I have learned that you can't reason with a narcissist. They are delusional and have an unreasonable sense of reality. I was dealing with a bratty immature child stuck in an adult body. Narcissists never learn and will make the same or similar mistakes over and over. Narcissists are co-dependent for other people for supply and financial bailouts. Co-parenting with a narcissist is a nightmare and they will sabotage your efforts for attention/supply. Good luck to all.
@hurricaneaquaticsАй бұрын
Couldn't have said it better. The way they distort reality is actually scary. It's non wonder spouses feel like they're losing their minds. I know, I have experienced it.
@lynnienorris5776Ай бұрын
Will NEVER admit to any Wrongdoing Or ,God Forbid, APOLOGIZE
Ай бұрын
Stay away from narcissist far away.
@dontbelongherefromanotherАй бұрын
Narcs are needy
@katjay3125Ай бұрын
Straight up demons
@jomontaneeАй бұрын
TRUE TO THE CORE.
@privateprivate8366Ай бұрын
It’s often spoken about, that they move onto new supply, when one leaves or is discarded by them. Not as true, as they age, which is why they can decompensate (? - I probably can’t remember the appropriate word). Still, they often have new supply ready. You didn’t even see it coming. This alone shows they knew what they were doing, all along. This also happens in families. I didn’t know about narcissism and wasn’t aware my mother was discarding me. My sister had always been the ner do well, that mom always talked about. But, when my mother decided she couldn’t control me, my sister went from scapegoat to golden child. Even if it was to lure me back, after the final discard, I was discarding both of them, to never return, however.
@howardandersen19Ай бұрын
As mentioned before, I love all of these videos, it is now very empowering to just walk away and not get trapped in the narcissists spider web. 🙏
@alchemicalsoul28 күн бұрын
I was a malignant narcissist. I believe many of us are closer on that end of the spectrum than we are aware. Social media has turned us into voyeurs and dopamine seekers from validation. Yes, O ended up with people more malignant than me, which is what forced me to see myself.
@energy5351Ай бұрын
Great message I was married to a religious female covert narcissist for 3 yrs only live together 1 yr . Discovered the whole family mother and all were narcissists and she raised her daughters to be a narcissist.I literally had to physically put her out my house, she called the police on me (red flag).She was ,extremely DISRESPECTFUL,greedy for money,selfish and entitled. I served her divorce papers and then divorced her 08/2024 I been free from confusion and chaos ever since ,but now I have peace of mind. # she is a wolf in sheep clothing , petty and a master of disguises. The Most High and The Holy Spirit led me all the way out of the marriage,a true divine separation.# 2024. These people are the devil’s children and the wicked shall have no peace. A empty vessel.❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🌎🌎❤️💎💎💎🦅🦅🦅WALK AWAY….
@76_Red_PillsАй бұрын
@@energy5351 at least you got out of there timely. I tolerated disrespect for 13 years like an idiot before I knew any of this existed thought I was going nuts
@daviddurango956226 күн бұрын
@@energy5351 Self righteousness makes narcissists behave like they are on steroids! Churches are full of them.
@gab31282Ай бұрын
A primary supply is like a body part that they need as a regulator to manage their low self esteem and sense of inferiority. They unload their negative self hatred on to the primary supply and suck the energy from their primary supply to feel better and regulate themselves.
@ExposingtheNarcissistАй бұрын
Well said💖
@kky.x28 күн бұрын
“Im trying my best not to steal your goodness away” he told me after i asked him not to hurt me if he could help it
@a.williams9Ай бұрын
Absolutely true, Clarice. They need constant supply both negative and positive to feel worth which explains their manipulative tactics to secure control over their victims. Recognising their game to no longer play and walk away is the ultimate weapon against them. They're not missing you, they're missing THE POWER they had over you. Your content is always spot on and helpful. Thank you 🙏🏻💜🩹
@carolprophy9352Ай бұрын
Narcissist are the pits happy they have come to an end we have clarity and enlightment
@sunlightprismАй бұрын
You do excellent work, Clarice, thanks for the wisdom you share.
@ExposingtheNarcissistАй бұрын
Thank you kindly!
@nicholecornes1915Ай бұрын
I rejected the hell out of him!
