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@Landis_Grant
@Landis_Grant 2 ай бұрын
In Canada, the expectant mother may elect for a Caesarean at 36 weeks.
@ataviaskai
@ataviaskai 2 ай бұрын
@@Landis_Grant oh gosh, really? I would’ve never elected to do that with my first pregnancy for no medical reason. I had a c section with my 2nd born & a natural home birth with my 3rd. The c section was so traumatic for me.
@Landis_Grant
@Landis_Grant 2 ай бұрын
@@ataviaskai My wife elected to have both our kids through a Caesarean at precisely 36 weeks through prescheduling (or earlier if the umbilical cord appears to be wrapped around the baby at any ultrasound scan).
@ataviaskai
@ataviaskai 2 ай бұрын
@@Landis_Grant I love that they take that seriously. They don’t here. All 3 of my babies had nuchal cords! No one seemed to think it was an issue. My second baby could’ve died as well. She was in distress from all of the medications I was on during labor and they lost her heartbeat. At that point, I had to have an emergency c section. My third pregnancy was pretty uneventful. I went into labor at 40 weeks exactly and the baby’s umbilical cord was wrapped around her neck just twice.
@ToniSultana-rt2nr
@ToniSultana-rt2nr 2 ай бұрын
I lost my baby girl, full term, in November of 1983. I waited a little over 6 years to try again, in fear of losing another baby. In August of 1990, I had my son (rainbow baby). I lost my son at the age of 31 , on November 15, 2021 due to his heart just stopping at work and him not being noticed in time for CPR to bring him back. I know and understand the pain that you are going through.
@kee1234.
@kee1234. 2 ай бұрын
They shouldnt be letting mums go so overdue 😢 im so sorry u went through this, its every parents worst nightmare, im crying for you. Your so strong, im so sorry for your loss 😢❤❤❤
@ataviaskai
@ataviaskai 2 ай бұрын
@@kee1234. it’s actually quite normal/natural to go beyond 40 weeks! I just wish there was better monitoring for if/when baby is in distress. I never had 1 abnormal thing occur during this pregnancy! So heart breaking.
@hilarisiitula3178
@hilarisiitula3178 3 ай бұрын
Have you seen a therapist?? How did you cope with grief…?
@ataviaskai
@ataviaskai 3 ай бұрын
@@hilarisiitula3178 therapy helps a ton! 🫶🏽 I was seeing my therapist weekly at one point!
@hilarisiitula3178
@hilarisiitula3178 2 ай бұрын
@@ataviaskai I have soo many questions for you because you went through the same thing I did.. After loosing your baby…did you have to go to a doctor for some check ups before trying to convince… Did you have to sleep in the same room on the same bed..did you not at some point feel like it was kind of bad luck or something…
@JanetDeCarlo
@JanetDeCarlo 3 ай бұрын
I really love you. You have so much feeling when you talk. Sorry for your loss you are one strong woman.
@scorpio54williams96
@scorpio54williams96 4 ай бұрын
I really don't have the words to say right now because our stories are so similar. My outcome just didn't end the same. Although, I have miscarried a baby, God gave me another baby right after that. He is a special needs child who has Downs Syndrome and he is a miracle. What I can say is God allows Angels to come down for a little while and you were Blessed with one of them.
@doubledimpled778
@doubledimpled778 7 ай бұрын
I went through the same soul crushing experience with my little boy! It makes you feel less than a woman not being able to birth a child that you've carried so long. Then to actually go through the birthing experience and pain and not hear your baby cry is gut wrenching! Nine months after that I was pregnant again within 2 months had a miscarriage, 2 years later pregnant again went to doctor appoint at 6 months and baby was having issues well my body was literally attacking my baby boy so I had to deliver immediately he went straight n NICU and my baby boy passed in my arms 3 days later! So at this point the docs had figured out that it was an issue with H factor in my blood and with that causee my body to attack my baby as if its fighting a disease! So moving forward 3 years later I was pregnant again with another boy and with all info gathered from previous pregnancy and births Dr were able to watch closely give me rhogam shot and delivered my baby boy at 7 months. He just turned 17 last week and I birthed a little girl 4 years after that. So with all I went through God still blessed me with my babies I have now so don't give up on yourself baby!!
@ataviaskai
@ataviaskai 6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this! 🫶🏽 so sorry you know what this pain is like too.🥹 I haven’t given up by far! We were blessed with 2 more beautiful baby girls. They are so amazing. God really did his thing! I’m so so grateful for all of my girls! They’ve taught me so much about life & myself! 💜
@kaylin123
@kaylin123 7 ай бұрын
Thank you. Your testimony is one of the few that shares this loss with light. I know you’re a daughter of the King because He radiates in you. I too lost my son on 3/12/24. I’m not mad at God at all, but know He will lead me and my husband through this. Thank you for sharing this gracefully.
