5 SIGNS YOU STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR YOUR BABY DADDY!

[@jonathanjackson2587]

A narcissistic ex (who is the mother of my children) is even worse, some advice on that would be good...I know the main thing is to have the least amount of contact

[@carolcambray1112]

Pray for her ❤️

[@jonathanjackson2587]

@carolcambray1112 She's been quiet for sometime now which is a good thing,but me and our 18 year old son haven't spoken for 4 months now,since my birthday and father's day passed and I didn't hear a word from him,also his birthday was a month before mine and I bought AND took his gifts to him which he thanked me for,but then messages the next morning saying "Dad,didn't you say you were gonna give me some money" ? Long story short,he's turned 18 and before then I paid maintenance for him,but since him turning 18 I told him that would stop which he said "ok" to,but then his mother said "he's still young,he needs the support" where as I say "he's 18 now and he needs to be earning his own money...so yeah,I haven't heard from or spoke to him since he didn't think to even wish his father a happy birthday and fathers day 🤷🏾. I have a son 18 and 2 daughters 19 and 21,all I've ever done is try to be there for them,if they call me I answer if they NEED something I'll try give them what they need,not want but need,the girls are OK and we speak and meet up,oh I forgot to say I even asked me son to meet up and do things a few times before he stopped speaking to me which he didn't bother to come through with either,so there's only so much I will do,I won't beg for my son to speak to me when I've done nothing to him. Yes I do believe his mother has spoke negatively of me,as around the father's day time my daughter said "Dad,he (her brother) even said to mom "should i message Dad on father's day"? 👀👀👀

[@jonathanjackson2587]

@@carolcambray1112 apologies for writing so much 🙏🏾,although that's just a snippet of the bigger picture

[@carolcambray1112]

@@jonathanjackson2587 I understand, I’m the narcissist baby mama. I hit my man when I was pregnant and I had to go to jail 3 times because of it. For hitting him, for breaking my bond rules, for breaking my probation rules 😅😅 Your baby mama is just hurt. Her parents most likely didn’t love her so she took all that pain out on you. How can she love you if she doesn’t know what love is like? The only thing that helped me was Jesus and letting go off control… even though it takes TIME. SOME people never change but don’t try to become bitter and angry towards her. If she were to ever change just know that it won’t happen over night. Changing the bad habits within ourselves is hard enough… She’s just hurt and needs a lot of work to do on herself. It’s not your responsibility but since she’s your baby mama the best you can do is forgive her and understand she’s just broken. That girl needs love…. But the only love that will satisfy is Gods love. That’s why I say pray for her…. For God to reach her heart…. It’s worth a try

[@luffymonkey9552]

Same situation bro , just talk about the kids and never talk about anything esle …. Trust me leave them out of your life if they’re toxic like that

[@mjemiguel]

I don’t want my baby momma 💯 just miss my kids not attracted to her in no aspect

[@JanaeArianna199]

Why have kids with somebody who you’re not attracted to ? I’m confused asf 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@mjemiguel]

@@JanaeArianna199 men want respect over look’s and once that’s gone every else is out the window also.

[@ADayInTheLifeOfJames]

🧢

[@sheridannyirenda1168]

⁠​⁠@@JanaeArianna199unfortunately these days love and attraction has nothing to do with it. Ppo r having kids with one night standa

[@EarsTotheStreetsMedia]

Oh damn I remember you from College Hill I think 🔥

[@dominiquequinn3419]

Only 1 out of 5 I can relate to. So I guess it's true what I've been saying that I'm only back dealing with this dude out of comfort, and security.

[@chulo3909]

Why tf you care? You like her too?

