Reasons For Our Big Move: Why We're Changing Homes and Relocating

We have big news! We are packing up and moving house and relocating to a new town! This was not what we had planned, however, due to my health and mobility, this is the best thing for us and we are excited for a fresh start and to share this with you! This is a very positive move for lots of very good reasons, which will be revealed in todays video!
We are excited! (Though dreading the actual move!)
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[@Jade-bf5we]

Awww, Chris, this sounds awesome & being by the sea. Is a good tonic. ME/CFS is now being seen as a disregulated nervous system. Good luck with the move. Keep focusing on the positives.

[@sarawarner3727]

Whoop! Paignton seafront is lovely Finn. I'm in Torquay with a tiny sea view which keeps me going on the dippy days and 10min in the car. The sea is a great healer😊

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Well hello over in Torquay! I absolutely agree, there is something about the sea, breathing n and out, that just calms me, I love it so much, and so does Pip! Ive just put a house tour vlog up with some clips of hm on the beach!

[@fearlessknits1]

I'm so glad you've found somewhere suitable. We moved into a flat 3 years ago when stairs became The Enemy, and it's been such a good move. Also, I've been using my visible band for about 2 weeks now after your review, and it's giving me so much useful info! Staying inside 11 pace points is hard, but when I do, I can feel the benefit! So thank you 🥰

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Ah I'm so glad you are finding visible helpful! This make me happy! And thank you. I hate the stairs....I'm so looking forward to not having to have to consider them every single second of my day!!! I'm excited to see how my day and my energy changes without them!

[@Adriell.h.b.]

That sounds super cool! Congratulations on the new place, and good luck with the move. I look forward to seeing the new views by the sea.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Thank you very much! I have finally got around t updating and there is a vlog tour on my channel now!

[@Adriell.h.b.]

@@FinnTheInfinncible I'm looking forward to watching that soon!

[@natashamason3328]

Phew, thank goodness the cat is finally out of the bag 🤪 It’s going to be such a positive step for you all. Bring on the painting parties 🎉xxxx

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Yay! Think we are going to be leaving the painting for a while!

[@jail.2501]

Very exciting news. Just sounds so wonderful for all three of you. Can't wait for the updates on the new place and seeing that adorable pups red paws.😂

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Bless you, thank you so much! Yep, Pip is not going to be white for vry long!!

[@superdrwholock]

Love the shirt Finn, I hope the new place will be really good for you and Chris and little Pipster, sounds better than your current situation already so that’s promising. I get why you’d be a bit sad to go though because it was the freedom house and you have lovely neighbours and have got used to it there but you can always take photos for memories I find that helps my peace of mind if I’m sad or worried about a change in scenery

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Thank you so much. Yes, this house rescued me. I was so locked down in our previous place and this home has been wonderful. Ill take some great memories from here. But yes, the new place is far better, accessibility wise in the home and the surrounding area too. Im going to be able to move around far more easily and independently , spending far less energy, which is going to be wonderful! Thank you for your kind words

[@irenes6627]

Totally understandable why your moving house. I live in a bungalow and it's the best move I have made as my conditions are CFS and Fibromyalgia. Good luck and I hope you find another fantastic house and neighbours ❤❤❤

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Thank you so much. I can't wait to be in a step free home!

[@ameliascarle8159]

Fin fin what an exciting time for you.i love the English rivera. You and chris can do so much more together.sending lots of love x

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Ah thank you so very much! Yes we are all moved now an absolutely loving it! Ive just uploaded a new vlog with a flat tour!

[@BeverleyButterfly]

I know I'm late to this urgh fatigue we are always behind! But this home has been good to you, you have come so far my friend. I'm so glad you have found somewhere that will be better for you. Moving is never fun but I'm excited for you to find even more freedom xx

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Im late too! Us spoonies live in a different time zone! Thanks so very much, we are in, and almost unpacked, worn out but happy, flat tour coming asap!

[@sunnylove1008]

Oh I am SO glad you are getting a wheelchair accessible home! I wish every home was accessible. What a difference it's going to make for you and your health! 😍💖💕✨

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Thank you! Yep....no stairs....all flat!!! To be able to simply go to the toilet and not have to worry about lying down afterwards is going to be amazing!!!

