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@GauravChauhan-g5v 19 сағат бұрын

hi ,how are you and did have mvd surgery for trigeminal neurlagia ??

@Flylittlebirds 17 сағат бұрын

Hi, I'm pretty good thank you. Different channel 😆...but no, I wasn't eligible for surgery.

@watchman243 2 күн бұрын

Thank you for your candour. Practical =/= mercenary. It's advocating for your children to ensure you have the resources you need to provide the care they require.

@Flylittlebirds Күн бұрын

Thank you for understanding. Also, thank you for watching my video

@Imhungrynow_ 2 күн бұрын

Thank you for your videos. We’ve just started the adoption process so these are really informative. Are your sons in therapy? Do social workers ever recommend that for young children? X

@Flylittlebirds Күн бұрын

They have had many years of an art therapy type format when they were younger. Yes, sometimes it is suggested, but you would likely have to apply for funding.

@christinehoffman1825 3 күн бұрын

I have not even watched much yet but I am so excited and happy to hear your story!😊😊😊….Now I have watched the whole thing I loved every second. Your story would make a fantastic book.😊😊😊

@Flylittlebirds 3 күн бұрын

Ahhhh thank you Christine 😊 🙏 I'm so glad you enjoyed it

@ajs8186 3 күн бұрын

This was such an interesting vlog Nyrie, I really appreciate your honesty.Xx

@Flylittlebirds 3 күн бұрын

Thank you 😊

@danielleg1504 3 күн бұрын

Just starting this video now… watching from Canada. 🇨🇦 My husband and I are waiting for our first foster placement call with the goal of adopting our second child (we have one biological son). It’s incredibly helpful hearing someone else’s experience… so thank you very much! ❤❤❤

@Flylittlebirds 3 күн бұрын

This is so exciting for you. Glad the video has been helpful

@Erinburnettauthor 3 күн бұрын

Lovely to hear your story from the beginning 😊 It's good to hear from British Christians who have adopted - most faith-based adoption advice comes from America and doesn’t quite fit with the UK culture. I was very interested in the part about primary to secondary transition. I’ve seen it play out time and time again in the Residential context - children thrive in small, pastoral primary schools, then they are chucked into a massive Comp at 11 and it destroys them. I think the traditional Prep schools have the right idea - children stay in prep until they are 13, and then go to senior school. But this option is only available to the privileged few!! Thanks for your channel 🤗🤗

@Flylittlebirds 3 күн бұрын

Thanks Erin, really glad you enjoyed the video, and some aspects rang true for you. Thank you for your support. Feel free to request anything as a subscriber!

@jeancarson7281 4 күн бұрын

Love this

@Flylittlebirds 4 күн бұрын

Thank you

@loobylou63 4 күн бұрын

Here is London/Essex we have a group of therapeutic schools called ‘Octavia House Schools’. The work they do there surrounding childhood trauma is fantastic. It’s a shame that not more children, like your boys, can access support like that

@Flylittlebirds 4 күн бұрын

Yes, that sounds amazing...but no we don't have anything like it nearby xx thanks for watching

@nadiaf1229 4 күн бұрын

What you planned in faith as a Christian is a lovely thing ! You’re a very kind and nurturing person I doubt for once second anyone would click off because of that ❤

@Flylittlebirds 4 күн бұрын

Thank you for understanding Nadia and for watching!

@caronnest4939 4 күн бұрын

You are amazing we are also christain so get what you are sharing

@Flylittlebirds 4 күн бұрын

Thank you Caron! ❤️

@creatingwithdonna 4 күн бұрын

Missing my planner bestie!!!❤

@Flylittlebirds 4 күн бұрын

Ahhh, you know where I am. You only have to message for a chat!!

@caronnest4939 10 күн бұрын

Sorry mean my friend also fostered

@caronnest4939 10 күн бұрын

I fostered as did my with children with neglect food huge issue and huge problem one chikd we had stole from other children's lunch box so hard to manage

@Flylittlebirds 10 күн бұрын

Yes definitely an issue. I'm thinking 🤔 of doing a video on it soon

@caronnest4939 10 күн бұрын

I think you are totally amazing

@Flylittlebirds 10 күн бұрын

That's so kind thank you 😊

@christinehoffman1825 11 күн бұрын

Grat job being supportive. I bet that made him feel good.😊 😊😊

@Flylittlebirds 11 күн бұрын

Yes!!

@gkaur83 13 күн бұрын

I don’t agree with the telling everyone at the beginning. It’s such a lengthy process and you don’t want to get put off at the early stage because one person said they don’t agree with you becoming an adopter. You know yourself best. Boundaries are really important and more so during and after the adoption process. Others can be cut off - if anyone has an issue then clearly they are not a part of your support system in the first place.

@Flylittlebirds 13 күн бұрын

Have you had a situation where someone tried to put you off early in the process? I hold fast to being as open as possible with your loved ones so that they can be supportive or raise concerns. But thank you for sharing your ideas

@Erinburnettauthor 20 күн бұрын

I think this is the best video yet ☺️ So very real and helpful.

