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When we eat food, our bodies & brain (digestive system, chemicals, hormones, etc) turn food into skin, organs, blood, hair, bones, etc, that’s how powerful our bodies & minds are - and they can do so much more.

It’s how they survived their whole lives, it’s not conscious, they don’t have to plan, learn, or understand their tactics, it’s what’s worked for them since they were toddlers or younger.

Well said

Been there done that unfortunately

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discarded today out the blue..... was together a year.. never saw this coming

Oh no I am back again 😢

A lot of new (c)age dogma's ..

I am a powerful quantum creator! I took went through narcissistic abuse and woke up to oneness as a result! Thank Goddess for awareness & healing!❤️‍🔥🙏

That's intuitively what I have come to realize through my healing! Thank you ❤

The worst part is that when people believe them, including your own supposed family and then those people turn against you and goes in the narcissist's side while the narcissist continues to be disrespectful but now the narcissist does it more overtly, because people believe them and believe their abuse towards you is justified.

What is the best 'grey rock' reaction when the narcissist is terrorizing you with loud horrible music coming from her phone all the time? I try to ignore it but it is really nerving me big time. The only thing I do is staying away in the house that I fully pay for. Using most of the time earbuds. I myself do not provoke nor escalate because there are children in the house.

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Melanie, you are awesome. You bring us awareness that we are not alone, understand what we are really dealing with, and you give us the tools to grow away from the torturous dynamic with the narcissist into the beauty we've always had within but just forgot about. Thank you forever. ❤❤❤

They steal my destiny

They are narcist before they suck my life before and because i let them suck the goodness in me. Now i became the narcist. I lost my light i become. I liar. I lose gods anointing and glory

Hannah enough of my neighbours crossing my boundaries and yes I want to leave this is the whole reason why I've been neglected in abandoned in the community on some things no helping it to this is why I love you as a adult you seem to have more brains than the other adults and I question on why people have kids when god gives them their kids cause god punishes them they're not good parenting have stupid parenting no brains and i love u and your channel help me a lot to speak up for myself even though if people didn't like it they would have kissed my ass and when it comes at the end of the day and learn how to respect

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Exactly you never forgive these monsters. Forgive ourselves for ever falling for them including family

narcissistic shenanigans 🚫📣🚩🚩🚩‼

Don't waste your life talking to Narcissists or rocks. _You'll never make progress with either one!_ Just walk away, and leave them where you find them.

If I honour me no one can dishonour me

I didn't understand about forgiveness a year ago. I prayed the "Our Father" for four decades of my life, and didn't understand that phrase about forgiveness. I was sooo mad. It's been about a year of no-contact, and I understand now.... forgiveness means, "I don't give a poop about that evil person anymore." Forgiveness is accepting that the abuser CHOSE to be that way, and CHOOSES not to self-reflect and change. I accept that my abuser has chosen evil over good, and I step away from this evil person, and have nothing more to do with them. They are my biggest lesson in how NOT to live my life, and instead grow old gracefully with people who know how to love others. I think I stayed angry, because it looked like there was no justice. That my abuser was getting away scot-free. I am able to forgive now, because I see the trajectory of their life. And I can see now, they will not get away with it. Abusers end up alone, or surrounded by other abusers. I was able to forgive because.... I am grateful that I can see the consequences of what will happen to the abuser.

Don't let them isolate you. :( Keep good friends who KNOW what's really going on. If it weren't for my husband, and my teenage son who unfortunately was witness to my mother's cruel behavior and financial abuse, I would probably go insane with her gaslighting. She's convinced all of her relatives that I'm the one persecuting her. Aging narcissists are hellish. Just hellish. They bear false witness against those that care about them, they lie, and in my mother's case, they steal. It's horrible. Aging narcissists. Just say no to narcissism. For me, no-contact was survival for me and my family (husband and kids).

It feels to me lk most ppl exp. I've met and carried on more of a connection with than a acquaintance are narcissist...is it possible we are all somewhat lk this a bit or once in awhile????

Is there a term for a person that does this??..Bc it's kind of flipped from what your saying...My mom treats friends and ppl who aren't her family better than me her own daughter! She has 2 other kids sons that she doesn't treat the way she does me but she does abuse them in a different way. She always want the outside world to believe her life is perfect 4 most part bit doesn't care to go out of her way to tell them my failures but my brother she mother hens he's 32 never moved out...what is this called is this still a narcissist???

