Don't Blame God for Your Divorce
1:02:25
Finding Hope During Times of Trial
53:43
Unbiblical Reasons for Divorce
58:46
2 жыл бұрын
Why is my Prodigal Spouse so Hostile?
54:58
Answering Your Questions
1:02:58
3 жыл бұрын
Vengeance Belongs to God
57:20
3 жыл бұрын
Experience Growth through Suffering
1:07:26
What is God's Will for my Marriage?
39:43
Signs of Marriage Restoration!
1:00:40
4 жыл бұрын
Defend Your Stand for Marriage
54:29
4 жыл бұрын
Turn the Other Cheek
38:51
5 жыл бұрын
The Divorce Delusion
1:05:04
5 жыл бұрын
Discerning the Truth about Divorce
26:14
Winning the Argument Against Divorce
36:47
How to Handle the Reality of Divorce
48:58
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@helen9984
@helen9984 3 күн бұрын
I🙏🫂💒♾️
@shay1250
@shay1250 22 күн бұрын
Even if i was disobedient and this is my 2nd marriage and both marriages are with unbelievers? My first marriage left and had an affair.
@casseophealejarde-khaizen
@casseophealejarde-khaizen 23 күн бұрын
My husband told me "I don't see a path moving forward," however, the LORD has promised me to stand because HE will restore our marriage and I believe HIM. Thank you for your podcast. May Lord Jesua bless both richly! 🙏
@SamariaNieves-zu1nk
@SamariaNieves-zu1nk Ай бұрын
Hi! I’m standing for my marriage and praying for divine intervention from the Lord. I was a very broken person with a lot of childhood trauma, neglect, abandonment issues and the worst of all anger issues. These issues my husband knew about them but I never reached out for help. These issues have drown my husband away and now want a divorce. He has read a book from David Clarke called enough is enough where he states he has biblical reasons to divorce me. I’m struggling right now because I know God is a God of unity and family. Please join me in prayers as I have now walked into my new creation! I’ve been free from all my traumas and I’m ready to be the wife that my husband needs but he has shut me down. Standing is hard 💔
@monstermaker181
@monstermaker181 2 ай бұрын
Please pray for the restoration of my marriage. 🙏
@peaceandlove8218
@peaceandlove8218 2 ай бұрын
It has been so difficult indeed, despair isn’t even the word. My goodness!!! I’m trying to focus and God, it’s still difficult. I’m seeking to have that transformation. Man do I need it!!!
@AlbertLoya-b4i
@AlbertLoya-b4i 3 ай бұрын
I wonder had the people in these podcasts be making a podcast had their marriage not been restored. The reality is that not every marriage can be restored.
@nunyabb
@nunyabb 4 ай бұрын
32:19 this is exactly how my husband feels right now
@nunyabb
@nunyabb 4 ай бұрын
LOVE U GUYS!
@monstermaker181
@monstermaker181 4 ай бұрын
Please, Jesus, heal my marriage, save my wife's soul, and open her eyes to the knowledge of the truth. 🙏
@ryanr6607
@ryanr6607 4 ай бұрын
I wish you guys would come back and post again. Praying everything is alright with you guys
@misst8508
@misst8508 4 ай бұрын
You talk over her alot..when she's trying to speak..you just start talking & go on & on..not allowing her to complete her thought..
@dwightwiley490
@dwightwiley490 6 ай бұрын
I’m praying and believing God for restoration and reconciliation in all of our marriages ❤❤❤
@samuelroberto7400
@samuelroberto7400 7 ай бұрын
Everything Amy said is exactly what my wife is saying. I was the prodigal turned stander and my wife stander turned prodigal.
@ryanr6607
@ryanr6607 7 ай бұрын
Come back with the podcasts please
@melissaelenagonzalez3085
@melissaelenagonzalez3085 8 ай бұрын
It’s so heartbreaking so see people who have been standing for years and years, I am standing and I have only done it for a few months but it discourages and scares me to even think this could take 5,6,7… years
@robina3443
@robina3443 8 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾 And very thankful your marriage has been restored 🙌🏾💪🏾🙏🏾💖
@dodgergorden9339
@dodgergorden9339 9 ай бұрын
Thank you both, thst was very helpful. Its incredibly courageous of you both to put lives out there like that. The Lord continue bless and use you.
