for me one of the best parts of transitioning is knowing I can grow old being myself.

Hello Finn! I could use a bit of happiness and body neutrality/positivity today, thank you wonderful man! Congratulations on 11 years of chest happiness! 😊 I think you look marvelous, everybody is different and I am right up there with you on the age and weight part of things ☺ I was wondering if that feeling/thought ever goes away of covering up the top when you (or anyone after top surgery) wrap a towel around yourself and think: "Oh, I don't have to do that anymore if I don't want to!"? I'll never regret my top surgery, it was one of the best things I've ever done for myself in general and my mental health. Plus, technically, the practical physical health part if we look at the aspect of having little to no chance of getting breast cancer (if all the tissue is removed). I'm going to say something really weird and corny, but I mean it with all my heart Finn: I'm so happy we exist at the same time on this planet! Your videos have helped me a lot in more ways than I can say, and I'm grateful for you and your work. I'm glad I found you even if we live on other continents! ✨✨✨✨✨ (I still live in northern Minnesota and I hope you to send some warm weather my way! 😄🥶)

Wow so chronic illness well Who couldve of guess that wouldve of happened.

The pay off is you get to spread misery and lies, and you have foreign growth and source of infections for the rest of your life. And you do not have Penis or became a man because of such surgery. Reality says no

yeah so regret and it will only get worse. So let me pretend I don't regret and keep pushing for others to sterilize themselves and maim their own bodies. You know this surgery effectively is just mutation you do not and never will be a man.

I call bullshit on my beard growth. I am 4 years on testosterone as an FTM myself, yet I only have like 15 chin hairs and very faint thin sideburns. Unbelievable. Un be fucking lievable. 😡

Maybe a better choice of music for that strip Finn? 🤣🤣 I liked the slow motion of PIP in the background. Happy 11 years of manliness!!!!

I am bored out of my mind & am going crazy 🤪 after 15 months of this insidious syndrome 😞

It's day two of being off of Alcohol. I'm an Alcoholic, and I've been sober from meth for three years. Nothing helped me get sober off of meth but the love of friends. Nothing seemed to help me curb my drinking, and I thought I would die a drunk. And then, I met my Wife. Now, I'm two days free, and I'm sober because if I couldn't do it for myself, I do it for my NB Wife. I want to live a long life with them, and it was Love for my Wife that drives me to get sober. 💙🏳️‍⚧️

I'm a queer nerd who (intentionally) misinterprets cisgender in a completely different way, I see cis and I'm like oh yeah that's Euler's formula

Missed you, beautiful man x

Eleven years already? I remember the video where you were getting the stitches out of your nips and the way you stood in front of the mirror in awe of your proper chest afterwards! Love you x

It’s been 3 and a half years for me and still every time I catch sight of my chest brings euphoria. Those that think we will regret it just can’t understand that the before wasn’t ever us and how can you regret finally being/getting closer to who you are!? One of the best things I’ve ever done for myself and probably saved my life. Thank you for always sharing your story, Finn!

Now you can just have middle aged chubby man boobs like the rest of us... ;^)

My goodness, 11 years? Wow! I'm so happy to see you thriving despite the health issues that you're dealing with. All the best always, dear Finn ❤

HI finn. I've been watching your videos for a long long time. I started following you around when you first started your phalloplasty journey. I just finally now got top surgery at 31. I had to wait a long time to be able to get it, but when I despaired, and felt like I was wasting my life in a body I hated, I thought of you and your transition, your smile, and how there is plenty of time to be myself and enjoy life in a body that feels like mine. It meant so much to me to see someone like you sharing their experience so selflessly and openly. I want to thank you for that. Your smile always brings me joy. I hope you are doing well. Looking forward to seeing how MY scars age :).

How the year has flown by! Loved Pip swinging his toy around his head in the background of your striptease too 🤣xx

Pretty much the same for me, might have gained a dad bod and a lot of body hair but 6 years later I'm pretty happy with myself and my body. I don't think I'd be alive right now if I hadn't gotten surgery.

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I just got my polar and started using it today. Watching this video has given me hope. It also sounds like I'm talking to myself and its so validating that I'm not alone with all of my crazy symptoms.

5 years later and I’m laughing my ass off🤣 this was so informative and engaging!!

Thank you so much for making this video! I’m getting my hysto soon and I wanted to know what to expect!

Your narrative is really important Finn❤️

I should have seen your video before my decision 😢😢😢😢😢😢

If anyone calls you a straight woman I’ll laugh my ass off 😂 ❤🏳️‍⚧️

You Chris and your furkid are more important than you will ever know🌷🌷🌷

i have 1 tattoo on my not dominant arm in the area in marker you show and i don’t want it to end there that’s my only issue 🥲- It’s just 1 at least but still

hi finn, that is brilliant news, i am just awaiting for my tribunal date, again like yourself lies being told by the dwp, im on standard pip at the moment but got turned down for mobility. ive worked all my life then suffered an angina attack, i had numerous tests and scans. i have now had to retire from work due to ill health. i have severe artheritis in my knees and hips and can now barely walk. the dwp have it in there heads i can walk 200 metres, not a chance, i can barely walk and get out of breath so quick, any help or advice would be very welcome, cheers for now, mark

It's incredible how different you looked and sounded just one week in, wow!