I stumbled upon your videos I really needed this I don't totally agree with some terms you use but regardless thank you I needed this😊 I'm dealing with three right now with my own family doing this to me I believe they're all narcissist is that uncommon???...(being my dad,mom,and brother 😢) I've been letting them control me for 41 years basically...In 2019 I finally woke up bc of God revealing things to me and that the hard things I've been thru in life weren't all my fault! Everybody has freedom of choice but I wasn't given the tools to discover who I was and my boundaries once I was 18 and free I made poor decisions for 21 years!!

It is a very difficult situation but most of the socalled narcissist need a psychiatric theraphy. An unhealthy soul can do a lot of damage to himself and his surrounding. If your child would have cancer you would help him right? I am not justifying cruel and egoistic behavior. But sometimes they are mentally disturbed or traumatised and they need help very urgently.

My sons gf is a narcissist and he’s falling for her lies against me

Great info thank you so much 🫶🏻

Going no contact means you're throwing away your adult card. Adults in healthy relationships RESOLVE CONFLICT not run away with it until they get their way. Sickening

This woman is TWISTED. All she talks about is how other people need to "honor" her needs. Not a word about others needs. That's NARCISSISM. If you handle problems by "going no contact" you're a selfish child. Akin to the kid who doesn't leave the toy store and tells his mom "he's invisible." Disgusting

I'm going to self-partner so that I can start loving others more healthily as well. 😊

Evil behind closed doors. Alcoholic too. Hate that people don’t know and she continues to damage good people

Thank you for this. I am a spiritual person a bit and I feel sry for my ex narc gf being with another woman who takes care of her in my country when I told her she is not welcome anymore after sever abuse. I couldnt let go of the thought to warn her, your perspective is very interesting, not 100% sure yet if it's the right thing, but it eases my mind.

Your clients are beautiful

Relationship, lovers, intimate partners are narcs who sodomize or be sodomized. fkn therapists normalizing ...

Thank you very much for that very useful and powerful advice and tips, stay blessed dear I will definitely watch more of your videos

Creepy staring. Over and over doesn't look away. Put up a fence so I could go in my yard without being stared at. Then he came to my door.

Affirmations don't work! Really! You cannot gaslight yourself saying nice things to yourself while he is a jerk. Come on!

It's 22 December 2024, my father's birthday, and I only just discovered your channel I hope you'll continue to make videos about Narcissists, as God knows EVERYONE needs to know. Subscribed! 🎄

My sister is definitely a Narcissist. No matter the occasion she goes out of her way to disrupt any festivities. If it's Christmas or some holiday, she's there to emotionally blackmail everyone she can corner. When we're traveling as a family, she has a tantrum about every petty thing, to the point that I swear my Dad's about to get a cardiac arrest from her never-ending freakouts. And when anyone confronts her about it she does every single tactic a Narcissist does to avoid all accountability. What makes everything worse is my family is traditional. We're told to just tolerate her toxic behavior. And now it's almost Christmas and she literally traveled from Europe just to make life miserable for everyone who's gonna be attending my family's Christmas party. It's ridiculous!

I tried everything I knew to facilitate my Son's healing. The only thing I didn't do was to let go. I had to. The interactions left me wanting to Tay my own life- the encounters were that bad. If he was in a jam he would reach out, convince me we coyhave a good relationship, then discard. Our last interaction was having a cancer scare and him creating a complete lie and alternate reality to blame me for it. Ut was F-d up and I had enough

thank you, I'm really struggling past few days, I feel absolutely devastated and drained, and stupid for getting conned into this relationship. it got ugly out of nowhere and ive never. been through this level of trauma and confusion. I'm trying to unfuck my brain

I just punched the numbers of my birthday into google and it took me to the very thing that validates where I am with my daughter and in my life. It’s amazing where help comes from when you’re open to it. Synchronic. Thank you ♥️

Hahahahaaha about the lipstick..love your work, Mel 😅❤

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As pessoas acreditam na versão daquele que está a lhe pagar ! Você com a tua verdade mas não deste dinheiro será queimado na fogueira mesmo sendo inocente ?! Porque: !? Porque não PAGASTE