Why? Because she hasn't learned to forgive.

I divorced my husband of 20 years (2 wonderful daughters) 27 years ago. I have never had one moment of regret. I don’t guess he did either. Both daughters married wonderful men and each has one child. We make one very happy little family. I take a moment every Sunday for an attitude of gratitude for my sons-in-law. I advise any woman who knows in her heart that it’s over, or never really was, to leave while you are young enough to build a life of your own.

And man? Don't they get tired too of all the emotional and lack of communication etc..

A good self check list !!

That's not at all correct. Young woman pretend to be attracted to old men because, the old guy will die soon and then she can easily acquire all his wealth and enjoy it. Forgive me if I am wrong 😅

Love is not what you say, it’s what you do. 🤩💓😉

" Give the whole , But do not share ( in prophecy ) " .

Why do I have to do everything AT HOME? Because your husband had been at WORK earning money that was used to buy your house, car(s), pay for all household expenses, pay for children's needs. So, after a full day of work, you want your husband to come home and do the dishes, do laundry, etc.? Even in retirement, it is usually the husband's lifetime work that gives you his pension, other retirement savings and his investments....but you still want him to do dishes?

Getting old ain’t for sissies! And I mean that in the very original sense of the word! Another thing to think of is that sometimes people lose their sense of smell. If you find you can no longer smell something strong like an onion, you may be losing your sense of smell. My husband’s uncle had that problem and he thought he didn’t have body odor. Until my husband, his fishing buddy, told him otherwise. If showering is too much sometimes, at least wash up. I keep baby wipes, use a pretty smelling body wash and scrub the most important parts. With winter weather I don’t go out much anyway. Plus my sons house is huge and a challenge to heat. Taking a shower in his bathroom is like showering in a meat locker. I have to take my portable heater in and start warming the room. So if you aren’t sure take that as a sign you need to wash things up. And IDK why elders don’t feel the need to brush teeth but PLEASE do!!

Old men fart more. Women appreciate that less as time passes.

This is life it’s nothing new!

With me, I’m the husband, it’s the opposite with me. What you are explaining about the female is happening with me the husband. I’m just existing, I look for the attention, I feel neglected. I do most of the work around the house and my wife even says that I do more than she. We seem to be growing apart and I feel sad about it. I don’t say anything because she not the type of person who would talk things out. Frustrated. We’ve been married for 37 years and things don’t seem to be getting any better.

This was so bad it was hard to watch. The women described in this video were so narcissistic and petty that they would be unhappy no matter what the husband did. The only answer would to be to look for a better women.

Please stop making it the man's fault. What a stupid post. Women are mire the problem than men.

They cheat like all women

Informative video… thanks for this offering…🫶🏼

What if you only found each other in the later years and the man has never learned any of those things - - thoughtfulness, meaningful, personal discussions, taking that joyful delight in having a partner?? It's so empty, so lonely for the woman...

I can totally relate to this. My husband does virtually nothing, and I do all the work and carry all the responsibility. Am I appreciated? No way! He's a passenger in our marriage. If I were to try and recapture the closrness we used to have, itvwould only be me making the effort, and ot takes two to make it work. I don't hate him, I've reached the stage where I'm totally indifferent.

some women hit menopause and significant mental instability during it ....some try to fight the reality of losing their beauty by developing a roving eye usually with younger men .....this analysis has totally missed how many females let down the man who has provided security,love, attention of decades and decide to rage against reality by opting to abandon their husband .....so a bit less of the one sided sympathy in thus analysis please .....

I just wish my husband had something to do away from the house after retirement….I still care for him, but golly!!!

Ladies, I think men have done a psyop on us from birth. It is men that need women. Not the other way around! 🤔

Laughable... don't ever get married

well

I don’t hate my husband ! I love him because I always tell him what I feel!!

Thank you! This is the first time I've seen a video that understands me. I feel heard.

It started after 15 years of marriage for me and that was 20 years ago. Now we live 1300 miles apart.

for me, this has quite a high hot-air score.

what drivel

Thank you!

