Lost My my father passed away

My father passed away the day before Thanksgiving. It’s going to be nine years soon and it’s still feels like yesterday. He was my best friend. I miss him so much my condolences to you and thank you for being so brave.

Thanks for sharing this story I'm sure theres plenty of people who can relate to this keep going as the next generation may learn from this

im a marathon runner and after caring for and losing my parents, i lost my will to live - fell into severe depression/anxiety and tried every treatment under the sun.....im so sorry that your dads journey ended so tragically - running always helped my mental health but after my moms death i could no longer run......did your dad suffer from depression and did he get treatment for it? its scary to think someone who runs can still take their own lives....

I was a marathon runner and cared for both parents until they died but after my mom died, i could no longer run and i was running 70 miles per week - the depression,anxiety,grief,ptsd left me feeling physically ill and exhausted and its been 20 months and i still cant run after a lifetime from running......i hope i can feel better enough one day to run

thank you, i feel less alone

My ex just took his and it’s been like a Hiroshima bomb for me, mentally, physically, emotionally it’s the must horrible pain i have ever felt in my life.

Please don’t expect people to talk about how they are really feeling. You Don’t No Matter What You Just Dont it’s part of the Illness. We will never tell I wish everyone would understand the illness. Mental illness is the Biggest Shame Embarrassment Worthless you don’t express your real Demons. No we don’t want to be judged and labeled. It’s very difficult to say it no matter who you are. I still deny suicidal thoughts and plans to Professionals Doctors. I just am not going to tell anyone I just want to die. As selfish as hurtful it is you don’t have Filters or Rational Reasoning. We get tired of explaining it and feel very Shameful and Shallow. Lots of love to all. xo

I think of it everyday.😢

Feminism is a hate group.

The less time I spend at work, the less suicidal thoughts I have. Hmm, I find this interesting, it’s like humans were not meant to work against their will to create income. 🤔

l lost my dad 2 days ago 😢and am so devastated 😢

It’s hard to have a smile on your face when you know what life is really about it’s like you can’t fake it

Don't do it,don't give up think ,look before you leap.i lost my brother To Suicide 4 years ago.its still a fresh Wound.

I’m just about to kill myself. I’m homeless and no help and no one to talk to

School gives me depression sometimes i wonder what's the point of life, going to school and getting even more depressed.

I was bullied for 6 years during my school years i have attempted suicide once but i dont have the guts to do it no more yet still i want to kill myself. I no longer get bullied in university but i want to kill myself even more now. Its been 4 semesters and im already losing my mind. I wanted to quit so badly my family wont let me. None of them feel what im feeling everyone looks down on me as if im a lazy mf who just eats and does nothing all day while im over here struggling every single day not to kill myself. So after their poking i got a 9 hour shift job that i was able to earn 14$ per day. Wasn't much but i still felt fulfilled it didn't feel like a qaste of time it was rewarding refreshing even but after summer ended i had to do work and college simultaneously so it started to go downhill again. I wake up at 6 am to make it to work at 7 Then when my shift ends at 4pm i go to univesity until 7pm then i take a shower and sleep. Sunday ends. The rest of the week i have uni from 7am to 12 then i go to work from 1pm to 10pm. And then i sleep. Cycle repeats. If this isn't hell then i don't know what is but i can't do anything qith my life ever again when igo to bed after work my body hurts so much that i dont even have the will power to get uo and do something nice in my free time i just look at the ceiling feeling trapped as i cry myself to sleep for another session of torture. I am no longer human. I am a vessel with no will to live. Just a robot that has subdued itself to this abusive system. It never ends and the only way to end this is to kill myself. I can't depend on family or friends because family is toxic and friends will not understand because they are not my university friends. Don't make the mistakes i made. I will eventually kill myself the cycle never ends and its only a matter of time until i break. This might be my only and last suicidal message because i dont really show suicidal signs in person. So im throwing this rant out there into the jnternet and nobody would probably care which is fine by me. It won't change what im living through regardless and my only way out is death. Also youtube will probably delete this because of how many times ive mentioned suicide and killing myself but still i needed to rant just to make myself feel better which i guess it wont so here goes nothing.

