#1 CONFIDENCE HACK: Become Who You're Afraid To Be

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JulienHimself

JulienHimself

Күн бұрын

95% of people are HIDING their confidence... This live demonstration will teach you how to stop being shy and insecure!
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Julien Blanc (AKA JulienHimself) is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.
Since 2010, he has been traveling around the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face... Empowering them to create massive success in their lives!
His record-breaking programs Transformation Mastery, Transformation Mastery Live, Transformation Mastery Live Advanced, Transformation Mastery Academy & Transformation Mastery Mentoring help people around the world achieve the HEALTH, WEALTH, RELATIONSHIPS & HAPPINESS they deserve!
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#1 CONFIDENCE HACK: Become Who You're Afraid To Be
How to be more confident and how to stop being insecure!
In this video, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) reveals how to be confident in any social situation, how to be confident around people and how to be grounded during social interactions...
Discover how to stop being shy and awkward using these confidence hacks!
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@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
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@putchristfirst4610
@putchristfirst4610 Жыл бұрын
When I first saw your videos, I had already been through all the stages you talk about and emotions and everything, I just want sure if I was confident enough to be real with people about it and tell them how it is without much anyone else who I found FULLY understood it. Then I found your videos on I think sunday, due to being so stressed and broken down at home due to not knowing if id ever be ready to express what I believed was true for everyone, thinking I'd be shut down due to peer pressure by some people who deep down know its true but listen to the voices out of fear and habit, and some who forgot its true due to being in the competetive anger stage like I think you said most people are in. But thanks to you being REAL, it caused and is causing TREMENDOUS change in the world as your probably know. Just wanted to say this to give you more encouragement, evidence, and stability, to keep doing what your doing. Its the secret societal code, running most of us who have the same intellectual build, just with different strengths and purposes. It seems yours is to BREAK THE FAKE. Keep moving forward bro, keep moving forward.
@putchristfirst4610
@putchristfirst4610 Жыл бұрын
I also like how you dont edit your videos because if you do, to me at least, its saying: "That part is shameful and noone should show this part of them". And as we know, its only shameful if you shame yourself for it!
@Timelessheart2135
@Timelessheart2135 6 ай бұрын
Yeah. This is it.. such huge conflict.. bad day on purpose- confusion on purpose, changing career - having you in a week and inspiring to accumulate something to make it there, not straightaway, when it is lighter and expansive, I’ll be there.. some things to be done till then.. onto them ❤
@strive4impact
@strive4impact Жыл бұрын
Top reminder takeaway in this moment: "Be willing to lose the wrong people."
@BlackWolf6420
@BlackWolf6420 Жыл бұрын
Same here ❤
@jordynbrown5549
@jordynbrown5549 Жыл бұрын
I hope she knows her moments have also brought tears to others eyes, including mine. She did great ❤ Thank you both
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
Yes, she crushed it! Glad this resonated with you!
@asmrelief4914
@asmrelief4914 Жыл бұрын
Same here tysm
@2000krzysztof
@2000krzysztof Жыл бұрын
I get how she feels. I love what you do as well, I think out of all the advice I've seen online yours is the one that resonates the most with me.
