Your statement that all lives are worth living was assumed and not proved. Moreover, you cannot prove it. You are a liar.
@mohdzavedrazafarooqui7193 ай бұрын
i wish i could attend this in person
@Newhouse8463 ай бұрын
I was once fired from a job I hated and was afraid to leave. It was the best thing that could have happened to me. I learned from that experience that when in pain I try to look at it as a lesson. It works
@silryn4 ай бұрын
Very good thank you
@skionen17815 ай бұрын
Excellent stuff, thanks for sharing
@Sereneis11 ай бұрын
The best explanation of RA in utube.
@luciamixon415611 ай бұрын
Long suffering 2010. I must Radical Acceptance. I can't embrace it but need acceptance. It's not okay great point.
@user-vr1yg7rq3b11 ай бұрын
this is wonderful , great video
@user-vr1yg7rq3b11 ай бұрын
love these videos , thank you so much
@eliana6474 Жыл бұрын
Excellent 💯
@karenanderson8892 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this explanation. Very helpful.
@death2theworld Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this
@Jellybellycat Жыл бұрын
Excellent. Thank you for not being greedy. It’s wonderful you made this available for people of all income levels.
@je3293 Жыл бұрын
The way radical acceptance is defined here, everyone already does it without thinking, it's not a skill. If it's just saying, 'This sucks, but it's happening...' everyone already does that. I mean, if I'm getting stabbed, I'm not thinking, 'Gee, I wish I wasn't getting stabbed right now, it sort of sucks, but I accept that I'm being stabbed right now, so whatever.' No, you're thinking, 'I'm being fucking stabbed, make this stop immediately.' If you just radically accept you're being stabbed, well... I guess you'll die thinking you had radical acceptance figured out a few moments later.
@MechaJutaro Жыл бұрын
This(what is meant by "acceptance")is a serious flaw in all of the mindfulness, heavy therapies, all of which were created by self-described flower children of the 60s and 70s, who took Buddhist concepts out of their religious contexts and have tried to fit them into a secular mold. Whether or not one is practicing "true" acceptance is in the eye of the beholder
@luciamixon415611 ай бұрын
Depends on the individual person temperament and what horror has transpired. Not second nature to all to accept quickly.
@alphadog3384 Жыл бұрын
Well described this can be tricky, good skill to gain knowledge with experience.
@charlesedwards5333 Жыл бұрын
Is anger an emotion? Does fear always lie underneath it? Great video.
@Plasmafox Жыл бұрын
anger is an emotion and only people who are uncomfortable with anger think it's **always** covering up some other emotion
@lindahebb4832 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting
@chatondeneige Жыл бұрын
I needed a refresher on this (it’s this week’s worksheet for homework) and this gave me some great information, and even added to things I’d learned in my session this week.
@anachr0nism104 Жыл бұрын
I am the student featured here. I requested for this video to be removed, and was told that it would be taken down.
@VetLady88 Жыл бұрын
❤ Thank you 🙏🏼
@cathywyman8103 Жыл бұрын
What DBT skill helps with feeling empty inside? I struggle with not knowing who I am or what I enjoy. I feel like an empty shell.
I get this mixed up with CBT, "we feel the way we think.."
@christawalters74662 жыл бұрын
So I need to accept that I had no mother and a negligent drug addled father. I can grieve my childhood and forgive my father for choosing drugs over interactions. Now I’m 50 and have struggled with letting go of him, I’ve been stuck in a loop. So radical acceptance tells me that he’s not going to change, I must change to get out of the loop. The only way to change and keep my core Christian beliefs of honoring my parents ( worthy or not) is to walk away and leave all expectations of any future relationship with him behind?
@billmoran6957 Жыл бұрын
Accepting that he is not capable of having a relationship might be helpful. My father chose alcohol. I never let go I just stopped being angry with him I learned to forgive him, and then I made the best of the relationship he was capable of having. As a Christian, I honored him as my father by recognizing his humanity, including all the ugly.
@Sereneis11 ай бұрын
You don't listen well. You can accept ur horrible past w/o liking it or u can fight ur reality (what u are doing). But if u fight facts that u don't like (unpleasant reality that can't be changed) u will continue living in misery. There are only 2 choices accepting radically or rejecting ur reality. Watch the video again. I am 70, accepting that my reality is hell due to my family and bipol a r disorder. This video changed my life.
@robryandjdrops4 ай бұрын
Jesus calls it forgiveness. So yeah. Move on, for yourself. For your health. For you. Holy spirit gets credit.
@katyuha5552 ай бұрын
You.nedd to Accept tjat it happened, it was Terri le but Therese nothing you vän do. It was done .it legat trauma...and we need to Accept it
@lucyberlin71082 жыл бұрын
This is a great series, but I almost missed it. Please re-title; not just an acronym.
@veramann2 жыл бұрын
If something is science, people need to see the evidence. Otherwise, the method or technique is just pseudoscience or bullshit.
@CobraAquinas2 жыл бұрын
I was going to toss this concept out as another nonsensical practice, until this video; thanks for being practical and clear in your words.
@MechaJutaro Жыл бұрын
It's not nonsensical so much as it as a buzzword, like so much else in DBT. It can mean anything, or nothing, and whether or not one is truly practicing it is debatable
@CobraAquinas Жыл бұрын
@@MechaJutaro I got a good chuckle out of this, the only reason being, is that I literally cannot figure any of that at out and honestly, I'm not interested in trying lol.
@MechaJutaro Жыл бұрын
@@CobraAquinas You can't figure it out, just as no one can figure out what the hell Radical Acceptance is
@CobraAquinas Жыл бұрын
@@MechaJutaro LMFAO
@angels4ever2 жыл бұрын
Awesome!
@jambud65632 жыл бұрын
Made it this far through the DBT playlist so far. I am going to take a break and come back later. Thank you for your energy and time making these! Your presentation and perspectives are helpful, I really need this after missing the weekly support I had from my DBT group after finishing.
@blisteredblues12552 жыл бұрын
Acceptance is not approval. Thank you for saying that.
@rayhenderson35462 жыл бұрын
Great video, thanks very much. I am struggling with a few things I must accept and your words are helping.
@zz-ic6vy2 жыл бұрын
thank you very much!
@ahamoment36262 жыл бұрын
You have given the best info on validation that I have seen so far on KZbin and I have looked through at least 15 of them! I am taking copious notes. Great job 👍
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@adolfosilva38833 жыл бұрын
This is the best summary of radical acceptance on KZbin IMO.
@teeahtate3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing.
@juneingram6693 жыл бұрын
this is an excellent presentation and you describe it very well. I am learning DBT and this was extremely useful. Thankyou
@Jonnyturboable3 жыл бұрын
I’m trying to sleep right now and this is very useful, I felt calmer as soon as I read the whiteboard. Thank you
@reemabouelenain90474 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@skepticsquirrel75604 жыл бұрын
I just finished my therapy session a while ago and this was a great revision of what my therapist taught me today! Thanks so much for this.