[@tatsukinomiya]

All of these signs are what my BM who broke up with me after our son was born this year & she decided to rebound are pretty on the nose but 10:30 THIS ONE RIGHT HERE?!?!? MMMMMMM ☕️☕️☕️☕️☕️🐸🐸🐸🐸🐸 social media negative posts that are obviously throwing shade towards me while fantasized posts for the rebound. My solution was just unfollowing, taking a step back away from talking to her if it's NOT about our son, & focus on my personal growth

[@rodneyharvey8938]

My dauggter mom is so back and forth...shes going to get it

[@OTJaviG]

What if my ex is setting up “meetups” at restaurants for the kid, comes by hugs , spends some time with you during the kid drop off, what if she buys you Father’s Day gifts “from our kid “ but has you blocked on social media…

[@OTJaviG]

How do I win her back ? When she uses the “I need time” statement

[@ThorWilson-n6g]

I'm a single mum and if she bought U a father's Day gift from child it's "from the child" not from her. She doesn't want U back she's being nice.... And trying to co-parent

[@ADayInTheLifeOfJames]

@@OTJaviGdo what I’m doing bro; if you don’t want us; I can’t be around you. Then on drop offs don’t even look at or talk to her.

[@NetOp97]

my BM wanted to do “family Day” but I declined, she has been demoted to recreational use only. Until I see real change.

[@Tikavision]

Awww at least she still has a chance.

[@IHeartBree2]

@@Tikavision😂

[@IHeartBree2]

😂😂😂😂

[@nariberkz6001]

Yooo I’m in the same situation I said the exact same thing

[@michaeljohnsonsr.8034]

When she complain on social media all day while in a current relationship with another dude

[@daquanmcdonald7104]

Bruh my bm was on her shit bashing me crazy. I came around right smash her again

[@Anthony-qf5cp]

She’s bitter cause you a real one and she messed up

[@josegrullon024]

Yo that was the part that I didn't get. Lol in my head I was like my dude you got a whole guy living with you 😂. Why should you even care what I'm up to.

[@elroco4827]

I see it all the time. My friend was in that situation. Glad he finally came to his senses and freed himself

[@michaeljohnsonsr.8034]

@@elroco4827 yes not mention all them relationship goal pictures she’ post like flowers around the Jacuzzi romantic picnics she want the ex do all that for her

[@deeluton86]

My bm still checks who i write on messenger and she recently wrote a chick about me

[@brethe_baddie683]

Now why is baby daddy now doing all this to me 😂 does that mean he not over me

[@allhailzamasu69]

Why black woman still call it baby mama baby daddy when the baby not even a baby nor a toddler anymore

[@tiarawilliams8861]

Ghetto ppl say Babydaddy.😂 Just say my Child's Father.🤷🏽‍♀️

[@sheenavega891]

I recently found out that my BD had a baby and our kids are the same age and celebrates their birthdays together. I’m so sick to my stomach

[@Itzytoast]

I’m put on blast!! Ugh I’m still in love I hate ittttt. I have a rebound lined up but I’m afraid lol here I go!!

[@41510ciscokid]

“I have a rebound lined up” literally the saddest statement a woman can make I hope you know you have low self esteem and need counseling

[@OTJaviG]

She’s does 1 out of 5 these things I think and her family keeps me involved …with nieces nephews her mom

[@chulo3909]

Why tf do you care?? U must like her as well

[@beastmasterakathabarbaric1509]

sounds like my kids mom now she keeps the kids from me and my gf i thought was my dream wifey and i reiE now the past few years my gf baby dad was with his last baby mama she hated him and her with a passion but since they broke up now him and my gf cool af and im aying dumb af to see where this goesand the whole time she was always wireying if i want my kids mom. I was like " hell no i set boundaries and lay the law down " now she does hold my kids hostage but doesnt try ruin my relationship... my gf doing that on her own......at 1st i was devistated bcz my lover, woman, best friend , gf etc, wasnt being 100 with me all the shit she worried about me doing was bcz she knew she was weak to her baby dad.Whom has beat on her kept her in a trauma bond, pond her cars off for title loans neglected her and her baby. And now theyre cool and all the holding 🎉weedsshit down helping her financially .....Meant nothing.

