Female choice is a brutal pill to swallow if you are sub5. Since women only go for the highest tier of man they can acquire, this would exclude a certain percentage of the male population at the bottom of this hierarchy from mating, or even developing intimate relationships with women. You have to live with the brutal fact that you are simply not deserving of passing on your genes and receiving love from the opposite sex, solely on the basis of your genetics. Imagine being born on this earth and being predisposed to never get a taste of certain fundamental human experiences. At that point, are you even human? Such a cruel fate. By the way BPA, do you think this fate could be avoided in the future through eugenics? Or for all eternity will there be some people who are destined to suffer purely due to their standing in the genetic hierarchy?
@blackpillacademy4 күн бұрын
That is a great summary of the male predicament in general, and the particularly cruel fate for sub5 men. Eugenics could certainly alleviate suffering caused by deleterious alleles, but even if all genetic flaws were eliminated, female hypergamy would still create deselected men (eg, the target of selection may simply shift from indicators of good genes to traits that appeal to female sensory biases). Perhaps a combination of eugenics and arranged marriage could work, although the latter is even more unacceptable than the former in Western cultures.
@MaoZedongWasRightAllAlong-i9f12 күн бұрын
*Capitalism doing its dirty work once again...*
@samham761416 күн бұрын
so so spot on- in vs out group specialization has become more widely discussed in many online circles lately for this reason. thank you for this brilliant content!
@blackpillacademy16 күн бұрын
Yeah, it does seem to be the evolutionary essence of right vs left. Thank you so much for saying that about my content - I appreciate the support!
@OblivionBones20 күн бұрын
You need to watch blackpillvillain. He is on the rise recently. Even dbdr and savvy guy co signed him
@OblivionBones20 күн бұрын
Do you watch blackpillvillain?
@blackpillacademy20 күн бұрын
I haven’t but I will check out his content. Thanks for the recommendation.
@bustdownbandito134220 күн бұрын
This video is biased
@YX991ueie20 күн бұрын
Thoughts on Afghanistan ?
@blackpillacademy20 күн бұрын
I think it provides a good illustration of how traditional values can be reasserted in the face of cultural homogenization. Of course, effective resistance to political universalism presupposes a high degree of asabiyah and ethnocentrism.
@YX991ueie20 күн бұрын
@blackpillacademy Lowkey thinking of living there while collecting rent from flats in west
@RobertHouse-m9h21 күн бұрын
I had been waiting for one of your videos to drop. Nothing quite addresses the complexities of modern societal dynamics with the precision, or the genuine insight that you bring. In the near future, these deep-seated biases in human attraction and mate selection are likely to amplify social divides rather than diminish them. As technology integrates more intimately with daily life, our preferences and prejudices will find themselves reflected and reinforced in new, unanticipated ways. Algorithms used in dating apps and social platforms, designed to optimize "compatibility," will increasingly cater to subconscious desires rather than conscious values. Such tools will refine our preferences, narrowing our choices to those who meet inherited criteria of attraction, and in doing so, they may further entrench social hierarchies based on antiquated standards. I am also now completely convinced that shunned men are mostly not at fault. Historically, female choice has driven mate selection, a form of gatekeeping ingrained deeply into societal structures and often celebrated as empowerment. Men, however, are met with ridicule and labels, "incels," “entitled”, if they vocalize their own dissatisfaction with these dynamics or are seen as struggling within them. For men, to express discontent over attraction-based rejection is to challenge a system that implicitly tolerates female selectiveness while penalizing male desire with shame. This asymmetry leaves the status quo undisturbed and men silent in their exclusion. As society clings to the façade of fairness, it becomes increasingly evident that such ideals are but a thin veneer over the chaotic forces that govern human nature. Discontent will simmer among those marginalized by instinctual preferences, but rather than sparking meaningful change, this unrest may spiral into more despair. Cultural backlash will not dismantle the superficial beauty standards that bind us; instead, it will reinforce the underlying biases that have existed since time immemorial. The conflict between our technological advancements and primal instincts reveals the futility of seeking equality in a world where desire reigns supreme. Ultimately, humanity's struggle is not a quest for understanding but a relentless dance with its own inherent contradictions, leaving us to grapple with the absurdity of existence, where meaning is elusive and our instincts dictate the terms of our engagement. What do you think?
