5 TIPS to keep HIM from GHOSTING you
23:01
3 WAYS TO AVOID CHILD SUPPORT COURT!
22:17
How to apologize to your baby daddy!
17:36
I THINK GOD FORGOT ABOUT ME.
13:48
LIFE BE LIFEN!
19:10
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@jarhonda2702
@jarhonda2702 Күн бұрын
Realistically EVERYONE has some form of narcissistic traits and then there are ppl that are full blown narcissists. Some psychiatrist or the definition says its a personality disorder..but its really a demonic spirit in the spiritual realm.
@Mslilbit
@Mslilbit Күн бұрын
@jarhonda2702
@jarhonda2702 3 күн бұрын
I like it👍🏽
@jarhonda2702
@jarhonda2702 3 күн бұрын
This is 🔥🔥
@_bpgreat_
@_bpgreat_ 3 күн бұрын
Never liked her from college hill
@yasmeenbowie6638
@yasmeenbowie6638 3 күн бұрын
Thank you for your content I need ❤
@Jaybird662
@Jaybird662 5 күн бұрын
As a man, I don’t see it as a huge deal. Is it something to be upset about? Maybe, depending on the context. I don’t do it anymore when I’m in a relationship because I KNOW it’s a big deal to women. But to me it means very little. Most of the time it’s not me signifying that I like the woman or have any intention with her. It’s just a simple button tap then I move on with my day and forget about it. I think men and women’s minds work very differently in this regard. Is it sketchy in some cases? Yes. It depends on the situation, person, and their intention. I feel like women really see an image as an extension of themselves. Which I think is problematic and can be the source of a lot of inner turmoil for anyone. It kind of is, but only to an extent. And I think you have to be able to detach yourself from it. But it’s hard in this society, especially for women. So I get where it comes from a little. But I think we’d all be better off if we took online life a little less seriously.
@dannahammer-im9bv
@dannahammer-im9bv 7 күн бұрын
I was hoping you would say something to help me move on…. The only thing that’s helps is that he hasn’t really been a father at all to them. We get along to well. It’s toxic when we are not together and it’s amazing when we are together. He is my best friend and I just don’t wanna be with anyone and feel like they are on my space but he doesn’t feel like he is in my space. He just feels like he belongs in my space like the kids do. He chicken out on being a dad bc he was in a bad relationship before me and had an oops kid with her. Our kid was planned. I just don’t understand why he would mess up 16 years of friendship just to play me and then move on really fast and marry a rebound just bc she doesn’t have kids. Now he just wants to complain about his life and I just have open arms of him coming back. I just wanna say no and stop forgive him. My heart keeps reaching out for him
@ThomasMitchell-j6i
@ThomasMitchell-j6i 7 күн бұрын
Is cj small my daddy my name thomas auntie my supposed to be my real parent they tolds me my daddy is several different people wow dat not funny they tolds me to take my ass back to mobile with my broke daddy and tjen lies to me and i had several white people theynnot supposed to tells be but my resl parent is dective brian lacey wow idk
@yoyobarb
@yoyobarb 8 күн бұрын
My child’s father hates me and I am the one who said I didn’t want the kid, but he guilt tripped me and told me he would hate me forever, has been disrespectful for years and threatening on the regular basis.. he even told me I wasn’t a problematic baby mom and I am not. But he still hates me 🤷🏽‍♀️. I don’t understand when he is the one who wanted our child. He moved away when she was 2 and never came back for a birthday, but he did take her for the summers.
@GHO5tMod3
@GHO5tMod3 8 күн бұрын
Because it shows who they truly LUST after and most do not look like how we look and they typically leave their wives and girlfriends for women that look similar
@XC10official
@XC10official 9 күн бұрын
It be our own women with this toxic message. Let’s make more videos about bringing families together instead of when to break em up. That’s what the black community needs💯
@juliana15yu
@juliana15yu 11 күн бұрын
It’s not like us women we are not attracted to hot men or men with money
@Tatted_queen93
@Tatted_queen93 11 күн бұрын
OK, this girl just made my entire day. She said some of us that aren’t even black. Thank you. I’ve been dating Blackman for 12 years. 😉🥰😘
@SydneyMajor-u7u
@SydneyMajor-u7u 11 күн бұрын
Heavy on not constantly competing with another women. In my opinion alot women have all these stipulations when it comes the childs father and the new girlfriend alot of times is not even about the child its some jealousy sh** or several childish ass reasons
@PlantwithNik
@PlantwithNik 11 күн бұрын
“Objectively” I love it!
