1 Man Many Wives: How To Do it Right

[@susanneal6063]

Using a Childs Death to give Lessoms about Polygyny is very distastefull. Sorry to say it. If my Child dies i dont care about all this things and would never use their Deaths to prove my Point.

[@intalmdr4627]

I have to agree

[@greenemerald5701]

This guy is on another level of narcissistic

[@anicesuprise1459]

Yes

[@nattycee6870]

Ikr disgusting

[@SabzAhamedbeautyfyingbeauty]

I think the loss of child is equal to no other pain. 10 months in the womb, then giving birth..a woman's temperament requires her husbands full support to grieve and overcome the trauma especially in this time.. A woman (like you said) does not want her husband to re-marry so personally your timing was a questionable one. I know a mother whom lost her child 10 years ago and she still can't forget it and falls into depression recalling the event but it's her husband's immense love and support that is keeping her going. Subhanallah ❤

[@juxtapositionMS]

So he should wait ten years like that mother?

[@kaia7328]

Remember this is advice from a man who failed to keep his marriage. As a man who wants a successful marriage, why would you listen to him? You'll be bound to the same fate if you do

[@Ineedmorecoffeee]

Your wife was also so young to deal with such a sudden painful shock of her young baby passing . You won’t ever know the feeling to carry and birth a baby be feeding that baby and he’s gone. I hope you can now see how you failed her also.

[@say473]

It definitely was harder for her, you can tell

[@milad2468]

@@say473 he's hurting too. For us men it's just hard to show emotions.

[@say473]

@@milad2468 his fault

[@milad2468]

@@say473 in what way

[@say473]

@@milad2468 he made her (and maybe him- but I think he’s a narcissist and it didn’t even bother him) suffer more

[@Abuhan47]

That is beyond bad timing astaghfurillah. I’m a man also but 7 months after you guys lost a child? That’s way too fresh, no wonder she freaked out. What is wrong with you, have some mercy on your wife.

[@juxtapositionMS]

No mercy to him?

[@nomadbiker4040]

That's a matter of opinion. How long should he have waited? 7 years? Never?

[@Falafel556]

Theirs no basis in Islam he has to wait to get married . That’s just emotions

[@Abuhan47]

@@Falafel556 so if he asked the day after their son passed that is fine? Because technically nothing in Islam says you cannot do that also.

[@Falafel556]

@@Abuhan47 yeah don’t make something halal haram or vice versa that is kufr be careful brother

[@MohammedFarhaan-ev3vx]

I'm 20 years old now but unmarried and I can't even imagine the pain of loosing a child at such an early age, I'm literally in tears 😢 May Allah grant Abdullah Jannah 💖 Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un. Stay strong brother Mahdi ✊🏻 May Allah grant us righteous end. Sometimes in life unexpected things happens and we all need to stay strong in these type of moments.

[@peaceinheart7595]

Ameen ☝️

[@richardgeneau4089]

i don't understand what is the point of having a second wife if it leads to this catastrophic situation where your wife divorce while having kids. it totally not worth it. dismembering a family. did you really need to mary that 2nd women??

[@yasinjamal7517]

it doesnt matter dude

[@fayezakamal3778]

7 months after that big a loss. Too soon. And extremely terrible for a mother to hear. Shame 😢 And not telling her is also terrible. Not coming back here again. Cruel and uncaring.

[@say473]

No words on how cruel that must have been, poor woman hope she is happy now with a man and not with a coward like that

[@tafsirdiallo8545]

Your son will open the gates for you and your former wife in Jannah inshallah! My condolences

[@mumshorts]

So her son died and her husband wants to marry someone else 😢 i understand her anger and I think if she hadn't experienced the death of her son she wouldn't have reacted as bad.

[@mumshorts]

@Siobhan Fogarty yes I agree it's his son aswell but grief hits a mother differently. She's grieving 7 months after while he is thinking about second wife which says alot sorry.. insensitive to say the least.