@sulimanthemagnificent489321 күн бұрын
“ Ultimately, humanity's struggle is not a quest for understanding but a relentless dance with its own inherent contradictions” Hence the goal of every religion, instead of fixating “inwards” we fixated *inwards* That is, we focus on that which makes us *human* our ability reason and resist (or reject) desire. Every religion, from Buddhism, Islam, Christianity, Judaism, Roman and Greek Paganism, Confucianism and Taoism, all of them fundamentally strive for the same things, enabling the right and good and forbidding the wrong and unjust. That’s my opinion anyway.
@blackpillacademy20 күн бұрын
@RobertHouse-m9h Thank you for the kind words about my content. Your own assessment of future trends is incisive and beautifully written. I share your view that new technologies will accelerate the dissolution of existing social structures, and, in the process, exacerbate the various crises afflicting the West. Within an atomized milieu, Balkanization along ethno-religious lines seems less far-fetched than it once did, as people revert back to more traditional forms of identity. For those who embrace modernity, I think the gender war will become a pivotal fault line, as both sexes seek to outsource the functions historically provided by the other. Indeed, the government already acts as a substitute husband for women, and new technologies could potentially fill the void for lonely men. The irony is that, owing to the mismatch between modern society and our ancestral environment, the primitive instincts that once guaranteed our survival are now an existential threat for the species at large. Even if we avoid a devastating inter-civilizational conflict, the immediate gratification provided by supernormal stimuli is inimical to community building and child-rearing.
@unknowninfinium435321 күн бұрын
Where you been madaFaakaaa? Good to hear from you man. All good?
@blackpillacademy21 күн бұрын
Thanks brother! I’ve been busy with work recently so I haven’t been able to post as much. I hope you are doing well my friend.
@AbdallaSharafHaji21 күн бұрын
Good explanation... if a woman is talkative and socialising, what type of men would she put on her list? The nerd who is introverted or the aggressive guy........
@blackpillacademy21 күн бұрын
Thank you! Women high in the trait extroversion might be attracted to quiet guys, whereas women high in the trait agreeableness are often attracted to aggressive, antisocial types.
@israeledeaghe172221 күн бұрын
You should know that I do not get notifications about your vids. Terrible censorship
@blackpillacademy21 күн бұрын
Thanks for letting me know - I appreciate the support.
@antunatomasan21 күн бұрын
You know it’s over when your fertilization occurs with a Y-chromosome-bearing sperm cell. For males, it never truly began (unless you're Chad)
@blackpillacademy21 күн бұрын
LOL
@nocturnaljoe954321 күн бұрын
I love your idea about how women counter genetic weaknesses by mating with males who even them out. Small w seek way taller men. Fat and ugly w have way higher standards. Extroverted women seek introverted chad.
@antunatomasan21 күн бұрын
Imagine if women faced the same intense pressures of sexual selection; within a few generations, human capabilities might advance significantly. Unlike men, women often pass on their traits without the same level of selective pressure
@blackpillacademy21 күн бұрын
Thanks brother! I think a lot of shy, introverted men fantasize about meeting a partner who is the same; but, in reality, those women want the exact opposite!
@Brightyssta19 күн бұрын
This is a pretty reductionist "logic" applied to the subject. It is much more complex than that. There are just factors that signal genetic fitness and they reign absolute; variations are expected, but the rule is even more. A potential mate whos both, physically and neurologically fit is always prefereable. The ugly and fat w who has too high standards case is much more on psychological phenomenon than mating strategy; such phenomenon is widely recognized as a byproduct of artificially driven mating.
@nocturnaljoe954319 күн бұрын
@@Brightyssta A challenger seeks a debate about the commonality of this particular behaviour and if it is culturally induced. Good points were made. The subject is more complicated. Genetically having too high standards is counterproductive, while the western culture(s) promote such behaviour and the digital socialization increases the extend of it even further. But wasn't the drive to act in this manner always there? The amplifiers are undeniably huge factors. But did the individual's drive to have kids who lack it's weaknesses change in any form?
@thenorwoodreaper87721 күн бұрын
Can you make a video about Fisherian runaway and how it creates inkwells?
@blackpillacademy21 күн бұрын
That is a good suggestion. I will definitely cover Geoffrey Miller’s theory of the ornamental mind, which I think sheds light on the looks versus personality debate. In short, women select for both physical and mental fitness indicators that are proxies for genetic quality. But in order to function as a reliable fitness indicator, these traits have to be costly, which means only a small minority of men can effectively display them.
@nocturnaljoe954321 күн бұрын
@@blackpillacademy If you will make this clip happen, then you may also make one about the psychological phenomena that prevent people from acknoledging these facts. Hence if you explain that the female collective of any other mammal than humans has no interest in procreating with the overwhelming majority of males by default, it will lead to extinction. But as soon you extend this conclusion to humans, people's approval will crumble in real time. Coping must be inherited but also culturally inducted.