[@sunnylove1008]

@@FinnTheInfinncible Aaaah the simple pleasures 😂💕💕💕

[@amyayars-evans4666]

Sounds like this is going to be a huge improvement for you both!!! Working from home is so nice to me. I miss it so much. Especially as an introvert. You without stairs is definitely a good thing!! Awesome news. You will conquer your new routine like the superman you are my Finn!! 😘 Congratulations to you, your fiancee and fur baby!

[@robinknight6025]

Finn u are such an inspiration to me i dont know how to post my own videos but i wanted u to know that i didn't know how to start my journey u your videos is what pushed me because i too have had problems mentally and with addiction and i was ready to just end my life then i just came across one of ur videos and i was like he gets it he does u helped change my mind set and im on my journey now 8 weeks today but i watch ur videos over week at a time lol please never stop posting

[@debmansbridge3923]

Good choice I’m so pleased for you both, I moved again last year into a tiny bungalow entirely because it’s just me now and less to keep clean and no stairs and it’s FABULOUS. Roll on next vlog I’m excited for you ❤

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Thank you so much! Yes, ease of movement, ease of cleaning, more within reach around me, it's going to me so good! I can't wait to update you!

[@LauraBogza]

Hey Finn, long time watcher. You might have already tried them but my sister has pots and was recommended compression socks. It’s made a huge difference on her ability to go up stairs or walk. It’s still difficult don’t get me wrong, but she’s seen an amazing improvement. Thought I’d offer the suggestion in case it didn’t cross your path! Wish you all the best!

[@flowersstorms8863]

It's so wonderful that you've found something that's going to give you so many more opportunities for support, getting out and getting happier! It's fantastic that all these jigsaw pieces have come together to bring you to this place (the Visible armband, Pip, Chris' new job...) YAYS!! Paignton is a lovely part of the world 🤗

[@stefaniedecoster2772]

Oh very exciting news Finn! Having to change your GP again sucks and moving house is taxing. I'm glad to hear the same movers can do the job! And it's good that it will happen soon because once you've moved house you can rest more again. Muchness and love your way, nothing from Paxton this time, he is fast asleep x

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Thanks lovely. Yes it's all those little.bits, changing GP, addresses ect...urg! But yes, we are pleased it can happen soon and that we know that we are in good hands with the removal company. It's a good time of year too as I can just hibernate and recover post move!

[@blackhatter1980]

hi finn, really wishing you and chris all the luck in the world my friend im sure it will all work out for you

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Ah thank you so very much!

[@wildgardens]

Gosh I remember you moving into this house, where did the 2 years go? Time zooms by so fast! I'm excited for you, it sounds like a wonderful location. I did wonder how you coped with those stairs! I hope the move doesn't hit you too hard, good job you got visible to help you pace better! Good luck with the move! I look forward to seeing your new place!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Yep time does fly! And the stairs....well l just don't cope with them at all! The visible app has made it even clearer how much of a detrimental impact they are having and I'm looking forward to seeing the difference in our new place ...once I've recovered from the move! Thanks for the luck and l can't wait to share our new adventures!

[@wildgardens]

@@FinnTheInfinncible Yes Im thinking of getting the visible subscription myself after watching your video on it, that was very eye-opening!, just waiting to find out it my PIP application is approved so I can afford it! Yes, I can imagine the stairs are a killer! Glad you're saying goodbye to them :)

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

@@wildgardens oh goodness this visible, honestly, I wish I'd had it from the beginning, it would have saved me so much effort and energy trying to work out how to manage this condition! I hope you get your PIP!!

[@wildgardens]

@@FinnTheInfinncible Thank you! Me too, I am very intrigued to try out visible!

[@REP-bl3lq]

This sounds a great and very exciting move. How lovely to be by the sea again. Congratulations to you and Chris for sorting out the logistics to make this work. I am very happy for you both🌺

[@ceahorse56]

So excited for you! We sold our lovely home and moved to a small condo, couldn’t be happier! So glad you’re hiring movers best money we spent!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Thanks so much! Yes hiring people was very wise and made things so much easier! We are in now, boxes gradually getting unpacked! Loving the ease of a small place and no stairs!!

[@ArtieCarden]

i hope the move goes well!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Ah thanks so much buddy!!!

[@RY22900]

I've just come back from a long weekend in Paignton and it's a gorgeous place. Lots of flat places to go for a wander.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Ah happy holidays! And yes, ne of the many reasons that this was such a perfect choice for us!

