How to know if someone is an ENFJ

[@gargervon8697]

I like that you highlight that ENFJs are probably not going to be the most backslapping, spotlighting people in a social gathering, even though we are quite social. I'm not there to put on a show. I'm there to engage people. I prefer small groups because I prefer deep conversation over banter (though I can do both), and the more people there are in a conversation, the more superficial it is likely to have to stay. More people = more risk of vulnerability being responded to in inappropriate ways. But, you can bet I am going to approach that person sitting in a corner looking like they aren't sure what to do with themselves and try to help them feel more comfortable.

[@RishaBond]

Thanks! This is great insight as an INTJ who's close friends with an ENFJ. She's dazzlingly social to me and yet seems to prefer smaller groups (which I relate to as an introvert; of course, I'm not going to see her in larger social groups anyway, lol). And she is definitely deep, though doesn't overly-dwell on topics the way other "deep" types can.

[@Aditya_believer777]

As an Infp I love enfjs ,as well as other nf types , I just feel safe and understood being with them.😭❤️ Thank you enfjs for your kindness.

[@RishaBond]

Thanks for your video: it makes me 95% confident that my best friend* is an ENFJ. She is very thoughtful and also a little controlling, haha. I'm an INTJ, so I'm blunt with my boundaries, and she respects them and I respect hers. She even makes sure other people know about my boundaries and preferences -- more graciously than I do, like she's pre-empting my social awkwardness, which I absolutely appreciate. The amount of activities she keeps up with is exhausting to even think about, and your point about how ENFJs "over-volunteer" is evident. *She is my best friend; I have no idea if I'm her "best friend" as she has a lot of good friends. But that's ok, because she makes me feel loved. And I love her back in my own weird (but highly loyal) INTJ way. Also, thank you for not playing music while you're talking, and generally for your calm vibes.

[@QuotesArticles]

Congrats on starting your channel; the edits are neat and the vibe is calm! May you grow and glow more and more and touch the lives of many with your light! I can always feel different about ENFJs and ESFJs too, I usually pick up the energy of extroverted feelers and feel comfortable in their presence but I obviously don't tell them. Not sure if all introverted feelers can realize that! P.S. Would be nice to see some videos on INFPs in the future that's not stereotypical. There are too many bashing us in every other video of theirs!😆

[@user-mm8gf1wo4n]

You made such a marvelous list to identify ENFJ! Love it! So true being able to flex from serious to fun! And only as it compliments those present. Im 50 years old and had fun with little tests for years. Psychology has interested me since I was maybe only 10 years old. Nothing helped me know myself but alas I married a narcissist and I'm at the end of my rope. So I've been looking inward to not repeat this kind of thing. Took a test, read a bunch, watched a bunch of KZbins. I'm ENFJ and so much makes sense now. Your list was like kisses on my heart. Thank you!

[@anialit4373]

I'm so busy with uni, work and life but for sure I will come back here and watch your video! Love to see Enfjs! We are so rare 😭 happy to have our Enfj community 💙

[@OfficialMarliz]

You give me 51% Extroverted vibes hahahaaaa. You talk as mellow as my INFJ friend versus my ENFJ self.

[@RohanJaiswal-et1zq]

May God bless you and this channel and you get many views 🙏❤

[@khusheekriti4256]

All the points resonates with me so muchh. I am definitely an ENFJ

[@anabencomo23]

Congrats on your first video!!! Sending you a big enfj hug 🫂💖

[@cloudzero3916]

This is a new era of jules!

[@RohanJaiswal-et1zq]

Hi jules remember me Rohan from India love your video and you are beautiful and also 1st comment on channel. Woo - hoo❤🎉

[@Jays_Hatepage]

congrats on yr first video!!!

[@yanarutneary7279]

congrats on first vid!

[@muwabys]

Congratulations for your first video on KZbin 💖 When it started with english subtitles : (✪▽✪) When it disappears : ( ⚆ _ ⚆ ) But Jules talks in a very clear and good rhythm (not so fast) : 🙏💖 (Don't worry, not saying it's bad there no subtitles xD I think there no need since you talk sooo CLEARLY) My first reaction : SO IT WAS YOUR SHIRT that was PINK 🤣 (oops sorry) #TeamWannaHearJulesTalk 🙌 #TeamImENFJAndWasCurious I started to laugh instantly at 0:55 😂😭 I'm sure your future videos are gonna be sweet, wise, smart and funny (your facial expression 🤣👌) I met people also saying being ENFJ and some were diffenret than me (maybe some toxic traits were appearing or just not really ENFJ). Fortunately, I met also one real ENFJ (with an "ENTJ charisma" 😂?) MY RESULTS WAS ALSO INFJ (for 2 years, believing it), but the description felt Half weird for me. An incident made me do big introspection and about world + do again the test without influence of people's image of me = ENFJ results Whaouw. This feeling of "Whaouw, yes that's me ? My hidden true soul, true heart?" *triggered by the worry in the eyes when someone say something controversial* ʕ๑°ㅁ°๑ʔ✧ *ENFJs be like : You know us JULES* Most of people say that to me (to us, enfjs?) : Don't stress out ENFJs at work, why are they so helpful- we need them everywhere 🤣 gosh , really 🤌 "Who's gonna do it 🙄?" * rise hand timidly.. * "I will" Gosh, it's so weird to watch a video that feels so "me" (ENFJ, for ENFJ people I mean 😂). Question : Do you have that leadership position when you have to/can to be on that position ? About "ENFJ in a conversation", I'd like to add a specific thing about "good listener", there also people who struggle with concentration (focus,attention) or memory (just a little my case). When an ENFJ who is natural good listener, have this kind of problems, the ENFJ is gonna hearing some main ideas of the conversations and some others informations are "lost", and will sometimes apology for not hearing well or understand well but will show a strong desire to listen. Showing a small frustration from this problem of concentration or memory, but the heart is hear, willing to listen the whole story of someone genuinely. Whoever wrote that on 8:40 💘 We're amazing Chameleons 🤌 Last thing, your charisma is whaouw (and your makeup 💖)

