How is saying “no” so difficult for people. Ironically the ones who struggle with this are no better friends for failing to be transparent and sincere in communication then those who can’t take a hint

Most people, if they catch someone starring them, they say " WHATCHA LOOKING AT " ? Then say it out loud.

I strongly disagree to your opinion. As a guy, I wouldn’t call it controlling if it’s in a demanding and nasty attitude. I would tell her what *I LIKE* for her to wear because if she truly loves you and respects you, then you would do the things he likes. It’s not like telling you to jump off a building. Women are often dress provocative then guys do and seen as less intelligent if dress so.

I remember when a couple of family members showed up at my house unannounced one morning on a Sunday in the 9 o'clock hour. I was sleeping in being that it was my day off. I had no idea that they showed up. I hadn't even seen them in months because we were not on speaking terms from a falling out. One of them had the audacity to get angry and message me, saying how I didn't bother to answer the door, and since I didn't answer the door, they had left with no intentions of returning, even though I was unaware which was fine by me. Why they thought they could just show up at my door and expect to get in is beyond me. Some people are just so entitled🙄

Thank you

This takes skill. I have a difficult time doing this.

Best thing to do is to remove yourself from the situation.

I do me when it comes to neighbors, all I say is hi from a distance and short conversations here and there once in a while

Wow ya no

you were ahead of your time queen , also they started dating when he was 17

Neighbours kids hmm depends on how much they want you to give them one

I was taught at school and more by my mom to bring in cake or something everyone can help themselves to and if able to monetary to go and if in line somewhere to treat the next person behind you to a free tea or a cinema ticket

I heard that tuning out the conversations with different people who you hear talking about something can help you not eavesdrop

Pardon my French, but bullshit. I would not bother with that person. Only hang out with real friends.

The people that call me for free bees have plenty of money too, it's unimaginable , that these people have no shame !

Ima going to say I'm way to busy etc !

You can't talk to "parents" that are self absorbed. Today most of the parents are stuck on stupid and social media. There aren't enough repercussions. Just because someone has kids does not mean other people should have to put up with these undisciplined scourges of society.We have a noise ordinance in the small city where I live. I have called the police numerous times due to a 3 YR OLD THAT IS ALLOWED to run through the apartment directly above us. I tried knocking and asking to quiet down. I was met with "what am I supposed to do?" by this lazy single mother. I said, "try being a mother"! Big stinking deal. Single mom. My mother raised 5 of us alone whilst Dad was at work.

So true keep distance.

hi to be hoenst, better not to talk on tube about for your neighbour. but say in his face hat you have no interest. without yelling. if there is a big rpoblem he can come to you and all other just hi. i know also this what i am telling now is not working. :-)..... because they feel and see we are to responsible and to unsure. i also saw when you were talking. i almos thad to laugh about (in a good way). in the meaning i understnad you. because today i was the same hahaha. i relay hate myself i can not walk cool. when i see him i feel not ok. and i also know i have no support from renter. and that makes it i feel so unsure. because i also know its a creap. in mean time i behave myself normal with creaps around but when i am desperate about i call the..... and that moment i sounds like a snake. realy i dont understand why god bring us this kind of human around us. i dont want.

It's crazy too because most of these bad interactions ive had happen with either employees or a fellow customers when shopping they just have a serious lack of boundaries and all it takes is one excuse me and 1 seconds for me to move. But instead male and females reach inches from my private parts or directly in front of my face and body to grab something it's like these people were raised by wolves.

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What about a threatening stare

2011 is nothing compared to now in 2024 the world is going down the drain.🤦‍♂️

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I don't really care who you are like get on my now or please get out my house

Ugh omg seriously like my mom always thinks to call people always like come vist our house and of course the guests always have to go to my room to sleep 🙄 l hate the fact that she always call them abd tell them to stay like firsr who told you you can come to my house like you can't just come to my whenever you want to learn that have their boundaries like my room is ny room l don't care if your staying here or not get out my house it's not your house ldk why you think you can use my bathroom whenever you want to its not your bathroom they also be taking forever in the shower like just do your business and get out people are waiting abd don't come of your not going say anything

After training in bjj, though only a white belt currently. i feel comfortable when peolle invade my space. I think they are thrown off that im still polite and calm with them.

