You a simp dude imagine her with the other guy his thing in her holes how do you come back from that 😮

Why hes even asking that? If its me i will like to see cheaters jailed

You say it did not bother you, but it obviously did, immensely. You've been with this POS for 17 years, and you just "forgot" her birthday? I was born at night, but not last night. And let's stop this "open relationship" BS. It's just cheating. Your "wife" is trash, and you should divorce her yesterday.

You call her great wife...so why all i read was ungrateful cake eater whos risking her health, your health, family stability for obvious selfish reasons? You need to check up with specialist, because youre so detached 2ith reality OP that its actually painful to even realise

This story can't be true. No man can be that much of a simp!

Wow, so OP still thinks of herself as a good girl after taking on 3 dudes after getting a little drunk just before she is to be married? Then never tells her husband even though he allegedly gave her a pass which no one believes he did. But lets say he did, why would she not tell him since she had permission? Then she gets the video of it and keeps it after, for some reason she wanted her friend to get rid of the evidence? BS logic, she kept it because she did exactly what she wanted and was treated that night exactly how she knew she should be. She never told her husband because he didn't give her a pass and he wouldn't have married her had he know she was into that and she knows it. Sad the husband had to waste that many years on a woman like her.

Do not hear her out, you already know everything she will say. DO tell everyone why, she will spin the narrative as soon as she feels she no longer has a chance to patch things up with you. And lastly you are already doing what you should be doing by walking away. Her behavior will be much the same for all the bachelorette parties she attends in the future with all those awesome friends she has. You cannot believe she only kissed the bar guy and there is no way you should think she wouldn't do more in the future. Stay the course OP.

You still call her a great wife? I would even argue since she shows no respect to her child's father she really be a great mom. You knew you didn't want to be with anyone else but you allowed an open marriage, essentially it's just you giving her the green light to bang other dudes. You are the AH for allowing the marriage to be opened in the first place and for giving your 304 wife hope. You know good and well that there is no way you can ever get back to the way you were before. Even though you do not know the details you do know she has been ran through for the last year. Not only that but you also know in the future she can ask to turn on the open marriage switch, even though she said she wouldn't but I mean she went back on her vows already, surely she can go back on that little promise and besides you already allowed it once, right? OP should end it now and get it over with instead of dragging it out.

Choices have consequences , and she will have to deal with those consequences now. She will have to learn how to do without the "nice things" that she likes so much. Her actions put her in this situation and she is solely to blame.

You know what?....just stay, my guy! You dont seem like you could do better than the cheater anyways. I see this couple cheating on each other daily in the near future.

Bounce. Save yourself. She cares not for you.

They will always be a cheater to the one they cheated on.

She lost your wallet when she spread her legs for another man. Simple

Ya gotta go dude.

Idiot.

This guy is an idiot

Divorce her

Well, if she takes him to court, she can probably get support. Even if you have to talk through lawyers, get an agreement to get out of the situation.

Dumb as%

OP you made the correct decision.

Hell no, she brought it upon herself

We didn’t get to see how the shyte show ended 😅

Another case of unaccountable 😅 idk if this just a story but I can see it happening good for him to cancel wedding and confronting his exfiance. She knew she wanted strippers and just said okto him to let it play out since she didn’t order them one of the girls did tf😮

Life is blessing you with another major revelation - those friends and acquaintances do not deserve your presence! Replace them with better people.

NTA. She made her choice and now you get to make yours. You owe her nothing

Your ass is toast.

You definitely dodged being married to a harlot, a person of low morals and a cheater.

Those parties never work out. Girls can’t help themselves. All about sex before marriage. Too bad! Stay single men!!!

NTA, she made her choices and had to know that there would be consequences, if she had stayed faithful there wouldnt be any issues, you are under no obligation to support someone who wilfully hurts you.

Kept the film???????????

You could pay the bills (not rent) until the end of the lease. But only if you want to.

Just more proof that "once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater"!! NEVER take a cheater back!

BS he didn't give you a pass.

Women gonna do women stuff. AWALT.

Do your husband a favour and leave and never return. As your clearly just a 304.

Everybody I've known who has suggested to their spouse (and it can be the husband, too) to "open up" their marriage has either already cheated, or has somebody in particular in mind. They are merely looking for a way to justify their adultery. OP is NTA for divorcing his wife, but he IS the AH for not dumping her the moment she suggested it.

Why should I give a crap? It's your call.

3 dеgenerеtes who shared STDs with each other. I don't feel sorry for any of them. Оnly sympathize with those to whom they also “donate” their herpes.

Pure crap.

🤮🤮🤮🤮

She has an STD and they dont want to use condoms? How crazy dumb can someone be? She freshly knew Mark and i think it would have been better if she was honest about the concert and the guy. I would have declined the trip

Op a solid one

sex for a reward = prostitute

Did she admit to having genital herpes? And Mark, this new boyfriend does not want to use a condom? Unbelievable

Nope lady you open the relationship 😅😅😅

DON'T take her back. Since she barely put up any resistance and ended up kissing the guy at her batchelorette, who's to say she won't do the same again, even after she's married? Batchelorette parties so many times have ended engagements and marriages.

It means she is already with someone. She wants to have the fun with him but make sure that you take care of the responsibilities at home... It will hurt but it is time to go.

Yeah yeah, live separately for few weeks so she can find another AP more easily...or marry her right away and give it year or two before she come home with positive pregnancy test and Chad in her footsteps, while you will be forced to "evacuate" from your own home by some beta judge who will fall fior her crocodile tears...cheating is character flaw and such it can be removed, only supressed by therapist, BUT it will never go away and if she cant continue to do what she like she will resent you anyway...find a girl whos not a cheater and start from there

Always dump a cheater, expose her to anyone who cares, move on. Loyalty is not repairable.

Grow a backbone and dump/block her