What Did I Come Home To?
15:35
3 ай бұрын
Part 1 Getting Ready For Holiday
21:38
Life: My Life Then, My Life Now
29:19
Remember Who you are
16:51
3 ай бұрын
Going On A Roadtrip
13:23
3 ай бұрын
Helping Others Is What We Do
9:51
Lots To Do! No Time To Be Sick
10:59
That Is What Mums Do
14:12
4 ай бұрын
Tribe Come Join Me
13:12
5 ай бұрын
Triggers Are A Moment In Time
24:31
We Can’t Avoid This Happening
13:39
I Don’t Want To Be A Burden
17:13
The Best Tribe! Community Ever
18:59
Moving To My New Space
24:12
5 ай бұрын
Answering Your Questions
33:31
5 ай бұрын
We Need Time! Remember That
18:37
5 ай бұрын
Пікірлер
@shelbygreen8888
@shelbygreen8888 7 күн бұрын
U brought Tears to my eyes ❤❤🌹☹️
@shelbygreen8888
@shelbygreen8888 7 күн бұрын
Hi Dear lady living in a Van and your sweet little dog 🐕 wow 😮 what a very Sad story of your Life I’m sorry for U having to go through this painful Life but remember Ur not the first or the last so many Women went and are going through being in the Van 🚐 is Ok many ple are choosing to live in a Van 🚐 because of many Reasons now it’s its time for your Life to get better ❤️‍🩹 now for U and your little Dog U have Peace now 😮😊❤❤❤❤
@toekafrank6998
@toekafrank6998 9 күн бұрын
Join the club, dear. Twenty-five years single.😊
@Bassouljah
@Bassouljah 12 күн бұрын
You are so ❤❤❤❤❤ Thank you ❤❤❤ I wish u well!! And your cute dog too. I am crying now. I live with a Bull terriër dog, her name is Amor. 8,5 years old. I adopted her when she was 1. We had many experiences together! I saved her live multiple times and she mine ( emotional) she survived skin cancer. Now 4,5 years. I cook fresh food. We live with 7 snakes.. 4 bci and 3 ball pythons. I wanna get a small parrot now. A Catharina parakeet. I saw on your previous channel the birds in the same room as the snakes. Was that going well? ( it seems like ) i wanted to ask you information about this. I do have a room extra. And thought to let it sleep there. And fly free and play. But when i am in the living room, maybe another cage/ place to be, so he/ she is with us. And not allone in that other room. Thank you !❤ You are a strong and amazingly beautiful woman!
@danlee7376
@danlee7376 12 күн бұрын
. I am now Working on becoming 68 years old. My 1st 2 EXwives Order 100% gold diggers And with the businesses that I've had I had nothing but massive stress. Besides that they were both Narcissist And I will tell you 1st hand recovering from narcissism Is not easy but is very easily done If you have your mind in the right place.
@Ohoyo7
@Ohoyo7 19 күн бұрын
Miss you, hope your okay
@joanponton3316
@joanponton3316 24 күн бұрын
What happened to you? I miss your videos 😢
@ruthwinnifred329
@ruthwinnifred329 Ай бұрын
Where are you????
@Blue_bell7
@Blue_bell7 Ай бұрын
Hi, miss you and hope you're OK ❤
@debbiedowner99
@debbiedowner99 Ай бұрын
😊 I knew to your channel, i love your long hair.. Videos are awesome.. 🎉 i love listening to you. 🌺
@buffylife00061
@buffylife00061 Ай бұрын
WHERE ARE YOU!!!!!! 😢
@firefeethok_tui2355
@firefeethok_tui2355 Ай бұрын
To any woman who is middle aged, watching this, you need to understand when a man comes along and suddenly youre enthralled and being asked to totally change your life, this is a huge red flag. In any case, do not ever sell your home. You will never get it back. Your brain chemistry in this type of situation is upon you isn’t normal and you will make very poor decisions financially. This kind of situation, It doesnt happen for the better unless you are very wealthy and so is the other. Men who don’t have a home and who are meandering around, and suddenly find you “the love of thier life” are looking for somebody to take things from. Mainly money. This will be the case 80% of the time. Do not be foolish. You cannot have a life filled with animals, love, consistency, and routine, and then suddenly throw it aside for a man and expect a good outcome. If you have to give all of what you already have up for a man, run as fast as you can away from that particular man.