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I'm glad it resonates with you so deeply! 🙏
@carlosmoreno3016
@carlosmoreno3016 Жыл бұрын
Same
@patmanpatmanson
@patmanpatmanson 9 ай бұрын
Right. That resonates different and I do personal development since April 2018 and it changed and saved my life ❤
@highdesertbiker
@highdesertbiker Жыл бұрын
she's so sweet I feel the EXACT same way, i literally want to cry and do cry many of your videos thank you so much
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
You're so welcome! Glad my content is helpful and impactful for you! 🙏
@highdesertbiker
@highdesertbiker Жыл бұрын
@@JulienHimself bro you just made my day replying to this. There is so much good content in this video, it might be my favorite that you have made. It's just good vibes and positive people. It really makes me happy...like it shines a light. I've been struggling with really bad depression lately and you are like a beacon of hope. ty again
@vicentemorales2533
@vicentemorales2533 Жыл бұрын
As soon as she started speaking into that camera during the live recording, it was like another person has stepped in, thats her shadow her true potential being actualized, it was so impressive and so hard to believe. She is that person, shes that potential, but shes holding back, a lot of us are holding ourselves back, great moment, a wake up call, amazing content, have a great day julian, have a great day everybody, and be your true selves
@CertifiedFreshMemes
@CertifiedFreshMemes Жыл бұрын
It's crazy. I'm binge watching your videos and somehow it feels like I've been on the stage too. From the tension at the start up to the moment of relief in the final stages. Your seminars evoke the whole range of emotions start to finish. There's so much to learn here it's incredible. And it's not just dropping bombs of knowledge. It's an experience for the participants (and viewers even)
@healingingrace
@healingingrace Жыл бұрын
Thank you Julien ❤️ - You continue to normalize things and feelings. You’re one of the reasons why I decided to work on myself and become a coach. These live demonstrations are so valuable and helpful and I cannot thank you enough for the impact you’re making on the world and the comfort I get when I watch your videos specially because you’re authentic and REAL. “It’s okay” has become one of my daily mantras that I tell myself after you mentioned it in one of your videos I think. I know it sounds weird but this simple sentence changed the way I talk to myself and how I treat myself. You’re amazing, much love 🙏🏻
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
That's amazing to hear! You're so welcome! 🙏
@motivationforall1397
@motivationforall1397 Жыл бұрын
I am literally crying... I am kind of her.... I have no words... But what you are doing is just amazing... I get anxiety and panic attacks... I am kind of people pleaser girl.. I have social anxiety... But today KZbin recommended me your video and until now I have watched alot of your videos... I was trying so much but I was unable to overcome of it.. today I took a big decision of my life.. that I am going to come out of my comfort zone... And do what is holding me back from not doing it... Thanks Julien...
@bobbijoREV3.10
@bobbijoREV3.10 Ай бұрын
AWESOME !!!!!
@CloudminS2
@CloudminS2 Жыл бұрын
can't stop watching Julien's videos
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
🙌
@mnuzair7549
@mnuzair7549 4 ай бұрын
Same here bro
@lunarae8037
@lunarae8037 Жыл бұрын
I’m in human services twenty years now and driving home between appointments I just lost it. I’m burnt out and have to find better. The go go go is too much. I’ve given to others as part of the healing journey. Found your videos yesterday and ready to figure it all out step by step. Thanks for the amazing journey we are about to go on.
@K4leidos
@K4leidos Жыл бұрын
You already know you can do it brother
@superanxietychick7035
@superanxietychick7035 Жыл бұрын
That's exactly how I felt when I first started my channel talking about my struggles with anxiety. It took me maybe 10 videos to stop squirming, but I pushed through. Julien your shadow questions have meant the World to me. I even made a video just answering them then and there, tough as nails but I did it. Thank you!!!
@ghala4845
@ghala4845 Жыл бұрын
I really don’t understand shadow questions like i know that a part of me believe I’m not good enough i know where did that believe come from but what do i next what do i do with these answers please can you help me
@superanxietychick7035
@superanxietychick7035 Жыл бұрын
@@ghala4845 what helped for me was answering these questions, with follow up questions and then seeing that those beliefs are MY projections and not based in reality at all
@alexandrenedellec7116
@alexandrenedellec7116 11 ай бұрын
​@@ghala4845i am a little late but shadow question highligh what you despise or admire in Someone else. Usually it is a repressed part of yourself that you amire in other.
@WhatTheDrell
@WhatTheDrell Жыл бұрын
She definitely helped me with my struggles of getting back out there to date & not having the finesse, rizz . It's not authentic if it's not me. Thank you both!
@mrSam3ooo
@mrSam3ooo Жыл бұрын
"It's not authentic if it's not me" is a good sentence, kinda needed to hear that today
@trenpn8909
@trenpn8909 Жыл бұрын
As a fellow musician who also excels at fixing others, even though I kinda lost myself along the way and now I'm the one who needs fixing, I find you really inspiring, Julien.
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
Glad my content resonates so deeply with you! 🙏
@aktv5507
@aktv5507 Жыл бұрын
This is interesting. I to have been a musician with some degree of "success". The other day I was talking with a friend about what I love about being on stage. I love that I can steal people's pain, sadness and loneliness for the duration of the show. If you do it right it's like we life the weight of the world off peoples shoulders. I too love helping people and thanks to Julian and Owen who I was blessed to have stumbled into on line many years ago, the self work and letting go of destructive coping and poor self beliefs has changed my world considerably. Still a daily practice but worth every second. If you have a band. Share the name so I can check it out.
