Hello Dr Dylesia ,l recently accepted God but lm having temptations to return to the old ways .....l pray God saves me ...but l also wanted to ask is it possible to apply abroad for medicine 😢l recently realized the medicine application closed here in South Africa

Publish this! This was an incredibly insightful dissertation

What’s one thing you can commit to doing over the next 30 days to build more fulfilling female friendships?

Which of the 🖐🏾 types of friendships that I discussed do you need to work on building?

Do your mother-daughter trauma friendship triggers make you push your friends away or draw co-dependently close to them?

I was directed to your page by a friend who’s been following you on Instagram. I love your candidness about your mother daughter trauma. I too made a choice to choose peace and denounce my mother. I am one of 12 children, it’s 8 girls and 4 boys. My mom was physically and mentally abusive to all of her children but she was so swift to her daughters. Many of my siblings have gone no contact after years of begging, hoping, wishing and praying she would change. I to made the choice to go no contact. My time away from my mom has been the best ever. My life and the lives of my siblings that denounce her is healthier than the ones who still seek love and validation from her. Please keep sharing and freeing women from these emotional strong holds and curses. Thank you so much for the work that you do. May God continue to bless you.

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i hope you see this Im here from instagram & saw the video of how you responded when your mom passed. going through it RIGHT now and same. thanks for being brave enough to post. I didn't respond there due to backlash from family but same gf same.

If you allow me to critique the video: Narcissism encompasses all the rest, it's better to leave that one out, and maybe put ego in instead. Yaknow, leave it up for speculation instead of just giving the answer. Besides the content, best of luck! I know it's hard. Sincerely -A narcissistic abuse survivor

ego 1000000000+

omfg girl you look absolute gorgeous i really love your aesthetic

Okay grandma nope just look in the mirror next time...

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Loved the fit

I loved this! ♥️

It pains me that u didn't have a good mother that loved u enough to give u peace. I'm sorry sis but u deserved better❤❤

😎 me and my man got our outfits ready

I fcuks with it. Not the club part. But definitely in my house in my mirror lol 😂

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You seem just as toxic. Don’t procreate and nurse the same outcome.

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Thank you for this video🥰

Such a real and vulnerable conversation. You have to create your community, and sometimes that may not be any of your blood. Thank you for sharing this ❤

Thank you so much for this ❤️❤️❤️

What a rich conversation

When you stand before GOD it's about what you did not your Mother so hold no malice against her forgive her wish her well and pray for her , because she has to someday stand before GOD too.

As someone who had to do something similar (never suffered physical abuse, but there were PLENTY of reasons to do this), I know how hard it is to cut off the woman who birthed you. That's what she is. Mother is a sacred term, and should be reserved for those deserving of it. I wish you the best, and urge you to stay strong, and enforce your boundaries. Blessings to you, and those around you.

How have your friendships been impacted by your mother-daughter trauma?

How have your friendships been impacted by your mother-daughter trauma?

How have your friendships been impacted by your mother-daughter trauma?

🎉🎉what else did you get. I think I’m going to go today. I want “the vest”!!!🤞🏽

Congratulations to you and keep up the great work ❤❤❤❤❤

Hi Can you please tell me the name of the rollers please and where i could get them

The whole name/idea of this video is exacty what woman like us need so badly! Even if we know some of this stuff or not, it reminds us to do it, how important it is and it feels like we have a bestie joining along with us who gets it! Thank you so much from the bottom to the tip of my heart for sharing this xoxo god bless you

This is a big deal I am so proud of you ! Let’s go!!!!!!!!!!! What an honor !!!!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

What thoughts and feelings came up for you during the defense? Also, help me decide: should I embargo my dissertation and publish a book? 🤔 #QTNA

I know it is no coincidence that I came across this video that was from 5 years ago. I truly needed this word of encouragement as I am currently in transition.

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Awww, I absolutely love the vlog! You have created a beautiful family. I can relate to being a twin mom and a mental health professional/advocate. I just love seeing happy, whole black families. I can’t wait to follow your journey. ♥️♥️♥️

What kind of boundaries do you need to set with your mom?

Heyyy Sistagirl!! 😛👋🏾 It’s my first vlog and I'm sooo excited! 😩😭 As you watch, comment below letting me know what we have in common! 🧡 Many of us were groomed by our moms to believe that we’re too flawed for community. The only way to reverse that conditioning is to push ourselves to build community, and the first step to building community is getting into the practice of looking for similarities between ourselves and others instead of differences. Sooo, I figure, since you're creating a new habit of finding things you have in common with other women, you might as well start with your Sistagirl 😌🙆🏾‍♀🫶🏾 Let’s gooo!!! 💪🏾 🎉

What patterns have you observed within the mother-daughter relationships in your family, including your relationship with your mom and her relationship with your sister(s)?

Exactly. Carol Diane Woods Brata. Toxic

This is why my mother-in-law hates me because I got her son away from that kind of behavior