What do you say about after you feel in your body and identify what you're feeling. what do you do next?
@AdrienneEverheart9 сағат бұрын
😚How to Speak so a Man *actually listens* everheartcoaching.com/500-ways-to-talk-to-a-man
@reyankisku393410 сағат бұрын
Your voice is so sweet
@Ehhmm11 сағат бұрын
You're beautiful so please dont think of this as negative. You should consider bringing your brows closer when doing your makeup so they fully cover your eye. Then you'll be even more beautiful.
@AdrienneEverheart11 сағат бұрын
What brows?!🤣
@Ehhmm9 сағат бұрын
@@AdrienneEverheart 😘😅
@reazhasan329322 сағат бұрын
trump is a rapist. No real woman can vote or, support rapist trump
@GHO5tMod3Күн бұрын
Amen to this ❤
@GHO5tMod3Күн бұрын
It sucks how prideful they can be at times
@ebbyknights1820Күн бұрын
You have these men down pack. Such great information. Thank you. Very encouraging and real.
@AdrienneEverheart11 сағат бұрын
I appreciate that! 🎁 everheartcoaching.com/freegift/
@Houndlover10Күн бұрын
This seems really helpful, thank you for bringing real life examples !
@AdrienneEverheart11 сағат бұрын
🎁 everheartcoaching.com/freegift/
@Ayaa8882 күн бұрын
I haven’t watched your videos since I meet my guy, and that was more than 5 years ago. Was listening to you talk in this video and as soon as you said he doesn’t want to marry a mother and he might want to go and find another woman who will make him feel like a man.. I thought to myself.. AND SO HE SHOULD!🤣 I’m so fed up I can’t anymore.
@AdrienneEverheart11 сағат бұрын
Hugs to you. Consider my coaching group for more supper. If you want to go deeper into this topic with me ,consider my private coaching group everheartcoaching.com/coaching
@zannaadedigba39363 күн бұрын
Omg yes so painful
@DANIELFernandez-cj4ce3 күн бұрын
Ever since I was eight years old I have always been attracted to older women. They have everything going for them. They know what they want, are very affectionate, loving and caring. They are experienced wise and intelligent. And last but not least my favorite part is no drama. The young ones are the exact opposite.
@mickeyjean28953 күн бұрын
Girl lol 😆
@Layoorah4 күн бұрын
This is soooo helpful, I can't wait to try this. My bf, who is always super sweet to me, tends to freak out about little things and it lights up my nervous system to the point I don't even want to involve him in helping with things when im around. Edit: I usually act like the parent saying stuff like "calm down it's ok" etc.
@AdrienneEverheart4 күн бұрын
I look forward to you focusing on being in Adult. Start planning now how you can respond! I see you being very quiet while he has his emotional response and just softly looking at him. Give it quiet space and see if he calm himself down. Pls lmk how it goes?!
@Layoorah2 күн бұрын
@@AdrienneEverheart Thank you so much! I actually gave it a shot yesterday when he was trying to fix the dishwasher and was really angry. NGL I started out my usual way saying "It's ok, just call someone to fix it" he continued his tantrum and I just stood there listening then quietly walked away. A few minutes later he came to find me. He seemed kind of apologetic and said "You know I'm not yelling at you right?" ...a step in the right direction maybe....
@abedokbaldet64184 күн бұрын
am almost 27 years old and always like women who are over 38 years old, I am very attracted to them.
@livinglargecoachingcounseling4 күн бұрын
Absolutely not. Any person who stonewalls or threatens abandonment has deep personality issues that make them unfit for being in relationship. Any kind of "teacher" attention reinforces this craziness. Ignore him until he gets out of it himself and set boundaries that this is a one time event or it's OVER. And get an apology.
@AdrienneEverheart4 күн бұрын
This is great adult response! Sometimes men say things that aren’t threats but temporary victim mindsets. Use good judgement- If it’s bold “threats” an adult might offer space for the other adult in the room to regulate, yet if this becomes a man’s M.O. - seek professional counseling and set healthy boundaries for your self. ❤️ Learn more about why walking away works 🚶🏻♀️diamondgirl.me/walk2
@LA-cm9uo2 күн бұрын
Ignoring him is literally stonewalling
@buggly34 күн бұрын
This can work in many ways, being a mom and wife and how I communicate with my ex husband to co- parent. Also this is important to think about but if you raise your children being the “ Adult” most the time they will parent themselves that way being the adult. We treat ourselves the way our parents treated us so it’s a chance reaction. They won’t grow up being the wounded child or even the critical parent. They will see and be in “Adult” more often. Raise more strong resilient kids. This is such a good video Thank you ❤
@AdrienneEverheart4 күн бұрын
I’m so happy to help you! Keep up the good work. ❤️💋
@donnamedica90145 күн бұрын
I can act like an adult and I will get no response ! He stonewalls ! Goes completely silent..