@megtaylor1027
@megtaylor1027 8 ай бұрын
Beautiful Mama, I am so so very sorry for the loss of your sweet lovely baby girl. You are so strong Mama, and I know God is wrapping his arms around you 🙏♥️
@ataviaskai
@ataviaskai 8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 🫶🏽🥹
@psychonauty2020
@psychonauty2020 9 ай бұрын
i hope you have a dozen children who are exactly like you, im so sorry we lost the chance to meet your sweet daughter on earth, she will be there beside your Heavenly Father waiting for you at your time❤
@ataviaskai
@ataviaskai 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind words 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽 I have some beautiful daughters who are like me in many ways.
@tranquility9325
@tranquility9325 9 ай бұрын
Baby you are not alone. You are a warrior. Tyfs your story. Much love sis❤
@ataviaskai
@ataviaskai 8 ай бұрын
Same 💜 thanks sis!
@tranquility9325
@tranquility9325 8 ай бұрын
@@ataviaskai yw 🤗
@auzij4949
@auzij4949 11 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@KYMom23
@KYMom23 11 ай бұрын
I'm soooo sorry😢💔🙏🏻👶🏽
@Sherl454
@Sherl454 Жыл бұрын
And u n3 er no,,, Lord Work 🙏 in Mysterious ways we ❤you and yours.....
@Sherl454
@Sherl454 Жыл бұрын
Wrapping or unwrapping,,,, midwife our angle had to go back to Heaven 😢
@Sherl454
@Sherl454 Жыл бұрын
I thought still birth at frist 🤔 in there crib,,,,,
@ataviaskai
@ataviaskai Жыл бұрын
Not sure what you meant but still birth is birthing a baby that is deceased. SIDS is sudden infant death syndrome?
@Dyates-dp4kc
@Dyates-dp4kc Жыл бұрын
My condolences i lost my baby she was 7 months still birth so devasting my hurt goes out to all those moms
@Wildmiracles
@Wildmiracles Жыл бұрын
We lost our 2 month old infant in June. I ended up getting pregnant unexpectedly 3 weeks before her passing and didn’t find out til 2 weeks after she left us so i completely understand.. I’m currently 16 weeks pregnant with our rainbow baby. Congratulations and I pray your family is still growing and thriving ❤
@Wildmiracles
@Wildmiracles 11 ай бұрын
Update- I ended up needing to go to the hospital for a hemorrhaging late term miscarriage at 18 weeks.. I will never know my son. I was so scared and now I’d do anything to know he was still secure in my womb. I love you my sweet Judah.
@lenaiyahtyranea2305
@lenaiyahtyranea2305 10 ай бұрын
@@Wildmiracles I am so sorry for your loss. For your son and daughter. I lost my daughter at 18 weeks as well. I went into preterm labor😔.
@Ebbi3
@Ebbi3 Жыл бұрын
How soon after you got pregnant again?
@ataviaskai
@ataviaskai Жыл бұрын
I was pregnant 4/5 months after our loss. I was terrified. They usually recommend waiting 1-2 years to allow your body time to heal. I was actually cleared to “start trying” though. We had no idea it would be that soon!
@damonsworld281
@damonsworld281 Жыл бұрын
Congratulations you will be fine, God has you...
@damonsworld281
@damonsworld281 Жыл бұрын
Rest assured that we never die, your baby is very much alive and you will be united with her again
@damonsworld281
@damonsworld281 Жыл бұрын
Off all the stories of baby loss, yours touched me the most, know that God makes no mistakes your sweet angle came and left for reasons that one day you will understand when u see her again in heaven. God bless you and your family. She is very much alive and you will hold her again❤
@vanlifebae
@vanlifebae 4 ай бұрын
Sounds like a evil "god"
@lawyer12381
@lawyer12381 Жыл бұрын
We miss youuuu sis.
@ataviaskai
@ataviaskai Жыл бұрын
Aw, I needed this!! 💜💜💜Promise you’ll watch my update whenever I post again! I had another baby this year in January 🤭
@lawyer12381
@lawyer12381 Жыл бұрын
@@ataviaskai You've no idea how happy I am for you sis👏❤️. I'm praising the Lord on your behalf. Yohhhh congratulations 🎊 my love you deserve this my beautiful sis!!!!!.
