32, unemployed & overwhelmed ... what now???
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designing a pop-up shop in NYC
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embracing change
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9 ай бұрын
discovering boundaries
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9 ай бұрын
NYC APARTMENT HUNT | BROOKLYN | PT 2
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NYC APARTMENT HUNT | BROOKLYN | PT I
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@cruiserlifeusa
@cruiserlifeusa 2 күн бұрын
I like your humor
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 Күн бұрын
@@cruiserlifeusa thanks!! maybe there’s a career I can pivot into after all lol
@luxuriousvixx
@luxuriousvixx 2 күн бұрын
we can all use a lil dose of delulu now and then 😂
@ashleycadogan
@ashleycadogan 2 күн бұрын
"keke keep a job palmer" LMAOO
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 2 күн бұрын
@@ashleycadogan lmaooooo but seriously, doing a 180 from that consistency is an insane adjustment🥲
@cruiserlifeusa
@cruiserlifeusa 2 күн бұрын
Good video
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 2 күн бұрын
@@cruiserlifeusa thank you!!!
@Plentyaclips
@Plentyaclips 2 күн бұрын
It’s just insane out here
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 2 күн бұрын
@@Plentyaclips smh, got us all stressed out, but we shall prevail!
@dominiquepanton7976
@dominiquepanton7976 5 күн бұрын
took me 9 months and i swear it tested my overall will in general omgggg SO GHETTO
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 2 күн бұрын
@@dominiquepanton7976 very ghetto, 0/10 recommend
@luxuriousvixx
@luxuriousvixx 6 күн бұрын
voice is soooooo soothing 😌
@Ghettoheavenyc
@Ghettoheavenyc 6 күн бұрын
It’s sooo bad ! It’s actually something that needs to be said. The duties list be consisting of 7 different job roles. 🫠
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 6 күн бұрын
@@Ghettoheavenyc girllllllll!!! I really be looking with my jaw dropped, then applying anyways because bills 😭
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 6 күн бұрын
are you also struggling with job hunting? drop your experiences, job search hacks or resume tips in the comments!
@dominiquepanton7976
@dominiquepanton7976 8 күн бұрын
Your storytelling !! truly amazing.
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 8 күн бұрын
@@dominiquepanton7976 🥺🥺 melting my heart
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 8 күн бұрын
💬 let’s keep the convo going in the comments!! what’s one lesson you’ve learned that you wish you’d known sooner?
@luxuriousvixx
@luxuriousvixx 6 күн бұрын
I wish I learned to advocate for my needs & ask for help BEFORE hitting rock bottom
@AnthonyColdwinter
@AnthonyColdwinter 8 күн бұрын
I love this!
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 8 күн бұрын
thanks Ant 💗
@Jessicaakathesoaplady
@Jessicaakathesoaplady Ай бұрын
I needed to hear your testimony ❤I have been going through so many ups and downs during my place of obedience. I’m not going to stop obeying God but sometimes you just need a push
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 14 күн бұрын
I often need several pushes lol but yeah, it's a constant journey but it's also our choice to be on it or not
@Jessicaakathesoaplady
@Jessicaakathesoaplady Ай бұрын
Omg you did a great job
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 14 күн бұрын
thank you so much!!!
@Jessicaakathesoaplady
@Jessicaakathesoaplady 9 күн бұрын
@@ashuncharted4943 you are more than welcome
@Jessicaakathesoaplady
@Jessicaakathesoaplady Ай бұрын
I was in ikea for my store for 3.5 hours and spent a lot of money I cried
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 14 күн бұрын
ikea is either the best or the worst 😭
@Jessicaakathesoaplady
@Jessicaakathesoaplady Ай бұрын
I can wait until I can afford a designer for my store doing it myself this last month has been rough
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 9 күн бұрын
omg doing anything alone is soooooo much harder -- but you got this girl!! sometimes its also more affordable to consult with a designer than to actually have them design anything!
@Ghettoheavenyc
@Ghettoheavenyc Ай бұрын
This is soo good ! 💓
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 14 күн бұрын
awww thank youuuu💗
@dominiquepanton7976
@dominiquepanton7976 Ай бұрын
You drop JEMS
@dominiquepanton7976
@dominiquepanton7976 Ай бұрын
YUPPPP
@ashleycadogan
@ashleycadogan Ай бұрын
This was so fun to watch and the pop up looked amazing!
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 Ай бұрын
can't wait to post more about our collab!!
