yeah but this day and age men want to be puffed up by women and told their wonderful and don't give back to the woman. women get tired of propping up a man when he doesn't reciprocate. women also feel like why should i thank him for every little thing he does for me but i don't get any appreciation in return. that's what i hear all the time from other women. they don't feel appreciated.

I used to not look for financial security in a man and ended up with men who needed me to provide them!

“Be grounded and centered so he earns your response…”.

Can u meet successful men on first class plane

Thank you. Great video.

all my friends at the hospital wanted to know why I was smiling so much it was because of him

this host can't give space, the host HAS to dominate and control Just let John speak John is an AUTHORITY in this field and knows light years more than you You need to humble yourself host guy

this host comes across as desperate and needy

hahaha the woman on the boat were young harlots looking to get a wealthy guy or paid call girls. They're getting paid to look happy and you know it. They're also in their 20s and half naked and sexually available, of course you were attracted. Find a modest woman that is not using her body to get a welthy guy...let's see if you're attracted to her

bro just let John speak

I disagree that it's the woman looking for a rich man. I always just fell in love, but I have found a man more content with himself if he is financially sound. If he is broke, he loses his self-esteem.

The idea of interracial dating is great owing to physical attraction. But the hardest thing to overcome is cultural differences. It’s almost impossible.

Telling someone your problems is not asking for instructions on how to fix it. It's called sharing with a friend.

Sorry, but I find the most desirable man end up with the most idiotic women. Either they’re very good looking, and they marry an ugly woman or they’re very intelligent and successful and they marry a nasty woman. Good men don’t like good women. And good women don’t like good men. This is the law of nature. opposites attract. If you think there’s justice in the world you’re kidding yourself.

Makes sense 😅

That’s so funny, i smile a lot, like to everyone and my ex father in law told my ex husband to make it clear that i should stop smiling all the time 😂

Good interview 🙌 Always enjoy John Greys insight & advice ❤ thank to both of you 🙏

While you're trying to sell books or sell something if you read the millionaire next door. The biggest mistake a man can make in his life is to marry a woman that is a spendthrift. This nearly guarantees him that he will not be a millionaire or wealthy man in his life will be miserable. These women you're selling them on a man spending money on them. Most wealthy men do not want to spend money on woman. I mean you look at Donald Trump people think of him as his great success story. He spends a lot of money on his wife and his kids. Reality is worth about $750 million that's the reality of the situation. He Is not a billionaire he spends way beyond his means . Forbes basically said if you would've invested his father's money where he got all of his money from in the S&P 500 with Vanguard he would've been worth $13 billion and that was a long time ago when he was running for president. Donald Trump is totally incompetent and the laughing stock of New York City. Amongst the elites that's what they really think of him. He is basically taken a massive fortune and pissed it down the drain. By making one terrible investment after another and living way beyond his means. Like I said most sound rich people do not like to spend money on women in view women as a liability especially if they spend a lot of money. These women that you're talking to think that men are going to spend a lot of money on them. Only stupid men do that.Well as for steakhouses my brothers friends make over hundred thousand dollars a year not that that's a lot of money but the go to steakhouses all the time high in steakhouses and their in debt. There's a lot of people that go to fancy restaurants that don't have any money. Posing as wealthy people. There's a lot of people with expensive watches that don't have any money either that or broke.There are probably as many millionaires to go to steakhouses the take a bag lunch to work that's the reality of the situation. Read the millionaire next door not than $1 million is a lot of money. If you look at a lot of these billionaires wife's they're not the most attractive women on the face of the planet. A lot of these billionaires are looking for character these women are passing through extensive background checks that go back to their childhood I can assure you. They're looking at these women's family members. Do the searches yourself look at these billionaires wives and girlfriends are not that attractive some of them are even may be a six. They're looking at other criteria besides beauty hate to break it to you but it's quite obvious

LOVE how you SUMMED up at end. I actually can’t stand the whole what do you do for a living question. They always ask that right at the get go. To me that’s a boring superficial question. It actually is a turn off for me when asked right at the get go