@andreapaulina113
@andreapaulina113 Жыл бұрын
I found your channel at the right time, I still got a long way to go but everyday I'm learning so much from you. You encourage me so much to embrace the real me, accepting and getting to know parts of me I need to heal. Thank you so much.
@MeBerserk
@MeBerserk Жыл бұрын
The amount of times I get tears in my eyes watching people here step over boundaries.... I need more water. It's beautiful man 😀
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
Thank you! Glad this resonates with you!
@conforzo
@conforzo Жыл бұрын
Would be interesting to hear Julians thoughts on how the different countries he visists differ in what people have issues with. We are all humans of course, but I think maybe different cultures have some different things.
@VV-xw3te
@VV-xw3te Жыл бұрын
You should only care about your own culture. Other cultures can cope with themselves in their ways.
@Gloriaglo0502
@Gloriaglo0502 Жыл бұрын
He is soo amazing. First few mintues of the video i am like oh the slogan 'just do it". by nike make sense now. When he talks about action, trigger, release, repeat. We all need a friend or family member like Julien. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@MarcBergen
@MarcBergen Жыл бұрын
What's her insta?
@ChristaMaschke
@ChristaMaschke Жыл бұрын
@jennysselbsthilfegruppe 🫶🙋‍♀️
@Ay-Quran
@Ay-Quran Жыл бұрын
She is so beautiful in her real skin 😊
@smokingcrab2290
@smokingcrab2290 11 ай бұрын
I believe I'm "not good enough" because of my inadequacies and failures to live up to my own expectations and the expectations our society deems as worthy of "being good enough". I'm 5'8". I'm not model hot. I'm not a jacked alpha male. I'm not ugly or wimpy but I'm not anywhere near the top of the food chain. And I fear I am judged for being simply who I am. I've been rejected a ton. I've been treated like I'm not good enough. I try to connect with others but many times they don't want to connect with me, because they probably feel I'm not good enough to connect with... I could go on, bit as I'm writing.. I'm thinking "how egotistical is it of me to reject *myself* ?" I mean I was made as another being in this world just like everyone else and I have a place to fit into this world just as everyone else does so why on earth should I not accept me and the role I have to play in humanity? I think it's because I put too much pressure on myself to fit into the mold and be something everyone else wants. But then what do I want? I want love. I want beauty. I want to make love. I want adventure. I want good feelings and pure awesome thoughts and connections. I want nature. I think I want the simple things. Anyway thanks for coming to my TED talk
@nadinetikowsky
@nadinetikowsky 3 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing, very beautifully written
@smokingcrab2290
@smokingcrab2290 11 ай бұрын
People need folks like Julian who make our basic needs and basic behaviors feel normal and understood in a society where it's so hard to be yourself and feel okay with the endless list of insecurities the world tells you to have.
@mamabemoreunicorn
@mamabemoreunicorn Жыл бұрын
This resonated so much I cried at her happiness at making that post. I am in a similar place. Subscribed!
@babi9784
@babi9784 Жыл бұрын
She is so authentic
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
Yes, MASSIVE respect to her! 🙌
@yaellesahbel3157
@yaellesahbel3157 Жыл бұрын
Now I can't unsee his hair! 😂 Great moment, that woman was shining after doing that story!❤
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
😂 - Yes, she crushed it! Massive respect to her!
@Heldin33
@Heldin33 Жыл бұрын
I would love to know the name of her Instagram account !
@micahhughes
@micahhughes Жыл бұрын
Fr if anyone finds out her IG let me know!
@ChristaMaschke
@ChristaMaschke Жыл бұрын
@jennysselbsthilfegruppe 🙋‍♀️🥰🫶
@shane8680
@shane8680 Жыл бұрын
Great video. I notice that I end up trying to please everyone and in doing so, sacrifice my own wellbeing. I also end up being liked by almost everyone but not really loved. I’ve been afraid to put my heart on my sleeve and be authentic for all my life it seems. This really helped. I love the lessons in this video and thanks Julien for inspiring so many!
@isthisarice
@isthisarice Жыл бұрын
Wow, this was mind opening. The lesson after the breakthrough was a speech the whole world needs to hear. Thank you Julien❤
@timmieturner8973
@timmieturner8973 Жыл бұрын
Yea that video she mentioned I watched it today it cracked me open but got sad.
