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@slaves329.
@slaves329. 2 күн бұрын
My friend thank you for sharing. I am sorry for your loss. 👍
@Tomyoutube89
@Tomyoutube89 2 күн бұрын
Mine died 2 nights ago i cnt breathe 😢
@andrewmann9883
@andrewmann9883 4 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing this, it helps
@Garyboothcd6nz
@Garyboothcd6nz 7 күн бұрын
I need my wife back from her abusive step-dad before I die
@NicolieWebby
@NicolieWebby 8 күн бұрын
For me Because of school WHEN I WAS 8 I HAD DEPRESSION AND TEACHERS DIDNT HELP A BIT AND IT DIDNT HELP BECAUSE I WAS ALSO VERY SENSITIVE SO I WOULD GET BULLIED A LOY BECAUSE I CRYED A LOT AND AT 9 I GOT SELF-HATE AND HAD TO GO TO THERAPY BECAUSE OF SCHOOL
@Silvius-z5q
@Silvius-z5q 11 күн бұрын
I lost my dad too
@stewartcrew4520
@stewartcrew4520 12 күн бұрын
I lost my father on October 5th 2024 we were involved in a car accident because someone was texting and driving came across the center line and hit us head on and they aren't even gonna prosecute the guy that hit us because it wasn't a DUI.
@ItsYaBoiD99
@ItsYaBoiD99 13 күн бұрын
I lost my dad on september 1st 2024 and I feel lost.. I considered therapy and getting put on medication for anxiety because it does not leave my mind. It is scary but I know he wouldn’t want me to dwell on it like I am now. I know it’ll never go away but I do know that with time it will get easier. If anyone would want to talk or share stories with me I am more than happy to listen and help in any way that I can. I was told to talk to other people who have experienced the same pain. So don’t hesitate. We will all be okay in due time ❤️
@anasthebest
@anasthebest 15 күн бұрын
Man who took their lifes is always because of others for example womens family friends etc ..they just don't understand the pain and the suffering from inside what is actually..even if they open up to someone they end up regretting it because he finds out that his story was a joke in the table to laugh about and making jokes about it ..its insane how can people be cruel sometimes
@julieknowles3068
@julieknowles3068 17 күн бұрын
Well done Paul for making this video and I am so sorry to hear about your Dad, my son took his own life in August this year, we went to A&E and he sat for 24 hours without seeing a mental heath worker and then hung himsef in the A&E toilets, i found him, the staff were completely unaware, we need more mental health support as you said your Dad went for help at his GP surgery and was just given tablets and sent away, you are very brave to speak about your Dad, more awareness needs to be done xx
@Moonraker-xyz
@Moonraker-xyz 21 күн бұрын
Check
@Sean_Swift
@Sean_Swift Ай бұрын
Ive put so many cigars, blunts and dry ice out on my skin to num my mental to the point where it didn't work anymore, ive tried 3 times and thinking of a fourth. I want to change but it really doesn't seem worth it. Im lonley. I wwnt someone to come home to for a really warm hug or someone to make a meal for but i can never find the right person. You always have infinite tries until you dont. My mental slowly breaks down each day. I desperately want to love or be loved by another but death feels so much mor welcoming and less judgy. There thats me speaking out yay!?
@MasterAviator870
@MasterAviator870 Ай бұрын
School has made me a cynical person in general. I'm so tired of this
@goodygumdrops2105
@goodygumdrops2105 Ай бұрын
Im saving up to pay for my funeral then im gone out of this hell hole
@leomoyer4288
@leomoyer4288 Ай бұрын
I fucking hate school. for context I am 11 M and I have seen some of the dummest things happen in school like I am not even joking the urines at a bathroom at my school don’t even work all 3 of them not working.
@BrianCisneros-h1x
@BrianCisneros-h1x Ай бұрын
Lost My my father passed away
@Kayekayeeee
@Kayekayeeee Ай бұрын
My father passed away the day before Thanksgiving. It’s going to be nine years soon and it’s still feels like yesterday. He was my best friend. I miss him so much my condolences to you and thank you for being so brave.
@Robsheph
@Robsheph Ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing this story I'm sure theres plenty of people who can relate to this keep going as the next generation may learn from this
@markpatrick5246
@markpatrick5246 2 ай бұрын
im a marathon runner and after caring for and losing my parents, i lost my will to live - fell into severe depression/anxiety and tried every treatment under the sun.....im so sorry that your dads journey ended so tragically - running always helped my mental health but after my moms death i could no longer run......did your dad suffer from depression and did he get treatment for it? its scary to think someone who runs can still take their own lives....
@markpatrick5246
@markpatrick5246 2 ай бұрын
I was a marathon runner and cared for both parents until they died but after my mom died, i could no longer run and i was running 70 miles per week - the depression,anxiety,grief,ptsd left me feeling physically ill and exhausted and its been 20 months and i still cant run after a lifetime from running......i hope i can feel better enough one day to run
@CyrusTheLostBoy
@CyrusTheLostBoy 2 ай бұрын
thank you, i feel less alone
@alera520
@alera520 2 ай бұрын
My ex just took his and it’s been like a Hiroshima bomb for me, mentally, physically, emotionally it’s the must horrible pain i have ever felt in my life.