@annagrace1159
@annagrace1159 10 ай бұрын
46:47 Its incredible to me how all these MARRIED people sleeping around and cheating on one another 🙄 contunue to think God is pleased with them 😢 Not everyone is after Gods own heart. REPENTANCE for hypocrisy is the only conversation we standers need to be having to have a chance of getting back into right relationship with God. #lukewarmadulterers
@2atalkandpolitics422
@2atalkandpolitics422 10 ай бұрын
Wife says our relationship is over. Holding off papers for 3 months for we can do one last family trip. So I have a 3 month window not only to work on me but God to work on her. I caused the end with inner child taking control. She says she’s firm on it. She says she’s pray and read the Bible on what the says about divorce but she’s so firm.
@2atalkandpolitics422
@2atalkandpolitics422 10 ай бұрын
My wife says our relationship is over. She wants to file the papers. However, she’s giving me three months because we’re supposed to have one last family trip and then after that we’re gonna talk but she says that she is for her decision. I see that kind of a victory in a small way, because it gives three months for God to intervene I know why she wants to get divorced because I let my inner child take control of our marriage with all its insecurities and everything else because I have childhood abandonment issues, but she says it’s going to take massive permanent change in her mind to be changed to make this work and that she’s firm in her decision
@leanita2010
@leanita2010 10 ай бұрын
Wish he would let her talk more..seems like he cuts her off a lot. Kind of comes across undermining or not trust her voice or perspectives.
@woodstockwitch
@woodstockwitch 10 ай бұрын
There IS physical harm caused by the infedility of pornography use, as a spouse, that is not a correct statement
@Hartbeat1555
@Hartbeat1555 9 ай бұрын
How so?
@Scottish_Rose
@Scottish_Rose 8 ай бұрын
@@Hartbeat1555In my case through betrayal trauma, leading to ptsd symptoms, chronic stress/distress has a knock on affect on the body, heart palpitations, anxiety, leading to autoimmune disorders. etc. also it’s a part of the offending spouse that they hid from their spouse, this changes how you see your spouse and you no longer consider them safe, yet bi locally we are to meet our spouses sexual needs…women as a general rule need to feel safe to submit that way and so she forces herself to do it even though she doesn’t want to because she’s disconnected from him…having to share her body with a man she no longer trusts. It’s all trauma. Most men do not even consider what effect it has on their wife. It’s absolutely devastating, there’s a reason Jesus calls it adultery. It’s just as damaging as physical adultery.
@karishmaroychowdhury1673
@karishmaroychowdhury1673 11 ай бұрын
I have heard your podcast in my weakest time. Thanks for all of this. My relationship is renewed because of it though I am still praying for restoration
@CMarieG
@CMarieG 11 ай бұрын
Why did you stop making videos? Please keep going!!!!
@CMarieG
@CMarieG 11 ай бұрын
This channel is saving me.
@stephenkenney7983
@stephenkenney7983 11 ай бұрын
This was so on point. Standing in faith.
@StormsHurt
@StormsHurt Жыл бұрын
How do I forgive. I pray and pray but I still told I have bitterness. I don’t know what to do
@gofigure_1
@gofigure_1 11 ай бұрын
It's a process, don't rush it, it takes time. Just walk your walk, do what He tells you when you get something from Jesus. Most importantly, write everything He tells you down, because this will have something to do with what you need to focus on, and hold onto. Be strong now, you'll get there. This is your assignment, so keep your eyes on Him, and what He says to you. Don't look at the water. What your going through with your emotions is normal, you'll be up n down, left n right, that's normal because your hurt n broken. Slowly, Jesus is going to change your perspective on how you see, and did and how you reacted to things. Is a process, trust the process, He will lead you through it, but as I said, it'll take time. The fact that you left a comment, shows your doing better than you think. See, Jesus was right about you when He chose you. Here's a scripture, right it down, one-day your going to get the understanding of it, and it'll blow your mind. But, that's for the future you. 1 John 4:19 We love, because He first loved us. When I see you up there, I want to hear all about. Can't wait..!
