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@banchovii 5 сағат бұрын
Wouldnt that still be a personal issue?
@KeepEmHonest2010 7 сағат бұрын
This it’s incredibly great advice
@JessicaCox-hq9uw Күн бұрын
In some areas our marriage is very good, but some very real issues are there. It's good to hear you don't it doesn't have to be all together
@xbemos 2 күн бұрын
The ending: I don’t think it’s leading in vulnerability (father) it’s about leading in Christs ultimate strength, being love.
@xbemos 2 күн бұрын
So many good men need to hear this and know they’re not crazy and neither are their wives. There’s a lot of men wanting to do things right but don’t have the tools. These are the tools!
@xbemos 2 күн бұрын
I don’t think we have a good grasp on the definition of marriage in the Bible. Jesus says the wife is as the church. Are we saying that Jesus eventually leaves the church because=eternity?
@BlairPittams 2 күн бұрын
I think I'd learnt we need to be weak before we are strong, but always in the lord
@rossgunniv 2 күн бұрын
Great insights and helpful advice. Thanks
@focusonthefamilymarriage 2 күн бұрын
Thanks for watching! 🙌
@AskForTheMoney 7 күн бұрын
Amen. Thank you so much for this!
@ArmorofValor 10 күн бұрын
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@timkropf4648 13 күн бұрын
Wouldn't you say that as one candle shows one family from two, not one person from two?
@focusonthefamilymarriage 12 күн бұрын
Thank you for your comment. The symbol of becoming one family is a beautiful idea, we love that! 😊 Our goal is to emphasize the importance of caring for each individual that makes up the marriage. If helpful, here's an article that explains more in-depth on this subject! bit.ly/4f1culI We hope you have a blessed day! 🤗
@jasonblome5287 15 күн бұрын
This was great! Thanks!
@focusonthefamilymarriage 15 күн бұрын
So glad you liked it.
@kaysessence8308 15 күн бұрын
Thank you Lord!!!
@focusonthefamilymarriage 15 күн бұрын
Amen.
@davidwhunt 17 күн бұрын
Good advice for married couples. Thank you.
@gandg29 18 күн бұрын
This was so helpful. Thank you for discussing this issue.
@diggindrums3260 19 күн бұрын
No
@michellemaxey8679 27 күн бұрын
Forgiveness does not mean reconciliation. I have to remind myself of that everyday, as well as remembering how much I’ve been forgiven. I also I have to remember to get out of the way so that God can deal with my unfaithful husband, I don’t need to do that.
@shamilton2719 29 күн бұрын
Thanks for all that you do!
@christineKembabazi-jt1iz Ай бұрын
Wow I love you Bill and Pam.. You are a well of wisdom to many couples... Love from Kigali Rwanda. 🇷🇼
@SeacoastChurch Ай бұрын
Such a simple but important question. The good things in life take work 🙌
@boedilllard5952 Ай бұрын
Most men don't realize they are getting a divorce until a week before their wife tells them. A great way to avoid that issue is DON'T GET MARRIED - particularly if you make more or spend less than your spouse.
@bygrace_ Ай бұрын
This is so good! I wish my husband who's so withdrawn would listen🥺 praying hard for his heart to change and mine.
@focusonthefamilymarriage Ай бұрын
We will be praying for you both @bygrace_. -Luna H.
@HeyLady0831 Ай бұрын
Amen 🙏🕊️🔥
@SeacoastChurch Ай бұрын
Preach 🙌
@recipeformiracle Ай бұрын
Such a beautiful stories, thanks for sharing!
@dianakatkout638 Ай бұрын
Wow! Reminds me of the movie War Room.
@recipeformiracle Ай бұрын
I was going to say exactly the same, both the war room and Fireproof are too amazing movies!!!
@BlakeHall-ne2bg Ай бұрын
How can I get in touch with Josh? Their story touched me so much. My wife and I are walking through infidelity as we speak - we are two years in and it feels hopeless and stuck.
@focusonthefamilymarriage Ай бұрын
Blake, our hearts go out to you and your wife as you go through such a difficult time. Here's the contact information page for Josh and Katie-bit.ly/4ewnJlJ. We hope this is helpful. Please know that we will be praying for you, asking the Lord to provide you both with His perfect peace.
@SeacoastChurch Ай бұрын
👏👏👏
@SeacoastChurch Ай бұрын
Love these two!
@landeno Ай бұрын
Hey…I’m the eldest.
