It's true 😭

by learning emotional intelligence and dare to be vulnerable when meeting them as the very first step. Likes attract likes -INTJ

@@maybemaybenot1491 i attract only INTJ currently^^ how would I learn emotional intelligence?

"You fittin' to be 'exposed,'" haha... :) Jules shows a really deep understanding of ENFJs, now.

And what it’s that tiny thing you mentioned :) Like as an Enfj that might help you be sure about it, feel free to share of you want so And that’s fine if you’re not sure, it takes time to be certain about your mbti🤝🦭so no need to feel the need to rush

It's about the volunteering thing, like yeah i volunteer but not when it doesn't benefits me or when I'm tired... ​@@Maryam-cy6xn

@@Andrew.27y That’s ok, you don’t have to be 100% like Enfj type and one thing I read before “The type presents you BUT you don't present the type” Like ya they say Enfj talk like this, act like this but you don’t have to do these things if it’s not you, just because they say Enfj does So ya be the good respectful self of you and that’s what matters☺️✨☁️ Don’t feel the need to lock up yourself in a box called Enfj, and this is one of the things that did take time for me to see, Like oh no, Enfjs suffer from a lack of confidence or are pretty sensitive to criticism, naive and easy to deceive, ect… Ya you might been there in a point of your life but that doesn’t mean you gonna keep being there👏🏻 You will develop and get rid of your weaknesses and develop your strengths and yourself, to the point that it will be difficult to know that you’re an Enfj :) And that’s what’s mature healthy balanced Enfjs gonna look like a balanced person💪🏻😁 you can be strong, confident, smart, active, achiever, ambitious and what ever you want to be if you want to🙌🏻🔥 And even if it turns out that you are another type, that’s ok, no matter your mbti type you can be great, good and strong person . Any type can be great, loved and wanted if they work on themselves and they become good people😭🙌🏻💞💞💞

i’m so sorry i had to say this to you but missing your bday on the day is tolerable but not making up for it after a month is a bad sign. coming from an enfj who would forget bdays but would do my absolute best to make up for it

Same as the comment above me 🙃 as Enfj I rarely forget family, friends birthdays but it did happen before BUT not making up for it, is just impossible to happen, just be straight with that guy, and say that he doesn’t care about you cause if he does, he would definitely spend his money to buy a gift and it would be a priority to do it as soon as possible

Are you typing ppl? I think I am an ISFP, but I'm curious now...:)

@@_angelindisguise_ yes I type people

She is abstract, Fe, Ti. Also it is very hard for an ENFJ to mistype himself due to Ni parent and Ti Inferior.

Nobody as above my values, morals and what’s ethical - Enfj :)

i’ll be posting more about enfjs soon. my instagram is full of enfj content so makes sure to check that out

but don’t fake your affirmations! all of it can be true of yourself

Thank you for sharing! I’ve had similar experiences like this, and I still struggle with it sometimes too. Yes, it’s so true when we take it into context oftentimes the people have our best interest, just as we do, as enfjs, give others advice. Best of luck to you!

Well as an Enfj, happy to hear that :) and it definitely means that you’ve met good ones And I hope you’d meet those who deserve your feelings as well✨☁️ Btw, are you an Infp or Isfp ? like they’re mostly the ones who root for us, and definitely we appreciate that🥹🙌🏻💗

haha we’re sorry! we just want to know deeper meanings

@@bbyjulesy it's very frustrating for is straight shooters. makes yall seem manipulative hahahahah it's cool I don't hate you

Istps are so cool. Love you guys

@@anonymousnation5235 it's funny to me that people think we're cool.. we're just living our lives in stoicism..