I just discovered your account and found this video after watching your most recent video. It's awesome that you documented your journey from the beginning. Happy for you that you started this journey for yourself.

Thanks

I’ve had my Visible 2.0 for 3 days and am already seeing the benefits. Thanks Finn for this video it’s been super helpful. Enjoy a coffee ❤

Thank you for this video :) I'm autistic and was very anxious about my Tribunal, so it was really helpful to hear about what to expect.

Random thought, is it possible you're neurodiverse? I have autism, and idk I just relate a lot to when you talk about your anxiety and stuff. A lot of afab people get misdiagnosed with like, anxiety disorder, or untreatable depression or other things when it's actually adhd/autism. Not saying you have it, just like, a lot of people who are neurodiverse find it explains a lot about their brain 😂 I'm really glad your strategy for the last year has been working better! You seem happier in the new house too :)

Hey, can someone help me understand how you translate pace points into activities, like how do you know how much pace point each activity costs? Is it just a trial n error thing?

Luckily I had asked for my review to be recorded ...I should get a copy of what was said soon. Two days ago the consultation took over 2 hours and I'm still reeling from it. The assessor obviously hadn't read what I had written, not even my meds list. Yesterday I got a text saying the report is now in the manager's hands.

Chromosomes determine gender not neurons but not political scientists using a neuroscience degree to stand behind their atheist opinion.. of course every single one is an evolutionist too... Sorry but most of you are listening to interdimensional beings.... In your mind

Your more organic style of video are just as wonderful to listen to because you always have a many interesting things to say and share. When your wintering lets you know that the time is right to share the things you've been processing, we'll have more parts of you to love. You are always successful in my eyes lovely, whatever season you are in 💜🙏

I want to let you know, I odered the wearable and a membership last night. I was in day 5 of the worst flare of my life and saw this while bingeing through your videos for the first time. Thank you for sharing!

See I don't get how this man is hurting anybody. I think he's a human being too. Gender is something hard too take care of trust me. Its like you could be somebody else and it really takes time to find yourself.

You beautiful man. I love how you have moved into acceptance of your life being your life!! You always make the most of your moments from my perspective. I hope one day I can visit you.

Yes to intentions and not resolutions! I have moderate ME and am so glad to have found your channel. Thank you for the energy you put into this channel and helping us all feel a bit less alone!

Thanks

Hello Finn! Great to see you! Happy New Year 🥳 I absolutely LOVE your tee shirt 😍 I'm with Pip, I'm going to nap the next 4 years away, I'm not saying why. 🫣 I made a resolution a long time ago that I wouldn't make any more resolutions, it's the only one I've kept! 😅 My body and mind don't know or care that it's a new year. I just take care of things as they need to be. I've been working on accepting my medical issues and mentally working on acceptance of said issues in therapy. We definitely need to be more kind to yourselves for things like medical stuff that's "out of our control", find ways to work around what we need and want to do, and what our bodies will let us do and not do. I always love your content, support, and stories no matter when and what you share! I greatly appreciate the "not forced for the algorithm" feeling of your channel as well. I think it's even more relatable in my opinion because it's genuine, and shows me that I don't have to be trying to force my way through my own problems like I used to either. I ran away so long but my problems were always there. I stopped and they all caught up with me as well as my age! I'm tired of running, I wanted to face my issues and see if I could get them worked out so I can move on with a better understanding of my inner workings. (insert meditative sounds here) I just realized you made this video on the 20th, and the 19th was my 9 year manniversary! Wow, time flew by! I found your channel when I was looking for information and support, and being you're closer to my age with chronic illness and mental health struggles, you've been my inadvertent mentor from afar ☺ I'm always grateful that you've decided to share your journey so others out there can learn from it, and I wish you all the best, and I'm still looking for the magic wand that makes us all better hehe! Much love from Minnesota! It was -30F here last week with -50 wind chill! Too cold to snow! 🥶🥶🥶 Give Pip lots of subscriber pettings, and hello to Chris as well of course!

This is a very helpful video! Me and my partner are both trans men and he wants a hysterectomy and I’m not sure if I want to have a baby of my own or get one too (depends on the day really). We plan on adopting no matter what but it’s good to know what the experience of post op could look like! I plan on spoiling my partner as he recovers, it will be so nice to see him happy and feeling himself.

As a cis female, I don't see the need for bottom surgery. I think Buck Angel is absolutely gorgeous and I see him as a man even though I know what he's got downstairs. He had very severe dysphoria too.

This guy loves it. Nothing wrong with being gay Nothing wrong with being trans But for people thst are neither it is interesting if the body isnt right... Does the head agree. I want my woman to be a woman , not a woman with a cock. Its quite simple mate By the way you are gay. ... But its ok....as you say

Finn, I totally agree with the anxiety and M.E. My anxiety has grown hugely, affecting my illness and those around me too. Wintering is a huge part of my life at the minute and my intentions are similar, learning to accept me for who I am now, be kinder to myself be a more authentic me, create a healthy belief and positive routine for myself, maybe even find energy for some therapy or social group too once every few weeks/month. I am grateful for the Me/ Long covid groups online in leading me to Alexandra Albertz a coach who has helped me get this far, as have you Finn. Bring it on 2025, we can do this together 😊