@karensherlock5151
@karensherlock5151 2 ай бұрын
Please don’t expect people to talk about how they are really feeling. You Don’t No Matter What You Just Dont it’s part of the Illness. We will never tell I wish everyone would understand the illness. Mental illness is the Biggest Shame Embarrassment Worthless you don’t express your real Demons. No we don’t want to be judged and labeled. It’s very difficult to say it no matter who you are. I still deny suicidal thoughts and plans to Professionals Doctors. I just am not going to tell anyone I just want to die. As selfish as hurtful it is you don’t have Filters or Rational Reasoning. We get tired of explaining it and feel very Shameful and Shallow. Lots of love to all. xo
@robertgraham5709
@robertgraham5709 2 ай бұрын
I think of it everyday.😢
@timberrr1126
@timberrr1126 2 ай бұрын
Feminism is a hate group.
@viz2790
@viz2790 2 ай бұрын
The less time I spend at work, the less suicidal thoughts I have. Hmm, I find this interesting, it’s like humans were not meant to work against their will to create income. 🤔
@sotirigiannis2391
@sotirigiannis2391 2 ай бұрын
l lost my dad 2 days ago 😢and am so devastated 😢
@dalvinadams4780
@dalvinadams4780 2 ай бұрын
It’s hard to have a smile on your face when you know what life is really about it’s like you can’t fake it
@anastasiamurawski6179
@anastasiamurawski6179 2 ай бұрын
Don't do it,don't give up think ,look before you leap.i lost my brother To Suicide 4 years ago.its still a fresh Wound.
@NyceBoi89
@NyceBoi89 2 ай бұрын
I lost my brother today
@anastasiamurawski6179
@anastasiamurawski6179 2 ай бұрын
@@NyceBoi89 I'm so sorry,
@izzypizzy1
@izzypizzy1 2 ай бұрын
I’m just about to kill myself. I’m homeless and no help and no one to talk to
@anastasiamurawski6179
@anastasiamurawski6179 2 ай бұрын
Please don't. You can get help.swallow your pride and get help. I was homeless and got out of it but I had to ask for help.
@anastasiamurawski6179
@anastasiamurawski6179 2 ай бұрын
My brother is gone and I will never see him again.
@Assassin-lk2cl
@Assassin-lk2cl 2 ай бұрын
School gives me depression sometimes i wonder what's the point of life, going to school and getting even more depressed.
@mcmadness8384
@mcmadness8384 2 ай бұрын
I was bullied for 6 years during my school years i have attempted suicide once but i dont have the guts to do it no more yet still i want to kill myself. I no longer get bullied in university but i want to kill myself even more now. Its been 4 semesters and im already losing my mind. I wanted to quit so badly my family wont let me. None of them feel what im feeling everyone looks down on me as if im a lazy mf who just eats and does nothing all day while im over here struggling every single day not to kill myself. So after their poking i got a 9 hour shift job that i was able to earn 14$ per day. Wasn't much but i still felt fulfilled it didn't feel like a qaste of time it was rewarding refreshing even but after summer ended i had to do work and college simultaneously so it started to go downhill again. I wake up at 6 am to make it to work at 7 Then when my shift ends at 4pm i go to univesity until 7pm then i take a shower and sleep. Sunday ends. The rest of the week i have uni from 7am to 12 then i go to work from 1pm to 10pm. And then i sleep. Cycle repeats. If this isn't hell then i don't know what is but i can't do anything qith my life ever again when igo to bed after work my body hurts so much that i dont even have the will power to get uo and do something nice in my free time i just look at the ceiling feeling trapped as i cry myself to sleep for another session of torture. I am no longer human. I am a vessel with no will to live. Just a robot that has subdued itself to this abusive system. It never ends and the only way to end this is to kill myself. I can't depend on family or friends because family is toxic and friends will not understand because they are not my university friends. Don't make the mistakes i made. I will eventually kill myself the cycle never ends and its only a matter of time until i break. This might be my only and last suicidal message because i dont really show suicidal signs in person. So im throwing this rant out there into the jnternet and nobody would probably care which is fine by me. It won't change what im living through regardless and my only way out is death. Also youtube will probably delete this because of how many times ive mentioned suicide and killing myself but still i needed to rant just to make myself feel better which i guess it wont so here goes nothing.
@justmadeit2
@justmadeit2 2 ай бұрын
I’ve had bad experiences in the past and really scared to try a different one, really depressed but scare yeah
@justmadeit2
@justmadeit2 2 ай бұрын
Chronic insomnia is brutal also on someone’s mental health
@Herbyhancock
@Herbyhancock 2 ай бұрын
It hurts so much
@peterreed9566
@peterreed9566 2 ай бұрын
What if like me men can't or won't talk. The suicide pandemic simply can not be prevented and sooner people accept that the better.
@chad1682
@chad1682 2 ай бұрын
It's only going to get a lot worse if Harris gets elected. Men are enemies of the state.
