Oh yay 😊

I liked what you've said, and how you said it!

🎉So glad for you.Congrats! I can relate to you. I've had life long struggle with food. I agree with you in meds. Back to basics.❤

So proud of you! One day at a time. You have a good attitude and outlook. You are so right, feelings don't need food. I never heard that before, but it makes sense and it is true!

Thanks for sharing what is working for you and being encouraging.

You have inspired me! New follow.

Omg, we're twins! All those diets and being bigger while athletic. Follow.

Step by step! Let's go!

Rock on queen

Im 56. Ive lost 90 lbs in the last 2 years. My A1C was 11, when i was diagnosed. Im on Monjauro. My A1C is 6.4 now. Im so happy. Plus, i got off my fat butt and started walking last may. I did a 5k and a 10k in the last 3 months. This was a great video. I really enjoyed it.

New sub here. I love this video. I have a video on my channel where i broke down because i hate the way i look in the camera. More than one video. You are inspiring. May i share this video on my channel?

New sub! Keep going, we need more real people like you!❤❤❤

Honey you need to keep going…at some point this channel is going to take off. It can’t not. You are authentic and real and that is what this world needs!

You are a light in this world. Thank you for being so vulnerable and putting yourself out there.

Ok, we are going to have to be friends. 😊

You are fabulous! New subscriber. :)

Hi. ~Couple thoughts. Your point about the tragedy both you & your daughter (& earlier your son, I would guess, felt in other aspects) experienced yet will also continue healing wounds from, these seem to be plenty of reasons the people who know your daughter Could choose to make as a priority, to put their love at the forefront of their relationships with you both. We don’t control that in others, clearly. Maybe that’s growing in them currently, even as they may find it challenging to what they may have been raised to view as good. I hope it grows. Regarding biology, which includes more than we know: I think of the magnetic shavings some schools provided in grade school for students to observe & move in experiments: The shavings all looked the same. Yet some were magnetically drawn to others and some were repelled by others. You could try to push the latter together, yet they’d separate as reliably as those that would link. This is their chemical make-up, not their choice. As I think it is with gender aspects of sexuality & of identity. Just as I also think we don’t choose the shape of our ears … & so much about the biology we discover we have. Though I appreciate your use of the word “choice” in the context I consider you may have meant it: Essentially that we need to respect that biology develops over its own time & throughout our lives. So we need to respect that individuals realize what’s true about their own biology in their own time. It may seem someone is “choosing” their nature, but (I believe), the role of choice is in how much a person decides to live with others knowing what’s true for that person. Lastly, good luck with your channel. It’s brave of you to share your truths & what you call your failures in a forum that can be callous. Thankfully it’s also good to remember “social media” is not essential to life or happiness. :) Also, thanks for reminding me that some who heavily focus on themselves (as you noted elsewhere) may also be blaming themselves inordinately. We’re all works in progress. ‘Kind sharing’ - & ‘kind response’ - is a great builder ~

How to move on? How to feel better after ppl hurting...

Hey.. Can u help me?

Good vedio for new perspectives 👍

Hi youre accent is strong with a kick to it. Its cool. Im from Ireland so i sound like a Paddy 😂

My ego wont let me😂

Yes haha I will do this next time for the laugh.

Do you find people treat you differently since you've accepted yourself as you are? Btw you're actually very pretty and you come across pretty cool too.

💖💖💖

Its been good times and u still look good know matter what haters have to say about u. My grandma always say sometimes u have to just slow down the fast ways of the world look in the mirror and ask what do you want and what's good for u dont worry about those people its about u at the end of the day.

Awww

This the largest dose of Copium I’ve ever seen! Outside the death of a spouse, you are single BECAUSE of your choices, NOT because it was “forced” on you by some nefarious nebulous outside entity you choose to call “Society”…. Talk about dodging responsibility! Responsibility to women is like Kryptonite to Superman, or like a crucifix to Dracula. So you’re over 40 and single? … by choice? Seriously? Have you looked in the mirror? My guess is you’re north of 300 lbs. No man wants a woman who is overweight, much less one who weighs more than he does! … I’m 6’ 2” and 190 lbs. as of my last trip to the VA about a month ago. My Levi’s are size 33W x 34L … my waist is smaller than my inseam… you probably outweigh me by 100+ pounds! Here’s a choice that will prevent Bad Old Society from “forcing” you to be single… Put the fork down, step away from the Golden Corral All-You-Can-Eat Buffet Table, and step on to the treadmill at Planet Fitness… and stick with it. Problem solved. SP5 Old Curmudgeon US Army Vietnam Veteran 1969-70…. and Beaucoup Number Ten GI

It hit me hard when u said that we choose our lives. It's not forced on us ..initially yes...but after a while... we choose it. Currently, i am in the transition phase of taking control of my life. The only thing i am struggling with is to count on my own abilities and get out of the dependency on others. I have been a people pleaser all my life, and I am paying a huge price for it.

People toxic dishbag.

Being single makes people grow, mentally, faster!

Didn't date n school because frankly I was socially awkward around girls! Spent my 20s and 30s working lots of hours and going to concerts and ballgames solo or with guys I worked with. Had 2 close relationships in my 40 s and fifties but didn't really like domestic life with a partner. Still single at 63. Mostly because my income cannot support someone else. I don't feel comfortable living off savings that someone else has built for their retirement years. But I love being in charge of my days, and doing whatever my budget allows me to do.

I am 46 and alone and I feel so blessed to find this channel! I have 3 grown kids, that are my life. I'm trying to find myself after my youngest moved out in June, and I lost Daisy, my ESA of 14 1/2 years and the best dog a girl could hope for, and 8 days before that our precious little Peachy cat, who we had for 20 years, suddenly passed away. My house got way too quiet too quick and it's sent me deep into paralyzing anxiety and depression 😢 Oh, I also lost/quit my job in May to take care of Daisy, and we are getting evicted. So yeah, hi, my name is Amber, nice to meet you! 💛

Cats and box wine. The life of the obese leftover woman

It ultimately boils down to exactly whose idea it is. If it's your own idea to be alone? Great. Wonderful. Live your life. Go your way in peace. But if it's not, if it's a decision that is made "for" you, if it's something that is forced on you? Different story. By orders of magnitude.

You and I are in the same decade. I'm over 40. I don't look like you. And I have no trouble finding a man. Also you don't look happy. You look like you eat your feelings. Maybe stop lying to yourself?

Wait until JD Vance finds you.

59, never married, no kids, 1 cat and life is great. Over men drama forever 😊