I love sex with Infj they know what and how we love

When comes your next video, I'm missing you :)

Hey Amy, I think we're similar in many ways, but what I find most interesting is how you use your voice. It's so similar to my way of speaking. I get the feeling that you're trying to speak quieter and lower than it would naturally come out and that might create some tension in your throat. That's my case at least. I think it's a result of being around men a lot and adapting to what is seen as competent/emotionally well regulated in these spaces. Anyway, not a criticism, your voice is really nice to listen to, but if you actually feel some pain when talking, maybe something to pay attention to. I've noticed that this tense way of speaking reduces my wellbeing a lot. I haven't really figured out how to change it though... When I tried some voice exercises I was even afraid to let my voice out at its full effortless strength

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Hey Amy, I'm just letting you know this is Matt B. Happy New Years 😊

I very admire your ability to describe in such details all the little shades about the concepts you are talking about, it's inspiring😊

I feel exactly the same about faith 🥰

INFJ here, and I’ve been watching those videos for about 6 months now. I can’t get enough

I agree with everything you had to say, apart from gift giving funnily enough. I find it really easy to be intuitive about what would be useful or appreciated for a person :) But I agree that materialisms aren’t so important to us. Validity and authenticity come first, otherwise gifts don’t mean very much at all

I've had to tell myself many times, "Just because you can understand it doesn't mean that it's okay."

I can also relate to not having a specific trauma related story to go back on, or if I do, it’s repressed and I have zero recollection of it. I believe that my paternal grandmother was an INFJ that led to her having mental health issues or was labeled that way because of it.

I've never been more sure I'm an infj than I am now that I've watched this insightful video. Thank you!

Are you religious?

I am an INTP, but find this super helpful and insightful! I was actually surprised with just how much of this really resonated with me! Didn't realize I had so much in common with INFJ's! A few examples being the desire to have deep conversations that really get down to the essence of things and explore the why behind things. I think INFJ's might do this in order to connect the stories/emotions of people together while an INTP might do it to put the different parts of the outer world together, but it looks very similar. Also the open-mindedness, curiosity, authenticity, quirkiness, delight in lower key dates, 50-50 mix of deep philosopher and playful gest, and wanting to talk about anything especially topics that many consider off limits such as politics or other controversial topics. As an INTP I have found I can also read people really well, though this works in a slightly different way then the way INFJ sense and basically read people's minds. The INTP version is learned through very subtle patterns we pick up over time in behavior and circumstances. You also said something about wanting people to treat you like a puzzle. I never feel like I can say it, but that is exactly how my mind works. I want to know every last detail about everyone who is willing to go deep with me. I want to know why they do what they do, what makes them tick, how they came to various conclusions, etc. It is fascinating to me to work over time to "figure someone out." I have never heard someone say they enjoy people doing that, but its fascinating to hear that!

INTP here! I have heard a lot about the INTP-INFJ pairing and have been trying to learn more about INFJ's. It has been super interesting to me that so many INFJ's have the same vibe. I don't think I have any INFJ's in my life right now, at least that I know of, but the sincerity and depth that they tend to bring is so valuable to me. As an INTP I want to be the most authentic version of myself without worry about judgement and this type generally does well at that. Sounds like this pairing is also great for any number of long conversations about whatever topic is on tap that day.

really good video but you may be a infp

I think this is probably the toughest aspect of being INFJ in my personal experience. Most of the time when I would go into hermit mode, it was based of either anger towards not being understood by people I care or think I care about, or sadness for feeling misunderstood. But then it usually leads to a self correction which most of the time… is helpful 😂 Thank you for continuing to help us see the world in a better way and ourselves ❤

What’s the most common age that most INFJ’s discover who they really are? I’m 27, and I discovered I’m an INFJ earlier this year and have been researching ever since lol

That's an interesting observation you said about how our conclusions come after a social interaction instead of in the moment which is in contrast to ESFPs. I feel there is the other side to sensitivity that doesn't get enough credit for its importance and that's tolerance. As a direct comparison to ESFPs, since INFPs spend more time finding respite within ourselves, we are effectively closing our eyes to outside sources so we can get overwhelmed from too much external information quickly. It's like our eyes are always adjusted to dim lighting so when someone turns on a bright light, it impairs us momentarily. We are still absorbing that information, that light, it just takes a while for our eyes to adjust, or in most cases, we have to wait for the light to subside before we can start tackling what just happened. As sensory dominant, ESFPs spend more time in the sun so they don't need to adjust when there are many bright lights which gives them more space to live in the moment and have a better holistic overview of what's going on around them. The trade off is that they may miss some smaller details or may be quick to forget things as they are not practiced in recalling information since they normally deal with it on the spot.

