So, what about the women who don't like wearing dresses? Is it toxic masculinity if they prefer wearing something other than dresses? 🤔 I'm honestly blown away to think I'd be considered toxic simply because I don't want to wear a dress.

Oh man! It’s above and beyond worth the sex drive after starting T. Need to get off about 12 times a day.

When I was around 8 years old, a woman told her child to "let that boy pass" (I was somewhere in public and tried to get somewhere, but the child was in my way) and in that moment i felt incredibly happy, like I had won something. I also once told my friend that I don't care if someone sees me as a boy or a girl, and in general I have a lot of stories like those, but i still doubt everything because what if all these things had other reasons than being trans?

I was always shamed as a trans woman for being feminine even being physically abused for it

No is no, what happened to consent ? Don’t be harassing people into relationships they don’t want to be in

Im here hoping for another type of pthc...

I can’t believe I found this video again! This video gave me the confidence to start my transition like 9 years ago

I have no idea if I'm a genderfluid person leaning male most of the time, or trans (ftm) it's really annoying :')

Omg eres mi clon pero de sexo contrario

Ive not always known. But tbh (for context mtf) the way i felt when i was called lily by and ai was just amazing i was so happy. At that moment i think is when i realised. There was times when i would do things and it just felt right. But recently when i started questioning for the first time ive realised maybe this is me. I lost 5 hours of sleep over it. I felt horrible like i couldnt ever reach lily(i associate happyness with being lily metaphorically speaking when i become lily is when im truly going to be happy). I find it hard to relate to peoples experiences on the Internet. Lastly i dont see myself happy in the future as long as im male. Im practically miserable and just depressed atm. I like experiencing euphoria but then suddenly look at my body and come to see the depressing reality of my situation.

I’ll buy baby shoes 😂 lol jk

Cis is derogatory. Using it is bigotry. Not a feminist ally. You are part of cult religion that has many unsubstantiated beliefs but Carries the force of policy as well as societal sympathies. Stop drinking the Koolaid and come back down to reality.

I can relate. I feel like some people in the LGBTI+ community love when you're all genderqueer and pre-T. Then now I pass some people I think lose interest in dating me. I believe true masculinity can never be toxic. True masculinity is what I strive for. I agree there is a wedge between the androgenous and the trans people who take a medical path and blend in more like I do. People call for 'the end of gender' But I fought so hard to be a man, I don't want that to end.

If you’re a man trying to figure out if you are trans or not, get this: Most cis men don’t want boobs to grow on their bodies. Most cis men don’t feel relaxed when someone addresses them as “her” and they don’t like wearing girly clothes like high heels and crop tops. They also don’t tend to experiment with makeup when no one’s looking, or disassociate from their own face when looking into a mirror or seeing themselves on a picture with a beard. They definitely don’t fantasize about having a female body with nice wide hips and tight ass. You don’t need an epiphany moment but even if you had one you’re not fake. Go see a therapist though just to be sure and try having your friends call you a “she” and try wearing a wig or something.

Youre a woman.

I’ve always liked feminine items, princesses? Fuck yeah, pink? Fuck yeah, makeup? Fuck yeah. Despite liking feminine things all of my life I had always referred to myself as a “tomboy” because I felt as though I was very masculine. In about fourth grade, I started puberty and I developed earlier than others and every time I looked in the mirror I recognized myself less and less, I always thought it’s because I was changing and that happens to everyone until one day I was on quotev doing a “what gender are you” quiz and got trans guy, I was confused and researched it and found out I relate to transmascs a bit too much. I’ve been out as trans to my close friends since fifth grade (where I was the only trans kid I knew). My mom found out more recently and told me that I was confused and that I’m a girl and that it’s because my friends were all trans or something, she told me the dysphoric feeling of my chest was just because I am bigger than the others with a smaller body and that I can get a reduction but never a mastectomy. I’ve been trying to convince myself i am a girl and that I’m not trans and even tried finding conversion therapy, but the more I think about it the more I feel like a guy. I go by ash for everyone, and for my friends I use he/they pronouns and get called masculine terms and it feels right, but when strangers use feminine terms I feel this sorta void, like it’s not who I really am, it causes me to be so uncomfortable. I’m probably not going to be able to transition until mid twenties because I won’t have help finance wise. I wish I wasn’t trans, I wish I was a cis girl who loved her body and wore bikinis and didn’t cringe every time someone says “girls night” when hanging out, but I’m not. I’m still coming to terms with my gender, I’m probably not going to accept myself until I’m older, but at least I have an idea to think about as I finish growing

omg 9 years ago

thank you, this week I failed to get a binder and it really took a toll on me

i started questioning if i was trans because randomly my mind was like "oh yeah btw, you are Allistair now haha" and then i just went into a lot of research, but then im thinking about being trans all day, questioning it, making up coming out scenarios, planning on how i would get stuff for it, questioning it again, and just a whole lot of chaos and panic lmao