@rayhaan544
@rayhaan544 Жыл бұрын
I really love how she found herself through step-by-step realization. I like how we keep learning through experience since new experience always cover new experiences to come to a definitive answer. Juline really depicted what it means to a human in this world of trial and error. Amazing work as always Juline!
@alkagrover7420
@alkagrover7420 Жыл бұрын
Can You Please make a video on the topic -"I don't like and love the way I look ,The way my face is ,which quite asymmetrical as well .Too insecurity about the way my face is , sensitive of people's opinions about me .This makes me fearful and anxious in life thinking others may take advantage of me or manipulate me or even laugh and mean to me because of this........ Inferiority Complex and feeling of Not being Good enough and feeling Lacking Behind Than others No marriage No True Love I am 29 . 😢 Please Help 🙏 How can I do the shadow work ?? Self Care does not seem to make any difference.. Help Help Help 😢 I am aware that my most of my habits and behaviour stem from the low self image and self concept of I don't look good. I hate the way I look and how my face is. Do not take photos of myself and make videos of the event in my own mobile phone. I really believe that My Future husband will leave me for a beautiful woman in future. Please address this issue 😭🙏 And one thing more surgery is not the option for me ...
@M1ster_man
@M1ster_man Жыл бұрын
julien mate help me out for a sec here. are you familiar with when someone is so socially anxious that they observe how they move their body? for example: someone is self conscious of how their hands move and look. if so do you have any advice?
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
Yes, this is actually quite common... And it requires a lot of deep inner work. Let me know if you'd like my help: application.julienhimself.com
@anusarikashree6109
@anusarikashree6109 Жыл бұрын
i started doing letting go process following the letting go steps in a video.. what I notice is when I watch the mind when triggered(or catch it when it talks non stop), i suddenly don't feel a thing.. but your video suggest allow the feeling or sensation in body.. it feels as though my mind forgot what it was chatting about when I observe my mind. But you say pay attention to emotions and sensation. when I pay attention to body, feels nothing. Is this common?
@paulinecollet3599
@paulinecollet3599 4 ай бұрын
J'ai exactement la même perception de la Suisse : top pour y élever des enfants, et après ? Qu'est-ce qu'il reste à y faire, finalement ? "Mais pourquoi vouloir quitter la Suisse, on a de la chance d'y vivre !"
@Shindai
@Shindai Жыл бұрын
There are people for whom "I don't know" is where they stop? What makes a person so uncurious? I LOVE hitting an "I don't know," it guides what I need to learn next and going down rabbitholes is fun. I don't think it's a good rule to never say I don't know. Own it, and then use it to guide you. It encourages conversation and exploration, bonding, it's fun to learn shit people don't think about (ever wonder why drink cans are that shape? I did, that's why I know now, and in a weird engineering way it's super cool!) I think the rule is to own it if you don't know something but don't let that be the end of the trail. Let curiosity lead you to the good shit :3
@meagancrowley5197
@meagancrowley5197 Жыл бұрын
I am the same with fun things especially. Some curiosity comes up? "I dont know about wombats, BUT I'LL GOOGLE IT". Then spend a lot of time learning about wombats and its very fun for me. That Is my usual move. But I know people who stop at "I dont know" and then its like I have kept running and they have stopped "playing" with me on the topic. And it makes me sad. Its worse with emotional deep things "I dont know!" I might say when someone asks me "what do you want" or something like that, and I guess I am waiting for them to say "well lets 'google it'"(or the self help equivalent) instead of "okay well its fine if you dont know, lets move on". I die inside when that happens. I didnt ask to have the query stopped. I just said the part I had, and expected them to play the game but then to me when they dont play, it signals that they did not really want to know what I wanted, they were only asking out of formality. Because when I really want to know something, I do not stop seeking answers. But I know not everyone is this way...anyway, I can play on my own 😑 tho its slightly more depresso.
@jorgepedret
@jorgepedret Жыл бұрын
What's her Instagram?
@Watchout4them
@Watchout4them Жыл бұрын
Awe.. everyone wants a friend, being alone is scary I know but self value and the rest will follow.. stay strong, head up, and your energy will show.. keep it up everyone!!!
@berkayyuksel8112
@berkayyuksel8112 Жыл бұрын
I sometimes do the "immidiate action" thing and after this video, I wanna do it more and I wanna take bolder steps. Thanks for the videos Julien. Btw, if you have it I really want to see her instagram story and find out did she really do the live talking
@alanwattsvietsub
@alanwattsvietsub Жыл бұрын
The moment she done the recording and everyone clap... I felt that joy too... Really love your work. I feel the same... wanting to help ppl with these topic but i am also working on myself, like only half way through. Need more action, Create a youtube channel already, but still delaying on my first outdoor vlogging >.
