Crazy how balance gives off so much power and confidence. I see people like this and I’m drawn to them. I have a really bad nervous system from trauma so I’m trying to be more balanced

"if you can see yourself as a science experiment" changed my brain chemistry

Thank you so much Dr C. Such a helpful video

Glad to have come across this video. Very helpful-now to watch your other videos since you explain everything so well

it's so true it all about energy .I Can't wait to see you in the next video ,you always nailed it my girl🌼

The perfect start to my morning :) These videos really keep me grounded. Thank you Ariel !

Well ma'am, you look balanced all around and stunning... I mean it as a compliment...

I allow myself to feel/think, but I immediately get curious about new thoughts/emotions. I train my mind to 'react' with curiousity and 'problem-solving' instead of DOOM. Breathe. You can re-program yourself. *IT'S ALL A GAME OF ENERGY ECO-TOTE:* shop.arielniuviews.com/products/energy-eco-tote *GET 1:1 COACHING:* bit.ly/EnergyCoachingArielNiu

This video has changed my life. I am convinced it was sent from the universe. Thank you Ariel.

Omg that’s the video I need 🥹🫶🏼just came back from work and feel so stressed .. wanted to work on that , thank u !

These sharp and soft videos are phenomenal! I've been struggling to find a balance, I'm often either too sharp or too soft, but I want to be able to be both. I hope this content blows up because so many people could benefit from learning about this stuff! Thank you for your wonderful videos💖

Is it really ok ? Only self teached are real teached.

This is basically about being authentic. Thank you for the deep dive though

Great video but why is the video so grainy like this?

i fucking love your content so much ❤‍🔥

I love your videos!! 😊❤ What microphone do you use please??

Thank you!!! Merci boucoup. That event looks so fun wish I could go in person.

How can tou be all three ?? How do you get that bañance?

from Niu to you 🥰 the ending was sooooo cute. you're a genius!!! thank you for everything x

maybe it's just me but i feel like often, i make a good first impression and then it gets progressively worse and worse haha...is there like a name for that? haha

Love your advice and how you communicate it. So clear and easy to follow. Also props on your transition into the ad, very smooth and well integrated. There's a lot of skill in that

"Whatever you want, you be it first." nice

that was very insightful! thank you!

I can't belive I miss the live

You're such a genius at this

Why it’s not available in Saudi Arabia 😢.

I love what you say it's so true

I want to thank you for your videos and the way you present the material. You bring real value. After watching your videos I thought about the fact that I have always been attracted to ‘sharp’ interaction, but I radiate a ‘soft’ energy, so this disbalance in my own presentation keeps people from taking me seriously. Perhaps the issue is that the ‘soft energy’ I'm talking about is just insecurity? In that case, no matter how hard I try to be ‘sharp’, I'm still ‘soft’ and it pisses me off😅😅

A minor? tch tch tch B sharp

So helpful! Especially the chapters power of trust and feel good nonchalance, thank you!

Is there any other way to download the app for Android?

3:55 I had a big fight with a friend of mine, I remember I was extremely angry towards her because of her defensiveness and her dismissal of what was going on. So, at first, I was very straight to the point and I told her the cold hard facts, then, she realised her mistakes and I realised that I was right afterall and that's when I blew up on her. I realised I didn't feel validated enough for the way I felt even with all of the evidence. And only after she finally took up responsibility did I feel like it was okay for me to be upset. I came at her regrettably, almost attacking her. Then, I realised how it was wrong and I stopped doing that. I went back to the facts and set aside my feelings. I feel like this is such a learning curve, barely ever am I in the position that I actually communicate my feelings with people, I only did with her because she was my best friend and I was honestly too upset to not talk about it.

Really valuable Ariel! Thank you so much. ❤

Ariel❤

Thank you. Really want to go from soft confidence to sharp!

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such valuable tips, thanks girl!

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mind blowing and so simple at the same time

This was really interesting to learn. I'm really nice and ready to help all the time to the point of people pleasing but learning to be more kind. Also are there videos about the different voice tones (sharp, soft and playful)? I'm curious to find out more ❤😊

Please make a book on these types of topics!!! (Femininity+socializing+softness+directness) I’d buy it!!

you are so inspiring ! thank you for sharing 🫶🏽

I love that youtube showed me this on my home page. I was new to the way that you express things but I learnt quickly what you meant, and I truly think you used the correct terms and definitions. The exaples grow on high level of understanding, plus this was so fun to watch, thank you and I give it an 11/10.

Yes but a robber story is pretty easy to generate dialogue around. I would love to see the same video with a less novel context. Thank you for your videos they are so good!

your contenttttt UFFF❤

Thanks for the video! I got in a bit of trouble with the opposite gender bc I looked at them and smiled and they smiled back but some ppl didn't like it. Then I got a bit shunned. I don't know what to do bc I got misunderstood.

Ariel, you have amazing content! I find equally amazing how you present your cosmetic exploits! For instance, your lipstick- i love, love the shades that you pick for yourself. It's not the lighter pinkish hues I see on everyone- which doesn't look good on me. Please advise on your lipstick styles and your ideas behind how you pick your lip colour!

dis lippy on you ggrl

This is really eye opening for me.Note that this as a complement coming from a chronic people pleaser.I thought being a people pleaser will avoid trouble and I'm being a genuinely nice person.But, instead it got me into more trouble and I was a nice liar. And also the other day I listened to your video on how to improve listening skills and I have already practised that with my mother.And to my surprise IT WORKED!!!!.I mean after 20+ years. And I wanted to mention that here. So,I mean I'm gonna take this advice too.Thank you so much for everything.❤😊 P.S.I have ADHD and I have problem with keeping attention and I can't control loudness in my voice.Honestly I don't feel how loud I am, I mostly notice it when someone else points it out.I start talking casually but end up broadcasting.😅I don't know may be you won't have tips for that, but if you have I hope you will make a video covering that too.🎉❤

You’re so interesting to watch