@Flylittlebirds 20 күн бұрын

Thank you so much, Erin 💓

@djfelon4life 21 күн бұрын

Most people could not handle that kind of behavior. I dont know how you do it.

@Flylittlebirds 21 күн бұрын

Thank you 😊 🙏...it is hard, but I suppose we have learnt a lot over the years we have had our sons

@TherapyKitt 21 күн бұрын

I’m actually not an adopter or someone who has been adopted, but these videos help me feel less alone. I have significant difficulty with emotion regulation and am working on getting treatment. My symptoms aren’t exactly like your son’s, but they are difficult to cope with. Thanks for sharing ❤ Sending the best to you and your family!

@Flylittlebirds 21 күн бұрын

Thank you for watching the videos & for such great encouragement 🙏

@caronnest4939 21 күн бұрын

Sorry but I am just not sure that it is worth all that aggressive behaviour

@Flylittlebirds 21 күн бұрын

I can understand your comment. Obviously, we are committed to our sons, so we try to find ways of coping. Not everyone will experience aggressive behaviour

@christinehoffman1825 21 күн бұрын

Best wishes for your health and thank you for your abundance of wisdom. 😊😊😊

@Flylittlebirds 21 күн бұрын

Thank you Christine I appreciate you're support as always ❤️

@meamcvey3471 24 күн бұрын

We have our Link Meeting this week. Do you have Other Videos regarding about Link meeting? Thank you x

@Flylittlebirds 23 күн бұрын

Hi, sorry, I've been out of action for a while with a bad back.....what type of link meeting is it? Sorry, I know that sounds dim, but everyone describes things differently

@Sjdeath Ай бұрын

I’m thinking about adopting or getting guardianship over my biological sister because I’m finally in a perfect situation to handle a child. Could I somehow message you so you might be able to give me tips on exactly what steps I need to take, I’m more than willing to take every single step necessary. I need her back in my life, it’s been so hard not seeing her every day

@Flylittlebirds Ай бұрын

Yes of course

@Flylittlebirds Ай бұрын

You can find me on instagram under @nyreeflylittlebirds

@SinclaXavier Ай бұрын

thanks a lot for letting us know about your story it really helped me a lot in my situations that I ve been through ... cause I am also 54 woman raising 8,9,and 10 years old daughters( I mean me and my husband ) and we have been having some difficult times to deal with their stories ....but on the other i feel like it IS our mission And we want to obey GOD ANYWAYS . KISSES FROM AN ADOPTIVE MOM IN BRAZIL .

@Flylittlebirds Ай бұрын

Yes, it can be so tough, but really worth it in the end x

@deetahenry-smith9796 Ай бұрын

Loving your channel. Please keep going!

@Flylittlebirds Ай бұрын

Aahhh thank you so much!!

@christinehoffman1825 Ай бұрын

How do you always get it so spot on? I love your glasses too. 😊😊😊

@Flylittlebirds Ай бұрын

Aaahhh, thank you, Christine 😊 🙏 💓

@juliefranklin-baker9387 Ай бұрын

Your videos are great and I am constantly sharing them with foster parents .... Many thanks

@Flylittlebirds Ай бұрын

That's great news Julie, let me know if there is anything you would like to use with foster parents that I can make for you? Video or other approaches

@USA50_ Ай бұрын

Thanks from 🇺🇸❤️😎

@Flylittlebirds Ай бұрын

Welcome 🙏 🤗

@katdenning6535 Ай бұрын

I have a 12 & 14yo so we are considering adopting a teen. We’ve already been through the middle school dynamics once and feel comfortable with older children. I feel like building a connection with an older child is different from younger kids because trust/love is built over time and with older kids there’s often a feeling of wanting to rush the process because they are older

@Flylittlebirds Ай бұрын

Yes certainly different & I guess you will be coming at it from lots of experience too. My only ♥️ thoughts are making sure there is time for your existing family xx

@SinclaXavier Ай бұрын

Ive been with my two adopted daughters (8 and 9n yrs)for almost one year and i still dont have that feeling of connection .i have an other daughter was a new born adopted kid and i have thatSo feeling of unconditional love with her so i hope to have the same connection with the other two one day .thanks for your tips and kisses from an sdoptive mom of three in Brazil

@Flylittlebirds Ай бұрын

I'm sure over time it will come, but it can happen gradually. I'm glad the video has been helpful

@clvsterfvckofwhatthefvck7981 Ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing.

@christinehoffman1825 Ай бұрын

So much wisdom!😊😊😊

@Flylittlebirds Ай бұрын

Oh thank you Christine 😊 🙏

@caronnest4939 2 ай бұрын

Sorry meant to say we took her to adopt but didn't..

@caronnest4939 2 ай бұрын

My husband and I were unable to have a family so we fostered and that was really good...then a little girl came along whi had suffered a lot of trauma...attachment issues were huge...we were totally unprepared especially for the constant testing...on reflection there are things we could have done differently after 4 years we could take no more and felt it waz unhealthy for everyone...the placement ended...only people who have been in this Situation understand the intensity and the impact of this behaviour