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
You’re welcome! You got this! 💪
@grunntalll
@grunntalll Жыл бұрын
Another banger dude. The ending message also really hit the nail man, drawing from your own past cravings. G-G-G- G-UNIT!
@aoor3688
@aoor3688 Жыл бұрын
I just saw your videos yesterday and it feels like I have found what I have been lookong for my whole life. I already love everything your doing and I hope to be on that stage in the near future. Much love
@RodrigoTechador
@RodrigoTechador 10 ай бұрын
It makes me feel so good that I understood everything she said when she was recording her story. 😁
@anddr0552
@anddr0552 Жыл бұрын
It s so weird like i am cheering her to do the video but deep down i know i would freeze doing that. Kudos to her and Julien 🔥🙏
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
Thanks! 🔥👊
@hollyandstelladoodle8748
@hollyandstelladoodle8748 2 ай бұрын
This woman is so relatable. She seems like she’s on the cusp of reaching such a powerful place and is BURSTING with unrealized excitement!! Go, lady, go!!!!
@rewinder2008
@rewinder2008 Жыл бұрын
I must be honest this was inspiring, and it's really inspiring to see that the girl finally found the courage to take action.
@vipinsaini257
@vipinsaini257 Жыл бұрын
I just discovered ur channel 2 days ago...and I couldn't help it but watch your videos...they are extremely helpful and u shatter a lot of doubtful thoughts in my mind... The quote u said "it may hurt to be rejected for being yourself but it may suck a lot more to be someone else"..❤
@handrailsoares
@handrailsoares Жыл бұрын
New to your channel and your content has already made me understand so much about how to let go of “negative emotion” and the “cool front” vs authenticity which has been life changing. You are the best self help channel BY FAR. Thank you for doing what you are doing! I have a lot of work to do
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! And welcome to the channel! 🙌
@mushkys9987
@mushkys9987 Жыл бұрын
I rushed to like this video when you said some people will choose to leave you bc even if you had one follower that would be me not from pity just bc your authenticity excitese and makes me laugh and believe in me. The work id is hard and it takes baby steps to make a progress but it is the best and l can not thank you for that🙏🏻🔥
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
🙏🙏🙏
@Oxerus
@Oxerus Жыл бұрын
Love these videos! They’re always inspirational.
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
Thank you! 🙏
@alexcopp
@alexcopp Жыл бұрын
i want to follow her now, what is her insta ?
@TheAstrologyVitamin
@TheAstrologyVitamin Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry, I did your natal chart lol you are super cool and have similarities to me and resonates. Your energy is me that I only show around friends but not always to the world. Hahaha Your videos are amazing thank you for this gift. ❤❤❤ I wish you love and abundance.
@arthurmurfitt7698
@arthurmurfitt7698 10 ай бұрын
anyone know which video she speaks of? 1:00
@Ahmed_R_46
@Ahmed_R_46 Жыл бұрын
Hello julien, my english is not that good to speaking or when i watch your videos sometimes i need translation, so because of that i can't book a free coaching call?
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
The coaching call is in English, yes.
@Ahmed_R_46
@Ahmed_R_46 Жыл бұрын
​@@JulienHimself Well i already said my english is not good is that a problem for the coaches?
@robertbormann9606
@robertbormann9606 Жыл бұрын
I love how she killed that story and the way you’re 100% honest with giving direction. Do you think it would be best to actually write down my options jobwise if I struggle with finding my way and being myself in jobs? I’m only 21 but I also have no idea how I’m going to make a living which is frightening for me. I just want to be independent and free
@SpikeyGamingX-os3bi
@SpikeyGamingX-os3bi Жыл бұрын
Julien what should i do if i have social anxiety as a teen like i am awkward in social settings im not that talkative.
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
Here's my full step-by-step system when it comes to improving your communication skills: www.highvibecommunication.com/hvc 👌
@SpikeyGamingX-os3bi
@SpikeyGamingX-os3bi Жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@maydac.5077
@maydac.5077 Жыл бұрын
New subscriber. I love all the advice you give. Coming from someone who never felt was enough but has grown and still continues to grow these videos are very helpful and I will share this channel with anyone who seems like they need help. Thanks for making people feel alive!
