I guess that depends... are there natural consequences to him not cleaning his room?
@wouldntyouliketoknow534213 сағат бұрын
How’s that for a natural consequence. He gets to choose. These are his options
@AskDanielWong4 сағат бұрын
@@wouldntyouliketoknow5342 If he gets to choose, it sounds like it would be a logical consequence, which could work too if natural consequences aren't possible.
@user-et6hd6qs3l2 сағат бұрын
Any recommendations?
@abdullahreed720021 сағат бұрын
Thanks for the work you are giving away. You are allowed to smile. I'm smiling now. I would like to see your smile now and then, Daniel. 〰️〰️〰️〰️〰️ Please think about the consequences of hearing about Judgement Day and not checking if it's true or not.
@AskDanielWong21 сағат бұрын
Thanks for the comment. I'm still working on feeling 100% comfortable in front of the camera, as you can tell!
@AskDanielWongКүн бұрын
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@wouldntyouliketoknow5342Күн бұрын
Sorry that’s bs. Kids are going to say that to justify that type of behavior because they really can’t explain why they’re rude for no reason they just have a bad attitude towards their parents and look at them as the enemy no matter how nice they can be is what I’ve come to find
@GangaRajagopalan3 күн бұрын
The biggest problem I'm facing is she is always on the phone or laptop to play chess and listen to music. She doesn't want to be with family members. She is telling me that I hate humans and she is very aggressive. Nowadays I have hypertension and stress. I'm undergoing the medications. She Don't like to step out of her room
@Shamiael3 күн бұрын
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@angelamerola-wt3kb6 күн бұрын
n4 for me totally :(((
@employee2investor6 күн бұрын
Thanks Daniel, I am also strugling with my teenage son for a few years now. Here i wonder, can i watch this video with my son? Please suggest...
@AskDanielWong6 күн бұрын
You're welcome. Yes, I think that if your son is willing to watch this video with you, that would be fine.
@MuhammadSameeruddin-gp2oq7 күн бұрын
My teen doesn’t study as She is continuously fail in school exams and spend more time on mobile
@nidhiyadav87217 күн бұрын
Biggest challenge i face with my 15 year old is that she says i am tired not able to sleep properly but refuse to floow our advice and communicate less and kind of shows she is suffering but doesn't let is help her.
@cottongirlsoft87367 күн бұрын
How to motivate kids to follow policies at home positively
@sharonsullivan37108 күн бұрын
My teen son is not actively looking for a job, despite help from my husband and me. We have tried to show him how to go about it. He has gotten into a lazy rut.
@nehaarora59489 күн бұрын
Why I tell my problems she says “ why see you telling me” with a disgusting tone, when I share some of her younger brother’s difficulties then also she says” idojt know go away”
@renyocfemia64509 күн бұрын
Thank You So Much,I learn a lot
@AskDanielWong8 күн бұрын
You are welcome!
@FreelancerBellal-SEO_Expert10 күн бұрын
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@MsNeuroSpicEE10 күн бұрын
It's hard to let natural consequences unfold, especially after you've invested so much effort, only to watch it seemingly go to waste. However, you're right. This approach was what finally helped my oldest grasp the importance of their actions and set them on a better path. It was incredibly painful to watch and doing nothing felt like the toughest choice, but I now realize it was worth it. My mother wasn't perfect in many ways, and with my brother, she never enforced real consequences or stuck to her punishments, which negatively affected him throughout his adult life. His life was a sad story of wasted potential, despite his kind heart and promise. I've come to understand that what's easy for a parent isn't always what's best for the child. Parenting is about accepting this tough reality, knowing full well they might not appreciate or understand your actions until they're older, perhaps not until they're living on their own or have children themselves. So, don't expect immediate gratitude. Do your best and the results are what they are we are human as are they.
@muyarmyawin337211 күн бұрын
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@AskDanielWong11 күн бұрын
That's very kind of you!
@muyarmyawin337211 күн бұрын
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@AskDanielWong11 күн бұрын
You're welcome!
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@MC-fx9jc12 күн бұрын
My teen doesn’t want to go back to school because the pupils are rude and she doesn’t know how to handle that situation. Please give me some advice. Thank you so much and God bless you for all your great videos
@dr.bharathikumaramangalam13 күн бұрын
My son is 14 not focusing on writing. Addicted to phone and so lazy. Always lying down and watching phone 😢
@sumairausman856813 күн бұрын
My teenage daughter does not like anything to do, like eating, studying, walking, maintaining her room etc. What should I do now to improve our relationship
@europefoodtaste13 күн бұрын
Hi my teen is Net abhangig if i say turn off now there 4 hour passed she start screaming. 2.she always say No to whatever i say her i find it very difficult and i feel i canot bring up her in a good way. Plz Help
@AskDanielWong14 күн бұрын
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@LeahRose10214 күн бұрын
I find swearing almost intolerable.