@buffylife00061
@buffylife00061 Ай бұрын
Are you OK? 😢
@Ohoyo7
@Ohoyo7 Ай бұрын
It's been a month 😢
@buffylife00061
@buffylife00061 Ай бұрын
@@Ohoyo7 I’m scared something happened. She just disappeared without telling us anything. 😭
@buffylife00061
@buffylife00061 Ай бұрын
I think…maybe she got frustrated with KZbin. But what she doesn’t understand is…..it takes time to get a fan base/large following. It doesn’t take overnight success like people think. Content creators work hard for their followers.
@Ohoyo7
@Ohoyo7 Ай бұрын
@@buffylife00061 I hope that's all it is, I really miss her and Griffin. Wish there was a way to contact her
@carolynmerritt7100
@carolynmerritt7100 2 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 2 ай бұрын
You're welcome 😊
@carolynmerritt7100
@carolynmerritt7100 2 ай бұрын
Good luck to you. God bless you.
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 2 ай бұрын
Thank you! You too!
@ruthwinnifred329
@ruthwinnifred329 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your trip
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 2 ай бұрын
My pleasure!
@trynsurviven2440
@trynsurviven2440 2 ай бұрын
That pool would feel absolutely amazing here. Today’s temperatures are supposed to be in the mid to upper 90’s Fahrenheit.
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 2 ай бұрын
I’m guessing it would at that temperature
@jillconyers2710
@jillconyers2710 2 ай бұрын
Hi❤
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 2 ай бұрын
Hi Jill 🩷
@bastrixer
@bastrixer 2 ай бұрын
Sounds much as when i separated with my ex after founding out the whole love affair with another guy. My then ex becamed a horrible person and it was my ex apartment and everything since i did not brought anything when i moved to belgium to live together with my now ex. Did not knew anything better so i took what i had and moved back to Sweden. Thats 3 years ago and well...sum days are still hard cuz not only was my ex cheating, i lost my father, gotmy own helth issue's etc. Life is not always easy, i have felt that, when i thought i had it all to now nothing. Now Im a cat dad and honestly have zero intrest in a new relationship.
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 2 ай бұрын
It’s such a roller coaster ride with our emotions and being hurt, losing then your trust of people and having to pick up the pieces and keep moving forward takes time. There are good people out there that can be in your life as good friends but will take time to trust someone to begin a relationship again. Take your time and look after you first. 🩷🩷
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 2 ай бұрын
It’s such a roller coaster ride with our emotions and being hurt, losing then your trust of people and having to pick up the pieces and keep moving forward takes time. There are good people out there that can be in your life as good friends but will take time to trust someone to begin a relationship again. Take your time and look after you first. 🩷🩷
@Brenda-m4g
@Brenda-m4g 3 ай бұрын
From where I sit I see that you want to live and let live but the people you are dealing with do not want you to do this and in my opinion you must be on the defense and protect your life and wellbeing physically and emotionally. I think that you are making all the right moves even though it is uncomfortable. May peace and love be with you and your little pup.
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 2 ай бұрын
Thank you Brenda, things will settle down and l will just keep on staying as positive as l can and hope that each day l can find peace with everything.
@KrissCapen
@KrissCapen 3 ай бұрын
I think you speak very well. I’m 63 years old and still have feelings of hurt from when I was a kid. I can be having a nice normal day and out of no where a horrible memory will pop in my head. All we can do is try to keep moving forward.