@TheStarrySky-sb9df Ай бұрын
There’s a lot of trauma behind these stereotypes
@focusonthefamilymarriage Ай бұрын
Friends: Thanks, everyone, for sharing your heartfelt comments! We’re here for you if you need us -- 800-A-FAMILY (232-6459). May God bless and guide you! -Emily F.
@leahv.2537 Ай бұрын
I'm the youngest and I'm not funny nor a good sales person. I grew up in a toxic, dysfunctional family. So there's a lot of inner work I'm doing to try to heal from that. Maybe you're talking more about healthy families?
@kathrynhogan3387 Ай бұрын
I think he is dealing in generalities. Sounds like you may have had one or two narcissistic parents?
@bmack6180 Ай бұрын
Theory doesn't fit my family or most of my friend's family. It's not a thing funny about my youngest brother, the baby of the family. My oldest and youngest siblings are confused as hell.... followers. Middle child selfish as hell.... It's all about him... every relationship is transactional. In my family, #2 and 4 are the compromiser, negotiator and get along better with others... not perfect but more self-sufficient because in my house, my parents were busy saving or propping up #1 and 5. And then indulging #3, who needed all the attention.
@leahv.2537 Ай бұрын
Wow, do you feel like you grew up in a toxic family? I know I did. 🤦🏾♀️😭
@bmack6180 Ай бұрын
@leahv.2537 I'm not exactly sure if you were responding to my comment. I'm not sure if I would say toxic. Parents who did the best they could. We were never homeless, hungry, without heat, clothes, etc. We had the necessary things for school. We took family trips mainly to visit our out of town grandparents, aunts, and uncles once, sometimes twice a year. My parents were much better grandparents, may they R.I.P., though. So it must have been about time. Maybe it was the grind of trying to raise 5 kids with no nearby help from relatives. We survived and thrived. Two health professionals and 3 government workers, two of whom retired from management positions. It was a tiny bit of tongue in cheek in my first comment, but it's mainly true. Number #1 and 4 needed more hand holding. Number 3 is just as I said selfish, no exaggerating there. And number 2 and 4 are more steady and focused but not perfect.
@StarLight-sx4qf Ай бұрын
I must admit this is on point!!! Marry the middle child!😂😂😂😂❤
@baryl3969 Ай бұрын
It’s sad but yes, I know a person who married her husband just to compete with other women who were able to build a happy family. Because of that she overly controls him, manipulates him, forced him to have a child with her, and now he doesn’t even function as he used to anymore. He’s so beaten down mentally and emotionally. It’s not good to watch as you know she only married him out of her selfishness but doesn’t love or cherish him.
@luciagutierrez9637 Ай бұрын
I’m the first born and my man is the baby cub …. So frustrating sometimes, but also, he lightens me up so much & brings me such peace ❤
@erinlolley3770 Ай бұрын
I'm a first born and my husband is an only child. We butt heads quite a bit.😕
@tinakelly668 28 күн бұрын
It's an issue with us also. My husband runs out on me and we are both first borns. I am now grieving over our separation going no where positive.
@Elvrenblood Ай бұрын
Yeah I get that you're Christian but can you please not use this area
@baileylugnut Ай бұрын
Excellent advice, Kevin. I've always enjoyed and learned from your humor and insight. I needed it raising a very strong-willed son. It's because of you I didn't put him up for adoption. 🙂
@leahmcgowan8057 Ай бұрын
❤
@jenifadiahann Ай бұрын
Wonderful testimony. Thank you for sharing. God has done an amazing work in your marriage and ministry.
@focusonthefamilymarriage Ай бұрын
Thank you for your encouragement @jenifadiahann! God bless you! -Luna H.
@timothydye1316 2 ай бұрын
Love his books. Could listen to him all day.
@denisegagne8296 2 ай бұрын
How much does it cost ?
@aBronyPlays 2 ай бұрын
Even though God dosent interfere with the world anymore, I still tell him thank you when something nice or good happens, even if it's small, like making a green light. The more grateful you are, the better you feel overall.
@co.1157 2 ай бұрын
That is hilarious
@katesmith8424 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your testimony and for the work that you do. It seems to me that your insights and experience are so important, especially about transgenderism. On another note this ministered to me about self worth. Thanks again 🌷
@LauraPerryOK 14 күн бұрын
so grateful for that! the Lord has always used my testimony to speak to others even if they haven't dealt with gender issues
@maxdystopia674 2 ай бұрын
yipes
@Wesdavidson81 2 ай бұрын
Awesome! Love it!!!
@whiskey5jda 2 ай бұрын
Marriage isn't about you. It is about your spouse. You'll never find a purpose in marriage unless you put your spouse ahead of yourself.