Narcs are thriving not because they’re so smart but because people tend to want to be wanted and needed so bad they allow the narc to get away with way to much the narc wouldn’t even allow someone to treat them the way they treat other’s
@ladyree7575Күн бұрын
I have a married man neighbor property manager. That sent me a text message addressing himself as Daddy in the office and saying his package was delivered to my house. Which was a lie. He has been parking in front of my front door 24/7. I asked him not to, the police asked him not to but he ignored this. I had to file a restraining order. He has moved finally but he is recruiting flying monkey's to approach me. These people are horrible. I've had several of them. I'm tired of it Im 72 yrs old.🥴
@clarissimaadayinthelifeofa1782Күн бұрын
Oh no, first it was love, now it's words as well.. Tis true that HG has ensnared us thus. nb. Who knew he would say so right at the end, lol.
@clarissimaadayinthelifeofa1782Күн бұрын
Yep, like a hamster wheel. 🐹
@kx7566Күн бұрын
So spot on. Thank you H.G for this
@Tracy-sj1vrКүн бұрын
Has this work changed your prehaps, not behavior, but maybe routine, pattern. I find it difficult to think it could not. And if it has, what within you made this change. Or have you not changed at all. You are intelligent, and you clearly understand what narcissists do to others. Surely you have changed even if only on a conscious level, if not emotional.
@Victoria-c4nКүн бұрын
Burst out loud laughing at the narcissist listening to “All By Myself” via Celine Dion… the NEX actually told me that when Eric Carmen’s 1975 (the year I divorced him) original version of that song came out, he thought it was all about him. Thanks for the laugh!
@callonthemidwife1874Күн бұрын
Thank you, HG tutor👍 this is right on💫
@CamCam-mq6jiКүн бұрын
His accuracy is uncanny
@Chippey1976Күн бұрын
My ex husband didn’t speak to me for 3 days once, because I was late home from the shop and wasn’t there to make his sandwich for lunch. I was stunned and hadn’t realised til that point how controlled I was. Dumb and young I must have been.
@MatthewJames-u4hКүн бұрын
Well if you are going to be a shit head...
@kiibo5862Күн бұрын
After You’ve Had Enough And Left, These Are Some Of The Things The Narc Does. 1. Initial Grand Hoover. 2. Smears You. 3. Hoovers Others. 4. Switches To Supplementary Sources. 5. Paints You Black. 🖤🖌🎨 Thank You HG Tudor.
@CamCam-mq6jiКүн бұрын
These people are disgusting and make me sick. HG does a good job of describing this behaviour - I've seen it before but could never articulate it. I'm grateful for his wording - me alone, I could never achieve it. I, for one, will never allow a narcissist to do this to me (by going no contact) or to anyone else (by rejecting their attempt to slate someone else).
@God_Leads_My_WayКүн бұрын
@CamCam-mq6ji It would be a much peaceful world if more people stop allowing the narcs to triangulate them especially once finding out about someone else they’re involved with
@MatthewJames-u4hКүн бұрын
At fucking last! My morale can't be broken! It's impossibla! It depends where your intelligence starts and finishes. and I define, people's stupidity plus intelligence and then i will equslize them at my own hand. But I don't I ha e an ego. That's poor play.
@Chippey1976Күн бұрын
HG Everything you said is true of my ex-husband. The only difference is, that when the house was sold and I bought myself a new house I never saw him again. That was 32 years ago. I never remarried, as I had 15 miserable years with him. He has had multiple wives since me I believe, but I don’t even know where he lives. Lucky me.
@decipher8057Күн бұрын
What if the celebrity is stalking the non-celebrity?
@MargaretM-vd7bbКүн бұрын
Thankyou for thEducation HG.❤️🌻
@CamCam-mq6jiКүн бұрын
I'm also incredibly grateful for this 🙏🏼
@kx7566Күн бұрын
Thank you H.G ❤️
@SkylarK_x_bk_0Күн бұрын
Contradictory , "them" says "forget the past" when it is obvious that the 'cultural' effect of "we belong, you don't" (from many 'communities') is entrenched, bringing into question the 'ethos' of supposedly being "humanitarian" towards the more / most vulnerable persons of society as they 'detachedly' sit back and "watches the erosion of hope", like a group of vultures at a wake...... Thank you, HG, for your work, without it, many would not survive mentally, emotionally, and, sometimes, physically. 💟
@Pony-t9vКүн бұрын
Absolutely 💯
@LoveLove-582Күн бұрын
I gained clarity through your work. Love your work. Thank you for the information. Been listening for 3yrs. Will reach out for phone consultation soon.
