How does your half sibling think your mom is her mom, op and his half sibling is barely related

Play stupid games. Win stupid prices.

Those adopted kids are going to RESENT her for this so why even bother to adopt

TT why punish us by posting this?

OP IS being paranoid. It was the lunch break in the middle of a college day and they were in campus. They probably had lectures they wanted to get back to. When I was in college, we did b'day etc after college not during lunch breaks, because u know u don't have the time (esp if the group in is different years, depts, etc) Also, it was supposed to be a private date of OP and boyfriend. Why would the group hang around being 3rd wheels, esp if they are not that close with her anyways.

Isn't it convenient that nothing has happened beyond what he has proof of? Almost like confronting her without proof just tells her to hide it better and gaslight him more? Almost like she's trickling the truth out whenever she has to. There has to be a name for that...

This guy has to have the intelligence level of Forest Gump

Honestly I don't blame her, she's probably feeling some trauma from having that kid separated from her. With biological children you don't have that threat of them just being taken away for no reason

Run Forrest, run.

Leave whilst you can, find a woman more suited to your needs. You get what you tolerate in life.

Doormat of the year award goes to...

Dismisses the behavior with "Everyone was doing it" 304

Is this op stupid? It's obvious that his girlfriend is a cheater, once they cheats they can never stop

1:29

At least op's friend is taking responsibility for herself and her children thats good news for op and her husband

Stop adopting. Likely, she would not have wanted to adopt at all if she had become pregnant right off.

Sad. The mom might become a hige problem later in life.

This guy is awesome, a shame for the mother. Hopefully she stops that mindset because it's not right for her to adopt and then do that

That's just lovebombing. Not a change of heart.

So glad everything was able to get resolved. Going into their room to "get away from her kids" was a major overstep and I am glad OP finally realized that.

Op standing on business, round of applause 👏

2:41 girl you should be the LAST person on earth talking about decency

*Where's The Video With The Updates!?!*

I’m not even sorry for OP. WHY did they married after just one year of dating? How can you be so dumb? Now he is discovering that both of them aren’t compatible. It’s seems that marriage holds no meaning to people anymore. It’s just like buying a new phone and everyone want to do it just to say that they did it.

Brother is on point. Ex needs to hear that he's dropping the ball, but keep that convo away from the kids.

So she not only decided to play along with it and not turn this guy down for god knows how long, but when she finally "gave in" she let him hit it raw? OP should get an std screening and consider himself lucky if he is clean. There were no stortage of men and women who died because their wives/husbands and girlfriends/boyfriends messed around and got HIV back in the day. I am not old enough to have lived thorugh it but I heard stories from Where I live where one guy screwed a load of married women, and a whole bunch of husbands died to AIDS in the following years.

RUN! 🏃‍♂️💨

I did not expect it to go this way. She listened to her husband and took action to allay his worries. His worries were actually quelled. The friend took the rules well and followed them. Just amazing for a reddit post.

Looks like she can do things or does apparently for her man which is not op, my opinion

I don't understand why they got married...

She said sorry and didn’t change. That’s MANIPULATION!!! Leave. You have fallen out of love. Who else wouldn’t? Also, why tf you got engaged too quickly before seeing you guys are compatible or not? Clearly, you are not. Leave and go find someone who loves you the way you want to be loved.

OP last words sum it up perfectly. She is expecting maturity from a 13 years old that she herself hasn't shown. OP should stop that therapy or at least finds another therapist because this one is clearly milking them for money since the sister herself hasn't realized how terribly she is and the situation she created.

W father🗿

Not even going to leave a comment. We all know what should happen😂😂😂

"Can't erase 20 years of your life", sure you can buddy. You just stop thinking and contacting the person completely and move on, do not give them a second of your time anymore now that they've shown you what they are really like. Why bother hanging around someone who has caused you trust issues and has showed their true colors. Once you learn how to let go of people, life becomes much easier.

I can never understand how someone can do that to someone they claim to love and have known for that long so easily without a second thought. I also can't understand how someone can want to remain friends with someone who does that to them when they are also basically providing everything for them. Lastly, I can never understand a parent siding with the person who cheated on their child. There is just a lot of messed up in this story.

She is an awful person and he's a simp.

God is giving him a second chance. So glad he decided to take that offer.

What do you mean you want to stay friends because you can't erase 20 years together? Mate you learned more about her true nature in a week than you did in 20 years It takes a specific kind of people to do what she did, and if you're that oblivious you have to expect it's not the first time

A woman having passed through college is a huge red flag. If she is even remotely good looking it's pretty much guaranteed she'll be in the 2-3 digit body count by the end of it.

I was willing to give op the benefit of the doubt until she brought up his assets, you deserve to get tossed out like trash cause your less than trash, you got ran through by Chad and Tyrone during your best years so don’t say you gave him five of your best years cause they’re way behind you, you suck as a person op and only used this poor guy as a safety net, he put you back were you belong.

21 is still so young. People are still maturing. Op is ntah. This is a good time to establish new friendships maybe with class mates in his major.

NTA now they can both be dead to him. It's crazy how loyalty to women means hiding infidelity

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Are you and your friends in Kindergarten?? Juvenile and moronic and very destructive behavior for a joke.

I am glad the in-laws understood OP's state of mind and considered what's best for the baby.

OP, you need new friends. You're what people call "Easily Led". Oh and you're not the sharpest tool in the shed. Remember the old saying, "Fuck around and find out"? Well, you did.

Hell no. He’s not obligated to raise a baby that isn’t his. Find the kid a new home (which it sounds like he did) and cash in on the cheating 304s life insurance policy and live a good new life!

She just proved that she'd be willing to hurt him if someone else was persuasive enough.

Everything he's asking for is reasonable, but why did he take this cheater back anyways? Honestly she doesn't realize a relationship ESPECIALLY one where you both are fiances needs boundaries, she broke them all, and still talks to the guy she promised she wouldn't talk to. Even being just 'friends' doesn't work because there's always that door opened to cheat. Simply put she needs to learn something called loyalty or she'll die alone.

Just understand, if you find out the child's biologically not yours, that is NOT your son. That's the affair partner's son or whoever she slept with. Guys have NO obligation to take care of a child not theirs, the one who made the child needs to take responsibility and needs to pay for their upbringing, don't put yourself through financial struggle and mental pain only to hear when they're older "You're not my dad!"