Even god allows divorce for reasons of adultery.

They distort their reality! Sin never ever prospers!! When the limerence ends they see the truth! Pray for the scales to be removed from their eyes and ask God to soften their hearts. They harden their hearts to allow them to drive through the shame and guilt

What if they have filled for divorce I keep fighting for my family but he says there’s no coming back

She’s vilified him so much to be able to do what she’s doing is right in her head. Her hardened heart allows her to keep doing the wrong thing but I bet has so much shame and guilt inside of her and this will eat her up over time.

You also need to make a video called "Stop Complaining & Just Swallow"

The oldest daughter living with her boyfriend is hurting too. She is leaning on her boyfriend and being sexually active out of pain of her parents splitting up. Hope she doesn’t get pregnant. The youngest child is 16 so she is not a baby but should have visitation weekly and every other weekend with Dad. Go out to movies, out to eat, go shopping, go on a weekend trip out of town to the beach, Disney. This is sad. Not sure if Dad is a man of faith. Pray for wisdom to get family and marriage restored.

This is exactly what I'm going through it's hard as hell to deal with my husband of 32 yrs married 41 yrs together the way he talks to me I can't take it. It's hard to try and cut someone you love out of your thoughts

Hats off to these ladies 😅 that’s definitely s hard work 😢 Im Christian myself and i believe in spiritual warfare too.

God bless you. I have noticed that it is true the middle crise thing since a lot of women and men leave their spouses for a fun thing. 😅

Great. ❤

That man is trying to find a way out without going bankrupt. Because he wants out because the woman is the problem.

I believe in giving unconditional love too. Going into my eight year. It can be lonely and exhausting though. I stand in faith🙏

THANK YOU FOR THAT WISDOM..❤

He is one of the few rappers (independent ones) I like.There are a few I liked back in the 80s other then that I've never been a rap fan.The guy is amazing.Unlike most rappers he has a message that needs to be heard

The grass isn’t greener on the other side it dead where Jesus is not.

Redirection instead of resistance… that’s a sound advice and will definitely take a while to master.

Aww this is amazing my husband left me after 5 kiddos my three are now are teen . I forgive him but he want talk to me and hes out of state he left me two years ago 😢 but i still love him . But he did infidelity and adultry all i do is. Pray 🙏 amen .

Yea but why would he marry her? It makes no sense. Marriage is for young women. The point of marriage for a man is to lock up a young attractive woman and enjoy the best years of her life. Not to give legal rights to half your stuff to an aging woman.

They only get one chance… after that, you’re just tolerating their behavior and you’re also dependent on them for comfort and your own happiness. You need to be able to stand alone and not go through that.

Men are advocating to the younger men of future generations to not get married. It’s not in their best interests.

For all the women who are complaining about their RUNAWAY HUSBANDS: I get triggered when adult children just throw away their mothers or their own flesh and blood family members claiming they are toxic...but these same women will stay and fight for a toxic, no good, lying and cheating man. This conversation is about loyalty and integrity and how can someone not care about how they hurt others. This is my exact same question I pose to women who can hurt their mothers and family members and not give a damn. I know so many mothers who cry everyday because their daughters won't have anything to do with them because they feel they find something better in a MAN. If it's one thing that upsets me and rattles my chain is someone who lacks LOYALTY and INTERGRITY to their own flesh and blood (real family members). Men walk off and leave women pregnant or leave her struggling to raise kids alone, but isn't that the same thing women do when they turn their backs on their mothers because they feel a man is the be all that ends all or when they feel they don't need her anymore? I understand where this lady is coming from...she wants to know how can anyone call themselves a decent human being and have no problem HURTING others. I have the same question....Especially, how can you do it to your MOTHER who is the reason you are even BREATHING...How can you do it? I guess the same way men can walk off leaving women pregnant and struggling. I think this is called REAPING what you have SOWN.

Amen to that🔥