Being able to feel how deep a person can understand and perceive the world is too real. I can tell who is a person I would have to make myself smaller to be perceived by them. I know that people tear to pieces the idea of non-verbals, microexpressions, and other frames of "reading" people. Despite that, humans have mirror neurons, specific patterns of muscle contractions in the face and body posturing is inherent in the evolution of human social/communication structures, and perceiving these signals is something we are hard-wired to do. Maintaining prolonged emotional and cognitive states crops up in the hypertrophy of specific muscles in the face, and this is attributed to why couples in their 70s who have been married for 50 years look so alike. They have hypertrophied the same muscles in their faces through the depth of their shared cognitive-emotional states. I have gotten to the point where I can reliably understand the potential cognitive-emotional range of people at a glance. I am guilty of peering too deeply into people (even if it makes them uncomfortable) and cataloging all my interactions with frequent reality testing where I question if specific thoughts and feelings are occurring in a person within the relational frame of a specific topic or experience. The hardest part for me has been acquiring the language and frameworks to package these ideas for ease of understanding.

As usual, great video! Keep going 🙂

Gratitude for this most excellent insight! It’s really cool to hear someone else explain why I am who I am. It’s even cooler to learn that I am not alone❤

Hiya Sis! Hope you had a good and blessed ThxGivining holiday! Just want to appreciate your channel and the non-monetize approach.😍😍 Maybe that's the Ni in me to reference this video of ..... our analytical processes internally after Fe...? Lol.... judgement free ?😇😇😅🤣🤣 As Always my sis Amy... Nothing but love and respect for you and what you share!! With sincere Appreciation, Jon Lo

Sensitive is very important to talk about and thank you for sharing.. I have, been Sensitive since childhood but have only talked about late in life .... The sharing of the Hawaiian point of view is wonderful to hear about since my Dad is from Maui.. I am also an engineer! I was often shamed for crying at movies and having only brothers made life worse for me.. Asian family do not seek mental health providers.. ..male culture is not the best for sensitive people

Yeah engineering and infj and hawaii....yeah

Yup 👍. The hunch is like intuition 😊

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December 30 Capricorn INFJ Thoughts Benefits of the doubt of behavior. Best to simply watch and smile for the most part: Empathy. (FE) For both their sad instances and descent. (I'm getting back to how I've been relatable. so I'm a bit rusty. Shut it down as a resort to others of the majority. It seems.) But that's the purpose of smiling in any case to slightly flow. (Knowing). (INFJ stare: healthy anger. Becoming immovable in motion: while the world moves: Reverberating surrounding energy

you are a very very, very very beautiful person and women! -male infj here

The only thing that I can think of about empathy, is that it is my greatest gift I have <3 It has saved lives. But I come off as a bit harsh, bitter and critical if I feel I've reached or overextended my own boundaries in trying to help them overcome their challenges. It can feel like a sense of self abandonment or sacrifice, and this happens often, even when I'm not aware of it happening. It's a form of a savior complex that are just deeply encoded to who I am. The greatest lesson for me is to learn to walk away, even if my heart wants to "save" them, but when it goes beyond my own capacity, I have to remind myself to step away even if my heart would hurt for them. Learning that empathy even has boundaries, otherwise it will lead to empathy fatigue/burnout.

I’ve taken the personality test a few times over the last 10 years and each time I get INFJ. I appreciate your channel.

Another great video.

Great Video.

