Hello fellow Aussie 🙌🌹 Looking great girl 👏 Yes- more about friends and narcissism would be excellent 💯😉💓
@MarinPatt7 ай бұрын
I think I’m very objective about my past behavior and I can identify my narcissistic tendencies, which we all have to some degree, but I know I never hurt anyone intentionally and quite frankly, hardly unintentionally. Reaching my late 50’s and after 4 long term relationships, (average of 10 years each) I can say I will never be in another romantic relationship again. Some of us are magnets for difunctional relationships because of the limiting beliefs that were not dealt with on time. Unfortunately for some of us the lessons came in too late. So learn to set boundaries in a healthy manner early on or pass the info to everyone whose life you can touch. THANK YOU Melanie! I learned much from you back in 2016! I’m lucky to share with my young adult children and it’s a delight to see their successes at unlearning all the unhealthy behaviors I may have inadvertently passed on to them. Their consciousness, their self awareness, and ability to set healthy boundaries even with me is my most valuable reward. Thank you again ❤
@MelanieToniaEvans7 ай бұрын
Please know how welcome you are. I personally and humbly from my heart to yours believe its never too late. I've seen people break through into beautiful relationships after a world of pain in their 70's as a result of working with NARP www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp But of course absolutely there is no right or wrong choice... but I do believe we all have one. If you are alive the miracle still is available. Sending you much love ❤️
@MarinPatt7 ай бұрын
@@MelanieToniaEvans thank you. Beautifully said and humbly received. Will be calling out to you as soon as my life changes a bit. You’ll be the first one to know. 😊 many blessings.
@getrudemwaura9466 ай бұрын
Thrive On.🙏 Thank You Melanie❤❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕💕
@angelaapruzzese66827 ай бұрын
THRIVE ON ❤ THANKYOU
@suzanozturk31977 ай бұрын
I just can't believe my life has been bombarded with so called friends whilst I'm in a crisis. 😢😢 I'm starting to feel ganged up on, in every level. ❤❤😢
@lisatroni6776 ай бұрын
THRIVE ON
@CMackenzie-e5u7 ай бұрын
This was very helpful. I’ve become paranoid about being a narc detector! It’s probably become a bit of a shadow though that I need to work on.
@MelanieToniaEvans7 ай бұрын
Yes you certainly can! It's such a relief to go free from that! ❤💕
@suzanozturk31977 ай бұрын
@MelanieToniaEvans I can't believe everything I've worked on Mel is all blowing up with my family and so called friends. ❤❤
@suzanozturk31976 ай бұрын
@MelanieToniaEvans I need help uplevelling, I don't think I'm doing them right after manor car accident. ABI now. Just insane. I don't feel connected at all. Everywhere I go I'm getting no where fast on the outside world.
@MelanieToniaEvans6 ай бұрын
@@suzanozturk3197 please come into the narp members forum www.melanietoniaevans.com/member That's where your NARP coaching is. If you have nay problem getting in please message support@melanietoniaevans.com xo
@suzanozturk31976 ай бұрын
@MelanieToniaEvans Thanks Mel. I've had so many problems with I.T.
@nancyadams43587 ай бұрын
My intention Thriver on! Me, Yes. Very clear Dear Thriver Thank You✨
@MelanieToniaEvans7 ай бұрын
You are so welcome darling Nancy! 😘
@peterknyk19427 ай бұрын
If my ex spouse isn’t a narcissist, she certainly has been “something”….she’s been cruel and manipulative and controlling, and has subjected me to incredibly painful challenges that might seem completely unnecessary… or, is it realistically all about not what’s done to you but for you? Which ever way it’s been a kind of purgatory or at times a living hell being with her… YES, Melanie, everything you say makes sense! It’s a question for me of assimilating your teaching and knowledge…. ❤️🦋❤
@stephencoleman35787 ай бұрын
The litmus test is something nearly nobody speaks of. I've watched 100's of different authors and none of them touch on it. It's the black and white thinking, AKA narcissistic split, or all good or all bad thinking. BPDs also have this , but without this you can't correctly call somebody an NPD. Do they take responsibility? They can fake it, but they will never accept responsibility. That is what makes it confusing. Non- NPD's also can be somebody that refuses to take responsibility; It's the black and white thinking that they can't move beyond. They are unable to comprehend anything in between the two extremes; either you are all good or you are all bad, and nothing in between.
@melissanienhuser20567 ай бұрын
Thank you for your wonderful work! 💓💓💓
@MelanieToniaEvans7 ай бұрын
It's my pleasure 🙏 ❤
@lydiaworkman40507 ай бұрын
Thrive on!
@josettarudinger22017 ай бұрын
Thrive on ❤
@martharivera81397 ай бұрын
Totally feel that I am the NARC
@Bestodds17 ай бұрын
THRIVE on!
@Janice8356 ай бұрын
Thrive on 😀
@bkb20126 ай бұрын
Yes.
@elsdegroote16 ай бұрын
Yes!
@JamFlava17 ай бұрын
Overused term…. Narcissists lost his meaning these days. I think people have absolutely no clue what narcissist means. Even borderline, depressed people can be toxic and yet they’re not narcissists. Like I said, narcissists term is been overused, it lost his meaning these days….I can also say KZbinrs are narcissists too, Instagram, bloggers. Because it’s all about them. Attention seeking, want validation…..Sign of narcissism as well.
@laurasteinbuch99887 ай бұрын
Thrive on
@LailaDiya-vj6oo7 ай бұрын
Yes
@sandrinharamos20235 ай бұрын
Thrive and grow my road map now
@toyialyda10667 ай бұрын
Thrive on…
@RecreationalUseOnly7 ай бұрын
Sadly, when I hear anyone, I mean anyone use the word “Narc” to describe their ex, it means they’re projecting.
@KC-ns9do7 ай бұрын
Not necessarily. People are gaining knowledge and are better able to observe and discern these personalities.
@RecreationalUseOnly7 ай бұрын
@@KC-ns9do using the term “Narc” as a slur means they are focusing more on demonizing their ex rather than healing. We should barely be talking about our exes. 99% of the focus should be on the blindspots and codependent behaviors we had that led others to exploiting our people pleasing tendencies. Whether it’s a boss or a romantic partner, there will always be people trying to exploit our weaknesses. This is something we have no control over. Unhealthy toxic people just focus on their anger for not getting their desired outcome without being introspective about their part. What a healthy sane person does is focus on what they need to fix and strengthen so that it does not happen again. 💥 Imagine a person getting their house broken into and being so irate and angry because the police never found the thieves. The break-in was 5 years ago and they are still complaining about it. Then you find out they never locked their doors, they didn’t have any doorbell, puppy or house cameras, and they didn’t have home/renters insurance. But they are still talking trash about the robbers… A healthy person would say “To make sure this doesn’t happen again I need to buy some surveillance cameras, put an ADT sign up, LOCK my doors, and buy an alarm system.” Then they live with more peace and relief.
@dmix22637 ай бұрын
Arrogance is common with the N too.
@Bestodds17 ай бұрын
Me!
@sarahmc40555 ай бұрын
Thrive
@lynnt25847 ай бұрын
Yes, conscious or unconscious, I was blasted to consciousness after 35 years & I'm sad he’s not coming with me in the next half of life, but thank you Angel In Disguise