If you are a straight man and dating a trans woman then your gay or bisexual not straight. straight men want straight women not a post-op transgender/transsexual or God forbid a Pre-op trans woman with male genitalia. Pre-op trans woman is almost the same as girly gay man in drag. Saying straight men want that is total BS and is only making them hate Tran people

I didn't know I was trans till age 40, because I had no idea FTM trans was a thing, or an option in life. Yes I live a very sheltered existence. I never read the news. I almost never waste my time with social media. I just figured I would die, most likely due to suicide, as a woman. Now I have come out to a few people who can get the balls rolling on well, my balls :P

Trans is a fad

The nuance in this reasoning is assuming people who have a hand gun want to kill. The gun control laws in the UK ensure that it isn’t necessary to carry a hand gun for defence, and that’s the difference. Hand guns are only carried by those who want to control others, and they are always the minority. The UK doesn’t prevent gun ownership, it limits gun usage. The US doesn’t differentiate between ownership and usage. Control applies to the latter, not the former.

Cis woman don't have a cock

Your an idiot

I have a 21 inch penis. I can understand why some people wouldn't want to date me.

Step 1. Denial Step 2. Daniel

At 20 I had that floor drop moment. I had watched a video from an animation youtuber coming out as trans, and I had a stereotypical understanding of trans up to that point (the "from a young age I knew" story-) and assumed I was a woman, but a part of that video gripped at my heart and I had realized I only related to being a woman through fetishizing the idea I was a woman, to myself. Now that realization doesn't mean your trans necessarily, but that forced my gender into question because that was the only connection I had subconsciously to my OWN identity as a women, I had never questioned my gender, then a lot of my life just started clicking into place, including many earlier signs I had been trans, not just uncomfortable with the role of woman socially. Its been 2 years. I now look back and despite all my research and attempts to shake the realization I wasn't cis, the feeling of being trans persistences. I've really tried. Ive never felt like myself before, but i do now and its jarring, i'm essentially at a crossroads at figuring out what to do about my identity, because I am uncomfortable socially and physically as a masculine woman. But I understand myself now. Thoooo I'm still a bit too scared to really come out yet as a trans man, or gay for that matter.

I had everything removed because I was dysphoric having it and I had Phalloplasty and I just wanted all afab organs to be removed and I did 😌

Wtf

I will do whatever I please whenever I please with or without your permission. Stay in your lane.

So you finally love yourself but you're not you anymore...strange.

I'd starve myself when I was 12 because I couldn't handle developing breasts before puberty I'd tell everyone I was a boy since I didn't understand the fact that i wasn't. I've been open with then fact that I'm ftm for 3-4 years now and i feel a lot of doubt since i get a lot of hate for it. I've had to see so many physiatrists because my family immediately thinks they're a bad doctor when they say I have gender dysphoria. I get told it because i have bipolar that i feel this way but i know in my heart it's two different issues. I wish i was okay with being a girl but i'll never be okay with it. and i never have been.

This individual reminds of nothing so much as those "incels," or "involuntary celibates" - nerdy guys who feel entitled to the best-looking women and are resentful that they, the incels, can't have them. Very creepy.

Gay man here. I have ZERO interest in dating a Female-to-Male transgender individual, because - for all the hormones and surgery that they resort to - that person is still, in essence, a female. Call me transphobic if you like, but pressuring people to date trans individuals when they don't want to is as creepy a straight man pressuring a woman to have sex with him even if SHE doesn't want to. Just because you are a member of a minority doesn't give you a pass on this issue. The real issue, by the way, isn't our ostensible "transphobia," but rather the desperate need many trans individuals to have for the rest of us to validate their identity. Why they need it from us is anybody's guess. Why can't they simply validate themselves and leave the rest of us in peace.

I seriously believe that people who think this is transphobic would fight to prosecute people for thought crime if the technology existed.

Thanks for sharing!

28 aint old bro

I guess that means I cant say im attracted to women anymore. From now on I will say in my bio "attracted to a person born with a vagina"

Are you identifiying to a guy under chimiotherapy? Nicely done!

We all have a choice . Apart from straight people apparently 😅 fuck off

This girl is out of her mind

Why can’t trans people get it. Straight people DONT NOT THINK A TRANS WOMEN ARE WOMEN! Straight men want straight women how hard is that! Why a phony woman when you can have the real thing

of course it's not. don't be stupid. And i don't want to date you because you look like a dude.

No one needs a reason to not date someone regardless of gender or orientation

You need to be institutionalised, not date.

The first thing that should come put of yalls mouth is "I'm trans". If you don't do that, don't be surprised whatever comes after.

Transpeople are stupid and delusional....

I dont care when you transitioned I prefer biological woman real vagina

Wether it is transphobic or not is an unnecessary discussion/question caused by the fact that you dont have to explain why you are not gonna date a specific group of people or an individual person. It is 100% up to you who you aren't gonna date, if you can live with the risk of not being able to date the person you wanna date. You can't decide who is attracted to you. No other person can decide who you are attracted. If someone calls you transphobic because of this, he's just a dick.