[@corazondemelon7308]

ENFJ’s scare me. Because I respect them too much (kinda pedestal admiration level)

[@Maryam-cy6xn]

Well as an Enfj, happy to hear that :) and it definitely means that you’ve met good ones And I hope you’d meet those who deserve your feelings as well✨☁️ Btw, are you an Infp or Isfp ? like they’re mostly the ones who root for us, and definitely we appreciate that🥹🙌🏻💗

[@a.k.1217]

ha! I told my entp boyfriend that I am a very private person when it comes to how i truly feel or think about things, I only share them with close people, including him. He gotta respect my privacy and not just spill em around lol

[@XxBrittany20xX]

I took 3 different test, all came out ENFJ-T My life long friend is INFJ-T Met when I was 9, she is 16 years older then me. I'm now 32. It's funny but everything on the enfj results in personality fit me. Down to past experiences with ppl

[@kadysafar]

AHH IAM SOO HAPPY FOR YOU

[@AleLP8]

love this video, thank you!! :) I feel like I have trouble making friends because I read people very quickly and my 2 friends lol are very introverted and don't wanna go out so how can I make more friends 😭

[@pablorivera1219]

Ready to see this!

[@Capricorn152]

This is so validating but also a call out 😂

[@saraspranger6451]

Bbg is going to be famous 🤯

[@viktoriia.kravchuk]

that was definitely worth to watch 🥰 thank you so much 🤍 i am enfj myself and i can relate toooooo much 😋

[@raft115]

Would you like to help me i am infj

[@Maryam-cy6xn]

@@raft115what’s going on Infj Feel free to talk :)

[@DX5NIVLA]

I want to say thank you

[@raft115]

Infj here🎉

[@Andrew.27y]

Well jules I'm late here but yeah I was geeting multiple types in test but i know that I'm more enfj cuz I'm Fe but all the characters i found are Te and yeah so Your video explain me but there's tiny things that I don't match but i thing that it doesn't matter....

[@Maryam-cy6xn]

And what it’s that tiny thing you mentioned :) Like as an Enfj that might help you be sure about it, feel free to share of you want so And that’s fine if you’re not sure, it takes time to be certain about your mbti🤝🦭so no need to feel the need to rush

[@Andrew.27y]

It's about the volunteering thing, like yeah i volunteer but not when it doesn't benefits me or when I'm tired... ​@@Maryam-cy6xn

[@Maryam-cy6xn]

@@Andrew.27y That’s ok, you don’t have to be 100% like Enfj type and one thing I read before “The type presents you BUT you don't present the type” Like ya they say Enfj talk like this, act like this but you don’t have to do these things if it’s not you, just because they say Enfj does So ya be the good respectful self of you and that’s what matters☺️✨☁️ Don’t feel the need to lock up yourself in a box called Enfj, and this is one of the things that did take time for me to see, Like oh no, Enfjs suffer from a lack of confidence or are pretty sensitive to criticism, naive and easy to deceive, ect… Ya you might been there in a point of your life but that doesn’t mean you gonna keep being there👏🏻 You will develop and get rid of your weaknesses and develop your strengths and yourself, to the point that it will be difficult to know that you’re an Enfj :) And that’s what’s mature healthy balanced Enfjs gonna look like a balanced person💪🏻😁 you can be strong, confident, smart, active, achiever, ambitious and what ever you want to be if you want to🙌🏻🔥 And even if it turns out that you are another type, that’s ok, no matter your mbti type you can be great, good and strong person . Any type can be great, loved and wanted if they work on themselves and they become good people😭🙌🏻💞💞💞

[@agnesviel7484]

Okay, I took 2 test, telling I'm ENFJ. I've read many articles about it and I think I am ENFJ. I really recognize myself in your video. But I would really like to know more about cognitive function you're talking about. Do you have any ressources to help me begin my research ? 😊

[@ahk621]

Ur mbti??

[@brandonsimental4806]

😍😍😍

[@EyeHeartSUSHI]

How to know someone is an enfj.. 1: do they annoy the crap outta me by tryna incorrectly finish my sentences? check. 2. Think they just know everything about everyone and their assumptions are facts? check. 3. Think i should change a,b,c so that it can "better my life" (i.e make them or everyone else more comfortable with me) check. ~istp here.