@blackpillacademy21 күн бұрын
@@nocturnaljoe9543 Well said - that is an important caveat.
@existentialdread67222 күн бұрын
Another BP classic from one of the OGs
@blackpillacademy22 күн бұрын
Haha, thanks bro!
@josephcieplak892022 күн бұрын
I think that most unappealing and highly genetically defective men are more likely to engage in love, since they'been blinded by feelings that the person who they might be in love with is not willing to feel the same for these men. due to obvious reasons. love isn't about being a "good person" because there's no any exact way to determine who's really "good" and who isn't, it's rather about being genetically suitable for the other person.
@blackpillacademy22 күн бұрын
That is a great point. It reminds me of the adage that "men love idealistically, women love opportunistically."
@ArthurCopenhauer22 күн бұрын
"We should not be surprised by marriages between people who would never have been friends: Love casts itself on people who, apart from sex, would be hateful, contemptible, and even abhorrent to us. But the will of the species is so much more powerful than that of individuals, that lovers overlook everything, misjudge everything, and bind themselves forever to an object of misery."
@blackpillacademy22 күн бұрын
Perfect quote! Schopenhauer had an intuitive grasp of sexual selection and parental investment theory long before it was formalized by evolutionary biologists.
@philosopherking76622 күн бұрын
Your videos always provide a comprehensive overview of topics relevant to the bp.
@blackpillacademy22 күн бұрын
Ah thank you - that is a great compliment.
@Omnihilo22 күн бұрын
First
@blackpillacademy22 күн бұрын
🙏
@NarcPiller-TheDarkTriadMaxxerАй бұрын
Is this 'notes from inceldom' Re-Uploaded?
@blackpillacademyАй бұрын
My old channel got suspended by YT and I didn’t have the original videos saved, but I did redo some of the popular ones on this channel.
@NarcPiller-TheDarkTriadMaxxerАй бұрын
@blackpillacademy I used to watch your videos back in 2021 I think it was
@blackpillacademyАй бұрын
@@NarcPiller-TheDarkTriadMaxxer Ah, I am pleased to hear that bro!
@DenshaOtoko2Ай бұрын
What peer relationship? I'm getting kicked out all the time.
@blackpillacademyАй бұрын
I am sorry to hear that bro.
@DenshaOtoko2Ай бұрын
I had only 3 girlfriends between 15-25.
@blackpillacademyАй бұрын
From the standpoint of developmental psychology, three is better than none!
@DenshaOtoko2Ай бұрын
Marriage and kids are impossible and nobody wants me around.
@blackpillacademyАй бұрын
It is becoming increasingly difficult to achieve the milestones that previous generations took for granted.
@kamome7098Ай бұрын
4B movement
@joegambitt7414Ай бұрын
With the erosion of social trust and relationships, the failure of democracy and the late stage of capitalism we are each time getting more dangerously closer to tribalism and thus, asisting to the fall of the west as a geopolitical region, sad spectacle indeed, I want to know your opinion about Oswald Spengler please, take care brother
@blackpillacademyАй бұрын
That is an excellent summary of the current crisis in the West. I think Spengler’s cyclical view of history provides a good framework for contextualising the rise and fall of civilizations (including our own). Even if one doesn’t literally believe that cultures are organisms, the analogy with plants and seasons is instructive. Likewise, the adjective Faustian perfectly captures the essence of Western culture with its universalist pretensions and theology of progress. In the words of Spengler: optimism is cowardice. Nonetheless, I hope you are doing well brother.
@aalassadi3844Ай бұрын
Brilliant
@blackpillacademyАй бұрын
Thank you!
@xyzmedia5161Ай бұрын
Based
@blackpillacademyАй бұрын
Thanks brother!
@flipyapd2321Ай бұрын
We will never be able to get back our youth I had a few opportunities for teen love but it didn’t pan out it’s a hard pill to swallow
@blackpillacademyАй бұрын
Yeah, coming to terms with lost youth and missed opportunities is difficult.
@ispgravy4233Ай бұрын
Have you seen èǔróp a the last battle?
@blackpillacademyАй бұрын
I haven't but I will check it out. Thanks again for another pertinent recommendation.
@ManlyTearАй бұрын
Another banger - the class war is something I wish I'd see brought up more & more, since I feel this affects way more than just americans. Like I'm from eastern EU, and while the racial issues aren't much of a thing here as in the US or UK, class war is universal.
