For me, I would that the first 4, plus group interactions (especially spontaneous ones) resonate with me.
@MetAxa36926 күн бұрын
I absolutely loathe when people will call me anytime day or night The people KNOW that I work open to close up to all 7 days of the week I hate being woke up in the morning I hate being woken up in the middle of the night I hate calls when I have finally gotten to bed after having to deal with people in my face all day I’m in sales My boss calls my phone the devil and evil even though I hate talking on the damn thing I get in trouble when people ignore what I have said about getting in BIG trouble when people call me at work My boss is addicted to his phone and is always talking and texting. Doing socialist media etc and puts his phone habits on me. HES Always on his phone. Not me. But I do catch hell for getting calls Let’s see The only “free time” I have is my 6 hours to sleep. My shower time. People have insisted on talking to me when I’m trying to take a shower or sit on the toilet I have a full scale bird rescue that I don’t get much help with. And my drive to and from work That’s my whole life I get anxiety when people call me and they don’t say anything On top of having to be in customer service I am supposed to carry both sides of phone conversation and be entertaining for these people who call me Oh I hate it!!
@misteronsepatro70182 ай бұрын
I hate phonecalls when the person does it without asking me if I'm available and it's even more rage inducing if the person calls me for something that could be dealt with in a few seconds with quick chat messages or emails or something they could've dealt with themselves (looking at you that one retarded user in my company who called me often for shit he could fucking read in the motherfucking user manual of the software and I looked at his hiring date he had 3 more years of experience than me it was making my blood boil) Another phonecall that make me want to punch the other person so hard their face won't be recognizable is when I send a text or an email and they call me to answer it (GOD FUCKING DAMN ASK ME IF I'M AVAILABLE BEFORE FUCKING CALLING😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡 ) I got carried away but the only call I tolerate and don't make me wanna go full berserk on someone is ones that are actual emergencies. And I reduced frustration at work regarding phonecalls by telling people to message me with quick chat and when they do I reward them with instant and precise answer I thought rapidly on the other hand when they call without warning me beforehand I will take time to answer or just refuse then call back minutes later on purpose because fuck you I'm not paid to be 24/7 available to everyone.
@vicentecesardasneves14092 ай бұрын
I get insanely nervous when i get or give phone calls. Especially giving a phone call. There is nothing worse than calling someone you don’t know well and having an awkward conversation that will haunt you in your mind for months.
@beth-ny2th6 ай бұрын
Telling people youre an introvert doesnt always work because theyll just say "so am I but I still talk to people." Then youre not really an introvert, are you?
@payalrathore72046 ай бұрын
All points are for me only 😂😂😂
@heatherclark86689 ай бұрын
Because every time I try to say something I am either ignored ridiculed or interrupted
@brianfoster443410 ай бұрын
Replace the word "introvert" with "autistic". That is my experience.
@Coryraisa9 ай бұрын
But not all introverts have autism and not all people with autism are introverts, so those two terms can't be used interchangeably.
@Lightning773052 ай бұрын
Do you realize how insulting that is? How about I class all extroverts as autistic, do you like that?
@brianfoster44342 ай бұрын
@@Lightning77305 I am autistic. So, the meaning of my comment was if you replace the word introvert with autistic the characteristics discussed in this video resemble me and it is because I am autistic.
@Lightning773052 ай бұрын
@@brianfoster4434 Thank you for your reply, I wish you all the best. 🙂🙏
@annabethwivell32710 ай бұрын
Phone calls are even more annoying for me where I live, as it’s compounded by the fact that voicemail doesn’t exist in this country, and I’m usually having to communicate in a language which is not my first language.
@Paolo-pv1nh10 ай бұрын
If you tend to be introverted, can you move along the introversion and extroversion continuum and become tending to be extroverted? ??😅
@sarahjaneross291811 ай бұрын
It's like being TRAPPED and i try to insist on a quick call, but relatives just like to "chat". I absolutely hate the phone with a passion.
@sarahjaneross291811 ай бұрын
I am moving to a small remote island where the coverage is really bad 😂
@coffeehouseartist11 ай бұрын
I learned sending a audio message is a nice medium. I can’t stand getting phone calls. Ironically the only calls l’ll pick up for are calls from people that normally don’t call, because I assume it’s important
@DiBaozi Жыл бұрын
My family says I’m bad with phones when the truth is my phone works just fine, it’s right next to me, and I know you are calling…I just avoid the call on purpose and put it off until I’m ready which used to be the next day. Now it’s a few hours.
@Shenmue069 ай бұрын
I'm the same way. It's always a family member that wants to hangout over the weekend or something. I'm introverted so I usually hate hanging out with people 😂. I'll never understand extroverted people at all. I understand wanting to party or go out on a date but hanging out in general with a bunch of small talk is torture for me.
@KennethDiazperlloni Жыл бұрын
This is why I hate working in IT help desk, but sadly that's the first job you gotta get in order to gain experience in IT.
@danieldaemen Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this
@MaliceMcmunn Жыл бұрын
as a people pleaser how do we tell them when ignoring is not working!!! i actually like this friend but i dont like the phone calls!!!
@eringrober7747 Жыл бұрын
Maybe the reason some people ask that is because they want to give the person a chance to explain instead of assuming that they're rude and stand-offish.
@NoName-zb1gm Жыл бұрын
I'm sort of an introvert and she's very definitely an introvert and we connect like nothing that's ever happened to me. We don't talk much that hasn't opened up yet but when we do talk, I do a lot of the touching most of the time and it comes natural like that's our language of love and she likes it. Now I crave closeness with her. I just want to be near her all the time and feel her energy hidden beneath her introverted exterior. I would not be surprised if she felt the same way. I'm working on it very slowly of course.