[@lynnemorris1111]

How exciting :)

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

I'm glad you think so! I can't wait to share these new adventures with you!

[@miloraoof7654]

Sounds like you are ready and the change seems needed. Congratulations

[@rarelymary]

I can understand your reluctance to move, your neighbours etc. sound absolutely wonderful but the new place, it sounds really really great and a perfect fit for you both. I can totally relate with the stairs. I do not have stairs IN my apartment but I live in an old building, which I love, but it has no elevator and I live on the third floor, which is the top floor. So I don't really get out at all! I am considering moving but I absolutely love the place and the area, and also finding an apartment in Stockholm is really very difficult. All the well wishes for your move! ❤

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Its so hard isn't it? We have been considering this for the last year now, and it been so hard to gradually come to accept that moving is what we need to do and to say goodbye to such a lovely neighbourhood and lovely home. But, to see what a positive effect this new home and area will have on my health and on both our lives is what is helping us to know that this is right. I see many good things ahead! Thank you so much for your wellwishes!

[@rarelymary]

@@FinnTheInfinncible 💜

[@ellisdodd]

Ah, I love that you have a miniature poodle! They are wonderfully intelligent, loving, loyal, versatile dogs but are being forgotten about and ruined by mixing them with every other breed to make doodles. My dream future dog is a chocolate miniature poodle. 🐩 Best of luck on your move!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

I absolutely agree! We adore our mini poo, he's a stubborn bugger at times but so funny and so smart! Thanks for the luck, we are in now, and exhausted but happy!

[@SomeoneBeginingWithI]

Thank you. This really validates my choice that when I move to get either a bungalow or a house that can have a stairlift

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Absolutely! If we can make things easier for ourselves and improve our health and wellbeing we should 💕

[@oliverg6864]

Congrats on finding an accessible place! I'm sure the move will go well!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Thanks so much my friend! It has gone well, we are 2 rooms unpacked, one to go! I will update soon!

[@rainbowtropolis]

Hello to you to lovely buddy! I was wondering if you would have to move at some point, I'm not as severe as you are for health problems, and I refuse to live in a house with stairs. I'm in a flat right now that has elevators and self-opening doors (disabled and elderly) so I have a lot of accessibility perks. No bathtub, just a walk in shower with a seat built in, I don't have to use stairs at all if I'm having a bad day of moving around and such. Congrats to Chris for getting a better job as well, it can make a world of difference for sure! I'm glad to hear you have someone to help you, that's wonderful! 👍 No worries about content if you can't post, we'll all be here whenever you get settled and recovered a bit! I hope you are careful, and have a great time as well! I'm excited for you, can I move out there too? lol 😁

[@BridgettheBish]

I moved to a bungalow with a loft extension a couple of years ago. I currently have the loft as it is wonderfully huge, light and airy… but… I'm now really going to have to think about moving downstairs as i find myself isolated up here due to the exertion you describe using the stairs. I need to sort out an accessible bathroom downstairs and get used to the idea of having a tiny bedroom! PS I have a friend who was made homeless and is currently placed in a hotel on the Paignton seafront! She loves the location, obviously, but now needs a more permanent solution.

[@AndersWatches]

Paignton is my most favourite place in the country ❤❤❤ Went there on holiday every year growing up. Now whenever I see the train at Stoke station that terminates at Paignton I long to get on it (despite it being like 5 hours lol) 😅

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

It is a very pretty little place! Im excited to call it home!

[@AndersWatches]

@@FinnTheInfinncible I don’t know if he’s still there but there used to be a lovely older man who would always be stood by the side of the road on the way into Torquay from Paignton waving to passers by with a big smile. Not sure of his real name but people called him Moses. Keep an eye out, I’d love to know if he’s still going ^.^

[@KJDogluv]

Looks like a great town, right by a national park too!

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Yep. We are right between loads of glorious places to visit there!

[@samjohnrandall2965]

Living in Paignton will put you near the zoo, so you’ll have easy access to capybaras, which are good for the soul. I moved recently to a ground floor flat on the outskirts of Exeter and while I don’t get out much because of similar health problems, it’s been a big help. Wishing you both well.❤

[@jenq436]

I am jealous you will live by the Sea. Sounds like a beautiful location.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Thank you, we are very lucky to have found this place!