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
Hello Kriss and thank you. I think they will always be with us. We know they were memories from past, we try to remember they are not our present and let us have more of those horrible memories of the past, fade as we make better ones. 🩷🩷
@elvafae9902
@elvafae9902 3 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry you’re still dealing with family issues…I had similar a few years ago where I had to turn my back on my daughter due to verbal and emotional abuse…my granddaughter was about 9 then…she’s 12 now 😊…daughter was very angry most of the time…it is depression and she’s getting counseling and medication now which helps so we have a relationship again and me and my granddaughter also..I practically raised her til she was 5…my relationship is very tentative with daughter but at least we can have some fun now and then and me and granddaughter spend more time together…I’m teaching her how to crochet and she loves it…you know sometimes when people have no one to blame for their problems, they kinda start looking at themselves cause no one else will listen to their nonsense…we mommies often end up getting abused because we love our children and keep trying to make things work…it was a hard thing to walk away for about 6 months…she’s not right in the head yet but she’s trying and I’ve told her I’m proud of her for that. Your daughter may come to terms also…In the meantime do what makes YOU happy…
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
Very similar yes, l have not seen my daughter or grandsons for a couple of years now but l have pictures of my grandsons on a wall in my van. I hope one day to have a relationship with them as you are with your granddaughter but l don’t see that happening with my daughter. She continues to deny doing anything wrong and she will never admit to the abuse she did. I just hope that the boys be happy with their lives but knowing my daughter, I am afraid of the opposite happening for them. I miss them as like you l bought them up, especially the first child. It’s hard not to cry at times but I know it’s not every day, l wouldn’t cope if that was how it was. Thank you always for sharing your story or a part of it with me. I am so glad you have been able to be back in your daughter’s and grand daughter’s life. Tentatively even so with your daughter is a good start, better than not at all. 🙏🩷🩷🩷
@jillconyers2710
@jillconyers2710 3 ай бұрын
It's painful when you are suffering with this emotional abuse! Unfortunately as I go through all the time where your excsorsted mentaly, and drains you.❤ I'm hopeing your able to send your number to me again as my phone died!and I hadn't entered it . Remember when we met
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
It is exhausting Jill but just something we try to live with as best we can. Yes l will resend my number to you hon. 🩷🩷
@sonysgirl6301
@sonysgirl6301 3 ай бұрын
❤ to grieving group and struggling. Have to keep going for my daughter. I am so glad you have great friends ❤️ ❤I don't have any around me and have a hard time trusting😢❤
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
I understand your difficulties and yes l have a few good friends who are here for me more than my family is. I would prefer to have my family be that way though. I don’t know how old your daughter is but as mums we do need to and keep going for our children who do very much need their mom around. Mine are now all grown adults and have families themselves. Now mostly l keep going for my grandchildren. We are mothers forever and our children will always be the ones to keep us going. That is a good thing though I know that it’s also huge emotionally on us who deal with trauma in our lives. Trust won’t come easy but don’t give up, stay strong, you are important and we need to remember that. I am here, if ever you wish to talk privately about anything please email me as the address is in the description. 🤗🩷🩷🩷
@ruthwinnifred329
@ruthwinnifred329 3 ай бұрын
💗 and prayers!
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
🙏🩷
@valeriemearns3367
@valeriemearns3367 3 ай бұрын
Never apologise for being you. I am so sorry to hear about your family situation and can only hope that day by day you can gain strength and be kind to yourself.
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏 🩷🩷
@joanponton3316
@joanponton3316 3 ай бұрын
Hang in there, know that your conscience is clear and that you didn't deserve what you got. Karma will settle all eventually. Please get some rest and enjoy your friends later. Griffin loves you. Looking forward to seeing you soon. Sending healing hugs ❤❤🎉🎉
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
Thank you Joan 🙏🩷🩷
@trynsurviven2440
@trynsurviven2440 3 ай бұрын
All we can do is one day at a time. Griff may have sensed something outside and wanted you awake…my dogs do that sometimes. I hope you have an amazing day and look forward to seeing you again soon. Please take care of yourself.
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏 🩷🩷
@trynsurviven2440
@trynsurviven2440 3 ай бұрын
That was a nice drive glad you found Luna. See you in the next video.
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
@@trynsurviven2440 it was like losing a child and talk about the anxiety. 🩷🩷
@taniaclarke9131
@taniaclarke9131 3 ай бұрын
It's the most terrifying 90 minutes of my life !!!