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
You're so welcome! And welcome to the channel! 🙌
@HyjKlm
@HyjKlm Жыл бұрын
Thank You for existing
@wahajahmed6898
@wahajahmed6898 Жыл бұрын
New insights, New resonates, & New Experiences, ALWAYS. Thank you Julian !!! Thank you Julian !!! Thank you Julian !!! --- Wahaj
@arvidnuytten8217
@arvidnuytten8217 Жыл бұрын
What is her Instagram account ?
@ChristaMaschke
@ChristaMaschke Жыл бұрын
@jennysselbsthilfegruppe 🥰🙋‍♀️
@TigreDemon
@TigreDemon Жыл бұрын
Well, I'm stuck with almost whatever I'm trying to do right now, I have a good job that pays good but in the end I don't really care about money, I don't even use it, it just gets invested or sits on my account ... I have many things I want (I guess?) to do, but they feel like arbitrary objectives and I'm not sure if they're real goals I like or just something I invented thinking I would like it ... every time I start moving towards it, I just stop and barely continue ... Don't even know how to advance my career either lol, cause I'm just gliding each day one after the other. Also have so many self doubt about myself even though I out perform everything I start lol, got praised so much at work but still feel like a fraud Life is complicated man
@dermax9390
@dermax9390 Жыл бұрын
Anyone up for an interesting experiment: Next time your mind randomly starts singing the lyrics of a song go to a quiet place and play that song. Then look inside which sensations come up (what there is to "let go of" if you will)....
@Erwin0912
@Erwin0912 Жыл бұрын
Will give that a try, thanks for the suggestion :)
@smallwall4525
@smallwall4525 Жыл бұрын
Julien do you think a mask is also a buffer for rejection? No one likes being rejected, so if you create a mask and get rejected, well that’s not the real you so you can just make another mask.
@bobbijoREV3.10
@bobbijoREV3.10 Ай бұрын
That’s why God said LOVE people like you LOVE YOURSELF… that means you must FIRST love yourself!!!
@Parenting_teens
@Parenting_teens 8 күн бұрын
I can relate. I saw just one of your videos on Instagram and i came looking for more videos on youtube...i deal with teenagers and my first message ever to them is know who they are and build confidence, i knew how those limited me and made me do stupid things even as adults. Thank you Julian, must watch your videos daily and take your course someday.
@TiffanyNg100
@TiffanyNg100 Жыл бұрын
Wow 12:59 this is scary 17:25 this , “I would have never done this in ten years”. Real shit! Wow 23:40 “be willing to lose the wrong people” celebrate if you lose 500 followers because they not resonate with you
@linusluminus1806
@linusluminus1806 2 күн бұрын
Little did Julien know that she basically just insulted him in german for one minute straight in her story!
@koh123453
@koh123453 Жыл бұрын
I’m going to a show this month where I’m going to meet some of my longtime heroes. People who I’ve been a fan of and inspired by for over a decade and I’m incredibly nervous to actually meet them. These videos are really helping me to build a tool set to keep myself genuine and to help myself through this anxiety I’m having leading up to it. I want them to meet me, not some polite “good good good” front I put on. Thank you Julien. You’re helping me break a lot of internal self harm habits I have.
@yaboiij6694
@yaboiij6694 Жыл бұрын
It literally will feel like you just got freed from a 10 year prison sentence when you learn to let go of the need for approval. Because you were imprisoning yourself
@AlastorTheNPDemon
@AlastorTheNPDemon Жыл бұрын
I need a job that won't fire me for being weird and dark, because that's kinda who I am on the inside. I'm no champion for a "polite society" that condemns the language of grown adults. It's abusive and controlling.
@adityagarg3931
@adityagarg3931 Жыл бұрын
I did not understand. Could you use simple English
@AlastorTheNPDemon
@AlastorTheNPDemon Жыл бұрын
@@adityagarg3931 I want to work at a job that accepts me for who I am and won't fire me for my strange personality. I also don't like people who try to control the things other people say.
@TheAstrologyVitamin
@TheAstrologyVitamin Жыл бұрын
I accept you.
@smeebworld
@smeebworld Жыл бұрын
⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@adityagarg3931In the second sentence he's basically saying "I don't like our society that doesn't let you use adult language (swears). It's hurtful and controlling."