@AdrienneEverheart4 күн бұрын
Silence can be an Adult response to another “adult.” I’m curious what’s happening prior to him stonewalling 🤔
@donnamedica90144 күн бұрын
I have found that silence is really what works. I just go silent and it seems to be better than anything else I’ve ever done. He is a really loud person when he gets agitated and I didn’t grow up with shouting and it truly upsets me. I have reminded him in the past to please not shout at me but that never made a difference. Now I have said “I can hear you, please don’t shout”! Then he will stonewall and go silent 🤷🏻♀️
@lisadavie52825 күн бұрын
❤ Thank You for sharing how We Are Multidimensional Being ❤
@AdrienneEverheart4 күн бұрын
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@lisadavie52824 күн бұрын
@@AdrienneEverheart You have helped So Many many many I truly admire you, and Love you for all you teach & share you are Such a Blessing & Gift to this world!
@madamecurious5 күн бұрын
Great video with excellent advice for us!! Thank you Adrienne 🩷 One thing I would like to mention: if the husband or boyfriend has Asperger’s (ASD level 1, often undiagnosed and not recognized), he might go into a “shut-down” for a few days after an argument. That is different than pouting. The best thing you can do is to leave him alone and just assure him that you still love him. It’s not an easy thing to do, but they can’t communicate during that time.
@AdrienneEverheart5 күн бұрын
My main point is, he is still an adult and a man. I also believe as with any man he wants to be spoken to in Adult, not Parent voice. I’m curious if with your new insights will he shut down “less” and please also consider working with a therapist specifically trained in Aspergers. ❤
@madamecurious5 күн бұрын
@@AdrienneEverheart , yes, I agree! And what you explained, about not being parental with a man, applies to men with ASD also. It is most important advice, because it helps to avoid shutdowns, which should be the goal. My partner didn’t have a shutdown for about a year now.
@kristinolan72405 күн бұрын
Happy Saturday 🎉 This was so helpful ! I've ever thought of it this way, and feel it will be very helpful in the future !❤
@AdrienneEverheart5 күн бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@wendyfromtheblock67435 күн бұрын
👍🏾👏🏾✊🏾🤞🏾😓
@Alex1983956 күн бұрын
Well a narcissistic man and an emotional broken man are not the same. A narcissistic man is what you are commenting on, while an emotionally broken man just does not care anymore. He will tell you upfront who he is and where he wants a relationship to go, cause he does not want to waste his time. Men that are emotionally broken really do not care anymore for serious relationships. They are tired of putting in effort and getting hurt. A narcissistic man has no heart nor emotions to break. Narcissistic people know what they are doing, to people when they manipulate someone.
@jillcampbell77897 күн бұрын
My boyfriend of 10 years broke up with me. I am trying to move on. I am doing great. Then I feel his energy it so strong. I end up emailing him. Then I lose my peace. When I email him I something feeling like its his feeling. How do I deal with that?
@infidelcastor7 күн бұрын
I love your approach to relationships and I must say you have such beautiful hair 🤩
@aylex19747 күн бұрын
He can have 3 million years of space
@AdrienneEverheart3 күн бұрын
🤣💋
@aylex19747 күн бұрын
Everything yes yes yes yes
@AdrienneEverheart3 күн бұрын
Happy to help! ❤️
@aylex19747 күн бұрын
If the young man admired don’t feel insecure and respect you as a mature woman everything is going to be perfect and also looves to go out with the mature woman everything will be awesome. Hopefully they are different
@AdrienneEverheart3 күн бұрын
So true!
@Gettingitreal7 күн бұрын
This recent older guy said he had no trauma. I slowly learn his two children with two baby mammas, he doesn’t and didn’t assert to raise or be close. To want children now and be aware of that longing on your end and not have repaired with current children was a red flag for emotional brokenness. I really feel for those kids
@Gettingitreal7 күн бұрын
I’ve always dated older and usually 10 years older. I’m 42 and now i’m wondering how young I’m willing to go…. ………………36 😂
@scubadivingvika9 күн бұрын
What does she mean to let your inner girl glow? Please 🙏
@elss71079 күн бұрын
Adrianne, my boyfriend went to liverpool for an english course, and we started to argue cause i wanted more communication, after one argue i break him up cause i was so upset, and after few days i regret and wanted to fix things. He said that it was better, being apart…This broke my heart😢😢 i said what u advise, accepted his no. Im hurt right now, i really want to heal. I only can pray to heal our relationship.
@marycowan766610 күн бұрын
I’m 66 and my BF is 45…this is the first time I’ve dated a man this much younger than I am. I’ve always considered a 55 year old man a “younger man”. I realize now I’ve been missing out. We have a great relationship…it’s very relaxed and the physical aspect is off the charts.