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
@@taniaclarke9131 I’m with you on that, l was ok the first 10mins but after that I was starting to really worry. 🩷🩷
@elvafae9902
@elvafae9902 3 ай бұрын
Lol….definitely coffee and donuts YES PLEASE…GOT TO GET USED TO YOU DRIVING ON THE LEFT SIDE OF THE ROAD LOL 😳 wow so happy you found Luna…
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
Same for me when l see people driving on the right 😁 those donuts were delicious, ld definitely stop there again. I tell you, we were in a panic, didn’t think we would be moving past my son’s place, thank goodness we found her. 🩷🩷🩷
@elvafae9902
@elvafae9902 3 ай бұрын
@@AVanADogAndMyself Yes....I had my virtual breaks on a few times but lovely scenery...
@maura6375
@maura6375 3 ай бұрын
🌺 I Love Your Channel
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
Thank you Maura, lm so happy to hear that. 🙏🩷🩷🩷
@sonysgirl6301
@sonysgirl6301 3 ай бұрын
So glad you were able to go on holiday and to see the beach with sand and rocks. Please stay safe 🙏 ❤
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
It was so nice, having the lovely weather was such a bonus. 🙏🩷🩷
@elvafae9902
@elvafae9902 3 ай бұрын
And so you did put this one up first 😊 Such a gorgeous beach…storms can be beautiful also…
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
I did, taking awhile to get the travel footage together but I will get there. I love a good storm, so long as my annex don’t blow away with it, lol 😂 The beaches were beautiful and we had beautiful weather while away. The wind has settled a little bit here but it’s not as cold as it was last week. 🩷🩷🩷
@jillconyers2710
@jillconyers2710 3 ай бұрын
Good to see you got back home safely, I'm with you in this crazy Weather on the Island. A cup of Milo sounds good!❤
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
Thanks Jill it has been crazy weather and I am sure you felt it too. Hopefully spring arrives soon and that wind doesn’t reappear. Love a Milo on a chilly day, l drink way too much coffee, Milo is a break from it. Hope you are well and haven’t forgotten about catching up at some point. Need to borrow a car but l will organize that. 🩷🩷🩷
@trynsurviven2440
@trynsurviven2440 3 ай бұрын
The 22nd of September will start the fall season here in the States. Hopefully we are done with the 100+F days here in Oklahoma. I’m not sure what that would be in Celsius but it’s hot either way. Great seeing you again and I hope the storms blow over without any more damage.
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
Yep that is truly hot, around 37c. Can be that quite consistently in Queensland but here in Victoria not so much. The weather has been pretty good but who knows what is around the corner. I won’t be taking the ropes off, though if l drive the van, guess l will have to. 😊 Might need to take the annex down and find a better solution l think. 🩷🩷
@ruthwinnifred329
@ruthwinnifred329 3 ай бұрын
Hi Gaye! Sorry for your storm mess Nice ocean shots~
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
Hi Ruth, still here didn’t get blown away 😆 The beaches were beautiful but so was the weather. It was beautiful here when I left too but at least the garden had a good watering. 🙏🩷🩷
@trynsurviven2440
@trynsurviven2440 3 ай бұрын
Please don’t let his negativity have ill effect on your kind heart. Seems to me you were just wanting to help but as I’ve learned many times in my life some people just can’t be helped. I look forward to seeing you in the next video and please take care of yourself.