[@bendrakeford5179]

She speaking facts 💯

[@josegrullon024]

😂 7 years ago was the end. She accused me of a domestic dispute to get full custody. Charges were dismissed as there was no evidence or records of me doing so. Has withheld my kid away sometimes for months at a time. I have never answered, replied to any conversation she started that doesn't begin/have or end with my son. She is on boyfriend number 4 living in her house and I never met one of them or bothered to question any of her partners. I've paid 27k in the last 6 years in child support, currently have a 480 credit in case I lose my job or something sudden happens. Yet here I am still getting called out for being the one to leave and therefore I got to pay. Still being called deadbeat even though my son suffers anxiety attacks when 6oclock arrives Sunday as he realizes it is time for his mother to pick him up. Question for my ladies, yal think she still got them feeling mixed up?

[@burnrobe69]

Damn brother.. I feel for you.. I had the exact same.. I took her to court to make sure I had consistent routine with seeing my child.. it was hell for 2 years.. but worth every penny because now I get to see and bond with my child.. trust me.. it does get better.

[@slyfly4829]

Dude, this is crazy, this is exactly what my baby mama did, multiple boyfriends that I never met, made false accusations to get full custody. Literally tried to put me in jail, bashing online n to get friends, endless drama withholding child. And endless pages of harassing texts .lawyers court so on. You wouldn't believe how many men I have come across that have identical stories. Like is it programmed in their brains to all do the exact same crazy thing. It's too much of a coincidence. There must be some process that we are not aware of that social services coaches them to follow. And at the end of the day, is because they can't handle the fact that the grass wasn't greener on the other side

[@josegrullon024]

@@slyfly4829 bro I feel for you man but it's like we are on our own. Toxicity still continues for me. However advise to you. As long as no matter what. You go above your way to see your kid weekly. Stay above water with child support. Things will change. The kid begins to know on their own. Just love your kids and don't let all that garbage stop you from delivering the real message your kids can bare. DON'T GIVE UP MY G. Even is just a weekend and is not enough to be a real dad. Be there bro. They might act like they don't give a crap. But if we stick around our babies will be the ones suffering the consequences. Handle yours, only reply move or answer to. If the conversation has, begins/ends with your kid as a topic.

[@southernafricanboy4148]

​@@slyfly4829same I'm in UK going through the same. She has hit me with charges gojng back to 2019 Confusing me because she got a dude and has had multiple dudes yet won't leave me alone. Always talking shit about me to everyone. She even called me one time because her dude wantdd ask if we meet secretly and I said no, why you asking and he said because she talks about you all the time We divorced in 2015 and she continued harassing me till 2021 Whag does this mean

[@CharlesPinkett-b7g]

That's why I don't take other men baby mommas seriously

[@901KJ]

It took my bm 4 years to stop and she has 2 other kids

[@genevacontreas]

I just left my baby daddy, I had to leave him because he’s an alcoholic I gave him so many chances , but he never changed and I sent him to rehab and nothing, still the same. I gave up. Besides being an alcoholic he is such a wonderful person, he’s the best person I’ve ever met and I’m so sad that I had to let him go. He doesn’t have a social media because he would tell me , why do I need social media when I have you, men are just looking at other women on there. He even deleted his Facebook when we moved in together, so now I can’t even spy on him 😂. We were 8 yrs together and I will always love him. I’m sad.

[@tiarawilliams8861]

Your children For The Same Man?

[@genevacontreas]

@@tiarawilliams8861 I’m confused by this question. I only have one kid with him.

[@genevacontreas]

@@tiarawilliams8861 yes I just have one kid .

[@Reindeers-Money]

Sign 1. No Sign 2. It’s been 4,5 years and he still single. And wanted me back but everytime I say no. Sign 3. Yes Sign 4. No Sign 5. No but he want to make it right and says his a lot calmer now and want to settle and be with me.