@DoYouKnowGod
@DoYouKnowGod 4 ай бұрын
Practicing righteousness in the Lord will make perfect! You got to actually practice righteousness no different than learning to lift weights. When you lifting weights you start of low and work your way up to heavier weights as you get stronger and progress. Same principle in walking in the Spirit. That bitterness will be turned into forgiveness. Be honest with God about yourself and bless whoever offended you with your lips. It's starts off hard but eventually you will mean it and be over it. Amen. God bless.
@CarolinaHardman-c9c
@CarolinaHardman-c9c 4 ай бұрын
I'm learning that forgiveness is not about the other person, is for us. Think about it... if you forgive, you will be in peace, you will grow spiritually. Every time the pain and memories of it come back, choose to forgive... the nemories will always be there, you have to keep choosing to forgive ❤
@isiahwashington2999
@isiahwashington2999 Жыл бұрын
Inspirational. Thank you.
@RochelleRoseGoes
@RochelleRoseGoes Жыл бұрын
Please pray for Floyd Custodio Goes and me, Floyd abandoned me
@jtika1978
@jtika1978 Жыл бұрын
It would not be a sin to divorce from an ungodly covenant. The sin was entering into that ungodly covenant.
@jonathanbyrd4724
@jonathanbyrd4724 Жыл бұрын
I’d love to know that statistic for reconciliation when there is a stander. Even just a rough order of magnitude like more than half or greater or less??
@S1lverspike
@S1lverspike 8 ай бұрын
Same. I’m currently standing for my wife. Separated 3 months. I’ve made a complete turn around no cheating or physical abuse but she still sees no future. I’m going to continue to pray especially since we have a 4 year old daughter.
@drchontay8129
@drchontay8129 Жыл бұрын
Your testimony gives glory to God in Jesus Christ name
@drchontay8129
@drchontay8129 Жыл бұрын
Restoration ministry
@fruncus344
@fruncus344 Жыл бұрын
I am going through the exact situation with my wife… I was the angry one for ten years just like him. Amazing how similar everyone’s situation is. I’ve even tried to explain all this and coming from me who was lost and angry just falls on her deaf ears. I was not a godly husband at all, now that I’m trying to be… it seems too little too late. I can only pray and be kind and loving to my wife no matter what. Thank you for sharing all this. It really gives me hope that miracles do happen
@meikahoskinson8418
@meikahoskinson8418 Жыл бұрын
Lord help me not be offended
@chosendaughter4359
@chosendaughter4359 Жыл бұрын
I am listening to this in 2023 and everything they went through is what my estranged husband and I are experiencing. Even down to meeting in grocery parking lot😢. Been praying as directed by Yah. Thank you all for aharing your testimony
@fruncus344
@fruncus344 Жыл бұрын
I wish my wife would listen to this....sounds like our exact situation, ive tried to tell her all of this and all she says is " what about my feelings, and how I feel" that's the reason she wants to divorce...she doesn't feel it anymore...it really seems like she has blinders on. we have 3 kids, it breaks my heart and ive given it to God... all I can do is pray and have faith, be the best man and father I can be.