[@mumshorts]

@Siobhan Fogarty and where did it get him lol he no longer has 3 wives and he ruined his first relationship now there's a bunch of kids that probably don't see him..alhamdulillah I don't have this bullshit to deal with

[@SaSo-mk6yh]

​@Siobhan Fogarty that is such a lie. Women spent much more time with children so ofcourse it impacts them much more.

[@hellogoodbye1600]

I lost my son at 4 months old too. May Allah reward you and bless both you and I jannah for this hardship where we can both go there one day hold our children gone soon and shake each others hand. iA!

[@sarahshah7932]

This man doesn't seem to have much luck with his wives. Imagine being divorced twice and on his 3rd marriage! It makes one wonder how long wife number 3 is going to remain his wife?

[@say473]

Hope this is ironic

[@omarfarique6304]

So according to that logic if a sister has been divorced 3 times that means she shouldn't try to find another husband right cause who knows how long the 4th marriage will last

[@tahirballikaya213]

"And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to the patient" (Baqarah 155) may Allah reunite you in Jannah my brother.

[@sarahosman9030]

Loosing a child is one of the hardest pains you can experience. Even prophet Mohamed (phbuh) was deeply hurt by the passing of his children. May Allah give comfort and ease to any parent who has experienced this, Ameen. To even think about another wife when your wife is grieving this hard loss is more than inconsiderate it’s inhumane and goes against the teachings of treat your wife with compassion and mercy. Yes for many women there is no perfect time but upsetting her on a random Tuesday when all her children are healthy and by her side is way better than what you did.

[@muhamed36]

So 7 months are not enough, right? The truth is that no amount of time is enough. And you know that, you vile woman.

[@TolerantAcceptingModernCommuni]

Give me a hadith or ayah where Allah prohibits polygyny for a man when his wife loses her child, please, I am waiting. لا تحرموا ما احل الله -لك- لكم

[@sayeeed1303]

It is his choice if he wants to marry another women regardless of how she feels

[@nazrey8910]

He didn't think about it. He just informed her about his friend's offer. It would be different if he was actively looking for second wife. 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@juxtapositionMS]

You can't resist even in the month of Ramadan? Such a low life!

[@TheOrganics01]

" Brunette "... tells u how he sees women even as he describes himself to be at that time ,sleepy etc

[@sabhatyasir7263]

7 months after passing of your son, yes bad timing is what I would call it, not even a year, not even 9 months she carried that child in her womb.

[@saharnouri8110]

I don’t agree with you in a lot of topics. But your story made me very sad. When I was 6 years old my brother died this way too. I remember my mom crying. So loud it woke me up from deep sleep. In Afghanistan was no emergency numbers. My parents were shocked and traumatised. After 2 girls my brother Mustafa was very precious to my parents the first born son. This kind of trauma never heals. Allah swt. Blessed my parents with more sons.

[@ikr2377]

This man is the reason why men would fail with more than one wife He failed as a husband to 3 women

[@bigboywasim]

The smart ones don’t even tell and have an excuse or marry women who are OK with it.

[@apexpredator2118]

What a kind comment.

[@sweettea1193]

Damn. Came close to breaking my fast due to some tears that nearly fell in my mouth. Didn't think this could happened from a Mahdi video but here we are. It all makes sense now. Losing your child can irrevocably harden you, to the point where you become a different person. I hope Allah eases their pain :(

[@adampatel8758]

Tears falling in your mouth doesn't break the fast

[@sweettea1193]

@@adampatel8758 it does

[@adampatel8758]

@@sweettea1193 Provide your daleel

[@bsar11]

If it’s not intentional it doesn’t break your fast. What’s wrong with you guys lol. Sure if your intentionally crying to drink tears then whatever lol. Also, not sure why I didn’t start with this but your not going to swallow tears when you cry lol. Your more likely to swallow water when making wudhu lol

[@azertyqwerty5946]

​@coolerthetyrant7923Thats not true. If he didnt do it on purpose then he just has to fast 1 day according to some scholars and others say no fasting. Certainly not 60 days.