Hiya Sis Amy, By no means disrespect my sister Amy, but have you interacted with a potential Ni, Fe type male person recently similar with same final judgement sensing as you?😇😅! Again judgement free here sis! Just suggesting maybe there might be males as well facing the same struggles?😅 (Again I repeat... no disrespect to all/everything my sis Amy has and been doing)!!! My personal understanding/perspectives is that....umm.... that 1-2% rareness....?!? I too appreciate/agree with you Amy, but ....maybe as a male we tend to simplify the same process vs our better counterpart!😅😇😇!!! Like always.... Keep going/doing The Good Work, my Sister Amy! Jon Lo Side Note: (I 💯 respect and admire everything you and some others do with courage!.... I am just ......stubborn/ignorant to claim self as an INFJ cause....."Great powers.. come with great responsibilities"!....😂😇😂 Hope that got you to smile sis.... 😇)

Hiya Amy, Great explanation from your personal experiences regarding this video! I took this MBTI test back in high school and never thought too much of it. (Side note: Over 2 decades ago!😅). Anyways quick story short..... went through a NDE during Covid19 right before global shutdown and started learning and found my tribe of ...(Still do not think INFJs is something I would personally tattoo on myself like my big bro Marty Glenn!?!). That's my personal story in short, my sister Amy! Like always my sis Amy, Keep up that Good Work! In regards, to this video of psychology.....😇😇.... lol... yes I agree with you about NI-Introverted Intuitions with shadow projections my sis!😇! Always and Appreciate, Jon Lo

😇🤩!! I'll just share this verse that resonated or ... (Sorry.. first time posting here my sister Amy. I'm someone who is not religious but always try to live my life as someone called for the race set for me, among great spectacles to finish. "Everything is permissible, but nothing is beneficial". 😅...Keep up the great and Good Works my sister Amy!

Yo your personality videos are dope, but then this came across my feed. Almost like an extra layer of wisdom in this one. Such an awesome and unique way to look at fitness/health etc. (Even as a 2yr old video…still rich) Your word choice and mindset are so rare. You’re definitely one of my go to channels now. 🙌🏾🙌🏾

I can relate to so much of what you're telling about your experiences in youth (except for the overinflated ego thing that I didn't have because I was too insecure and kept getting pushed down). I fully agree on the way to use MBTI, it's also the way I do it. I really love your view on all of this and really curious to discover more of your thoughts. Concerning anger management and setting boundaries, this is a pretty hard one for us. I still struggle with it, especially with people I've known for a long time and who I'd have to shift my behavior with now. It seems to be much easier with new people.

it feels like every interaction we have is a probe into the other person's psyche and each new detail changes the meaning that flows both ways, a new interpretation of past and a new foresight into future. all of that happens without having to try and then we get strong hunches that almost all the time when taken a little while to observe have a very logical chain of valid conclusions.

Hey Amy! You explanation is amazing. I don't want to categorieze myself as INFJ because this kind of lablelling enables superiority complex and I don't like that behaviour actually. But as I am learning about myself, it feels good to know that I am not weird at all. I have something to share. I have noticed this projection phenomenon in which people get to know me, my fully formed opinions and the start acting like they own it. But after sometime they starts feeling threatend by my presence and stop talking. After some time the character they borrowed from me starts fading and then the become absolutely opposite. For eg. I am a good teacher and I taught them something. Then they start teaching the same thing and saying they are good teacher. After that they stop socializing and in a matter of time when they ran out of stuff to teach, they start saying teaching is worst profession. This has happened with me like many times. Like more than 3-4. Have you ever felt or experienced anything similar? Thanks for reading ❤

It’s hard to find yourself when you don’t know “yourself”. It’s not until we are lost that we begin to understand this. Soul loss is a fragmentation that can occur to anyone in life,,,, Ways to raise your spirit ( empowering ) Depending on your individual interests, some exercises to strengthen your spiritual core may include: Writing in a journal. Praying. Meditating. Reading scripture or other inspiration materials. Attending worship services. Conscious acts of forgiveness. Finding a safe place and person to talk to. Also earthing ,conscious sunlight exposure and nature will elevate your spirit with diet,exercise and fasting .

