Why ENFJs love to help people

[@fishhyyy]

I was scouring through KZbin to find a bit more validation in my actions and this video was a great reminder of a lot of the findings I've had throughout the years. When you mention, "Do not wear yourself thin helping people who wouldn't for you," I couldn't agree more. I can't help but feel like I've been struggling with this for nearly a decade now and could see how it could take a healthy ENFJ to be draconian. It's a tough battle but my struggles really helped build that boundary for myself now. Thank you for your insight and candidness about the ENFJ mind.

[@davidjohnson1654]

Hey Jules, I HAVE to tell you this... so yesterday I listened to another video about ENFJ, and the person said that one of the hallmarks of an ENFJ is their soothing, calming voice (as part of their overall energy/vibe/presence). I just discovered your channel this morning, and I HAVE to tell you, your voice IS that soothing, calming voice! :) You have great content, but I gotta tell you, if you made a video just reading off a grocery list, I'd listen to it just to have my soul nourished by your voice! :) Peace and love, David :)

[@JhotyVideoProjects]

Thanks for creating a KZbin Channel, looking forward to ENFJ insights Jules! -Fellow ENFJ

[@bbyjulesy]

yay! thanks so much❤

[@davidjohnson1654]

Jules, I LOVE your deep understanding of an ENFJ. I know, it makes sense, that/since you are one, you would. But to be able to articulate such deep-felt things, it's greatly appreciated! THANK YOU!!! Peace and love, from a fellow ENFJ, David :)

[@cameronhawkins5014]

This feels so accurate to me as an ENFJ. Thank you!

[@MysticaAriYena]

It's rare that I come across an ENFJ video that I fully relate with. Often times I often feel like I'm one of those weird enfj's that doesn't quite fit in the mold everyone has for them. One thing I would add to your explanation of us wanting appreciation though (and yes, I definitely need it) is that the appreciation has to be authentic. At least, I can sense when it's fake, superficial or just going through the motion of it for the hell of it. And that kind of has an opposite affect on me. But maybe that's just me.

[@brunodomingues8430]

I am a INFJ 2w1 and I was mistyped as a ENFJ. I relate a lot with everything you’ve said.

[@yanarutneary7279]

First comment! Great video!

[@joelklimkowski715]

Thank You. You are amazing! Thoughtful and very well spoken!

[@justcallmejon22]

06:55 that was cute and I know people watching this video will appreciate it. Looking forward to seeing your channel grow!

[@AleLP8]

Your videos are turning out so great 😭 I'm loving the content

[@WannabeBetter]

Hi Jules. Ahhhh FRESH enfj MEAT 😛 Love and appreciate the content! Heather (enfj)

[@stephanieryan2349]

i feel so seen 🥹🤍

[@PianoRivera]

This was therapeutic for me. Thank you.

[@MarcEllis405]

Nice. Yup. ❤

[@muwabys]

Sukie, tricked by the thoughts of fully subtitled video from the english sub in the begining of the video, EPISODE 02. 🤣 (i'm always tricked xD) Talking of super villains... I would love to see a super villain antagonist in a serie or movie and it's an ENFJ I think it's one of the moment, we would feel so Empathic toward the antagonist ENFJ like "The enfj didn't have the choice at the moment to turn like this.." 💔 From 4:00 Just wanna be friend with real ENFJ irl 😭... Personal Pov I could imagine you being like that. I met some ENFJ being quite different. Some may don't care of people's judgements etc or strangers (seems weird right ?) We may be ENFJ, we have some difference of % I think of how much you're willing to go help or "just pass". I'm the type as you describe, "whaouw so tense here... How to ease the atmosphere omg..." Also, Even in a happy atmosphere in a group, if I see a new one being anxious or feeling awkward (?) at the moment... I'll feel that and observe strongly this new one person 😂 We sense so much the atmosphere that we would help the one in need (the most) or because we feel more easily negative emotions first 🤔

[@muwabys]

Wanna add a message too for the 7:20 "You're a LOVE, full of LOVE so Loving yourself first is the purest natural shape of LOVE you can show"

[@bbyjulesy]

so true! whenever one person is off my attention is grabbed onto them!

[@aslpkll]

I relate a lot whatt

[@alifianuzul594]

🤍🤍🤍

[@jctlam]

Always loved your Insta account..congrats on making transition to KZbin! Great vids!

[@bbyjulesy]

Ah thank you! I love making content on instagram and you guys are like a big family to me, so i appreciate the support so much.