[@tiarawilliams8861]

A BD is More special Than a Boyfriend. Bcuz you Always got a piece of Them with you Forever which is The Baby. A Bf Don't Share Anything with you.😂

[@safarievian6049]

College hill!! ❤❤

[@2jcward]

I’m so glad I don’t have a baby daddy

[@chelbyJohnson-e3v]

U probably wasn't worth dat 😂

[@2jcward]

@@chelbyJohnson-e3v You right, I’m worth more. 😏

[@Anthony-qf5cp]

Will you please call my baby momma and tell her this 🙏

[@OTJaviG]

How do I win her back when she uses the “I need time “ statement but still does everything I posted

[@djayb7580]

Give her space leave her be work on yourself G

[@41510ciscokid]

@OmiPrewhy do yall do that shit my bm left me saying the same shit not that long ago

[@Nolaboy17]

U don't.

[@antaneiaelliott7350]

Chew mad Shawn got me pregnant and hit mew with a car accident November 16 she needs to be locked up.

[@BrolyKing801]

My baby mama still have felling im still hitting it 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@SlimSigtrig]

Me too fam 😂😂😂

[@BrolyKing801]

@@SlimSigtrig you know it fam 😂😭😭😭😭😭 they will never get over the Baby daddy😭😭 the new guy will always be a rebound

[@Marlo_D]

😂😂😂😂🙋🏾‍♂️

[@miro11912]

Y'all some lucky MFs

[@KobieeBryant]

Clowns that’s ur family either be with the woman or leave her alone

[@SimeyBANNED]

She won’t show me they texts about me

[@kiharris7621]

I need a consultation girl

[@nathaliii8178]

this shit sounds sad asf

[@brethe_baddie683]

My bd first bm and thats why we not together i have forgive him and honestly i be excited about my baby free weekends i feel like i tried he tried and it didn't work and mama tired trying to get me right for a potential husband but i have done that before when i was still in love

[@CharlesPinkett-b7g]

@@brethe_baddie683 your husband is your baby daddy

[@tiarawilliams8861]

That's why it's Best Too Have 1 BD are 1 BM. You Don't Have To worry About Anybody Else Being n the picture.

[@chelbyJohnson-e3v]

My bm cut me off cus I dated a female she hated n she cut ties wit me n ma son

[@Mr1shekee]

What about her keeping pictures of her baby daddy And her on Facebook, am experiencing that right now, she claimed it was posted years ago and they are not together. What do you think ?

[@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115]

She not keeper though

[@chino4234]

Let it go brother . unless you don't want anything serious.

[@elroco4827]

Leave her bro. Just leave

[@melandaborja9097]

What if baby daddy still has baby momma photos on his pages

[@Zawadi_jean]

It’s not that deep it’s Facebook she probably forgot about them

[@RandomVids519]

Dam chocolate lookin fine 😅

[@jazmyne0806]

JUSTLY

[@DemDollas1of1]

What about a crackhead

[@Marlo_D]

😂😂😂😂

[@miro11912]

💀💀💀

[@hayleylyonna]

What about 5 signs he still has feelings for you ?

[@OhThatsFallon]

I love this Hayley! I got you!

[@babiiilay]

@@OhThatsFallon we need this video now lol 😂❤

[@Vibrationofeterna]

Yeah we wanna know🎉

[@AntonLavey92]

We Do Tha Same Shit Y'all Do 😂

[@chulo3909]

Why do yall men care??? Yall like her too?

[@jackson3870]

🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@1997Davo]

What do I do if I think my gf still want her bd’s

[@chino4234]

Run my guy run there is too much history there you will be disappointed if you wanna get serious with her.

[@Cowboys_by_20]

Don’t waste your time fam

[@elroco4827]

Why are you with a single mother to begin with? All women will always love their baby daddy and you will never be better than him. He is her real preference. You're probably the "safe" guy.

[@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115]

@@elroco4827 yeah most case man doesn’t get it

[@koldesttv846]

@@elroco4827 huh that’s a lie

[@Pegasus_Spirit]

When the family of these men don't like these baby mamas, they start ish with his family as well smh. Bitter narcissist who can't move tf on.