I’ve had bad experiences in the past and really scared to try a different one, really depressed but scare yeah

Chronic insomnia is brutal also on someone’s mental health

It hurts so much

What if like me men can't or won't talk. The suicide pandemic simply can not be prevented and sooner people accept that the better.

It's only going to get a lot worse if Harris gets elected. Men are enemies of the state.

Oh yeah, keep on living for the happiness of the other people. Who gives a shit about you it’s only so other people can be happy. Understanding that you don’t matter doesn’t mean you have a problem. You just learned the truth is all. You don’t help anyone for themselves. You just help them so that you don’t feel bad after you let them know that they don’t matter.

I’m 60 and i admit that i think about it. Prob only 2 things that keep me from it is 1) the devastation that it would leave behind and 2) i probably just flat don’t have the guts.

Well done for making this video. How did your mum cope with it, you didnt mention her much?

simplify your life it helps a lot if you are single and have no pets just live in a apartment and enjoy walks and look forward to your vacation time enjoy your coffee and a walk in the park do some reading watching things that you can learn things from. volunteer at a veteran hospital those guys will love your visits and your listening abilities etc live "boring" you are not missing out on anything. First step is watch the movie Fight Club focus on the narrator before he meets Tyler Durden and when he starts living with Tyler Durden it changed my life for the better.

i feel happy for your dad, i really do. he is in a happier place now for sure. i believe he has done all he could, rationalized with himself for a long time before doing the inevitable. the smile he had is a testament of him feeling free. The living should celebrate that he is free from all the troubles he has had.

I lost my father to covid and I've not been quite the same since. Its been 2 years. I cry almost daily. It hurts.

I’m 25 and been struggling with porn addiction since 9 years old. I’m super awkward in public and never had a girlfriend

I lost my dad on the 23th of august last month to cancer. He was 75 and wanted to let go.. me and my three brothers stayed at his place in another Town 4 hrs away for two weeks.. and it brought us closer together. All in all something good came out of a very difficult time. Stay strong people

There's a lot of reasons to plant a man. the most common is the guy is trying to plant you. You can defend yourself in a court and be glad you are the guy in the court and not the guy in Forest lawn.

I’ve recently become a sophomore in high school and now I’m getting more work than ever before, and it’s a living hell. Why do they expect so much from us?? Do we look like robots to them? And they wonder why we don’t have any good health or sleep, let alone good fucking education. I’m already feeling like shit because of the work and pressure I get from my school. Fuck school. I don’t even know if I’ll make it halfway through the year.

THANK YOU PAUL MCGREGOR!

AS SOMEONE WHO IS PRON TO SUICIDAL THOUGHTS, I HAVE SOME TIPS THAT MIGHT HELP PEOPLE TO FEEL MENTALLY BETTER. 1. GO TO A MEDICAL CLINIC AND SHARE THE DOCTOR WITH WHAT YOU FEEL AND GET ANY TREATMENT HE OR SHE OFFERS, THERE IS A GOOD CHANCE IT WILL MAKE A BIG DIFFERENCE. 2. LISTEN TO MUSIC THAT YOU LIKE, AND WATCH FILMS AND PROGRAMS THAT YOU LIKE, AND COMEDIES ARE HIGHLY RECCOMRNDED. 3. READ JOKES ON A DAYLY BASIS. 4. DO WHATEVER MAKES YOU HAPPY. 5. DON'T TAKE LIFE TOO SERIOUSLY. 6. MEET UP AND TALK OPENLY WITH FRIENDS AND HAVE FUN WITH THEM AS WELL. 7. IF YOU HATE YOUR WORK, LEAVE IT, YOU WILL FIND SOMETHING THAT YOU LIKE BETTER. 8. IF YOU ARE NOT HAPPY IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP, LEAVE IT AND IF YOU WANT LOOK FOR ONE YOU ARE HAPPY WITH. 9. FIND ROMANTIC LOVE. 10. VOLUNTEER TO HELP PEOPLE IN NEED. 11. ENGAGE IN SPORTS ACTIVITIES.

