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@Saachi-tg6fs
@Saachi-tg6fs 5 күн бұрын
It's so well put!
@Saachi-tg6fs
@Saachi-tg6fs 5 күн бұрын
love this!
@praveenasingh1645
@praveenasingh1645 10 күн бұрын
Dr Shefali hi,do you in your book give knowledge of how to meditate. Also how to know when and what is the present moment. Thank you
@Nopaleeto
@Nopaleeto 12 күн бұрын
Wow
@charleypepin1603
@charleypepin1603 14 күн бұрын
great way to show reframing! Love your content
@klaudialupo9017
@klaudialupo9017 29 күн бұрын
There is nothing new about this method. It has been taught by Christ. When he walked the earth and interacted with people he never forced anything and never guilt tripped anyone yet people wanted to be around him constantly.
@zoobydooby31
@zoobydooby31 Ай бұрын
Thank u for this
@zoobydooby31
@zoobydooby31 Ай бұрын
@zoobydooby31
@zoobydooby31 Ай бұрын
Absolutely thank you for this ❤
@phlegmconnoisseur2241
@phlegmconnoisseur2241 Ай бұрын
Wonderful video. I truly feel present
@user-mm3eq6xc9t
@user-mm3eq6xc9t Ай бұрын
What is the cure
@meaghancarter4904
@meaghancarter4904 Ай бұрын
That's just beautiful ❤️🎉
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney Ай бұрын
They all sent me follow up text the next day with where they put their flowers 🥹
@katieharissfreestyle
@katieharissfreestyle Ай бұрын
No offence but you look like coraline in a good way❤😊
@joanafreitas4439
@joanafreitas4439 Ай бұрын
Ideally, I would let the person go forever but in this case, she is my sister-in-law and I can't just erase her from my memory. How to deal with it?
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney Ай бұрын
We let go of the expectations we held about the relationship and implement boundaries. Easier said than done but possible. Check out my free communication course if you need tips on how!
@BrunoThomson-ff7um
@BrunoThomson-ff7um Ай бұрын
I could give less than two shits
@Obihann
@Obihann 2 ай бұрын
Although this advice sounds great, it's a lot harder in practice. I have a few built up at this point!🤭🤫
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney Ай бұрын
We get better with practice 🤓
@rulesfortheenotforme613
@rulesfortheenotforme613 2 ай бұрын
My daughter recently told me she needs me to step back.. not step out but step back.. she wants me to get a hobby to keep busy and stay off of her. She wants to show me she knows what to do instead of me telling her. And I admit I need to understand she grows daily and just bc this has failed before, such as letting her moderate her wine grades once she ends up with 30+ missing assignments in computers and had to spend 4 hours a night for a solid week catching up to pass the class.. I can’t hold that against her but it feels like need to keep an eye on this so this doesn’t happen again.. she was 8th grade then…
@saraWatson-co5rc
@saraWatson-co5rc 2 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney Ай бұрын
You're welcome!
@fromthebackseat4865
@fromthebackseat4865 2 ай бұрын
BAAH! I VANT TO DRINK YOUR ENERGY
@Swiftiesslay09slay
@Swiftiesslay09slay 2 ай бұрын
Exactly my friend aka bitch is holding a grudge and I’ve apologized like idk what SEVEN times or 8 🤦‍♀️
@GodsChild321
@GodsChild321 2 ай бұрын
Thank You , love this awareness, God Bless this Channel🙏🙏
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney Ай бұрын
Thank you for the kind words.
@Mrs.Graceqmri
@Mrs.Graceqmri 3 ай бұрын
Great interviewer. Dr shefali is great as usual
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 2 ай бұрын
She is such an awesome person to speak to, so much wisdom and presence.
@SharifaKhalil
@SharifaKhalil 3 ай бұрын
I would like to see the results 4,10, 20, after someone raise their kids like this. Research
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 2 ай бұрын
Dig into some psychology databases and other academic journals - you'll find the communication patterns she discusses are supported by research. Is there a specific tactic you are curious about?
@tornwax
@tornwax 3 ай бұрын
Thank you. You bring so much with every video.
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for the kind words! Hope you are well.
@user-mr4wj3bx2g
@user-mr4wj3bx2g 4 ай бұрын
Sooooo how do I manage the constant attack Or disappointment towards me ?
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 2 ай бұрын
If it's constant, sounds like the relationship itself may not be healthy.
@blessed3830
@blessed3830 4 ай бұрын
@Dr.Shefali can this book help fix a completely ruined mother son relationship? I adopted my 8yrs right old last year and because of all the issues we have lost that little bit of relationship that we had built.
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 2 ай бұрын
I would definitely look into the book, she lays out things in a very practical way. You may find many tools to help you rebuild the relationship, may just take some time.
@blessed3830
@blessed3830 2 ай бұрын
@@melaniewhitney thank you!
@GirishMiglani
@GirishMiglani 4 ай бұрын
Lovely. It took me long but eventually I did became that parent who I needed in my life.
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 4 ай бұрын
thank you for putting in the work to do that for the world
@Wandeezimo
@Wandeezimo 4 ай бұрын
Glad this was recommended to me
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 4 ай бұрын
glad you found this helpful :)
@Bebsg2369
@Bebsg2369 4 ай бұрын
Thank you makes sense...
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 4 ай бұрын
Glad you found it helpful.
@sofiamatias7683
@sofiamatias7683 5 ай бұрын
So true ❤
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 4 ай бұрын
glad it resonated
@Madycrazy
@Madycrazy 5 ай бұрын
I do try but it doesn’t help much at all
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 4 ай бұрын
Doesn't help you? Or doesn't help others?
