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@CC-br9qg
@CC-br9qg 2 күн бұрын
24 year old woman and I have only 1 friend, no boyfriend, living in my childhood bedroom, can't find gainful employment with my college degree from 2022. It's really tough times. Literally just went through 6 rounds for a temporary admin job and the offer evaporated.
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth 21 сағат бұрын
6 rounds!! Just for it to be taken away is psychotic. Omg I am so sorry. It really is tough times out there and just know that it’s not you. So so many people are in the same boat as you as it just sucks. Know that you WILL get out of this rut, find a job, the love of your life and more friends. Good things take time and I’m rooting for you 💛
@Ivy46983
@Ivy46983 4 күн бұрын
I've definitely not been the same since the lockdowns either. The second lockdown coincided with me entering my 30s so maybe I'd have become this way with age anyway but the lockdowns definitely accelerated it, largely because random people cough middle aged white men cough tried to take out their anger on me because I look like an easy target and everyone was just constantly ripping each other apart over masks/vaccines etc so I think I started to associate going out with stress and negativity.
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth 4 күн бұрын
this is really insightful! I never thought about it this way but I too have associated going out with stress too since the pandemic. sending you love 💛
@homer6968
@homer6968 5 күн бұрын
Wow this is exactly how i be feeling sometimes
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth 5 күн бұрын
It seems to be really common!
@AncientIntegrations
@AncientIntegrations 5 күн бұрын
It won’t work for some people if they have too much air element. They’ll be forced to pair with feminine energy people to be able to create anything-especially if their feminine energy is toxic or garners competition. People will show up, but they won’t engage. They’ll take.
@iggyb.3072
@iggyb.3072 6 күн бұрын
I need this kind of energy in my life! Also that whole thing about not eating well or sleeping or going outside and wondering why I feel bad is so true I felt attacked lol thanks for the great video!❤
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth 6 күн бұрын
thanks for watching 🥰💛
@appleheaddefender
@appleheaddefender 6 күн бұрын
What if u dont feel anything
@appleheaddefender
@appleheaddefender 6 күн бұрын
Im not on the list
@tujungadave
@tujungadave 6 күн бұрын
This is so refreshing to hear someone talk about this. I've been seeing this for decades and I'm appalled by it. I think it's the fault of the American advertising industry. It's part of the old "American Dream" scenario except that part where we have to work hard to get ahead. Now, people are pretending to get ahead without doing the work. Smoke and mirrors. We've been told over and over again that we HAVE to have this or that, or we're not as good as our neighbors or friends. I've always had the attitude that even if I had the money to buy fabulous mansions and cars that I'd be happy just having a comfortable home and reliable car. What one owns, or has, is not a measure of who they are. I want to find people who value personality and creativity over consumption and appearances.
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth 6 күн бұрын
agreed!
@dolittle6781
@dolittle6781 6 күн бұрын
Yes the pandemic really changed everything. Just thinking though that there’s always something that’s gonna force us to change course-wars, devastating natural disasters, even personal health problems or family trauma. What often helps is to count your blessings, considering things could be much worse, right? Thank goodness you weren’t a casualty of the pandemic!! Counting blessings isn’t a cure all but at least it puts us in a positive mindset to keep moving forward. Watch out for destructive cults. They prey on young talented people trying to find their way in life but are having a hard time and they’ll destroy your life. Read up on cults so you’ll know how to steer clear of them.
@CC-br9qg
@CC-br9qg 2 күн бұрын
Love this comment. Thank you
@Italiangirlnj747
@Italiangirlnj747 6 күн бұрын
Im in nj
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth 6 күн бұрын
Jersey girls! 🥳🫶🏾
@Italiangirlnj747
@Italiangirlnj747 6 күн бұрын
4 yrs aka 2020 sumthimg off in air
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth 6 күн бұрын
agreed!
@Italiangirlnj747
@Italiangirlnj747 6 күн бұрын
I'm depressed bored
@terrancemcclendon456
@terrancemcclendon456 6 күн бұрын
Social media and society standards !! " You' re not married yet" " your sibling is xyz" someone's good doesn't mean you're not good ..know what you want out of life and who you are
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth 6 күн бұрын
good advice!!