@kiesha.nicole
@kiesha.nicole Ай бұрын
I love how it turned out!! 🫶🏾
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 Ай бұрын
awww, thank you girlie💗
@dominiquepanton7976
@dominiquepanton7976 Ай бұрын
Lmaooo “ don’t , don’t … Don’t “ but babesssss you ate this !!!
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 Ай бұрын
lol I can't be encouraging everyone to follow my dare devil a** ways 😅
@Tobedisscused
@Tobedisscused 4 ай бұрын
I have so much love for you and your incredible content. You help me feel connected and remind me that there are others out there who share similar experiences. Your authenticity and true-to-yourself approach mean the world to me. Thank you for everything you do!
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 4 ай бұрын
wow, thank you so much, that really means a lot to me! you're definitely not alone in how you feel or the experiences you're going through -- glad to be building a community where that rings true, helping us feel a little less lonely one chat at a time 🫶
@hoodnt37
@hoodnt37 5 ай бұрын
Girl thank you!! Thank you for this video. I felt like a healed version of me talking to me cause of the way you were framing things. Thank you for learning about this. You might have done it for yourself but look you are helping others.
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 5 ай бұрын
@@hoodnt37 awwwww THANK YOU!! Honestly I was talking to myself as much as I was talking to you all, so it really means a lot to know how much it resonates. The more I grow, the more I’ll share🫶🏼
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 5 ай бұрын
@@hoodnt37 awwwww THANK YOU!! Honestly I was talking to myself as much as I was talking to you all, so it really means a lot to know how much it resonates. The more I grow, the more I’ll share🫶🏼
@kiesha.nicole
@kiesha.nicole 5 ай бұрын
Whewww yes focusing on the journey and not being result driven is tough sometimes. Definitely something I’m working on
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 5 ай бұрын
definitely easier said than applied, it's kind of like a muscle you have to workout daily
@AnthonyColdwinter
@AnthonyColdwinter 5 ай бұрын
Love the content!
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 5 ай бұрын
thank youuuuu
@Assemblyofexcellencepodcast
@Assemblyofexcellencepodcast 6 ай бұрын
Tapping in from threads this is my backup account my main is assemblyofexcellencepodcast but blessings to you
@belle2341
@belle2341 6 ай бұрын
I love your videos it’s so refreshing to see you talk and watch your videos have you ever considered to do a podcast like on Spotify it would be so cool xxx
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 5 ай бұрын
@@belle2341 wowwww, thank you so much, this means a lot!! And my goal is to work towards launching an actual podcast so Spotify in 2025!
@keenastew
@keenastew 6 ай бұрын
doing these journal prompts asappp!!! will TRY to be gentle lol
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 6 ай бұрын
lol PLEASE be gentle -- journaling should make you feel good or at least lighter.
@keenastew
@keenastew 6 ай бұрын
definitely struggled with motivation too, but you're sooo right about all of this!
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 6 ай бұрын
you already know the vibes! life is literally all about the choices we choose to make -- if we want different, we gotta choose different.
@keenastew
@keenastew 6 ай бұрын
can we just take a moment to appreciate how beautiful you look!!!!
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 6 ай бұрын
omg plsssss, you are the sweetesttttt
@jerry.cray_II
@jerry.cray_II 6 ай бұрын
Yes <3
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 6 ай бұрын
you get it!
@Iamebiinyah
@Iamebiinyah 6 ай бұрын
My cousin came over and gave me a reading yesterday and told me everything that you’re saying so this is divine timing self kindness, and self perseverance, and self is so important especially in the black community always told to “fix your face”. & “What’s wrong with you” can be a lot of the reason why we handle ourselves the way we do
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 6 ай бұрын
@@Iamebiinyah ooooooo, this gave me chills! Love when timing gets in our face with its divinity✨ definitely takes a lot of unlearning to find what systems work for us vs what we just adopted due to our upbringing, that’s what made me realize self compassion was both a choice and an action.
@luxuriousvixx
@luxuriousvixx 6 ай бұрын
this is something i'm actively working on right now!
@queenrose4963
@queenrose4963 6 ай бұрын
You’re actually ethereal. Just found your channel and it’s everything I need right now! Thank you for creating and sharing these ❤️
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 6 ай бұрын
omg you are the sweetest!!! thank you so much queen, I needed to hear that 💗 thank you for watching!
@lionness_simsima5941
@lionness_simsima5941 7 ай бұрын
Hi there, hope all is well great topic thanks 😊 for sharing
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 6 ай бұрын
@@lionness_simsima5941 thank you & thanks for watching, hope you’re having the best week!