@monicatorres4686
@monicatorres4686 5 ай бұрын
I’ve said that!! Ppl should need a License to have kids lol😅
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 4 ай бұрын
😅
@monicatorres4686
@monicatorres4686 5 ай бұрын
My three year old twins now tell me, “I don’t need you” after I put them On the potty.. and I was so proud of them!! ❤
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 4 ай бұрын
Aw the probably felt so empowered to feel independent
@janycebrown4071
@janycebrown4071 5 ай бұрын
Let yourself observe your feelings ❤ Don't run from your feelings ❣
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 5 ай бұрын
Such power if being able to observe
@stefflores
@stefflores 5 ай бұрын
REALLY needed to hear this! Thank you! 🙏
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 5 ай бұрын
Glad the video found you 🫶🏽
@Ironicallygian
@Ironicallygian 5 ай бұрын
Tysm needed this today
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 5 ай бұрын
You’re welcome, hope it gave you some reassurance or clarity.
@suhanisisodia5223
@suhanisisodia5223 6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for the lovely advice!
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 5 ай бұрын
Hope it helps 🫶🏽
@suhanisisodia5223
@suhanisisodia5223 5 ай бұрын
yes it did help!
@teriw56
@teriw56 6 ай бұрын
To bad the folks that could really use this teaching will never show up here.
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 5 ай бұрын
I like to think that the people who are ready to do the work will stumble across the video 🫶🏽
@Time4change111
@Time4change111 3 ай бұрын
Never say never 😏 with God anything is possible
@Kim-kw7fo
@Kim-kw7fo 6 ай бұрын
One million percent agree there needs to be some sort of certificate before having kids. My friend told me that at her practice, no one can adopt if theyeven vape. Yet anyone can breed willy nilly. I never was equipped to be a parent, neither was my mother. Unfortunately, requirements to be a parent will unlikely happen. I feel sad for the future sometimes.
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 6 ай бұрын
I feel you...I used to work in public health and youth in underserved communities. It was disheartening when the parents were not supportive of their kids. All we can do is make a difference in our own worlds, our own communities. Focus on those children and keep that mindset geared towards the kids you can help.
@emsmart1301
@emsmart1301 6 ай бұрын
Wise words..i wish id known this kind of thing sooner. Hadnt even heard of self love in 2009 when i met my last partner. This guy needed a lot of healing. Mental, physical, emotional. Yiu know a relationship isnt on the strongest foundation when you meet in the wueue for medication after being sectioned. Me because of bipolar. I just saw a guy with a big heart who had no idea how lovely he was. Long story short, stayed for 10 years as he had no one else in the world and i didnt wanna him to be alone. He's no longer with us anymore and im in an awesome relationship now with the one. One of the first things he tried to teach me is yr not as fragile as you think you are. Its true. I listen to yr morning meditations every morning. Sets the ball rolling really nicely. Take it easy xx
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story and the kind words. I'm sorry to hear all you went through. And glad to know you are doing well now. Glad you enjoy the morning meditation. Hope you are subscribed to my newsletter! Have more awesome things like that coming. Thank you again for the support.
@emsmart1301
@emsmart1301 6 ай бұрын
Awsome start to my day. Thank yoy. I suffer from bipolar diorder but my general setting is low anxiety. I need a kick start to my day as if i start with connection and warmth towards myself, this spills out towards the people i love who love me. For the last 2 weeks i was listening to yr other morning meditation and it has a v positive effect. Its lovely to hv a second one. However, in place of sending my amber light to humanity, i hold in my hands a pic of my loved ones over the years and send them with love while im feeling grateful and loving. Hope you hv a great day x
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 6 ай бұрын
Keep up with all the proactive things you are doing to orient your mind and energy. Sending you lots of love and light.
@my.cup.of.stars.journal
@my.cup.of.stars.journal 6 ай бұрын
Thank you🩷
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for taking time to ground yourself. Each time one of us done this it not only benefits ourselves, but the humans we encounter.
@my.cup.of.stars.journal
@my.cup.of.stars.journal 6 ай бұрын
I am saving this for tonight!!!🤗🩷
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 6 ай бұрын
Hope you sleep well!
@my.cup.of.stars.journal
@my.cup.of.stars.journal 6 ай бұрын
This was amazing, thank you so much🩷🤗🙏
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 6 ай бұрын
I'm so glad you enjoyed it! Thank you for the kind comment. Any topic requests for the next meditation?
@jomoore147
@jomoore147 6 ай бұрын
Well done
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 6 ай бұрын
Thank you, hope you are doing well :)
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 6 ай бұрын
Download the audio for this guided meditation → www.mindlesstomindful.com/meditation-lovingkindness
@monicacasillas-bd8jc
@monicacasillas-bd8jc 7 ай бұрын
I agree
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 5 ай бұрын
Many of us are just looking for connection
@monicacasillas-bd8jc
@monicacasillas-bd8jc 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing such valuable information.
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for the kind words. What other topics do you want to see covered?
@justdawndb
@justdawndb 7 ай бұрын
As a 65 yr old grandparent of very young grandkids i see an astronomical amount of wisdom here! Thank you so much for sharing this. I am going to get the book!
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 7 ай бұрын
So glad you found the interview helpful. Dr. Shefali's book are incredible and packed with so much wisdom. Enjoy!
@elizabethgauger1666
@elizabethgauger1666 7 ай бұрын
Much of what she is speaking of is similar to the four agreements, and even The Tao- really ancient wisdom in general. Not so sure about the comment that teachers don't have ego present- we are all human, therefore we all have an ego. We are all on a journey of discovery. Some of us are further on the path of understanding than others, but at all times we are both a student and a teacher.
@melaniewhitney
@melaniewhitney 7 ай бұрын
Yes, all humans have an ego. I think she meant teacher's don't have the SAME ego attachment as a parent does with their child. Teachers are able to view the child differently because it is a different dynamic/relationship.