Yes that's rude!! Something like this happened to me today. I complimented a woman on her hair and told her that her braids look really pretty on her And she turned around and looked at my hair and said, you have beautiful hair, is that all your hair? I don't know why I told her my business that I had a couple of pieces in there when I, there was no need for her to even know any of that. I don't understand why people ask that and why they need to know? Ego maybe. Next time somebody asked me that i'm just gonna say yes.Keep it moving

Do you mean three times in a row ?

I have my closer neighbours ,they ask always my help .how i have to behave with them ?

I see this as a sign of disrespect, I have stopped doing anything with her. Yes my time is as valuable as hers.

It would be nice if we knew what to do though we know it sucks

You will never, ever be effing invited again! That is my favorite way of telling somebody

I had a family stay for 1 month at my house they kept making excuses they are looking for a place and finally I had enough I just told them to leave I need you to leave , if they want I can even book them a hotel. They finally got the hint and never over stayed there welcome 😅. They ended up staying g for 2 months the it was way way to much for me .

When people don’t get the hint and over stay there welcome it is annoying. I had someone stay with me for 2 months they kept saying they are looking for an apartment but were taking so long it got out of hand . It’s like they were not getting the hint when to leave my house . I she stayed at my house for 3 months the and would stay up tell 1 in the morning. It was so annoying I couldn’t say anything because side then I would end up looking like the bad guy I tell you the 3 mo the she styed with me I thought would never finish she finally left . When she did I made a promise to my self I will never have people over stay there welcome if someone was flying to come to my town i would just book them a hotel it was easy that way .

I give it back to them, and then they shut up.

My so called friend would always give me dirty looks for no reason

AZZ Hole: I see you've gained some weight Person still suffering childhood &. lifelong social trauma: WHAT'S YOUR POINT! Azz Hole n perhaps some other ppl. in the. room: WoW! she's snippy or YEAH. WHACHA BEEN EATIN'? BEEN EATIN'. GOOD HUH?!!! I think the real problem is that ppl. are bullies. Those are t he ppl who traumatize others & need their heads shrunken. Not being obnoxious though. Your channel, advice and suggestions are great... Just thinkin' things through a little, that's all.

i wind her up every time i see her now there rude because they have no power ao wind them up until they quit thats how you get rid of bad receptionists by buckling them into submission ring then call in and ve cheeky and rude until they cant take there job anymore karam ladies its get ya and guess what its a bitch

Forget the politeness, give them a Bronx cheer, and walk out.

Theres this boy that prob likes me but i dont really him. He keeps asking me to go out with him and stuff and he's really nice to me. I feel bad for him but i dont really wanna hang out with him. What should i do or say?😅

What if they don't get the sign or the idea? What if they just go to me just standing there and play dumb? Happens to me every day,

This video will be everywhere during the downfall of taylor swift in future

Sounds like you’re the problem, not the lady talking about her kids 🤷‍♀️

Thank you for that. I do feel defensive.

LoL. Bruh, that’s ALL parents talk about. Well, that and how far you’ve come since then, so it’s not all bad.

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To hell with coworkers

This is a very old video, but please, what to do when you are dependent on their help? Like you joined an online health forum, they have some protocols that help a lot of people to gain back their health, but there are strict rules on treatment, doses, diet, etc. And you really need to cooperate with them and trust them to train you and supervise you, but for some reason they don't like you, they act seemingly nice and friendly, they communicate with you via email too. And than you find out that the two of them gossiped you over some of your opinions, let's say some of your political views, and then they make a separate post in an casual, off-topic thread that people who have these political views are idiots, imbecils, dumb, stupid and they rage with hate. I pretend that I didn't see that, they still act nice and kind regarding health themes, but I have an impression they want to provoke me to fight and argue so they can kick me out. But I do depend on their health advice since it really gave results.

What about leggings