[@kardwise9714]

I recently moved as well. I moved over 1500 miles away to be closer to my daughter. It’s a move we took for my mental health. Now before that we had moved seven years before 1500 miles away again for my physical and mental health. This new move will is a short stay. I’m here for a birth of a baby and then I’m gonna be moving again 1500 miles away in about a year a year and a quarter. Moves are important is what I’m getting at. It’s a move towards something. And for you your moves have helped you accomplish things. So as wonderful that houses is and as wonderful as your neighbors are, it is time for you to move to the next step in life whatever that may be. But whatever it will be. But after the move is over, I know you will accomplish more wonderful things for yourself.

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

This is very true! I guess I just wanted and imagined we would stay put this time! But, life changes doesnt it, and we have to adapt to those changes and this move will definitely help me to accomplish so much more, in terms of my health and wellbeing and improve things for us both as a couple and a fur family! Thank you for your wise words! I hope you are settling n well after your move

[@kardwise9714]

@@FinnTheInfinncible we are settling in nicely however, the settling in is very new. I have not even returned the moving truck yet but it goes back tomorrow, so new new. I cannot wait to see your new place

[@ncburton1713]

I can definitely relate. The apartment we live in now was originally freedom because we were going from a second floor unit to a ground floor on and we were going to be paying EFF rent because the place is for low income people. We didn't consider that this is a developing suburb that has really nice sidewalks in the places with houses and building and then nothing in the undeveloped lots, which makes using my cane or a guide dog more difficult, still doable, but not comfortable safety wise. And the closest bus is a little over a mile away. We hoped I'd be able to work up to walking to it but we're still working on going to our mailbox at the front of the apartment complex. So yeah, at the time this actually was the fest place for us, even with the down falls, but it's definitely not what we need any more. What we want to to is buy a house, but not sure if or when that'll ever happen. Nova and I both have poor credit after mistakes made in our youth. 😅 But I've been working on that so 🤞. I hope the move goes well for the three of you. Moving is so stressful, but once it's done and you can breathe you'll enjoy your new home. 💙

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Thanks buddy, yes it sounds like you had a very similar experience. , a move that was right for a time but you outgrew it and your needs changed. Same here, and this move now will future proof for us. We cant afford to buy so we wont be moving again until an opportunity comes to get our own bungalow and thats only if we get a lottery win! This has everything we need and we cant wait to share it!

[@ncburton1713]

@@FinnTheInfinncible Normally I'd say we can't afford to buy either but the rent around here is horrible, not as bad as huge cities like say New York, but still pretty crappy. Example, our two bedroom apartment in subsidised housing is $1,229 /month. Unsubsidized ones of similar size in my area are $1500 /month. For context, I make only $1001 /month on my disability income. But anyway the real estate market in my area is actually pretty good and depending on what a person needs/wants it's actually cheaper to pay a mortgage on a house than to rent. But it's qualifying for said mortgage that's the hard part. 😅

[@musicmad4415]

Happy for you Finn 🎉

[@chansonpapillon]

Houses with stairs are so overatted imo. Was listening to an architecture podcast earlier and they were saying that in the UK, two story homes are seen as status thing. Whereas in places places like Australia where there's more land to build on, one storey homes are de rigeur (Neighbours being a case in point!). Disability or not, it's so much more efficient to live in a one-story home. Life feels much more fluid when you're not constantly taking things (and yourself) up and down the wooden hill! 😆

[@heatherinnorfolk]

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[@miloraoof7654]

Ooooohhhhhhhh big move yay

[@CoMorbiditty]

Oh gosh... its not long before you move out!!! Glad its going to suit both of you, but my lawd, as someone with ADHD, this is still stuff nightmares are made of...MOVING!!!! Having to move because the landlord was selling the house was horrifying. I had help with paying for the movers, but I couldnt do that now. No one left to help. Fingers crossed all goes to plan and your spoons with be replenished tenfold.🏳‍⚧🏳‍🌈🤍💕💙

[@FinnTheInfinncible]

Thanks buddy and yep I feel you! I'm going through hell dealing with it right now! I'm just trying to focus on the end goal!

[@CoMorbiditty]

@@FinnTheInfinncible Yes, it is worth every spoon. ;)