Dr Shefali hi,do you in your book give knowledge of how to meditate. Also how to know when and what is the present moment. Thank you
@Nopaleeto12 күн бұрын
Wow
@charleypepin160314 күн бұрын
great way to show reframing! Love your content
@klaudialupo901729 күн бұрын
There is nothing new about this method. It has been taught by Christ. When he walked the earth and interacted with people he never forced anything and never guilt tripped anyone yet people wanted to be around him constantly.
@zoobydooby31Ай бұрын
Thank u for this
@zoobydooby31Ай бұрын
❤
@zoobydooby31Ай бұрын
Absolutely thank you for this ❤
@phlegmconnoisseur2241Ай бұрын
Wonderful video. I truly feel present
@user-mm3eq6xc9tАй бұрын
What is the cure
@meaghancarter4904Ай бұрын
That's just beautiful ❤️🎉
@melaniewhitneyАй бұрын
They all sent me follow up text the next day with where they put their flowers 🥹
@katieharissfreestyleАй бұрын
No offence but you look like coraline in a good way❤😊
@joanafreitas4439Ай бұрын
Ideally, I would let the person go forever but in this case, she is my sister-in-law and I can't just erase her from my memory. How to deal with it?
@melaniewhitneyАй бұрын
We let go of the expectations we held about the relationship and implement boundaries. Easier said than done but possible. Check out my free communication course if you need tips on how!
@BrunoThomson-ff7umАй бұрын
I could give less than two shits
@Obihann2 ай бұрын
Although this advice sounds great, it's a lot harder in practice. I have a few built up at this point!🤭🤫
@melaniewhitneyАй бұрын
We get better with practice 🤓
@rulesfortheenotforme6132 ай бұрын
My daughter recently told me she needs me to step back.. not step out but step back.. she wants me to get a hobby to keep busy and stay off of her. She wants to show me she knows what to do instead of me telling her. And I admit I need to understand she grows daily and just bc this has failed before, such as letting her moderate her wine grades once she ends up with 30+ missing assignments in computers and had to spend 4 hours a night for a solid week catching up to pass the class.. I can’t hold that against her but it feels like need to keep an eye on this so this doesn’t happen again.. she was 8th grade then…
@saraWatson-co5rc2 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@melaniewhitneyАй бұрын
You're welcome!
@fromthebackseat48652 ай бұрын
BAAH! I VANT TO DRINK YOUR ENERGY
@Swiftiesslay09slay2 ай бұрын
Exactly my friend aka bitch is holding a grudge and I’ve apologized like idk what SEVEN times or 8 🤦♀️
@GodsChild3212 ай бұрын
Thank You , love this awareness, God Bless this Channel🙏🙏
@melaniewhitneyАй бұрын
Thank you for the kind words.
@Mrs.Graceqmri3 ай бұрын
Great interviewer. Dr shefali is great as usual
@melaniewhitney2 ай бұрын
She is such an awesome person to speak to, so much wisdom and presence.
@SharifaKhalil3 ай бұрын
I would like to see the results 4,10, 20, after someone raise their kids like this. Research
@melaniewhitney2 ай бұрын
Dig into some psychology databases and other academic journals - you'll find the communication patterns she discusses are supported by research. Is there a specific tactic you are curious about?
@tornwax3 ай бұрын
Thank you. You bring so much with every video.
@melaniewhitney2 ай бұрын
Thank you for the kind words! Hope you are well.
@user-mr4wj3bx2g4 ай бұрын
Sooooo how do I manage the constant attack Or disappointment towards me ?
@melaniewhitney2 ай бұрын
If it's constant, sounds like the relationship itself may not be healthy.
@blessed38304 ай бұрын
@Dr.Shefali can this book help fix a completely ruined mother son relationship? I adopted my 8yrs right old last year and because of all the issues we have lost that little bit of relationship that we had built.
@melaniewhitney2 ай бұрын
I would definitely look into the book, she lays out things in a very practical way. You may find many tools to help you rebuild the relationship, may just take some time.
@blessed38302 ай бұрын
@@melaniewhitney thank you!
@GirishMiglani4 ай бұрын
Lovely. It took me long but eventually I did became that parent who I needed in my life.
@melaniewhitney4 ай бұрын
thank you for putting in the work to do that for the world
@Wandeezimo4 ай бұрын
Glad this was recommended to me
@melaniewhitney4 ай бұрын
glad you found this helpful :)
@Bebsg23694 ай бұрын
Thank you makes sense...
@melaniewhitney4 ай бұрын
Glad you found it helpful.
@sofiamatias76835 ай бұрын
So true ❤
@melaniewhitney4 ай бұрын
glad it resonated
@Madycrazy5 ай бұрын
I do try but it doesn’t help much at all
@melaniewhitney4 ай бұрын
Doesn't help you? Or doesn't help others?