Most of the content here is virtue signalling. Women feel that as they get older they essentially become "invisible ". They are no longer seen by men, replaced by younger females. They realise their golden years are gone forever and now they are left with who they are. Who they are is often borderline nasty, almost certainly narcissistic, self centred. On top of this, their children have children, who then become the focus of the extended family, they become irrelevant, never again becoming the centre of attention. Women are generally self obsessed, everything needs to be about them- if the marriage goes smoothly- they will cause trouble, to refocus the attention on them. Women endlessly cause problems- its their nature.

Thanks 👍

Cause women handle most everything; it’s tiring.

To wives, husbands are their world. However, husbands too need to limit their world to their wives. During my two and half years of marriage, I have learned one thing: my wife should know as well as see I love her, that I do not neglect her in her spells of restlessness, that I enjoy her company, and that I laugh at her jokes to the fullest. My guru used to say, "Men have come to earth only to keep their wives happy. "

An old wife who “fears God” never hates an old husband. Your opinion is in this world, without fear of God!

They realize they've wasted their entire life on a freaking moron!!

Maybe women realize what love really is and the man is not it? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Women are vampires they’ll suck the life out of you with their constant needs so you shut them out. Women are always the victim even when they victimize. Get out early is my advice.

My existence is an annoyance to my wife no matter how much I try to help participate and work be the main support for the family. It turns out I do not have the correct religious beliefs.

It's all so true to life. Thanks for putting it into words. Thumbs up for all the seniors. Cheers to us all.

Its really because 'old man young girl' porn is all the rage.

In two months, my husband and I will celebrate our 50th anniversary. We have each been retired for about six years. We both grew up in military families and he served in the Army. We have lived in many different places together, and shared a variety of experiences, both good and bad. We read and talk about the books we're each enjoying. We have shared interests and some very different interests, and each find ways to spend some time alone. We have a deeply-held common faith; I was raised in it and he is a convert. I have increasingly severe arthritis, so he has taken over almost all the household chores that I used to do. We care for each other as needed. We were never able to have children, but have some nieces and nephews, and their children, who we love very much. We've been through rough times and tough times, but have remained committed to our vows. We are happy to be together and hope for many years more. What are we doing wrong?

If Find His Thesis To Be Just That.. A Thesis.. This Belief May Be True For Long Term Marriages (WITHOUT CHILDREN). However, If The Couple Has Children, And Grandchildren, And In Some Cases Great Grandchildren? You're Talking Apples And Oranges.. Children Help To Keep Married Couples Married And In Love.. Because You Continue To Feel Needed.. If NOT By Your Children? Your Grandchildren.. You Have The Psychological Reason To Be That Young Person You Once Were All Over Again.. You Constantly Get To See The Love In Your Marriage Grow, And Be Fruitful And Multiply.. Which Helps Your (TRUE LOVE) Grow Even More For Your Spouse.. This Is Why I Don't Think This Is Hardly True For All Couples.. JMO... 😎😎😎

THANKS FOR THIS INFORMATION I EAT THESE FRUITS SO I AM GOING TO EAT THEM MORE OFTEN THANKS AND BLESSINGS 🙌 🙏 🙏

Thanks

Doctors don't want to help they just want to give you pills. I try to stay away as much as possible. Yes I withdraw because I am always lightheaded due to the cervical vestibular.

This video caught my full attention. Speaking from a man's voice we all need to consider more understanding..

For Christ's sake, get into it and stop fluffing around!

Thank you for your inspiring video!!!👍👏🏻👏🏻😍😍😍🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💐🤩

Ah, yes - the woman feels like she is 'carrying the marriage', whilst the man just 'exists within it'. Well, apart from slogging his guts out for 50 years in a job he hates, and doing repairs to the home, and putting up with abuse from a crappy boss, to keep those pay checks coming in. As for 'lack of communication', how often do you hear this? (man, SEEING something is wrong) "What's wrong?" (woman) "Nothing." (man) "Come on, I can see something's bothering you, so tell me; what's wrong?" (woman) *"NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!"* Then woman spends hours b1tching to her friends about him "not caring when I'm upset!"