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
Hello my friend, it was very upsetting to me but I’m so glad that I do have wonderful friends in my life even if l did think of him as one. I am a little more cautious now but that’s just how l feel l have to be. Thanks for your kindness and support 🙏🩷🩷
@betha3558
@betha3558 3 ай бұрын
That's sad! Better to find out who your real friends are. Try to shake it off. And continue living ur life. Hope u enjoy your trip. ❤🎉
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
It was very sad but I will always remember the importance of being kind to people. Look forward to sharing the trip with you 🩷🩷
@jillconyers2710
@jillconyers2710 3 ай бұрын
Safe trip to you both ,have fun, And glad you found out what peoples true nature's are before you got there.❤
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
Me too Jill and looking forward to sharing the trip with you 🩷🩷🩷
@elvafae9902
@elvafae9902 3 ай бұрын
Yes indeed be kind to others…sometimes it’s best to walk away from people like this that sees no value in you and/or reject you after you’ve helped them out…we’re not friends? Wow 😔 I had a similar incident here with a neighbor I helped out…just moved into our rv park…he was like a fish out of water so we helped him set up and connect up for internet…he came to visit and complain about one of our other neighbors and called him a bible thumper…and I said well Ken I guess you could call me a bible thumper too as I touched my bible beside my chair…I don’t think badly of him that he isn’t but he apparently thinks bad of me because he stopped visiting…it’s too bad…we’re friendly with many people here in our park and if he wants to hate me for my beliefs that’s on him…I will continue to be cordial and a good neighbor to him but cautiously because these people can hurt you so bad…you bend over for them only to find out they have no appreciation or respect 🤨 So we move onward ☺️….forgive and forget…
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
That is our belief, to be kind to others and it can be difficult when the courtesy isn’t given to us. I read my bible too and would be very proud to say this to anyone, it is our faith in it that l feel guides us through our lives no matter how difficult it might be at times. Being kind to others is so much easier than being rude and mean to people and l know, you know that. Yes better to just walk away and remember not all people are like that. Staying true to ourselves and our values and beliefs is what we do, you can always make a difference for others by acts of kindness even if unappreciated. 🩷🩷🩷
@ruthwinnifred329
@ruthwinnifred329 3 ай бұрын
Hi I think you dodged a bullet Gaye. Ill people project their sht on others
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
I believe that is what I did. Hello Ruth hope you’re doing well. 🩷🩷🙏
@joanponton3316
@joanponton3316 3 ай бұрын
Keep your kind spirit nurtured. You don't need to explain yourself to anyone. It's his loss for sure. The Universe sees your kindness. ❤❤❤🎉 have a great trip!
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
Thank you Joan and can’t wait to share it with you. 🙏🩷🩷
@sonysgirl6301
@sonysgirl6301 3 ай бұрын
I believe when you have been hurt so much that seclude your from the world and stay in the safety of your home❤❤
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
I think that is true, it’s definitely where l feel the most comfortable and safe. I just at times need to be by myself as l can relax 🧘 🩷🩷🩷
@sonysgirl6301
@sonysgirl6301 3 ай бұрын
How many times a month do you bathe him?? My mom has a Shih Tzu, and I he seems to need it a lot👋😊
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
Roughly once but totally depends on how muddy it is outside. It’s important not to constantly wash them as it will dry them out, they have natural oils they need to prevent drying out their skin. 😊🩷🩷
@sonysgirl6301
@sonysgirl6301 3 ай бұрын
I have missed you so much. Been so busy with life and everyone demanding things from me ❤❤
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
Lovely to see you back, hope you’re remembering to look after yourself. 🩷🩷
@betha3558
@betha3558 3 ай бұрын
🎉❤
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
💕❤️❤️
@ruthwinnifred329
@ruthwinnifred329 3 ай бұрын
🏄‍♂
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
🩷🩷
@joanponton3316
@joanponton3316 3 ай бұрын
Handsome Griffin! I gave my 2 a bath and clipping this past Sunday. They are reasonably good during the process, but afterwards, they do the same crazy running around as Griffin. So cute! Enjoy your day ❤🎉
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
Lots of good fun, love the shower we get as well. They have so much energy, l get exhausted watching him do his zoomies. I am glad your 2 behave, makes it’s so much easier for you Joan, big job doing 2 then the clipping. Griff was not good at either but has much improved now. Hope your day was enjoyable too. 🩷🩷🩷
@92Tulips
@92Tulips 3 ай бұрын
You are lucky, our dog will bite us with bathing or towels. We basically just have to pour the soapy water on him with our one arm behind our back. 😊
@AVanADogAndMyself
@AVanADogAndMyself 3 ай бұрын
I am lucky, gosh I have that picture in my head, one arm behind my back. 😁 Some sure don’t mind but yes l have had the odd dog not being impressed with the bath time. I remember having to use a muzzle, it worked a treat. 🩷🩷🩷