@d1v1n1ti10 күн бұрын
I've found this all to be true until they are too young, then they can't really exert a dominance from a life experience level... I just recall this one guy that felt he "knew so much" ... which was a huge turn off. But I met someone younger and he actually was ten times more masculine and naturally humble. He was secure enough to ask me certain things but loved that he could bring out my submissive feminine.Sadly our schedules didn't work but i will never forget that it is totally possible and was the most incredible energy I've ever experienced! ❤
@gunjanharekrishna177211 күн бұрын
He always staring other girls in front of me seriously he has no red flag except this
@AdrienneEverheart3 күн бұрын
I’m curious how long you’ve been dating? Or how he responded when you express your feelings? Hugs to you!
@gunjanharekrishna17723 күн бұрын
@@AdrienneEverheart more than 5 years
@gunjanharekrishna17723 күн бұрын
@@AdrienneEverheart he also express his feelings he wants to marry me...he said his mother that he will marry me only...my father knows about this
@AG-vp1ok12 күн бұрын
Hi Adrienne. Great video, but I'm a bit confused. Is telling a man your exclusive with (who is bread crumbing) that you're going to keep your options open the same as the "walking away" that you talk about in your other videos?
@AdrienneEverheart3 күн бұрын
Both! Walking away can include keeping your options open. I have great blogs on this too Learn more about why walking away works 🚶🏻♀️diamondgirl.me/walk2
@POVEATSS12 күн бұрын
I usually just say my ideal type is a man with patience and self control first date. That way he knows I’m not putting out until I’m ready 😂 Another is I gave him pay for the first two dates & the third date I take control to reassure him I’m interested and I want him too. But I’m controlling the date pace so when the dates over I end it and go home. He don’t have a chance to make plans. We can have a picnic in public so there is no way we’re doing anything. After when he takes me back home I say goodbye cause obviously I’m not doing anything after being outside all day 😅
@tessm215212 күн бұрын
Most men are definitely entitled and I can completely understand why many women just stop trying with them. It’s exhausting. We have better things to do
@tessm215212 күн бұрын
Sigh. How does it work to walk away while you’re married and live together. He’s looking on women’s profiles online and it’s too hurtful for me. I won’t stay and be treated that way even if I love him
@AdrienneEverheart3 күн бұрын
I have some blogs on this - yet get clarity on where the relationship stands and make sure it is legally binding. In some states his online browsing is considered cheating. Hugs to you honey. Learn more about why walking away works 🚶🏻♀️diamondgirl.me/walk2
@vrosalove12 күн бұрын
I no longer tolerate it
@veganvintagegeek2.08912 күн бұрын
My inner girl loves to fly a kite and swing on the swings, thankfully my apartment complex has a swing set, YAY, playing Uno card game by myself, and I like to dance.
@veganvintagegeek2.08912 күн бұрын
I absolutely do the less is more and I am very happy not to have a bunch of stuff in my apartment. I only buy books for bible study & I borrow books from the public library. I never buy stuff unless I will use it, same with clothing I have a color plate (Blue in all colors is my number one, then there is red & pink) and I only buy clothes that can go with every thing I own. I wear a uniform for my two jobs, and to help keep my vintage 1940s-1960s style up I do my vintage Marilyn Monroe hairdo every day and when I cannot I still do my hair in a 1940s lady pomp with a low ponytail secured with a hair clip, and I wear a light touch of make up or I will just wear lipstick in pink or red.
@catstrawford12 күн бұрын
Qué bonita! 🎉
@Rocio-wy2eg12 күн бұрын
What?! I can't be very smart and witty around a guy? I'm naturally intelligent, am I supposed to pretend I'm not? How is that being masculine?! Also I'm not a vulnerable person. Like I'm literally not vulnerable, I'm not weak, I'm not people's pleaser, and yet I'm very feminine. How can I be vulnerable when I'm not vulnerable? I'm absolutely full filed within myself, I'm in love with myself, I'm whole.
@kristinolan724013 күн бұрын
This was fun !
@Misleeee13 күн бұрын
Haven’t had a response for 2 weeks plus this is my bday month. 😢We spoke for 5 months everyday. I just sent a message asking if he was ok. He never responded but he posts on instagram. I said “we haven’t spoken in a while is everything ok?” I think I’m just used to getting ghosted at this point 😂 our last date he said he had a good time so I’m just confused.
@Gs-qm1vr13 күн бұрын
What if they dont come on strong at the beginning?
@nayvigirl304214 күн бұрын
I’ve watched every video in the last 2 weeks. Will probably watch them on repeat because I feel so confident and calm and secure after. Just need reminders & practice makes perfect
@AdrienneEverheart14 күн бұрын
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@Daniellemarie1014 күн бұрын
I think putting your energy into creating an amazing life and falling in love with yourself every day, having gratitude mindset it all starts with an amazing relationship with yourself, we just have to unzip our hearts and invite him in ❤🥰