@joemasters2270 Жыл бұрын
I'm an introvert w/ heightened anxiety levels. The WORST combo ever.
@burlatsdemontaigne6147 Жыл бұрын
This is great. I just found you on Twitter and it is such a relief to find out that there is nothing really 'wrong' with me. I'm just one of those.
@burntgyoza Жыл бұрын
I feel attacked 😂
@nicolatiozzonetti7373 Жыл бұрын
Very, very well explained 😊 Dating advice for introverts would be awesome! Also where to find other introverts!
@KershelleMike772 Жыл бұрын
Absolute facts! Once an introvert let's you in, you know we like you!
@drutubeGodsChosenVessel Жыл бұрын
Duh I hate phone calls with a passion I wish I never even had a phone sometimes.
@2005WH Жыл бұрын
No one in my family are introverts 😔 they don’t understand
@gracealexandre3381 Жыл бұрын
To me, the phone is a REAL DISTURBANCE!! It is a real WASTE OF TIME!! When applying for any job, as soon as I see answering the phone under responsibilities, I stop right there, and don't apply. Even at home, I stay as far away from the phone as I can!!
@lancelotdufrane Жыл бұрын
We are also very organized, forward thinking, and Analytical. Based on introspection..and intuition.
@enriquesantiagowalsh7719 Жыл бұрын
I can confirm I am an INFJ
@Thethinkerartist Жыл бұрын
Stop saying infj is the rarest personality type. It is not!!!! Ugh
@Nashid77 Жыл бұрын
Which one is?
@Thethinkerartist Жыл бұрын
@@Nashid77 ENTJ
@Nashid77 Жыл бұрын
@@Thethinkerartist 👍
@tomwilliams6744 Жыл бұрын
I'd like to think that an INFJ is the rarest because there's something special about it, but yet it's not the greatest. I've noticed that so many have said that they're INFJ. Three people I know of personally told me they took the MB test and came out INFJ. I have a small circle of friends, family, and acquaintances and three people (not including myself) is a high percentage. Two of them whom I know well don't seem INFJ to me.
@Nashid77 Жыл бұрын
@@tomwilliams6744 "I have a small circle of friends, family, and acquaintances and three people (not including myself) is a high percentage." You may just be drawn to a certain personality type. 100% of my "friends" are creatives. That doesn't translate to the percentage of creatives in the world.
@victorlucas7545 Жыл бұрын
Comment for the algorithm
@yuenloving Жыл бұрын
I'm an INFJ and didn't know this is the rarest personality type! Thank you for the amazing content!
@pelin1366 Жыл бұрын
As an INFJ i can def agree to these and i really enjoyed the video 😊😍👍
@patienceobongo Жыл бұрын
If you see a Red Flag for a psychopath, slam the door. Don't allow these disgusting useless parasites near your life.
@EpicWarDog Жыл бұрын
Great animations. I liked the video. New Sub! Thanks for the video.
@Mylittlebunny2020 Жыл бұрын
❤Omg, I love this video!!
@brothersoldiers2180 Жыл бұрын
Right on
@gracealexandre3381 Жыл бұрын
Why I hate phone calls? They're a big interruption!! Any job application, as soon as I see phone in responsibilities, I throw that application out. Even at home, I stay as far away from the phone as I can!
@Moraenil Жыл бұрын
#4 isn't really ignorant questions. It's personality questions. Being ignorant about a subject is simply not knowing about that subject which makes all questions ignorant questions. This set, in particular, is about personal questions as the introvert IS the subject. We don't like personal questions unless they come from someone we care about and they're asking how were feeling or how our day was.
@Nark212 Жыл бұрын
Seen 🤫
@thembimakhado175 Жыл бұрын
is it just me or this video is giving major anxiety 🥲
@ningnong1343 Жыл бұрын
This is a certain type of introvert that doesn't wear their hearts on their sleeves or face. There is the other type that does. Lol
@idziak4ever Жыл бұрын
I make the message on my phone extremely long and talk slowly so that callers get annoyed and hang up. That way I can miss a call and the message.
@ants5679 Жыл бұрын
The question: Why are you so quiet? The answer: Just so you could ask.
@ykhan2891 Жыл бұрын
Why should we even have to explain, even if it is just with a statement of fact that we're an introvert. The question is rude, on a par, in my opinion, with asking someone "why are you fat?"
@ningnong1343 Жыл бұрын
I have a friend that is this personality type I think. :) Is it possible to also have a vid on INFJ? Thank you 🙏✨
@ningnong1343 Жыл бұрын
Preach! ✨ And an escape plan/route is always needed at any social gathering. Have a way out in case your social battery runs out suddenly and unexpectedly.
@ningnong1343 Жыл бұрын
Why don't they talk LESS? Why do WE have to change? 🤔
@SorayaEsfandiary_ Жыл бұрын
I absolutely hate not having time to think/do some research before answering. There’s no need to talk to others, everything can be solved through email/text.
@stephanienelson7252 Жыл бұрын
Or clairvoyance
@JillWouters Жыл бұрын
People around me know that I like to daydream and create stories in my head. So I'm usually saying things like "oh, I'm daydreaming" or "Oh, I'm thinking about a story" or "oh, I'm trying to create a character." Or sometimes I just say "I'm enjoying the conversation." meaning that I enjoy the others talking and listening in on them.