[@ummyusufmona]

May Allah grant you Jannah hayati for your patience and reunite you with him in Jannah. May Allah unite Abdullah with his sibings in Jannah too. Ameen ❤

[@mirzabros3618]

These experiences made Mahdi who is today. Don't change for anyone bro. You're doing it right ❤🎉

[@awsanteina5152]

We're all a product of our experiences/circumstances; doesn't mean we remain staunch in what we believe is right if its not.

[@mirzabros3618]

@@awsanteina5152 so what's right Mr know it all. ?

[@awsanteina5152]

@@mirzabros3618 I highly doubt the prophet peace and blessings be upon him when he helped Aisha ( May Allah be please with her ) around the house told her that because hes just helped her around the house on one particular occasion that the next war with the pagans it will be upon her to lead...put it that way. Those who know will know

[@mirzabros3618]

@@awsanteina5152 what's your evidence

[@mirzabros3618]

@@awsanteina5152 garbage nonsense

[@millennialmotherof5]

I’m happy you brought the most important point to the wanna be polygamists. You are 💯 risking losing your first wife so if that’s not something you can handle, no need to break a family…plenty other Sunnahs out there for you to practice 👌

[@millennialmotherof5]

@Cooler The Tyrant same excuse every polygamist use. The family was in great shape until he started thinking with another part of his body that is not in his head. Family would have been perfectly intact and the kids would have grew up in a statistically advantaged household if HE did not go else where. Do you think any of them polygamists are actually “equally fair” to all of their wives? Esp. Financially Oh well! No man in the world can force such approach to any woman Alhamdolillah for Islam allowing kholo3 in this case 💕

[@nomadbiker4040]

Plenty of sunan to practice including polygyny alhamdulillaah...the more the better

[@hellulindholm2958]

@@nomadbiker4040 so no matter how the wife feels?

[@hamoudsk8972]

@@hellulindholm2958 Yes it doesn’t matter, Allah SWT made it irrelevant so it is . Simple as that. That question is basically like saying Allah SWT forgot something important when he made it A RIGHT for men حاشاه سبحانه. Also an extremely small minority of women would experience this even if it was mainstream so an easier way of looking at it from women’s perspective is that it’s a trial from Allah not much different from any other hardship one would face, like say Jihad for men or obeying the unjust ruler.

[@zubairahmed7144]

Guys follow someone who has Islamic knowledge not any Tom Dick or Harry

[@sarab9627]

THANK YOU

[@TheOrganics01]

Like this one...ilm is elsewhere

[@ikr2377]

Actually if you are indifferent to a woman she will feel neglected and seek companionship else where

[@nunyabiznezz6038]

true

[@user-ve4zw6jp9i]

Yup

[@tahir1331]

yeah and she will commit zina too else where

[@zenkahnz3859]

That's no excuse to commit major sins by having extra marital affairs.

[@ikr2377]

@@zenkahnz3859 true,but she could kulla and then legitimately remarry taking any kids with her and making the man pay any maintenance due to her . Basically don't over look your women's emotions or you wil lose them

[@lightningxx2213]

Ill be honest, the last part of the video is EXACTLY why I believe Mahdi will always be, and continue to have, failures in relationships with women. Men who have this mentality face severe repercussions all their lives until they eventually learn from their mistakes. Take Andrew Tate for example. You keep mentioning your first wife in every video, and its clear that she burned you in every way. However, if you adopted this mentality that you are perpetuating, I can guarantee you she STILL would have left and taken away the kids. Whats sad is that you believe your ex wife is responsible for the negative perceptions your kids have of you. Don’t underestimate kids ability to judge for themselves. Take responsibility; look at what you post online. If I had a father like you, I’d also be ashamed to call him “dad”.