@dallasseward8693
@dallasseward8693 12 күн бұрын
this all facts
@Taaliyahhh
@Taaliyahhh 13 күн бұрын
Thank you I needed this
@dilnakalathil4800
@dilnakalathil4800 14 күн бұрын
Yes let's do the challenge
@kwakuking11
@kwakuking11 14 күн бұрын
They not dating men with kids yet they still sleeping/f**king around with men with kids from time to time lol. Just like men are sleeping around with single moms, we gotta be realistic.
@user-rg3uq5yu3n
@user-rg3uq5yu3n 16 күн бұрын
I try to discuss her with him but he never wants to talk about it. He always say I don’t wanna talk about her. And I come to him correct about it. And he changes the subject idk why
@christianhenry4173
@christianhenry4173 17 күн бұрын
Word of advice to all you mature ladies, Keep growing in life.. please don't chase a man. A real man will puraue you in Gods timing
@OhThatsFallon
@OhThatsFallon 16 күн бұрын
Not only in GOD's timing but when the work you've done on self can be reflected in the men you attract. Faith without works is dead and we ALL must do the work needed to heal. Great comment!
@christianhenry4173
@christianhenry4173 15 күн бұрын
@@OhThatsFallon glad you said it. That's the best advice for godly people to keep. But I will say this, Self improvement is for one's survival, just because you self improve doesn't attract the life you always want to receive. That's the variable of life. Some have awesome journeys some don't. I think there's a proverb where Solomon talks about seasons of life.
@PlantwithNik
@PlantwithNik 18 күн бұрын
I just binged like 4 videos! Hats off Fallon
@OhThatsFallon
@OhThatsFallon 18 күн бұрын
I love it!!!! 🥰😅 Appreciate you Nik seriously!!!!
@PlantwithNik
@PlantwithNik 18 күн бұрын
It’s so funny to me when you say “jarring”
@OhThatsFallon
@OhThatsFallon 18 күн бұрын
It's so fitting for every damn thing 😅
@PlantwithNik
@PlantwithNik 18 күн бұрын
@@OhThatsFallon it really is! Such a great word I need to use it more!
@PlantwithNik
@PlantwithNik 19 күн бұрын
Hey girl hey 👋
@OhThatsFallon
@OhThatsFallon 18 күн бұрын
Hey Nikki boo
@sheemahhayes
@sheemahhayes 19 күн бұрын
5 years I feel dumb
@sheemahhayes
@sheemahhayes 19 күн бұрын
My bd did dis on r last baby was gone my second and third trimester he hurt me bad n still not here for me she’s born as well now Juss want him to step up he’s not here physically n only sends 10 bucks n 20s if lucky
@sheemahhayes
@sheemahhayes 19 күн бұрын
N ik we can’t work out it’s hard kuz I feel like I gave him 5 years I deserve him all I’ve done for him to do dis to me type stuff but I gotta let go
@sheemahhayes
@sheemahhayes 19 күн бұрын
I’m a mother of 2 a new born a few days old & a 1 year old my bd n I r not together but I still love him n want him but he’s never gonna respect me n love me how I should b loved he n tx I’m n az he acting as if ion exist n r kids n it’s stressful I’m jobless n Juss had r baby few days ago he’s doin him living n I keep tryna not send long texts he don’t deserve but yea he left us n doin him n I still care I’m embarrassed I’m begging him basic to b here n still nothing left on delivered it’s painful we only 21 I can’t stop cryin it’s hard he clearly moved on n don’t care nor love me but im still having a hard time letting go
@sheemahhayes
@sheemahhayes 19 күн бұрын
I’m a mother of 2 a new born a few days old & a 1 year old my bd n I r not together but I still love him n want him but he’s never gonna respect me n love me how I should b loved he n tx I’m n az he acting as if ion exist n r kids n it’s stressful I’m jobless n Juss had r baby few days ago he’s doin him living n I keep tryna not send long texts he don’t deserve but yea he left us n doin him n I still care I’m embarrassed I’m begging him basic to b here n still nothing left on delivered it’s painful we only 21 I can’t stop cryin it’s hard he clearly moved on n don’t care nor love me but im still having a hard time letting go
@eugenemcherron9711
@eugenemcherron9711 19 күн бұрын
Can u do a vid of what does it mean when your baby momma tells you to move on
@OhThatsFallon
@OhThatsFallon 18 күн бұрын
Sounds pretty straight forward babes lol any specific parts of your experience you'd like to see talked about?