@ryanr6607
@ryanr6607 7 ай бұрын
How is everything going with you and your wife? I’m in a similar situation as well minus kids. Praying for you and your family 🙏🏼
@Abat-f6r
@Abat-f6r Жыл бұрын
Matthew 19-9 The term Christ Jesus used was "fornication." He was referring to the Jewish custom of the betrothal or engagement period. He didn't use the term adultery because He was not speaking about marriage. There's no justification for divorce. You can not remarry another. Be reconciled or stay single praying for your ex spouse salvation if they divorced or walked out. A pastor must be the husband of one wife. All Glory to Almighty God in Christ Jesus' name through the Power of His Holy Spirit Amen
@shirleybellefleurmathurin572
@shirleybellefleurmathurin572 Жыл бұрын
Nothing is impossible for Jesus 🙏🙏🙏
@michaelsmith1364
@michaelsmith1364 Жыл бұрын
First time I’ve heard something from you all that I disagree with. Scripture is clear that remarriage is adultery so therefore that spouse who left and remarried is living is sin and now have a lifestyle of sin. You all do a great job speaking on scripture. It’s the same. You guys were “lucky” enough it was no other person in the picture but majority of standers due to divorce has had another person come in the picture before divorce and that situation often encourages the divorce. I know my wife thinks this is how God saved her in a sense “from our marriage”. If no one can separate us then really in God eyes we never divorced that’s why remarriage is adultery. I’ll keep listening because your videos are great but this the first time I disagree completely and would challenge you all to read scripture more and ask God to make it clear. Also doesn’t matter if the person a believer or not…again that is scripture. If it mattered then it wouldn’t be said the unbelieving spouse can become sanctify by the believing spouse
@vbenitez5700
@vbenitez5700 Жыл бұрын
Amen.
@michaelsmith1364
@michaelsmith1364 Жыл бұрын
Yea I regret leaving when asked/demanded to. I was just tired of fighting and arguing and felt staying it was going to stay that way. My wife definitely only wanted me out to be free in her affair. Then when it took me a month and half to get my own place she kept saying I had plenty time and I kept telling her no I wasn’t plotting to divorce like you for the past several months. If I can go back I wouldn’t have left or signed the papers just to keep from fighting. God still can restore and He will
@sophiachin1262
@sophiachin1262 Жыл бұрын
The demons assigned to destroy your marriage are at the root so begin your spiritual warfare now and never stop keep taking every victory in Christ Jesus. Repentance, Deliverance and Salvation are a must on Redemption's Road. Your husband needs to be delivered from whatever and whoever is manipulating him against you it's all diabolical. Pray against the strange strangers working witchcraft against your union and prosperity, pray against spiritual spouses and destroy every stronghold, generational curse and evil altars even territorial set up against your marriage. Many times their are envious devils in the environment who have set traps of asunder that are affecting the spouse who is not fully submitted to God Almighty. Pray, pray, pray in Jesus Mighty name! Contrary attitudes, rebellion and resistance are all from the enemy. Get satan out of every aspect of your life. Call on the Holy Spirit to take over. HALLELUJAH 👑 AMEN
@jonathanbyrd4724
@jonathanbyrd4724 Жыл бұрын
Awesome verse and awesome presentation! Thank you! So many church people teach running from pain and suffering which is contrary to scripture. Thanks again!
@sellitall811
@sellitall811 Жыл бұрын
Hello, are you guys still making any videos? Or did you stop?
@dilligaff1979
@dilligaff1979 Жыл бұрын
"Heavenly Father, I come before you with a humble heart in prayer to thank you Lord for saving a sinner like me. Father I ask you to please help me lord I need you. Please Lord help us to be more patient, and forgive me for not trusting in you enough. please show me how to love you more and how to love my wife as Jesus loves the church. Father I pray that you show me where I have failed in my journey and bring may back in line with your will for my life. Lord I ask that you please restore all that I have lost in my marriage to my wife Kyra. And I ask you to honor the covenant of our marriage. And please give me dreams of the restoration. Please heal Her heart from the mistakes I've made and let her see your restoration power in us individually and in our relationship. Lord I pray that you will relite the fire in her heart so that she will love me again and want to come home to our family. I know you called us to be together and I mistreated the relationship and took it for granted. Please show her that you're changing me into the husband and father her and our children need. Lord I lift up my wife to you and I pray that you will forgive her sins and show her mercy. I stand by my wife, our marriage and the vows I made to her before you. Please strengthen our faith and grant us mercy and restoration in our marriage according to your will. Please rain down your holy fire and destroy the bonds of the adulteress relationship my wife is in. And join our hearts back together as one flesh once again for your glory. Lord I ask that you bless our reunion and fill our hearts with love for you and each other. And please give us new hearts and fill us with the holy spirit so we will always look to you for guidance and find comfort in you. I rebuke and bind up all thoughts of separation and divorce. I rebuke and bind all attacks from the enemy. I speak your blessings onto my wife, our marriage and our children. I speak restoration and healing onto our marriage in Jesus's name. I trust in Your love, mercy, and faithfulness, And I believe that You will work in our hearts and lives to bring about a miraculous restoration. I Thank you Lord for all your blessings you have given me and will give me. And I thank you for your promises. I thankyou lord for hearing my prayer. And to you give all the glory. for this prayer is answered. In Jesus’ mighty name, I pray. Amen!"