@stathis301
@stathis301 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. Since I started watching your videos, something slowly is changing in me. It's been only a few days, it's already slowly created a process of finding myself. ❤❤❤❤
@josephludwig1126
@josephludwig1126 7 ай бұрын
I have NO social media, I love my solitude, no desire to gain that attention from so many, my happiness and success are NOT determined by others
@joyousbird9229
@joyousbird9229 8 ай бұрын
Julien you have no idea how much I love you and how much I thank you for putting all of it out there ❤️ You’re amazing (And also - very sexy )))) One day I will meet you in person and thank you in person for everything you’ve done for me (and omg, I just came across with your videos 2 days ago))) Anyway) I remember you’re happily married )) still really want to tell you how sexy and awesome you are :) hope this raw truth will put a smile on your face See you in one of your seminars :) Thank you again. And I love what you do - again 🙏♥️
@strive4impact
@strive4impact Жыл бұрын
I love so much that you do this with her and help her do this concretely. So. Dang. Good.
@strive4impact
@strive4impact Жыл бұрын
She literally hid behind the easel right before you helped her do this. I love this.
@natashamaher
@natashamaher Жыл бұрын
Julian, I experience you as a wise soul who models what he speaks.... your excellent, cheeky challenges are so powerful to watch. A truly unique person, you are.. I love your video's..🎉
@billyboy10011001
@billyboy10011001 Жыл бұрын
Hey Julien, thank you for this content. It warmed my heart in so many different ways. I truly hope that you come to Austria someday. We have good beer here.
@laurabenedek42
@laurabenedek42 Жыл бұрын
I ❤her energy!
@mahlateimouri1234
@mahlateimouri1234 3 ай бұрын
Hi I recently watched some of your videos which is great by the way But I have a question What does it mean to be enough? What should I have or feel to be enough I'm keep asking my self whether I'm enough for myself or not but I think I need to at least achieve some of my dreams and goals to feel enough.
@prospectr17
@prospectr17 Жыл бұрын
Julian has a great ‘Heroes Journey’ story. He's a modern manifestation of mythology. We all are in our heads too much and rarely as the Hero. What does life look like if you are an authentic and genuine hero to yourself?
@ntjayabophelo5223
@ntjayabophelo5223 4 ай бұрын
"Although it might hurt to be rejected for who you really are, which sucks a lot more when you're only accepted when you're someone you're not." 23:46
@summerrayne9350
@summerrayne9350 Жыл бұрын
I would love to start a group with her. I can totally see where she’s going. And I think that sharing her experience going to be very helpful for other people we can all help each other.
@דניאללגרון-י5ס
@דניאללגרון-י5ס 3 ай бұрын
But what about improving social skills and fitting with society that's important too
@mohamedds4226
@mohamedds4226 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this man, though I've already made peace with myself, and a lot of what you say I stand for, but watching your videos gives me some amazing relief. I have become addicted to you're live demonstrations, now I'm learning from you how to bring this change to others..Thanks a lot ❤
@zulubeatsprince
@zulubeatsprince Жыл бұрын
Wow she is beautiful all the way through
@Lichtbringer11111
@Lichtbringer11111 Жыл бұрын
You should come to Germany🇩🇪❤🙏 You would make a huge impact! The country is broken by its core and so are the people. And I mean the Germans that are not allowed to be German because of the ones that bind us to a lie of history. The whole Mainstream society is living in a lie, produced by the media, politicians and the ones above. There are only a few left that could really gain from your strong advises to find themselves again and to not remain depressiv, suicidal beings. I wish you could come. You'd spread hope.
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
I was just there doing live events 2 months ago and I'll be back in March: www.selfhelpfreetour.com
@Lichtbringer11111
@Lichtbringer11111 Жыл бұрын
@@JulienHimself 🥺🙏 I wish I would have known you already. I really wanna come and see you on March. So I can already buy the ticket? I am strongly impressed by you. Such a strong wonderful soul with so much wisdom. You are like a diamond.
@Leojw10
@Leojw10 Жыл бұрын
The lady on the stage in this video was german?
@Lichtbringer11111
@Lichtbringer11111 Жыл бұрын
@@Leojw10 I don't know, could be because of her accent.