@vickythefist7062
@vickythefist7062 Жыл бұрын
I was born with the cord wrspped around my neck twice .im 45 now. Im so sorry it wasnt the case for you . Thankyou for sharing your story im sure you have helped so many people
@ataviaskai
@ataviaskai Жыл бұрын
So glad like most babies, it didn’t harm you. I think maybe bc of cov*d & the nuchal cord that this happened to my girl. Thank you so much for listening 🫶🏽
@lisarobbins6334
@lisarobbins6334 Жыл бұрын
God chose you to honor Him. What a testimony.
@TheOKkittyfarm
@TheOKkittyfarm Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your daughter and your story.
@ataviaskai
@ataviaskai Жыл бұрын
Thank you for listening 🫶🏽
@shaygiomari442
@shaygiomari442 Жыл бұрын
This video hits so hard, I’m so sorry for your loss. Just had my son still born 2 months ago and as much as I want to try again I’m scared out of my mind! This gives me so much encouragement to be stronger 💕 so happy to see you delivered your precious baby safely this time and wish so much for a similar outcome soon 🥰
@tammydawnhardin641
@tammydawnhardin641 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. ❤
@joyceyagoda4207
@joyceyagoda4207 Жыл бұрын
My daughter always slept in the morning when I was pregnant! I do understand what you are saying! I always hate when babies are late! It is never good! I think women should be induced when babies are late!
@LADYVIKING05
@LADYVIKING05 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video!!! My husband & I recently had a stillbirth son & he was delivered on May 15, 2023, at 29 weeks LMP, & 31 weeks ultrasound age. We are devastated. Baby boy was doing so well & moved so much, until I didn’t feel him move & got suspicious & went to the ER, where an IUFD was confirmed. We feel so numb & our hearts are shattered. I miss my baby so much & was looking fwrd to being a mom in July. The hospital staff were AMAZING! We spent over 14 hrs w/ our son after he was born. We even got a box from Rachel, w/ his pics & everything, which we loved.
@Doomedmandy77
@Doomedmandy77 Жыл бұрын
I’m So Sorry
@sharonbruinsma7825
@sharonbruinsma7825 Жыл бұрын
Going through this right now as my son passed away at 38+3 weeks on April 5th 2023 and was born the day after. In the evening he was alive and the morning after he was not. It's soul crushing. There were no visible signs of what had happened and we're still waiting for results of tests on the placenta and cord.
@nicolayoung7973
@nicolayoung7973 Жыл бұрын
May i ask if you took the vaccine early on?, only there were 3 ladies suffered the same it was awful i was the lucky one. After talking with 2 of those ladies both thought the vaccine had a lot to do with the end result 😩
@ataviaskai
@ataviaskai Жыл бұрын
Hey, no. I didn’t get any vaccines. 🥺
@kerrylewisRN
@kerrylewisRN Жыл бұрын
I made the last comment. My brother & sister in law had to deliver their baby too. There was nothing “wrong” with her. The doctors did not know why she had passed. They went on to have four children. God bless you and your husband. I cannot imagine anything worse. They did c-sections for her other babies because there was no explanation for their daughter’s passing in utero.
@kerrylewisRN
@kerrylewisRN Жыл бұрын
My brother and sister in law had a stillbirth over 40 yrs ago at 40 weeks. They’ll never forget her. They named her Elizabeth. Prayers for your hurting heart.
@tonyasnyr4569
@tonyasnyr4569 Жыл бұрын
You are very strong young woman. Your testimony is helping so many others. She is in the arms of our Dear Lord and Savior and will be waiting for you when your Journey here is finished. Our soul lives on for all of eternity. Bless you, your beautiful Daughter and your Strong and loving husband. Thank you for taking the time and for sharing your own precious and personal story in hopes of helping others. 💜 You are causing the ripple effect God has intended for us all. Giving of your own heart to help others through the same loss and suffering you have experienced.. letting them know, you can embrace even tragedy and see it as a Gift even in the midst of your pain and sorrow. A precious gift to have if even for a few fleeting hours. Our time here on this earth is short indeed and you will be reunited with your sweet baby girl one day again and OH what a Glorious Day that will be. In Jesus Name I pray for peace and comfort that surpasses all understanding for you and your loved ones. God Bless.