@monicatorres46865 ай бұрын
I’ve said that!! Ppl should need a License to have kids lol😅
@melaniewhitney4 ай бұрын
😅
@monicatorres46865 ай бұрын
My three year old twins now tell me, “I don’t need you” after I put them On the potty.. and I was so proud of them!! ❤
@melaniewhitney4 ай бұрын
Aw the probably felt so empowered to feel independent
@janycebrown40715 ай бұрын
Let yourself observe your feelings ❤ Don't run from your feelings ❣
@melaniewhitney5 ай бұрын
Such power if being able to observe
@stefflores5 ай бұрын
REALLY needed to hear this! Thank you! 🙏
@melaniewhitney5 ай бұрын
Glad the video found you 🫶🏽
@Ironicallygian5 ай бұрын
Tysm needed this today
@melaniewhitney5 ай бұрын
You’re welcome, hope it gave you some reassurance or clarity.
@suhanisisodia52236 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for the lovely advice!
@melaniewhitney5 ай бұрын
Hope it helps 🫶🏽
@suhanisisodia52235 ай бұрын
yes it did help!
@teriw566 ай бұрын
To bad the folks that could really use this teaching will never show up here.
@melaniewhitney5 ай бұрын
I like to think that the people who are ready to do the work will stumble across the video 🫶🏽
@Time4change1113 ай бұрын
Never say never 😏 with God anything is possible
@Kim-kw7fo6 ай бұрын
One million percent agree there needs to be some sort of certificate before having kids. My friend told me that at her practice, no one can adopt if theyeven vape. Yet anyone can breed willy nilly. I never was equipped to be a parent, neither was my mother. Unfortunately, requirements to be a parent will unlikely happen. I feel sad for the future sometimes.
@melaniewhitney6 ай бұрын
I feel you...I used to work in public health and youth in underserved communities. It was disheartening when the parents were not supportive of their kids. All we can do is make a difference in our own worlds, our own communities. Focus on those children and keep that mindset geared towards the kids you can help.
@emsmart13016 ай бұрын
Wise words..i wish id known this kind of thing sooner. Hadnt even heard of self love in 2009 when i met my last partner. This guy needed a lot of healing. Mental, physical, emotional. Yiu know a relationship isnt on the strongest foundation when you meet in the wueue for medication after being sectioned. Me because of bipolar. I just saw a guy with a big heart who had no idea how lovely he was. Long story short, stayed for 10 years as he had no one else in the world and i didnt wanna him to be alone. He's no longer with us anymore and im in an awesome relationship now with the one. One of the first things he tried to teach me is yr not as fragile as you think you are. Its true. I listen to yr morning meditations every morning. Sets the ball rolling really nicely. Take it easy xx
@melaniewhitney6 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story and the kind words. I'm sorry to hear all you went through. And glad to know you are doing well now. Glad you enjoy the morning meditation. Hope you are subscribed to my newsletter! Have more awesome things like that coming. Thank you again for the support.
@emsmart13016 ай бұрын
Awsome start to my day. Thank yoy. I suffer from bipolar diorder but my general setting is low anxiety. I need a kick start to my day as if i start with connection and warmth towards myself, this spills out towards the people i love who love me. For the last 2 weeks i was listening to yr other morning meditation and it has a v positive effect. Its lovely to hv a second one. However, in place of sending my amber light to humanity, i hold in my hands a pic of my loved ones over the years and send them with love while im feeling grateful and loving. Hope you hv a great day x
@melaniewhitney6 ай бұрын
Keep up with all the proactive things you are doing to orient your mind and energy. Sending you lots of love and light.
@my.cup.of.stars.journal6 ай бұрын
Thank you🩷
@melaniewhitney6 ай бұрын
Thank you for taking time to ground yourself. Each time one of us done this it not only benefits ourselves, but the humans we encounter.
@my.cup.of.stars.journal6 ай бұрын
I am saving this for tonight!!!🤗🩷
@melaniewhitney6 ай бұрын
Hope you sleep well!
@my.cup.of.stars.journal6 ай бұрын
This was amazing, thank you so much🩷🤗🙏
@melaniewhitney6 ай бұрын
I'm so glad you enjoyed it! Thank you for the kind comment. Any topic requests for the next meditation?
@jomoore1476 ай бұрын
Well done
@melaniewhitney6 ай бұрын
Thank you, hope you are doing well :)
@melaniewhitney6 ай бұрын
Download the audio for this guided meditation → www.mindlesstomindful.com/meditation-lovingkindness
@monicacasillas-bd8jc7 ай бұрын
I agree
@melaniewhitney5 ай бұрын
Many of us are just looking for connection
@monicacasillas-bd8jc7 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing such valuable information.
@melaniewhitney6 ай бұрын
Thank you for the kind words. What other topics do you want to see covered?
@justdawndb7 ай бұрын
As a 65 yr old grandparent of very young grandkids i see an astronomical amount of wisdom here! Thank you so much for sharing this. I am going to get the book!
@melaniewhitney7 ай бұрын
So glad you found the interview helpful. Dr. Shefali's book are incredible and packed with so much wisdom. Enjoy!
@elizabethgauger16667 ай бұрын
Much of what she is speaking of is similar to the four agreements, and even The Tao- really ancient wisdom in general. Not so sure about the comment that teachers don't have ego present- we are all human, therefore we all have an ego. We are all on a journey of discovery. Some of us are further on the path of understanding than others, but at all times we are both a student and a teacher.
@melaniewhitney7 ай бұрын
Yes, all humans have an ego. I think she meant teacher's don't have the SAME ego attachment as a parent does with their child. Teachers are able to view the child differently because it is a different dynamic/relationship.