@rubypearce9001
@rubypearce9001 7 ай бұрын
This was so so incredible! I had no idea what I was walking into when I clicked on this but DAMN - THANK YOU this hit a spot I didn’t realise I had ☺️❤️
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 6 ай бұрын
@@rubypearce9001 omg wow, that is so powerful!!! & that means so much to me💗 thank you for holding space for and connecting with me☺️
@AddisonRidge
@AddisonRidge 7 ай бұрын
loved this!
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 7 ай бұрын
thank you!!
@BrisaniAshley
@BrisaniAshley 7 ай бұрын
this is such a good video, you deserve more recognition! thank you for the tips <3
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 7 ай бұрын
awww, thank you so much! hoping consistency and quality will help me find my people! I hope the tips help 💗
@kiesha.nicole
@kiesha.nicole 7 ай бұрын
Currently sitting here not motivated to edit or record 😅 but consistency is the key and base of it all! I tell myself I deserve to reach my goals which helps. So basically an act of self love like you said!
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 7 ай бұрын
Honestly I be the same sometimes, not “in the mood” to edit (although usually love to record lol) but if I don’t edit, who will?????? And then the guilt and anxiety that comes with not doing what I know I should be doing is never worth it. But we got this, gotta STAY ON OUR ZOOM👏🏼
@luxuriousvixx
@luxuriousvixx 7 ай бұрын
I'm ready to get to it!!!! & omg the breathing exercise at the end? more please!!
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 7 ай бұрын
Yes girl! You got this👏🏼👏🏼
@jamielianne
@jamielianne 7 ай бұрын
Sometimes I wake up and feel like shit…. Sometimes I wake up an feel like I am the shit ❤😂
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 7 ай бұрын
😅 it really be like that! in the words of my good sis Meg the Stallion, "if you wake up not feeling like that b**ch, go back to sleep and try again" -- I felt that 😂😂
@cooliosfoolio
@cooliosfoolio 7 ай бұрын
I just stumbled across you this morning and can I say I love your energy/vibes in your videos, I feel so understood and your advice is truly helpful. Thank you and thank you for being you ❤❤ already subscribed after watching one video! Lol keep on doing what you doing 😌💞
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, this means the world to me and I absolutely needed these kind words to land on me today 💗🥺 I’m so glad you find what I share both relatable and helpful and thank you again so much for your kind, warm energy. It really radiates through this message!
@cooliosfoolio
@cooliosfoolio 7 ай бұрын
@ashuncharted4943 aww of course! Thank you again, and I hope you have a beautiful day today! 💓😊😁
@self-carewithlia978
@self-carewithlia978 7 ай бұрын
Great video! Working on these same challenges 🌻
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 7 ай бұрын
thank you!! sending you some extra love and support as you work through them 💗💗
@okayyrach
@okayyrach 7 ай бұрын
I love this!
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 7 ай бұрын
🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼 thank you, that means so much!!
@caitlinthomas8127
@caitlinthomas8127 7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. I this was super helpful especially the breathing at the end 🩷
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 7 ай бұрын
awwww, I love that, the more I learn about how breath helps us, the more I will continue to share 💗
@JuicyCarolime
@JuicyCarolime 7 ай бұрын
I really needed this one today
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 7 ай бұрын
yay!!! so glad this video found you🫶🏼
@JuicyCarolime
@JuicyCarolime 7 ай бұрын
@@ashuncharted4943 thank you very much!!
@JuliaPiron
@JuliaPiron 7 ай бұрын
❤ thank you!
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 7 ай бұрын
🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼 so glad it resonated
@navojitroy2051
@navojitroy2051 7 ай бұрын
I realize my biggest reason for dissociation is the shame I feel in those moments. Shame that I internalized into my self-worth that still affects how I view the world (distrust, overanalyzing, needing control to avoid shame). Finally at the stage where I'm starting to release the shame and just learn to feel what I feel
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 7 ай бұрын
Shame is such a hard thing to let go of and free ourselves from. I definitely struggled with how I dealt with shame and am so glad to have overcome that hurdle. Nothing is ever perfect and I can’t say I’ll never feel shame again, but never will I sulk in it or allow it to control me any further!
@munnaabdelhady2325
@munnaabdelhady2325 7 ай бұрын
You are beautiful! I love this video came into my life when I needed it.
@ashuncharted4943
@ashuncharted4943 7 ай бұрын
I’m glad to hear that, I love how life always provides us with what we need when we need it the most! Also thank youuuu☺️☺️