THANK YOU KZbin !😃

ROMANTIC LOVE MIGHT BE THE ONLY THING THAT CAN SAVE MEN'S LIFE, BUT GO FIND SUCH LOVE.. IT'S LIKE FINDING A NEEDLE IN A HAYSTACK

WHY KZbin DON'T LET ME WATCH THIS VIDEO ? THAT'S NOT RIGHT ! I'M NOT GOING TO KILL MYSELF BECAUSE OF WATCHING THIS VIDEO... IT'S SO REDICULOUS

It feels ironic looking back… my senior year we had to do whatever awareness thing and we could choose the topic… I had attempted it once before then. All those reasons I gave in the bottom of my presentation were reasons not to that kept me holding on after my attempt… now I have truly no reason to keep going. I’ll be the end of my mother’s bloodline but it’ll be ok they will get over that and me being gone. If they don’t I’m not sure if I should care because they didn’t care when I was in tears for days after my best friend killed himself. I called the hotline the other day and they hung up on me… didn’t know this but the suicide hotline can block your number for trying to get help when you’re suicidal… if I’ve been taught anything it’s that no matter who someone is or what anybody says there are truly 0 people in this world who care about me and want me to fight another day… ig I just wanted this somewhere I don’t expect anybody to care i just want my story to exist somewhere…

I lost my dad 3 days ago. September 12, 2024 is the darkest day of my life. He was my best friend. We talked almost everyday and I used to call him and talk about whatever. 2 hours before he passed away we talked and I was lucky enough to tell him I love him before ending the call. I'm still in shock. Never felt pain like this and it'll probably be with me for the rest of my life. He was the kindest man I know and I take comfort knowing heaven got another angel on September 12. I wish everyone here who has lost their dad or mom all the best. You are not alone. Much love to you all ❤

I lost my friend from suicide

Lost my Dad family didn't call to my home to tell me... Just left a vmail didn't get to say goodbye to him. Boy it sure HURTS Miss you badly dad xxx

There's another video called Men are dying and nobody cares that says it's like being trapped in a burning building the smoke and flames pushed you to jump out the window because its easier than the unbearable alternativ

I'm have no money, no life, no cars , no house, no girl's, no achievement at age 40 sometimes I'm wanted dead because I'm can't afford anything in my life

The only ones I will truly never forgive when I choose to exit this world are feminists. They will continue to blame men for everything, continue to play the victim card, continue to fight against any form of meaningful help given to men (e.g. when they fight against the openings of men shelters for example), continue to fight against making r4p3 gender-neutral (right now in many countries women cannot be prosecuted for it, which rigs the statistics, which feminists then use to justify their misandry), continue to rig the education system even though women are now far ahead, etc. And when men suicide, you can see quite a few of them being actually happy. And no one with power does anything against them. It's crazy. Men are disposable in their eyes.

You can't stop people

I don't want to talk about it!

I always feel alone even when people are near me

I constantly explained to my mother that school is the reason why I’m depressed and wanted to commit for a long time. But she always thought I was lying and tried making me say a reason that isn’t true. And what annoys me is that she doesn’t understand that just because I know about cars and computers doesn’t mean I’m smart.

Hate to tell you the truth but, it's because their parents never raised them well. Today's parents leave their child to do whatever the hell they want. Not even teaching them proper discipline. This is the reason why they turn to pathetic, likely trans, weak men. Physically, emotionally, mentally weak men. This leads them thinking they ain't worth anything just because of a teeny tiny problem in life and end up offing themselves in the process. Speaking from expereince btw

We all need help and support at times in our lives . No one gets anywhere without some no matter how outwardly good their life looks to others. I have known at least one person who committed suicide , and another I think but not sure. They were both in financial dire straits , worrying about job loss and potential homelessness with mortgage debt. They were both single , one was late 50s other 61 y.o. the latter had just lost his sister who he lived with a year before to cancer.