@michaelsmith1364
@michaelsmith1364 Жыл бұрын
Amen! Thanks for the prayer as I prayed along with you. In same position. I am standing for my marriage and wife to return.
@dilligaff1979
@dilligaff1979 Жыл бұрын
"Heavenly Father, I come before you with a humble heart in prayer to thank you Lord for saving a sinner like me. Father I ask you to please help me lord I need you. Please Lord help us to be more patient, and forgive me for not trusting in you enough. please show me how to love you more and how to love my wife as Jesus loves the church. Father I pray that you show me where I have failed in my journey and bring may back in line with your will for my life. Lord I ask that you please restore all that I have lost in my marriage to my wife Kyra. And I ask you to honor the covenant of our marriage. And please give me dreams of the restoration. Please heal Her heart from the mistakes I've made and let her see your restoration power in us individually and in our relationship. Lord I pray that you will relite the fire in her heart so that she will love me again and want to come home to our family. I know you called us to be together and I mistreated the relationship and took it for granted. Please show her that you're changing me into the husband and father her and our children always deserved. Lord I put our marriage into your hands and ask that you put our marriage back in order, with you at the centre. Lord I lift up my wife to you and I pray that you will forgive her sins and show her mercy. I stand by my wife, our marriage and the vows I made to her before you. Please strengthen our faith and grant us mercy and restoration in our marriage according to your will. Please rain down your holy fire and destroy the bonds of the adulteress relationship my wife is in. And join our hearts back together as one flesh once again for your glory. Lord I ask that you bless our reunion and fill our hearts with love for you and each other. And please give us new hearts and fill us with the holy spirit so we will always look to you for guidance and find comfort in you. I rebuke and bind up all thoughts of separation and divorce. I rebuke and bind all attacks from the enemy. I speak your blessings onto my wife, our marriage and our children. I speak restoration and healing onto our marriage in Jesus's name. I trust in Your love, mercy, and faithfulness, And I believe that You will work in our hearts and lives to bring about a miraculous restoration. I Thank you Lord for all your blessings you have given me and will give me. And I thank you for your promises. I thankyou lord for hearing my prayer. And to you give all the glory. for this prayer is answered. In Jesus’ mighty name, I pray. Amen!"
@MrRico11210
@MrRico11210 Жыл бұрын
Good evening, Thank you for the video. I am going through a lot right now. My prodigal wife is being so hostile towards me. She is being rebellious and stubborn against God. Please pray.
@Mr.Lateralus
@Mr.Lateralus 11 ай бұрын
Same here, brother…….. It’s the most awful thing isn’t it…?? The amount of struggle you have to work through to not hate the one who is supposed to be your best friend…..
@brianramirez8255
@brianramirez8255 Жыл бұрын
I would rather endure an argument than be ignored too!! It made things worse. But it was also not ok that my wife would ignore me like that.
@brianramirez8255
@brianramirez8255 Жыл бұрын
Wow, just 15 mins and and so many similarities to my current situation. My wife did not seek the lord in what she wanted and although I wanted to seek the lord I was caught up in porn and alcohol. My wife has given into the world and at the moment is not seeking the lord. Divorce went through 2 weeks ago. Im standing for supernatural marriage restoration!
@frankgeary7574
@frankgeary7574 2 ай бұрын
Amen brother! Amen. I hope you have found peace!