@anastasiamurawski6179
@anastasiamurawski6179 2 ай бұрын
Not true! I love men .
@anastasiamurawski6179
@anastasiamurawski6179 2 ай бұрын
Treat mental health with compassion. A lot of doctors are cold and incompetent. But guys have to open up to someone.
@MrTighehoodhood
@MrTighehoodhood 2 ай бұрын
Oh yeah, keep on living for the happiness of the other people. Who gives a shit about you it’s only so other people can be happy. Understanding that you don’t matter doesn’t mean you have a problem. You just learned the truth is all. You don’t help anyone for themselves. You just help them so that you don’t feel bad after you let them know that they don’t matter.
@jamesdriskill5784
@jamesdriskill5784 2 ай бұрын
I’m 60 and i admit that i think about it. Prob only 2 things that keep me from it is 1) the devastation that it would leave behind and 2) i probably just flat don’t have the guts.
@DAN-bc5ev
@DAN-bc5ev 2 ай бұрын
Well done for making this video. How did your mum cope with it, you didnt mention her much?
@bodhixxx1
@bodhixxx1 3 ай бұрын
simplify your life it helps a lot if you are single and have no pets just live in a apartment and enjoy walks and look forward to your vacation time enjoy your coffee and a walk in the park do some reading watching things that you can learn things from. volunteer at a veteran hospital those guys will love your visits and your listening abilities etc live "boring" you are not missing out on anything. First step is watch the movie Fight Club focus on the narrator before he meets Tyler Durden and when he starts living with Tyler Durden it changed my life for the better.
@usersss100
@usersss100 3 ай бұрын
i feel happy for your dad, i really do. he is in a happier place now for sure. i believe he has done all he could, rationalized with himself for a long time before doing the inevitable. the smile he had is a testament of him feeling free. The living should celebrate that he is free from all the troubles he has had.
@starshanae80
@starshanae80 3 ай бұрын
I lost my father to covid and I've not been quite the same since. Its been 2 years. I cry almost daily. It hurts.
@Kobe-de7zl
@Kobe-de7zl 3 ай бұрын
I’m 25 and been struggling with porn addiction since 9 years old. I’m super awkward in public and never had a girlfriend
@alex2410
@alex2410 3 ай бұрын
I lost my dad on the 23th of august last month to cancer. He was 75 and wanted to let go.. me and my three brothers stayed at his place in another Town 4 hrs away for two weeks.. and it brought us closer together. All in all something good came out of a very difficult time. Stay strong people
@Funkit891
@Funkit891 3 ай бұрын
There's a lot of reasons to plant a man. the most common is the guy is trying to plant you. You can defend yourself in a court and be glad you are the guy in the court and not the guy in Forest lawn.
@YourNearestDipshit
@YourNearestDipshit 3 ай бұрын
I’ve recently become a sophomore in high school and now I’m getting more work than ever before, and it’s a living hell. Why do they expect so much from us?? Do we look like robots to them? And they wonder why we don’t have any good health or sleep, let alone good fucking education. I’m already feeling like shit because of the work and pressure I get from my school. Fuck school. I don’t even know if I’ll make it halfway through the year.
@שאולנקר
@שאולנקר 3 ай бұрын
THANK YOU PAUL MCGREGOR!
@שאולנקר
@שאולנקר 3 ай бұрын
AS SOMEONE WHO IS PRON TO SUICIDAL THOUGHTS, I HAVE SOME TIPS THAT MIGHT HELP PEOPLE TO FEEL MENTALLY BETTER. 1. GO TO A MEDICAL CLINIC AND SHARE THE DOCTOR WITH WHAT YOU FEEL AND GET ANY TREATMENT HE OR SHE OFFERS, THERE IS A GOOD CHANCE IT WILL MAKE A BIG DIFFERENCE. 2. LISTEN TO MUSIC THAT YOU LIKE, AND WATCH FILMS AND PROGRAMS THAT YOU LIKE, AND COMEDIES ARE HIGHLY RECCOMRNDED. 3. READ JOKES ON A DAYLY BASIS. 4. DO WHATEVER MAKES YOU HAPPY. 5. DON'T TAKE LIFE TOO SERIOUSLY. 6. MEET UP AND TALK OPENLY WITH FRIENDS AND HAVE FUN WITH THEM AS WELL. 7. IF YOU HATE YOUR WORK, LEAVE IT, YOU WILL FIND SOMETHING THAT YOU LIKE BETTER. 8. IF YOU ARE NOT HAPPY IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP, LEAVE IT AND IF YOU WANT LOOK FOR ONE YOU ARE HAPPY WITH. 9. FIND ROMANTIC LOVE. 10. VOLUNTEER TO HELP PEOPLE IN NEED. 11. ENGAGE IN SPORTS ACTIVITIES.
@שאולנקר
@שאולנקר 3 ай бұрын
THANK YOU KZbin !😃
@zlvno
@zlvno 2 ай бұрын
What language is your username
@שאולנקר
@שאולנקר 2 ай бұрын
@@zlvno HEBREW