@MsLeeleebaby
@MsLeeleebaby Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry, you’re so strong. Unfortunately I knew someone that this happened to during the pandemic as well. I think she also tested positive
@Tablefor6
@Tablefor6 Жыл бұрын
*big hugssssss
@ataviaskai
@ataviaskai Жыл бұрын
🫶🏽🫶🏽 thank you
@amandameyer3249
@amandameyer3249 Жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for you that you were denied a c-section. That's BS. People can voluntarily and permanently alter themselves through plastic surgery, so it makes no sense why they wouldn't allow you to have elective surgery on your uterus, especially for such a valid reason.
@Bueller.Bueller.Bueller.
@Bueller.Bueller.Bueller. Жыл бұрын
You are so brave! I listened to every word! I admire your strength 💝
@ataviaskai
@ataviaskai Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! It truly means so much to me!! 💜
@christinerodriguez9508
@christinerodriguez9508 Жыл бұрын
First I would like to say my condolence to the Family. Me: when I was pregnant with my 1st baby my 8th month I had called my Grandma not my mom I don't know why I didn't call her but anyway I was on phone crying telling her that i was bleeding she said call the Doctor. ( In your state of mind you didn't think about calling Dr, it's about would answer right away) yes I had my little girl September 1st 7lb 11oz. once you have noticed that your baby has changed the movements ( let's just say it was on the 2nd day ) you should had called, Doctor, your mom, family, This not for the mother that just lost her baby. I'm just saying Nothing But Love For Everyone Amen ❤️
@modestinemungo4661
@modestinemungo4661 Жыл бұрын
😢 I'm so sorry
@modestinemungo4661
@modestinemungo4661 Жыл бұрын
🙏
@maryellenblount6376
@maryellenblount6376 Жыл бұрын
Honey you were in shock. That's why your response was "okay". It's totally understandable given you were told your baby had passed. I'm so sorry this happened to you but applaud your courage in sharing your story.
@amore8299
@amore8299 Жыл бұрын
How do you feel now? Does it get better my beautiful daughter just experienced this.
@lc1590
@lc1590 Жыл бұрын
So glad to know you have your rainbow baby now! I watched your other video about your first and my heart really goes out to you, you are definitely one strong Mama for sure though. You have a beautiful heart and will reap the many blessings Our Father has to give and bless you with. You deserve all the best... stay strong, keep your hope and positive attitude along your journey, your doing great!!
@alexandraz.9488
@alexandraz.9488 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience. I just lost my full term daughter a month ago. I am in a scary place mentally. Does it get better with time? I can't imagine doing this a long time. My mind just plays and replays and I'm desperate to hold a living infant in my arms.
@ataviaskai
@ataviaskai Жыл бұрын
I am terribly sorry for your loss. It can be a very dark, isolating place. Please trust me when I say eventually, you will be able to breathe again and it won’t be such a crippling feeling one day. You never forget or stop grieving. You just find ways to keep going and live through the pain! You can do this mama! 💜 I’m sending you so much love & light. You’re not alone!
@kerrylewisRN
@kerrylewisRN Жыл бұрын
Yes it does get better. My brother & his wife took 3 yrs for their rainbow baby. Their first was perfect & no medical reason could they find for their loss. God bless you & keep you.
@Ummsudi
@Ummsudi Жыл бұрын
Your stillbirth story is very similar to mines.. I lost my babygirl May 21, 2022 I was 40 weeks and 1 day. She was alive the day before on my due date and the next day I had contractions all day and I went to the hospital and they couldn’t find a heartbeat.
@shreebhumi
@shreebhumi Жыл бұрын
How long you waited before conceiving second pregnancy?
@ataviaskai
@ataviaskai Жыл бұрын
We technically conceived again when I was 4/5 months postpartum! Wasn’t the plan… just happened that way.
@shreebhumi
@shreebhumi Жыл бұрын
@@ataviaskai lots of ❤️ and blessings to ur child. 1 question: any complications due to back to back pregnancy? I m in similar situation.
@ataviaskai
@ataviaskai Жыл бұрын
@@shreebhumi thank you! And same to you mama! No, we didn’t have any complications at all. Just allowed fear to steer us this time and it resulted in a non medically necessary c-section. I was induced at 37 weeks like we planned but wasn’t progressing as fast as they would’ve liked for me to and had all types interventions which led to another traumatic birth. Hope all is well with you. Do your research and advocate for yourself! You can do this. 💜
@ashleylyons7906
@ashleylyons7906 2 жыл бұрын
Awe mama my heart freaks for you o had my second baby Alayah grace on may 22nd 2020 wing pregnant already during the pandemic couldn’t be more stressful I can’t imagine the pain you went through , this was always a fear of mine both times I was pregnant with my babies … my heart is with you 🥺🙏