@marieneoo4519
@marieneoo4519 21 күн бұрын
Okaay, I really love thissss video🥹🥹
@OhThatsFallon
@OhThatsFallon 21 күн бұрын
@@marieneoo4519 so glad babes 🥰❤️
@PlantwithNik
@PlantwithNik 22 күн бұрын
Hey girl! I started therapy a couple months ago the future is bright!
@OhThatsFallon
@OhThatsFallon 21 күн бұрын
@@PlantwithNik So proud of you! I literally can’t wait to start going again. I KNOW I have many blind spots even with all the work I do! 😅❤️✨
@cjwsk2318
@cjwsk2318 23 күн бұрын
Tru Story B)
@IvaAldridge-Walker
@IvaAldridge-Walker 24 күн бұрын
I dated my bd for 10years we separated for 4 years he has 3 more babies.....😢I still passionately Love him and want to be with him.....but he says thats not where he is mentally...I respect it....but damn....everyone else ALWAYS GOT THE BETTER PART OF HIM.....WHY NOT ME 😢😢😢....I DEALT WITH THE MOST SHITT
@monicadantata
@monicadantata 19 күн бұрын
We are the prize sis ❤❤ let’s take these men off pedestals
@stretchyfingers
@stretchyfingers 25 күн бұрын
I really really love this video…. It helped a lot. I’m 18 weeks and I also realized I just wasn’t who my baby daddy wanted. I’ve been stressed but I need to focus on my baby girl
@whoathereidoit
@whoathereidoit 26 күн бұрын
Mannnnn i had the biggest crush on you back in the day and you still look good!
@vrosalove
@vrosalove 28 күн бұрын
Going thru this for years!! Married to a 50yr old man, He likes women in skimpy gym outfits, and bikini like gym outfits, doing provocative poses, pictures showing all the goods.. now all of sudden he wants to be a fitness coach. I'm being called insecure, crazy & not trusting him.
@KielleDeAnda
@KielleDeAnda 29 күн бұрын
This is golden. ❤
@m.e.b.255
@m.e.b.255 29 күн бұрын
Nope. Even one like leads to the BREAK UP 4 me.
@juliana15yu
@juliana15yu 11 күн бұрын
Then you’ll be single
@terreshasimmons6812
@terreshasimmons6812 Ай бұрын
No
@missinfinitiii
@missinfinitiii Ай бұрын
He was gone for more than half of my kids life now that he’s playing father of the year because he has a new gf . He even denied having kids but since she find out he has a kid he wants “our” kid ….
@rivv010
@rivv010 Ай бұрын
I’ll keep it a buck, I still want my sons mom We are both too prideful to make a move 😅
@DulceCubana100
@DulceCubana100 Ай бұрын
My BD been good till this girl. I finally put my foot down. He introduced my son to the girl that he moved in with a couple years ago- ok. Last year he moved back in with her ex wife - we moved to child support order visitations since they did some dirty underhand thing since she was also in my sons life till then, which I did not mind since she’s mother to older siblings - ok. He’s got a new chick now, can’t be more than a few months relationship, so this time I flat out said no. He need to be with her a bit longer. My son will be 3 in October and that’s averages new woman every year.
@rivv010
@rivv010 Ай бұрын
Unfortunately all women don’t appreciate this or would do right by the child without the courts getting involved
@PlantwithNik
@PlantwithNik Ай бұрын
I'm really enjoying these videos! Currently listening while I chart 😁
@OhThatsFallon
@OhThatsFallon Ай бұрын
@@PlantwithNik love this! Thanks Nik 🤗😘
@yanna517
@yanna517 Ай бұрын
Ooooooo this WHOLE video was a word!!!!!
@OhThatsFallon
@OhThatsFallon Ай бұрын
🥰 I'm glad it hit home!
@PrincessSharoneyTreasure
@PrincessSharoneyTreasure Ай бұрын
New 🆕 Sub ❤
@OhThatsFallon
@OhThatsFallon Ай бұрын
@@PrincessSharoneyTreasure Appreciate you babes!!
@sorayacroton1399
@sorayacroton1399 Ай бұрын
Sorry sites .
@adorechy
@adorechy Ай бұрын
Definitely needed this one, thank you!
@OhThatsFallon
@OhThatsFallon Ай бұрын
Of course babes, thanks for watching!