I’m really good at gift giving cause im so observant and I like to gift my loved ones things they need, have mentioned before, or to help them expand their artistry or character / development

please do videos as long as you would like!!!! as an INFJ, I’m interested in hearing how your complex mind works because I can relate so similarly and I feel so seen and understood 🥹 INFJs will listen to your every word so dw abt the attention spans and you deserve to take up space

Love your channel. Constantly spot on

Hi. I need help. I'm here not because I'm one of you INFJ, but i have a friend I'll say who is INFJ. Let's be short ( one day he come to my house ring the bell and as he said didn't get an answer, i didn't opened.. What actually h happened is i checked my ring bell and it doesn't working at all, i came back to him saying truth that ring bell wasn't working and he said thank for your apologies. And after i said we coud arrange somehow again.. And he said i will have to THINK about..? What it means? Think for.. If he wants to meet me again or not, he didn't said yes or no.. I said ok.. It passed around 3 days since last conversation and i just came to his Facebook profile as he was usually posting a lot posts per day about life like smart thought. And i liked 2 of his posts and after 1-2 hours when he saw it i guess - he disappeared - i mean his account was deactivated and i can't see anymore his profile picture or posts and can't sent messages on messenger.. He deactivated all account because of me? For me it doesn't make sense. As on Facebook is another way just to block a person who you don't want and he can use his account i wouldn't see posts when blocked. Becouse you guys know this type if person better.. What to do. Can't contact him. Don't know what happened. Fell worried, sad

If I know an ENTP and/or an ENFP friend will be at a party, it raises my chances I'll go. There could be generational INFJ differences. As a Gen X INFJ, I was raised into adulthood in the analog age. It was so boring staying at home that as kids, we all went outside to play with one another. I think that matured my Fe and honed my social skills. Newer INFJs are more distracted by the digital age, I even noticed the parks I used to play at are all empty of kids. My last ENTP tomboy ex-girlfriend brought out the juvenile fun in me. If you watch the movie "Good Will Hunting," you'll see how us ultra-rare male INFJs roll. Will, on a date loves to have juvenile fun with his new girlfriend (an ENTP?) with periodic deep dives with her. There's a playful inner child in this male INFJ. It just takes the right kind of extrovert to make him come out and play, like an ENTP tomboy tossing pebbles at my bedroom windows, telling me to put down my book and come see this cool thing she found.

Why are all infjs so beautiful yet we don’t care about looks at all its like the universe is pranking us

It's interesting how two sensitives can finish sentences, thinking about the same thoughts then calling one another, witnessing things and communication through just the eyes or intuition.

Since the mind mostly exists in time: either in the past, the present, or in the future. We're often introspecting and decoding the past or, INFJ's being future-oriented thinkers, thinking and planning for the future. Se, being present-minded is our inferior function. The main reason why I love dating foxy ENTP tomboys (more logical than feelers) is because she's a master at being present-minded. It's such a huge relief for an INFJ to be with extrovert with a compatible and mutual synergy that can get us out of our heads...and to live in the present time frame. Metaphorically, ENTP tomboys have the attention span of an adorable 4-month old Golden Retriever puppy (it's how INFJ males sees them - they're full of positive energy, courageous, highly intelligent, creative and fun). Living in the present, learning new things, not in our mind overthinking, it feels like drinking from a cool refreshing spring being under the wings and hanging out with an ENTP girlfriend that enjoys expanding out our comfort zone (it's like they live for that, they love to show the extroverted world to an INFJ lone wolf.) INFJs, as young teenagers are dealing below the surface, existential questions (agree). We go thru an existential crisis and learn how to deal with it better as we grow into adulthood, most people deal with that during their mid-life crisis (knowing they only have a very short time to unpack it). INFJs don't have a mid-life crisis, our mid-life crisis happened when we were young adults, we gave ourselves time to unpack it, and as mid-aged adult, we have the space and mindset to not take life for granted and experience the world in awe and wonderment, while everyone we grew up with are having a melt down. Just saying we had our mid-life crisis as young teenagers, young adults then eased into enjoying life... that's age reversal.

Will you make a video about the shadow?