How Birth Order Will Affect Your Marriage | Marriage Advice | With Dr. Kevin Leman

[@RataPerry]

I only wish that i heard this 50-60 years ago when i was still married to my husband. We didn't know how to communicate or anything else. We were both first born. What a messed up marriage THAT turned out to be.

[@sharonhalmeoni]

I am the last born and I enjoyed making people laugh. My marriage lasted 20 yrs. I’m now older and I have no desire to get into a relationship

[@timothydye1316]

Love his books. Could listen to him all day.

[@AB-mr9dy]

I’m interested in the dynamic of twins or triplets.

[@jameilia-9031]

I feel so disrespected 😂😂 You’re very right

[@heatherlipscomb4467]

Omg I feel so targeted 😂😂😂

[@BrookeHamilton-i4o]

How do you figure out who is where when there are more then 3 or 4 kids?

[@cierramitchell1772]

Well the first is whoever is born first and the baby is whoever is born last. And the middle is whoever is in between! I would assume.

[@garretreed9709]

I am 6th of 7 so I am guessing you group. depending on age gaps so for me . . . . . first 2 - Firstborns 3 - 5 - Middle Children 6-7 - Babies

[@erinlolley3770]

I'm a first born and my husband is an only child. We butt heads quite a bit.😕

[@tinakelly668]

It's an issue with us also. My husband runs out on me and we are both first borns. I am now grieving over our separation going no where positive.

[@BrookeHamilton-i4o]

Sounds like you both are used to being in charge.

[@rrodriguez8877]

This didn’t ring true in our family

[@germananaya1756]

I don't buy into this. It's interesting, but you can't generalize.

[@johnl.6731]

That's what I thought at first. Then I saw the stats.

[@mythologicalmyth]

Always anomalies but it is spot on

[@renavartio]

I disagree. Just because there are exceptions doesn’t mean generalities aren’t true.

[@cierramitchell1772]

Did you watch the video? He said that it's NOT always true!

[@Im_LaurenB]

I agree! Out of my siblings, our second oldest is more responsible and structured than our oldest. My middle brother was the center of attention in our family growing up. I'm the baby, and I'd say I agree with everything with the exception of being manipulative.

[@s1n4m1n]

I’ve watched a lot of Focus marriage “advice” videos. Just take a step back and one can’t but help come to the conclusion that marriage as a relationship is messed up. I’ve come to the conclusion that 21st century American marriage (even what’s described at FotF) is not Biblical at all. FotF is just as much suffused with egalitarianism as any leftist.