@awe4923
@awe4923 Жыл бұрын
Ganz viel Liebe für sie❤❤❤
@noname0641
@noname0641 Жыл бұрын
I just discovered this channel and oh wow, another person who really gets it. I feel like once you've been through enough pain you really can't stay in that depressed mindset, you will eventually realize, on some deep level, that the prison you're in is something you can just let go of. So many depressed/anxious people don't want to hear this, but it's true. Glad to see my people, very inspirational and insightful. Edit after searching up that scandal thing: oh, ok. still valid tho lol
@had5431
@had5431 Жыл бұрын
what scandal thing
@shadracpierre3456
@shadracpierre3456 5 ай бұрын
Woman can jump outside of themselves, easier than men.
@SM-po5iu
@SM-po5iu Жыл бұрын
I love you Julien. You're a real master. The work you are successfully doing is next to impossible. ❤❤❤. Words are not enough to thank your work.
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!! 🙏
@mpipod
@mpipod Жыл бұрын
This is so authentic and real its insane! helps so much! cheers Julien!
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
Glad it helps! And yes, authenticity is all! 🙏
@Erika_Kelly_Apparel
@Erika_Kelly_Apparel Жыл бұрын
Hey girl, you impacted me ;)
@dom.your.demons
@dom.your.demons 8 ай бұрын
She’s a total natural!!
@djebarazidan103
@djebarazidan103 Жыл бұрын
take away :: if you did it you can do it again (gotta go deeper on that ) question :: why when i finish a meditation release i still have the same sensations throughout the day like a become vulnerable to them ? (just want to know how it works)
@rishabhprajapati8423
@rishabhprajapati8423 Жыл бұрын
I've faced the same thing. It's like after a release, I'm more vulnerable to get triggered. But a lot of times I feel far more relaxed too.
@djebarazidan103
@djebarazidan103 Жыл бұрын
@@rishabhprajapati8423 for how long did you know about letting go AND did you get any remarquable results ?
@Gamushort
@Gamushort Жыл бұрын
Hey Julien I am following you for some time and I like your content very much I have a question hope you answer it. I feel like I'm trying to be like a movie character name thomas shelby from peaky blinder, the reason I'm trying to be like him is that he speaks less, less reactive, very calm, mysterious and dominant and every one respect him, and people call him sigma male I'm acting like him because I feel that if I have all those qualities I will look cool, mysterious and people will respect me too, but I feel fake doing those things what do I do. ❤
@steventurous9000
@steventurous9000 Жыл бұрын
Yo, I went a few days thinking that Julian Blac WAS JULIAN CASABLANCAS of The Strokes.
@mitotv6376
@mitotv6376 Жыл бұрын
I like this
@JulienHimself
@JulienHimself Жыл бұрын
Glad this resonates!
@2DTL
@2DTL Жыл бұрын
Can relate to the music part, hence why my channel is called like that. I've been making music for 8 years, I wasn't doing music to be popular, I'm still bad at it, don't even know the basics, but yet I still continued to make it, to express myself. If it's bad - I don't care, If it's good - I don't care, I make music for m-y-s-e-l-f, to express myself and more importantly, I put it out, so even if someone would listen to it, tell me that it's bad, I wouldn't care, because, as I said, it's TO EXPRESS MYSELF, not to give an enjoyment to someone, I mean, if they like - cool ! It means, that me being my true self and putting my real self was liked by someone. After 8 years, I actually felt a lot better, I don't have these negatives emotions anymore to express, I have nothing to say anymore about it. (not all of them disappeared of course, but im doing better and keep working on it). Most of my tracks are barely making any listening (views), and my most popular is over 100k views, and I was never destroyed by that I can't anything popular anymore, because from the beginning my goal was - express myself.
@nemiw4429
@nemiw4429 Жыл бұрын
First thing about confidence I hear is crying? Crying is a sign if weakness. If u cry outside ur not gona have an applaus. | btw unrelated: Men shud not cry. Men shud be stronger than their surrounding, or at least think they are.
@julagu8862
@julagu8862 Жыл бұрын
Great value content❤ thanks
@kaysianrain9203
@kaysianrain9203 7 ай бұрын
She's freaking adorable, I love her willingness to show her vulnerability and freedom to express her emotions in front of people. People laugh with her because they can see and feel exactly how they would feel in her shoes because she presents it openly, which makes others connect with her. I just realised I find this attractive
@gayathris2108
@gayathris2108 4 ай бұрын
Her Face Glow and her body language shifted from small fearful to that of confident bright strong Woman. ;) .
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