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@AskDanielWong14 күн бұрын
That's kind of you to say that
@t3ibt14 күн бұрын
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@AskDanielWong14 күн бұрын
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@miguelv298515 күн бұрын
My teenage son told me to "shut up" at one time when I rush him and ask him to hurry up because I need to drop him off at school. He also gave me the dirty finger when I reminded him about something simple like correcting his posture. Of course, we had a serious talk about his actions and I told him that it's disrespectful but do you have other recommendations to resolve this issue in the future?
@ConfusedChocolateStrawbe-yu1nd17 күн бұрын
My teen displays all of the signs, how can I contact you?
@AskDanielWong17 күн бұрын
Thank you for your comment. To get in touch with me if you're interested in getting help for your teen, please submit this online form: daniel-wong.typeform.com/to/a20ZzZ
@cloudfish182917 күн бұрын
This is a 15yo boy from an online community. I'm not his family. Apparently, his parents doesn't let him use social media, except for our small online server. I am 28. At first, I tried to coach him, I was respectful and all that. He didn't respond much but kept talking about his situation. He displays toxic traits like judging other ppl or saying sarcastic things to them. One day, he tried to do this to me too, and I wasn't having that and changed the topic in a dismissive way. Eventually after some more weeks, idk why but he started judging me, giving me silent treatment, then when I was writing about a bug bite in the server today, nothing serious just little daily life things, he said "...just no." I asked him to clarify what he meant, but he decided to run away with silence. :/ Super frustrating
@manisha97818 күн бұрын
I just came across this video when i was watching videos about Motivational Interviewing, WOW! what a great video and practical tips that we (parents) can implement. Thank you Thank you Thank you! My greatest challenge is to help my teenager cope with his ADD and he is going off to college. We are worried.
@AskDanielWong17 күн бұрын
Thank you for your kind words! And thank you for sharing. If you might be interested in having me work with your son to prepare him for college, feel free to let me know.
@detectivethinker363718 күн бұрын
Which country are you based in? In the Uk, schools can be very hectic, depending on the school that you go to.
@parul964819 күн бұрын
Teenage arguing with your right ways asking why.asking justification
@Cydney2David20 күн бұрын
We are already in counseling because I saw all these signs before saw this video. We should have been in counseling earlier.
@Cydney2David20 күн бұрын
I completely understand what you saying so far with this video. I see that my son has become outcome-oriented recently and I hope to changed this because he become anxious and depressed and missed a lot school. We are currently in counseling because of this individual and family. Your video has open my eyes to some my mistakes that I have made without meaning to. My son calls my nagging - yapping because he's a little jerk - I asking to do chores around the house he treats more like a suggests and complains that he "too busy or too tired" this including the days the he does not even go to school. I will be watching your video on Lazy Teenager and Getting Your Teenager out of Bed soon.
@nayeemahassan397720 күн бұрын
My apprictation s not taking by using some other things
@nayeemahassan397720 күн бұрын
I don’t understand why we have to so nice when they know everything for me nothing works when we r nice she says why r u being angle suddenly so far .i don’t know what Brain they have
@romitaadi0621 күн бұрын
Absolutely
@Robbery-bt5cj21 күн бұрын
Daughter doing drugs in scool
@wraynephew683821 күн бұрын
It is a cultural thing. Teenagers test their boundaries up until the point you allow them. For example rudeness in children is not tolerated in a place like Jamaica. If you talk rudely to your father or mother expect a slap or some severe consequence for it. In America we try to embolden our children and that is why they test boundaries all the time.
@wtfnot878321 күн бұрын
Great advise for most parents with teens. However, with my son, if I let him take responsibility for waking up on his own he won’t. He doesn’t care about the consequences, he doesn’t think school is important. It’s frustrating for me and my wife. We are scared that he doesn’t care about anything but playing on his phone. We are at our wits end, please help.
@AskDanielWong21 күн бұрын
I'm very sorry to hear about the frustrating situation with your son. Do you think your son would be open to working with me through this 1-to-1 coaching program (www.daniel-wong.com/coaching/)?
@adeemmaona663021 күн бұрын
Does this mean the parents themselves need professional help, especially if parents score 10+