The Only Time A Woman SHOULD Play Hard To Get

[@hayatijabar9615]

I never played hard to get with my husband. In fact we hooked up the first day we met and have been together for 16 years eversince. Honesty is the best policy. A true gentleman will be honest about his true intention. When he meets a keeper, he will keep her and does his best to make her the happiest woman on earth!!!

[@Embodied.bliss.somatics]

That’s sooo great to hear! Thanks!!!!

[@4gma59]

You played Russian Roulette and happened to get lucky. I'd never NEVER recommend hooking up the first day for ANY woman. Ever.

[@jimbones1916]

It doesn't work if they guy already knows what he wants or why he wants the girl. But it will definitely drive him nuts, not always a positive thing. Only do this is you still need to get a sense of what he wants from you and if you are interested, its not nice to just manipulate.

[@Elidicious]

You either ARE hard to get or not. You can't PLAY hard now, and then be easy the next phase of the dating process. If you have a busy life, it'll be like that - during the courting and the relationship process. If you suggest that women should be easy in the relationship then the man will realize it's all been games and will start to take her for granted. I'm of the opinion to make adjustments where possible, nor be hard nor be easy. The woman who's got a life outside of dating will naturally have a busy life - with or without a man. No man is worth playing games and going extra miles to PRETEND to be hard to get for him. Women should be more laid back and see if the man is really interested in them. A man should not make the woman change the pace of her life. Therefore, what you're suggesting is a bit overrated because once in a relationship, the man will realize this woman is not what he thought she was - and that he has actually fallen for the idea of her, not for HER (in terms of who she really is). So either be real since the beginning or don't go for that relationship with him at all. If he's interested in you, he'll chase you. If he doesn't, he's not worth it. Simple as that.

[@InSpadez]

Yes, the counter offer. If she declines the date, and does not give a counter offer. I will call 1 week later, and ask for 1 more date. If I get nothing, I move on.

[@NDiaz-et6hc]

Thank you James and Maya for confirming this. I just need to work on it a bit. It's hard sometimes...if I really like the guy! Cheers!

[@p.alhadeffromrio]

Hey, an aussie helping americans to do the deed! Well done, mate! That takes the aussie blokes to a whole new level! I am loving it!

[@mimamimidebras6358]

I'm in this phase right now.

[@hinojous039]

this is 100% real, and right

[@eilybeltran8619]

are you a couple?

[@raisaarce5880]

I feel like I do this and it always fails. Lol the guy thinks that Im not interested. There is competition I feel

[@user-qx4nk5sp7c]

No you look uninterested them

[@jimsboy1mike]

There you go, be fake and inauthentic and men will fall for you. Nonsense. Men are not stupid, but these two are.

[@myassessmentadres1349]

he is australian

[@user-qx4nk5sp7c]

Are you duffee no if you act not interested . Alot of guys will straight jet.. don't play hard to get you look uninterested and like you don't care to try

[@sarawilde7493]

I like it! Thank you!

[@meloduple]

I never get this phase. I never understand it. It just sounds ridiculousy unnatural. But ill try it next time

[@user-qx4nk5sp7c]

Don't do it it makes you look uninterested and you don't care .. I'm a guy be honest never play hard to get ever

[@hflorida3]

thank you :)

[@sonyaerxn3522]

thanx, better late than never)

[@queeanlchan3699]

you are the best thank You

[@jenniferthorpe2938]

Great video ! Ignore the negative comments , believe me, they NEED YOUR advice .lol.

[@sonyaerxn3522]

only lazy or not-so-serious guys will stop pursuing at the beginning )

[@p.alhadeffromrio]

+Sonya Erxn and that saves time - precious time - that you can have for yourself or to share with more interesting people! Touche!

[@jeanettekniebusch9532]

Bull shit 34 years of neing together you get taken for granted unfortunately SHOULD have kept playing games.

[@stanleymartha5426]

l need help my husband is dating another woman younger than I am and Dis is the third tym he is cheating on me wat should I do. wat he does complain of is my vagina is not tight . have two kids

[@TheFleurChic]

Dear, are you sure this is a good man for you ?

[@tabitaeguangs]

There are lots of things you can do to tighten your vagina.Lots of things to use out there.Google is your friend.I feel sorry to hear he is cheating on you.The vagina is elastic so it is likely to expand each time he goes in there.Just tighten it up and you would be fine again.

[@4gma59]

Dump him.

[@mgulewich]

You guys need to wake up...... REALLY

[@babajaiy8246]

No - A man doesn't always value a challenge. Challenges are for career and work where it can be necessary. For relationships, honesty and no game playing are valued by many men. Stupid advice. If you have to play chase and hard to get - might as well move on because there is very little soul connection and things are only being looked at superficially.

[@4gma59]

Only lazy men make comments like this. Honesty and no game playing are part of being a high value woman. Actually BEING hard to get has nothing to do with PLAYING hard to get. But low value men have no clue what any of that means. They pick the low, rotting "apples" on the tree (or on the ground) because they're too lazy to put the work in and climb the tree for the best apples at the top. They settle for ''easy.'' The best men hold out for the best women -- the ones worth the climb.