@guinansmith838515 күн бұрын
@@nicholecornes1915 yes everytime. And right now!
@audrablue515Ай бұрын
I was my narc ex's best supply he ever had. Nearly 12 years and I kept trying and trying and he kept being a narc. I finally went full no contact in February this year. It took him until April to realise I was serious. I can't even imagine the melt down he must have had LOL. He tried to burn an important relationship that I had but that failed. So I found out last month (September) that he has found a new supply. His actual next door neighbour in the townhouse complex he lives in. She is now his new victim.....er....girlfriend. I haven't met her but a mutual friend said she's "not all there." That will make it easier for him to manipulate her and the golden period for her should last a lot longer.
@NarcissistHex-nf9eqАй бұрын
wow, I need to cover this on my channel, looks like he went after the weak...So sad!
@alexkuieh156525 күн бұрын
The loss of the primary fuel challenges the very structure of the narcissist.
@donnadaniels5095Ай бұрын
Good 😂that's what I did when I walked away🙏🏽⚔️🦁
@bensonmunene3987Ай бұрын
God bless Clarice!
@ExposingtheNarcissistАй бұрын
🙏🙏
@palmamingozzi5736Ай бұрын
Thank you Clarice.
@m.f.richardson1602Ай бұрын
Always interesting Thank you ❤
@ExposingtheNarcissistАй бұрын
You are so welcome. :)
@babzarthur1841Ай бұрын
I got away..I got away..I got away..I got away..I was the primary and I got away..after going thru 8 years of hell..I GOT AWAY 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
@audrablue515Ай бұрын
Welcome to club. We have t-shirts! 😆❤ Your life will improve immeasurably going forward. It really is a wonderful thing when you can finally breathe again.
@katjay3125Ай бұрын
The Great escape!
@NarcissistHex-nf9eqАй бұрын
God is good!
@blaquecinderella3560Ай бұрын
Congratulations. It's not easy
@JOEYDEEZ369Ай бұрын
I get tired of people confusing self centeredness with selfishness… they are not the same thing whatsoever… being selfish is not a bad trait to be /adopt but being self centered is the pits yo.. Self centeredness is often dangerously damaging… whereas selfishness is mostly just annoying… That’s what I think anyhow.. I don’t expect others will agree with me on this but I don’t care either way to be fair !! Thank you Ciao ;)’
@elcee7800Ай бұрын
They are committed to the external, we are committed to ourselves.
@Tlj4722Ай бұрын
ABSOLUTELY
@Patti85528 күн бұрын
My ex npd rejected me a year ago, shortly after my surgery (the results were very bad, cancer was suspected). Our breakup was sudden, violent, dramatic for me. After this time, while in therapy, I found out that I was in a relationship with a grandiose psychopathic narcissist. My ex npd hasn't spoken to me since the breakup so here it is this line from the movie doesn't add up. He didn't try to get me back he never contacted me, I guess there was another person to replace me for a long time. I was his main source of supply
@ExposingtheNarcissist27 күн бұрын
Hi Patti855 thanks for your comment. I am sorry to hear about your diagnosis. Narcs do not deal well with "sick people" and instantly view you as a liability. Also although you were his partner it does not automatically mean that you were his primary source of supply and his discard is a clear sign that you were not. You need to focus on you and just be glad that he exposed himself.
@leonasweny152528 күн бұрын
You shine ,enjoy life and forget this piece of s#####
@janetoliver711916 күн бұрын
When they loose someone they find another All psychologist say they are seeking another when they are in a relationship.
@yvonnepettersson248126 күн бұрын
❤❤❤
@AremAshaАй бұрын
Are psychopaths less affected by supply and loss?
@katjay3125Ай бұрын
Yes
@NarcissistHex-nf9eqАй бұрын
Yes, they feel nothing. I should cover that on my channel..
@AremAshaАй бұрын
@@NarcissistHex-nf9eq please do! 🙏
@NarcissistHex-nf9eqАй бұрын
@@AremAsha Ok, sure! Il start the process!
@ExposingtheNarcissistАй бұрын
Yes they are. Psychopaths are a different kettle of fish though they have narcissistic tendencies. Please see this video kzbin.info/www/bejne/e6ezhH-HhJmdfbc