Say This! Exact Words & Phrases for High Conflict Relationships & Dating

Spot the signs of being with a high conflict personality HCP that may appear as a narcissist and know exactly what to do or say. ⇩
Bill Eddy & Adrienne Everheart offer encouraging advice to MANAGE and not CHANGE or run the high conflict person you may love or need to communicate with. We share tips on exactly what to do and say using several examples.
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We discuss: Unmanaged emotions, communicating effectively, exact signs to look for, borderline, histrionic, narcissist or high conflict? Plus exactly what to do and say to resolve conflict!
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[@AdrienneEverheart]

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[@lunamorena390]

I think your proposal of deep, useful and well studied content comes from a GREAT PLACE in your beautiful heart. I'll insist again, is the "form" that in my opinion stands on your own way, your " exaggerated way to speak" is not natural, being feminine is NOT being "childish", you are a beautiful mature woman, maybe lowering your high pitched voice, etc. will allow your great programs to get even further! Radical & Respectful: LM

[@TheEarthEmbodied]

watching as a high conflict person. and people do change. all the time.

[@TheEarthEmbodied]

id be willing to bet that all of the HCP are highly highly traumatized from chronic abuse as children. or were children of those people, or children of people with PTSD.

[@TreasureForeverOfficial]

This was so helpful… I was tempted to call my breadcrumbing guy in the middle of it and use the techniques… But I think I’ll just watch the video a few more times and then that way next time we reconnect I’ll be better prepared

[@AdrienneEverheart]

You got this! Also Go deeper with “500 Ways,” ebook and 2 day video classes. bit.ly/500waysbook

[@simple.flamingo]

Honestly I’m not in a romantic relationship with HCP, yet there are family members within that circle that are HCP and this is very important information I needed to hear, thank you!

[@AdrienneEverheart]

You are SO welcome!

[@heatherblack7593]

This was FASCINATING. Thank you so much for interviewing this guest and I’m definitely going to have to check out his book now!! 💜

[@AdrienneEverheart]

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[@EverlastingHeartKeepsakes]

Bill Edy is fabulous. I have one of his books on this topic because of my coparenting situation.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

That’s amazing. Thank you for sharing.

[@Miss_hells_bells]

This was such a helpful topic and video for my situation. I often feel people give great relationship advice put often the advice is difficult to apply when dealing with my very HCP. It also helps me feel like I'm not crazy that they escalate so quickly, that it is part of their personality and I'm being pretty gracious and kind with my behavior and they can still take it to a 10. Hearing tools on how to handle these types of situations is very helpful and I will look deeper into this gentleman's work, as well.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

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[@emiliaka4179]

This is a godsend. And whenever I say I feel at my limit with him telling me off he just said-you seen me at work thats me telling someone off (he shouts at his staff). I just mentioned that he wouldn't ever do that to me because I wouldn't stay in the same room if he ever spoke to me like that. Honestly, him talking me down 'Youre wrong I'm right' thing and you apologise to me.

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I’m so sorry this is happening. Sending you hugs. Go deeper with “500 Ways,” ebook and 2 day video classes. bit.ly/500waysbook

[@nazneenkassar1247]

Looking beautiful!

[@ethicalbunny]

As a very high conflict person I would agree with him 😅

[@raerivera5676]

This is soo good! Thank you!❤

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I'm glad it helped!

[@123gie4me]

❤

[@marys9925]

Why why why put so such energy into someone so broken , deal with what has gotten YOU into such a relationship , the issues obviously start with you

[@betinacarlson1928]

❤❤

[@rosiechic5590]

I'm wondering if disappearing and ignoring someone when there is a conflict instead of figuring out a solution to make things better fall in this topic ?

[@AdrienneEverheart]

I think it depends on the topic. I personally believe in tackling the hard stuff first unless you suspect the person is using conflict to create drama, get attention or control your emotions. “What do you think is right to do?” Is a good script to use.

[@Braveh3artGirl]

It creates disconnection and hurt, resentment etc. because nothing is resolved and you’re emotionally neglected. My partner does this to me all the time and i am potentially done. Healthy relationships = communication, healthy communication ❤

[@Angie247Beers]

Wow! This is HARD! When you're in love/committed/married to someone who is high conflict/passive aggressive/etc that can have their fuse flip on a dime to only discuss with them "What CAN WE do now... or moving forward" and serve them options and consequences instead of talking about "When such & such happens, I feel..." We, as feminine women want to be adored and cherished and not treat our men as if they are our children. I'm only halfway through this video so far, but I can tell you as a woman in a high conflict marriage that talking about our feelings ALL OF THE TIME is unbearable to men that can't handle being vulnerable. They, these high conflict/avoidant/passive aggressive types of personalities need to SEE that we, as the dynamite beautiful loving caring WOOO-man have our own juicy full delicious life and that we'll be just fine with or without his energy in it. Just my reflections after being through all Adrienne's amazing programs, getting engaged and married last May. Our anniversary is on the 21st and things would look a lot different in my life without all your amazing work Adrienne❤ ❤❤❤❤