@blackpillacademyАй бұрын
Thanks brother! That is a great way to frame the conflict - it is universal. Extreme political polarization is really just the outward manifestation of a deep class divide.
@MakeWamenGreatAgainАй бұрын
6:58 Crooked Hillary
@blackpillacademyАй бұрын
LOL
@optimisticnihilist876Ай бұрын
I can't tell if you're on the right or left.
@blackpillacademyАй бұрын
By temperament, I’m kind of a liberal, but philosophically, I’m closer to the dissident right. I used to be a libertarian, although I no longer think big government per se is the problem; but rather, the fact that the managerial state has been weaponized against its citizens.
@virtu3061Ай бұрын
Do you think the culture war is real BPA?
@blackpillacademyАй бұрын
Whilst a lot of it surely is political theatre, I do think the underlying impulses are real. From an evolutionary perspective, social affiliation is our basic survival strategy. But within any group, there is a tension between individualists (who want the freedom to collaborate with outsiders) and collectivists (who are more ethnocentric). That, in essence, is the antagonism between left and right.
@tjwithanak7517Ай бұрын
I can’t understand how the left can casually listen to the appeals of liberal elects, celebrities and wealth managers decry “the rich”. It’s like they can’t see that these same ppl are the very gated community sheltered tax evaders and plunderers that they whine about.
@blackpillacademyАй бұрын
Yeah, in their eyes, virtue signalling about social justice absolves them of any moral culpability.
@Yggdrasill348Ай бұрын
Really interesting video. Can you make one about the situation in Europe?
@blackpillacademyАй бұрын
Oh thank you; I will do a video on the various crises afflicting the West, although I think the political trends are broadly similar in Europe and America (polarization, Balkanization, anarcho-tyranny, etc).
@friito8308Ай бұрын
👺
@blackpillacademyАй бұрын
LOL
@friito8308Ай бұрын
@@blackpillacademy a bit out of context, but dude, the amount of times I have listened to that memento mori video you made is crazy. It helps me keep me grounded and to appreciate what I have, for one day I would die to be in the same spot i am now. much love brotha
@blackpillacademyАй бұрын
@@friito8308 Ah thanks bro - I am very pleased to hear that. You have a great perspective on life.
@deheimer2 ай бұрын
love the content but it sounds like an AI generated voice, although i saw you claim it's your own. maybe change the pacing a little bit more and have some emotion in your voice. cause i feel like I'm listening to one of those AI channels. just a constructive criticism. all the best.
@blackpillacademy2 ай бұрын
Thank you - I appreciate the feedback.
@Man-Of-Sorrows-205613 күн бұрын
Nah. Voice is loud and clear. Spot on for me.
@KeithSprowl2 ай бұрын
You lost me during the evolution bullshit
@ManlyTear2 ай бұрын
A main issue I have is regarding the "NEED" part, cause the answer is always yes, and while u'd think that would make one happy cause feeling needed is nice sure, it's always as a tool to help solve their issues, or cause their time is deemed too important to solve that but them knowing I got gaming as a hobbie, my free time is deemed less valuable than their free time. Obv, I took steps to distance myself from some of these ppl but the real tragedy is the realization that came after: that even some of the supposedly closest ppl in your life - your family & relatives - can be similar. Like, at some point you can't keep cutting ppl off , yet they're like this too... talk about being caught between a rock & a hard place. The only answer I could come up with so far was deception: always make myself seem busier than I actually am. I don't like having to be dishonest with supposedly close ppl, but if your existence to them is also treating you like a tool , then this is the lesser evil. Altho' it does keep things into a status quo , just more tolerable , mode - and I'm still left thinking of a better solution. But ya, pretty depressing to think about.
@blackpillacademy2 ай бұрын
That is a brutal realization. In order to satisfy the most basic need for a social creature - the need to belong - we have to sacrifice everything else that brings us joy. Alas, when it comes to maintaining boundaries, I can’t think of any other solution to protect one’s free time.
@joegambitt74142 ай бұрын
Its indeed truly a tragic feeling the one of being a man with so much feeling and things in your heart and your mind, and just not being capable of finding the right precise words and people to vent and say everything you have inside, its gets to a point that this exausting talking with people (specially women) looking for the right words to say out of fear of being judge by some comment you made. When talking with women this nessecity becomes even more urgent since you never know if what you are saying now might be used against you in the future or no, its painful and stressful. Great video man, long time since the last time we talked and hope you are doing well, have a good day bro
@blackpillacademy2 ай бұрын
Thanks man - you have perfectly described the Kafkaesque milieu that we inhabit today. But at least we can vent and connect with like-minded individuals online. Speaking of which, I always look forward to hearing from you my friend. I hope you are doing okay as well.