@terrancemcclendon456
@terrancemcclendon456 6 күн бұрын
Don't depend on certain friends to "hang" and limit social media​@@itsgivinggrowth
@RainImanKhan
@RainImanKhan 13 күн бұрын
No one lol
@lifewithdanielia
@lifewithdanielia 13 күн бұрын
Good video 🥰❤️
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth 10 күн бұрын
Thank you 🤗
@lydiamusima5257
@lydiamusima5257 27 күн бұрын
My previous Instagram account brought me a lot of heartache. I was so active posting stories everyday, revealing a lot of information as to to what was happening. I'd waste hours scrolling photos, watching all the posts of romantic relationships, weddings and gatherings I wasn't invited to by so-called friends. I was upset at messages being ghosted despite the fact they were always online. It was the first thing I saw waking up until bed time. When I announced that i was closing the account, 60 people viewed it, only 3 contacted me. All the the rest are fake friends. I shut it down. Social Media and even Whatsapp doesn't keep you connected to people. It keeps you isolated and disconnected. A vast majority don't care about you
@lindsaylong8847
@lindsaylong8847 28 күн бұрын
Well I have no friends for since I left highschool decades ago.even then they very small groups of people 8 maybe 7 even out of these who I can really call friends was even tiner 1-2 I could call loyal friends throw out my younger days even teenagers days but I have family. Now nothing not even my own cousins except 1.trys to contact with me but none of the rest of my uncles and aunties cousins keep in contact with me but none hangs with me at all and I don't care I walk alone live alone
@lindsaylong8847
@lindsaylong8847 28 күн бұрын
I am an ambivert man
@saquoashonnebryantwharton131
@saquoashonnebryantwharton131 29 күн бұрын
Hi I’m new here I love your content, I was feeling down and playing just a few of your videos has made me feel so much better ! @itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth 29 күн бұрын
omg thank for you watching and leaving a sweet comment 🫶🏾 made my day!! And I hope you feel better. Sending you my love
@lionness_simsima5941
@lionness_simsima5941 Ай бұрын
Hi there, hope all is well great content thanks for sharing
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth 29 күн бұрын
thanks for watching and commenting 💛 I so appreciate the support
@TJ-nq5nt
@TJ-nq5nt Ай бұрын
We are train to be followrs and keep up with them. Also these big corporations like and love people to follow trends it benefits them. I have not comment on this page in a while . I do remember you being wise glad to comment again. Fake is ar a all time high.
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth 29 күн бұрын
thanks for watching and supporting 💛🌱
@Lylalynne
@Lylalynne Ай бұрын
the content we need..thanks so much
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth Ай бұрын
thank you for watching and commenting! 💛🌱
@luishp3
@luishp3 Ай бұрын
I think that Gary Vee quote is actually a quote from Fight Club (the movie). 😋 "We buy things we don't need with money we don't have to impress people we don't like".
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth Ай бұрын
oh interesting! I didn’t know I haven’t watched that movie 🙈
@truthfullytiggy5860
@truthfullytiggy5860 Ай бұрын
I’m 19 y/o…but this channel has just been giving me so much life!!!! I’m getting so much wisdom from you 😊
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth Ай бұрын
so sweet! thank you. I’m glad it helps 💛 I try to make videos that I needed to hear when I was younger.
@DamonCassidy
@DamonCassidy Ай бұрын
Really great conversation that needed to be had! Thank you!
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth Ай бұрын
glad you liked it! Thanks for watching!!
@cronpham
@cronpham Ай бұрын
3:55 youngster usually get rejects on chances (jobs, network, helps,...) by "high-profile" ppl. but sometimes the youngster with high income look might win a priority pass straight to the things that they want.
@mattesrocket
@mattesrocket Ай бұрын
Simple solution for all that: delete Instagram and the other stuff from your phone. Why at all people posting pictures from them there? You can meet friends in a cafe and tell them live how the weekend or holiday was
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth Ай бұрын
in person relationships are great! I have a whole video how how deleting social media for 5 years was so great for my mental health 💛🌱
@mattesrocket
@mattesrocket Ай бұрын
the whole thing is very intensly pushed by the companies who earn billions from this consumer frenzy. And within the American society it just developped I guess also a bit randomly like that, with this specific shape, it started somehow, then all the add bombardements of the products the companies want to offer and then it just came like this. I live in Europe, Germany and Austria and here we have this max 10% of how this is in the US. But we also have sometimes this negative competition amongst people. Who is more "potent", for example between neighbors, the car, the better pool in the garden, the nicer garden or house in general, the better job, who did the more exotic holiday trip etc. But all that's more the curse of rich people. In the still a bit existing middle class here you often have not these unhealthy competitions.
