How your mom’s relationship with her mom is impacting your relationship with her | Dylesia // MDTRTV

The thing about blame is…it ALWAYS belongs to the generation before the one you’re about to blame. Confusing af right? That’s why forgiveness is key. And don’t worry ✋🏾, I’m not talking about the kind that foolishly restores. I’m referring to the boundary-setting, estrangement-willing, gentle firmness that has freed me to live (and scale) a peaceful life sans my mom’s torment.
In this video, I teach you how intergenerational trauma is causing your mom to show up for you the way she is and I also raise an unpopular yet relieving argument about why it’s YOUR responsibility to figure her out.
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Hi, I'm Dylesia (pronounced dy 👏🏾 lee 👏🏾 see 👏🏾 ya)! I'm a prayer warrior, a complex PTSD survivor, a wife, an identical twin #girlmom, and a mother-daughter trauma recovery expert. As a licensed therapist, I've worked for over a decade to create safe spaces for women to heal their mother-daughter trauma and raise mentally, emotionally, and spiritually healthy daughters. 💕 This channel takes you behind the scenes of my journey breaking the generational curse of mother-daughter trauma as I partner with my husband to build a trauma-resilient marriage, raise our two daughters with the gentleness, direction, and support I didn't receive from my mom, scale my group mental health practice and career to build generational wealth and impact for my family despite me being a first middle school grad and business owner, and enjoy safe yet all-in and over the top fun friendships with other women! I'll also share loads of insight on how you can strategically heal your mother-daughter trauma and build the life you've always dreamed of but felt too damaged to deserve and too confused to pursue.

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#QTNA Is your mom’s mom your #MeanGrandma? Or does she smother you with love?? (Btw, many grandmas subconsciously do that to make up for how they treated their daughters without actually doing the hard work of apologizing)