I met and saw a guy from a dating app that was to sensitive. He was waaayy to willing to give too much. He was boring as shit it drive me bat shit crazy. I had to tell him I’m not interested in seeing him anymore. YET this dude still holds onto anything he thinks I’m saying to stay in my life. I’m like OMFG 🤬. He seriously wasn’t listening. When a woman says “Good luck on finding a woman for you?” You’d think he’d get the point that that means goodbye. He didn’t! He would still call me, at times very late at night. He became stalkerish finding my email and real phone number online contacting me that way. I don’t give my real phone number out when I meet men online until I feel comfortable to do that

Top 10 men have zero to do with the amount of money they earn. It's about kindness and love. I do not want men to feel imaciated due to these messages of money, status and job. This forces great guys ( Top 10s ) under ground due to shame. Please stop training women that top 10 equals $$$$ , this is very damaging to all of us and insulting to women who btw can provide for ourselves financially. Kudos to John for pushing back on this message

Really annoying interviewer - interrupts every answer he gets

power attracts beauty beauty attracts power power is not necessarily money still true about a young women with babies who are not so modern why pay strangers to raise infants and educate children daycare is not good for anyone a woman who is able to care for her home and children needs to respect themselves for all that involves a good man will be happy with her not all women are feminist some are feminine

Now i can see 🤔 i should rethink every thing , thanks alot

This interviewer kept talking about how to get with a man with millions. But Dr Gray kept emphasizing that’s superficial and there will be no connection there. This interviewer can only see value in money. Forget about connection, happiness and feelings.

womp womp they're divorced now! 🤣😂

30days 😮 to marriage 😅

This is so good. Miss you James. ❤

Why not make something of one*s self. My grandmother wanted more than housework and became a doc 6 years before she could vote. Today*s women have it much easier.

The interviewer looks too young to have read the book in the mid-90s.

Love John Gray but found it difficult to listen to this interviewer! Also... the names of some of the segments are dicey.

The knowledge in this video is insane. Be back when I get my millionaire.

Great advice!

I had a needy man it turned me away 😊

That makes sense; good idea; you are right

32:30 you can look at man for security, companionship, great sex, family； surround yourself with activities that make you feel support and security

How to know if a man has potential? Lets say he is not where he wants to be aspires to live a richer, more meaningful and fulfilled life, has goals and ambitions, talks about it and tries to work towards it....Everything sounds nice but how to know if it is really coming to full fruition?

Makes sense! 😊😁🙏🍀

John Gray has a very big ego. I find him tiresome after a few minutes of his prattle. Big egos are exceedingly unattractive.

A top man has almost zero to do with a lot of money in the bank.

I am not a gold digger but my number one rule is you can't be staying with your mom and you got to have a job to at least provide and take care of yourself

OMG, is this grey guy married to an asian? If so, he lost my respect.

Why should I need ultra successful men. To be walking on egg shells, and be controlled? NO THANK YOU!

Seems as though you have to become a rich man yourself to snag one these days. Either that or have one heck of a body

I was working for a super rich man. The top 10 if we are talking about money. So... his wife - younger than him but not something beautiful, awful character (and all our company was aware of that), no diplomacy, no etiquet, not very smart. Was always behaving like a queen and he bought it. AND HE LOVED HER though being far from stupid or undereducated. SECRET??? There's no secret! Maybe only one - she was of high opinion about herself. That's it. But... he divorced her anyway after many years of being together. Probably, her character was too much even for his love.

If I date lots of men as he advices, men like me and saying no to them is very difficult for me. I dont wanna hurt anyone. Is it an easy way to reject men we dated? They pay for the date, but after that I'm rejecting them. This is really difficult for me.

What if I'm working full time, very busy and cant find time to go to places to these men? I want a top10 and wealthy guy to able to get rid of this job or find another job which is better but my current job does not allow this. I dont know what to do.

The host is unecessarily interrupting john gray

A man who genuinely likes you will not stick around for your games because he will see no future with someone who can’t take him seriously like he wants to take you seriously. A man who sticks around and takes a woman serious who see him as a game is not strong. That man is pitiful and desperate and has nothing to lose.

When are you coming back on line.