@kx7566Күн бұрын
I’ve been listening for eight years priceless piece of work❤
@MargaretM-vd7bbКүн бұрын
Somethings should be Compulsory in life. Listening and Learning from your Work should be one of those. Forewarned , Forearmed. Thankyou for these Excellent Video’s HG , ❤️🌻.
@CamCam-mq6jiКүн бұрын
They're well worth it
@helenhoward5346Күн бұрын
I had several consults with the great HG, very worthwhile and wonderful to be able to personally access an expert such as him.
@Pony-t9vКүн бұрын
Poor Teddy …. Thank you HG❤🎉🎉🎉
@mysterial_1Күн бұрын
❤🌹
@dontpetthetopofmyheaduinbreadКүн бұрын
I can keep my mouth shut and get pretty for you when the Holmoka’s stop attacking me and triangulating me with the low lifes around our home. When you show up and I know you are real and say jump, I will say how high sir? What else is your pleasure master? We missed you. Unfortunately, I know you’re forever busy:(
@Rebeccax0x0Күн бұрын
HG, that would be option D. ALL OF THE ABOVE. ❤❤XX
@kx7566Күн бұрын
Thank you HG❤ you have helped me so much, very grateful 🙏
@dontpetthetopofmyheaduinbreadКүн бұрын
I will “watch how I speak “, to quote you, obviously, to HG Tudor and that hot sexy irresistible man on the North side of town. Both are busy owning the world and everyone in it to their pleasure. This delights me. To the riff raff still pretending like you have a backbone, you are welcome, for acknowledging you at all. How’s my property?
@justanopinion_reallyКүн бұрын
Once you identify a narcissist, never engage with them no matter how much they try to Hoover you in. There is wisdom in taking your time to get to know the person before becoming romantically involved.
@helenhoward5346Күн бұрын
Denial has definitely earned the top spot of this most helpful, concise, top 5 list.
@mysterial_1Күн бұрын
I want to break free, I want to break free I want to break free from your lies You're so self-satisfied I don't need you I've got to break free God knows, God knows I want to break free Queen ❤🌹
@AstraKiro27Күн бұрын
@@mysterial_1 Queen💯💯💯💯
@SamsungPhone-kk3otКүн бұрын
Listening to your work is a bit of a double edged sword, its disturbing to realize that all the effort and love you put into, what you thought was a relationship, was an illusion but it is also comforting to understand that there was nothing you had done or could have done to make it work. Your videos are crucial, it gives us knowledge and knowledge is power.
@kx7566Күн бұрын
I agree 💔
@helenhoward5346Күн бұрын
Thanks for the visual presentation HG. Midrange pity plays are the most insufferable. Future faking is also a bit irksome, but it's a given.
@helenhoward5346Күн бұрын
Your illumination of the, otherwise, unseen world of the narcissist is certainly invaluable HG. Learning about wounding and no contact upon GOSO before leaving is essential information to have. I'm grateful I could refer to HG for a few months before I GOSO'd (due to financial restraints I got a protective order to enforce no contact while being able to stay in the marital home with the kids, as I had no other financial options at the time). One must rip off that bandage that's emeshed deep into their flesh. They must ensure no contact and they will return to who they once were.
@DigitalLazarusКүн бұрын
Thank you HG. With regards to the Number 3: Could this also be applied to, say, the narcissist and IPPS's teenage child? And would this also be the narcissist's trigger to launch conscience or even unconscious Parental Alienation? And if that is the case would that be considered Number 5? Thanks as always for your life-saving knowledge-transfer.
@justanopinion_reallyКүн бұрын
The narcissist will use ancient history and rewrite what happened to get and/or take control. With each sibling narcissist and romantic has been of poor me. Am not understood, someone didn’t like me, I have no one. The most difficult to disengage is the sibling (family) narcissist.
@angelnocharlieКүн бұрын
Very interesting. Thank you HG
@justanopinion_reallyКүн бұрын
Narcissists. Once the golden period is over they will anything to maintain control and to degrade yourself worth. This even applies to sibling narcissist. I find it much worse coming from a sibling.
@LulusMom1961Күн бұрын
I love following politics, because I like to catch the mask drops, making their manipulations clearer to us. I've also had mini heart failures when you reveal personal character traits and behaviors, and pretty much everything that happened to me exactly as you described it. THAT is why I trust what you know to be true. Thank you, HG.