@awanderer99662 ай бұрын
bro you sound like a retard 🤣 just like me
@RobertHouse-m9h2 ай бұрын
Outstanding content, as always. However, it would be highly advisable to provide references for the statistics mentioned throughout your videos.
@blackpillacademy2 ай бұрын
Thank you - I appreciate the compliment and the useful advice.
@Xsheaffer2 ай бұрын
Lots of whining in these comments. Ffs go build something, learn how to ride a motorcycle, take some chances, and go pound some gap. Women like men, act like one.
@nickem655626 күн бұрын
is richardramirezmaxxing also acts like one? Women LOVED him
@dave-oh35492 ай бұрын
Great information. Not a big fan of Blackpill AI voice channels, but the content is so good that I have to subscribe!
@blackpillacademy2 ай бұрын
Ah thank you - that is much appreciated. Incidentally, it’s not AI-generated (that’s just my monotone voice lol).
@dave-oh35492 ай бұрын
@@blackpillacademy Oh my bad. Lifespan and healthspan are topics I find really interesting and have read a lot of. I have read Peter Attia's, Morgan Levine's, and David Sinclair's books on ageing and lifespan respectively, and you have provided an excellent summary of their findings. You obviously take due care in researching your topics and are very thorough. As a philosophy major, I really like the way you present your topics and arguments. Blackpill content that's much more palatable and not all doom and gloom (I am a blackpiller myself). Respect! I'll be recommending your channel to others.
@blackpillacademy2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for saying that about the channel. I am glad to hear that the content resonates with a philosophically-minded individual like yourself. Indeed, I share your sentiment that blackpill content should elucidate the harsh realities of modernity, whilst also providing a roadmap for navigating within this nihilistic milieu.
@Endymion7662 ай бұрын
So the trick to living a long time is to give up everything fun and tasty. Well, if I had a family I'd do that without question. But being on my own, rejected by the entire female half of our species, I think I have earned the divine right to fun myself to death.
@blackpillacademy2 ай бұрын
Haha, that reminds me of the Hunter S. Thompson quote: "Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming Wow! What a Ride!"
@Fupcel2 ай бұрын
Yep. We're pretty much screwed. The only thing us in this community can do is working out and to some extent clean eating, but none of the other things - sex, social "fitness" etc.
@blackpillacademy2 ай бұрын
Yeah, and without the emotional regulation that comes from social support, the harder it is to stay disciplined and resist supernormal stimuli like junk food, pron, etc.
@Fupcel2 ай бұрын
@@blackpillacademy Exactly...
@l.vucko9962 ай бұрын
I work as a physiotherapist. One of my patients once said: Everyone wants to get old, but no one actually wants to be old.
@blackpillacademy2 ай бұрын
Haha, that is a good line!
@JohnWin-sz3sy2 ай бұрын
Do you watch goatis.also make a video on genetic determinism.
@blackpillacademy2 ай бұрын
I haven’t, but I will check out his content.
@HauntinglyScintillatingVideos2 ай бұрын
Health is a luxury of genetics predisposed to what begets it and being promoted by the tribe. The greatest folly of those who discuss this topic is the reality of why health exists, and not simply proclaiming how it's obtained. The same can be said about nearly everything people put others down for. Of course, doing so would be an act of forfeiting their own success, and therefore, a deeply maladaptive and unhealthy thing on their part. It's only through a form of rigid group selection one may be cared about or care for another while actively seeing a gain and not a loss. While typing the above, I was reminded of something someone I was having a conversation with today said. She, a graduate economist, remarked, and I say this from memory, that only those with hundreds of millions of dollars will likely see any real prospects going forward, and that this is generally understood across various disciplines. The need for that rigid group selection at a local level is more important now than ever, but we're also at a peak of being unable to have any meager semblance of it.
@blackpillacademy2 ай бұрын
Your focus on the preconditions for health sheds light on the various modern crises: a lack of purifying selection and runaway individualism have combined in a pincer movement to erode biological fitness.
@FromTheWombTotheGrave2 ай бұрын
The agepill is the final cope till the rope U missed out on the best years of ur life Cuz of your looks.
@blackpillacademy2 ай бұрын
It’s over for oldcels
@Man-Of-Sorrows-205613 күн бұрын
I had people interested, but was too much of a mental-cel. Incapacitated by psychological problems, caused by bullying and helicopter/controlling overprotective parents. Had the carrot dangling but couldn't reach it. Man, the frustration this caused.