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth Ай бұрын
that’s a interesting perspective from Europe! Thank you for commenting
@OmegaDelta82
@OmegaDelta82 Ай бұрын
Thank you!!!!!!!
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth Ай бұрын
Thanks for watching bud 💛🌱
@hyaakanma7179
@hyaakanma7179 Ай бұрын
Thank you 💜💜💜
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth Ай бұрын
Thanks for watching 💛💛
@edwardleecaliforniausa
@edwardleecaliforniausa Ай бұрын
Hi happy Monday morning and happy summer day and this was amazing video I enjoy your channel
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth Ай бұрын
Hi Edward! Nice to hear from you again! Thanks for supporting as always 💛🌱
@edwardleecaliforniausa
@edwardleecaliforniausa Ай бұрын
@itsgivinggrowth your welcome sending love to you ❤️ happy to have you back and hope you having amazing day
@acbsmith1
@acbsmith1 Ай бұрын
Apparently there is a business that has a fake inside of a private jet in a film studio that 'influences' can pay thousands of dollars to go to take photos to make it look like they are flying on their jet. I have been so much more chilled over the last 18 months since I have been more of a minimalist. All the money that I have saved I have been spending on life experiences like visiting new places I have never been to before.
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth Ай бұрын
Yes!! Minimalism needs a comeback !
@Italiangirlnj747
@Italiangirlnj747 Ай бұрын
Im real
@ogvelociraptor205
@ogvelociraptor205 Ай бұрын
They're the most counterfeit people I've ever meet. I think it's an endless rat race that thankfully I've checked out of. Focus on YOU and live a minimalist lifestyle, ignore the faux photos on Social Media of the performers who behind the scenes are miserable and possibly in debt. The whole name brand while good is another trick from brands to make you think it'll give you some type of power when in reality it'll be out of style within a year or sooner. "Once You dress for comfort it's all over" Take care 😊
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth Ай бұрын
This!!
@Italiangirlnj747
@Italiangirlnj747 Ай бұрын
Thats f up
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth Ай бұрын
💯
@pcwc1
@pcwc1 Ай бұрын
Well that's $350 wasted smh lol...
@WomenofChrist1
@WomenofChrist1 Ай бұрын
I love this post it’s validation I needed❤
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth Ай бұрын
💛🌱 happy to help
@elornamiii
@elornamiii Ай бұрын
No hate but instead of saying brown parents say either your parents or your tribe or country. Since not all “brown” parents are like that😅
@loveandabcs
@loveandabcs Ай бұрын
brown?
@Anistyn-fz1rx
@Anistyn-fz1rx Ай бұрын
yess so real
@obokengm788
@obokengm788 Ай бұрын
One day 😢😢
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth Ай бұрын
yes!! Rooting for you 🙏🏾
@beansandgreens
@beansandgreens Ай бұрын
Haha nice 😂
@kingkobra4692
@kingkobra4692 Ай бұрын
this fake trend is truly hilarious, be glad you dont have a life threatening cancer.
@rouzbehteimouri7202
@rouzbehteimouri7202 Ай бұрын
why cant i save this to my favorites?
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth 5 күн бұрын
I’m not sure! but im glad you enjoyed it 🫶🏾
@healingwithtarot
@healingwithtarot Ай бұрын
QNA "Glad I asked" 😂 Love it
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth Ай бұрын
😂🫶🏾
@foreverjennicole
@foreverjennicole Ай бұрын
I love your videos thankkkks
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth Ай бұрын
thank you bb 🥰🙈💖
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth Ай бұрын
thank you bb 🥰🙈💖
@foreverjennicole
@foreverjennicole Ай бұрын
I'm in the process of deleting mine since may 1st I logged out ig and weaned off. Now just waiting to delete it completely
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth Ай бұрын
proud of you ❤️
@Ms_Introvert_4_Life
@Ms_Introvert_4_Life Ай бұрын
I'm 48 and a loner. Hard to find a genuine person who you are actually compatible with and will have your back.
@itsgivinggrowth
@itsgivinggrowth Ай бұрын
🫶🏾 it’s so hard to find genuine people. Keep putting yourself out there. Rooting for you
@Ms_Introvert_4_Life
@Ms_Introvert_4_Life Ай бұрын
@@itsgivinggrowth same to you 👍🏿👍🏿
@beverlyjordan3791
@beverlyjordan3791 Ай бұрын
Some of us can not trust our own children sad but, true.