[@Iloveanimalssmh]

ouch but i would be ashamed espcially if he hurted my mother , i dont get it most women are so nice and sweet and easy going he has to understand that they are simple creatures they want to feel loved and safe around their men he keep breaking their trust or his wife trust he got the " u are a woman u are lower than me and im better and i see u as a body and I dont value ur state or ur emotions "

[@lightningxx2213]

@@Iloveanimalssmh dragging your personal business, acting tough for the camera, spouting Redpill nonsense is bound to get his daughter either no friends or bullies harassing her about her father. His own daughter had to get off her drawing account because she was being spammed by her father’s haters. Poor girl

[@Iloveanimalssmh]

@@lightningxx2213 omg thats horrible im sorry for the little girl :((( may Allah bless and preserve her

[@lightningxx2213]

@@Iloveanimalssmh ameen. I agree with the hustle, but not at the expense of your family’s (and yourself’s) dignity and safety.

[@Iloveanimalssmh]

@@lightningxx2213 fr i stopped watching him and reading the comments i actually blocked them for my mental health too and i believe u should do the same they living in imaginary world like nobody cares about their ideas real life is way different

[@light-tk3pj]

I feel so sad for your first wife.

[@g2-yasmineouldtoumi565]

So this whole video was to get to your favourite subject: polygamy and how it is always somehow the wife's fault😅

[@pieface8234]

💯💯💯

[@zo5211]

The anger she responded with makes me curious about whether you had ever discussed before marriage the possibility of having more than one wife. My issue with men wanting to have more than one wife is simply this: don’t marry a woman who does not want this. There are women who do and women who don’t. Don’t waste the time of woman who doesn’t. Period. Secondly, you take such little responsibility: “was it too soon? maybe yes maybe no”. Answer was YES. You shouldn’t have even taken that conversation with your friend to your wife. No man can fathom what a woman goes through when losing her child. The unimaginable pain and most likely self-blame she was going through. The betrayal and heart break she must of felt from you. How utterly selfish and low of you.

[@AmiraAhmed-ds4uk]

I agree. Not to mention he said he couldn’t afford to take another wife. Why would you even consider it 😕

[@Ya39oub_G]

Men don't have to tell anything the women are the ones who must know that men have the islamic right to marry again and expecting to be the only wife for a life time is nothing to be found in our islamic heritage or the marriage contract only the western culture convinced you otherwise and the majority of men only think of having another wife after their first marriage and they can have various reasons.

[@AM-bm9rs]

just the way men think tbh

[@fahadabdul6585]

Majority of men do not even think about getting married to a 2nd when they first get married. Only years later bros tend to think of marrying again..and there is no shame in that whatsoever in the eyes of Allah. Secondly, even if at the time he doesnt want to get married again, doesn't mean he cant change his mind. Follow the way of the righteous women of the past.

[@fahadabdul6585]

And please do not even talk about selfishness, many of you modern women would see a widow that needed a companion and help and you would still create havoc if youre husband was to marry them. So please! Go back to quran and surnnah for everything instead of going back to your feelings for everything

[@ZARA-to9fp]

Sorry for your loss. Happy for your wife for leaving you. She did the right thing. No woman should be with a man who is putting his lowest instincts above everything else.

[@ZARA-to9fp]

@Jihadi Conqueror you obviously do not listen to Mahdi. According to him, It’s all about desire if a man wants multiple women, because why should a man marry a woman if not for s*x? Why take the responsibility if there is nothing he wants from the woman he is marring? He could just help sister financially. He is a man in his lowest nature.

[@ZARA-to9fp]

@Jihadi Conqueror you can’t understand because you are too in your lowest nature. You just do not want to hear that.

[@QashMaz]

You realise marriage isn't only about sex. You clown

[@DY0309]

​@@QashMaz very well said 👏

[@DY0309]

​@@ZARA-to9fp indeed!

[@lannylanny8362]

May Allah grant your son Jannah, Mahdi. This is also something that gets you closer to the Prophet, salallahu aleyhi wa salam, as he experienced same loss.

[@WarThug13]

Children are guaranteed jannah you don't have to make dua for it

[@ezekiel5687]

May Allah be with you. You're a good dude and he's in the perfect place now. 🙏🙏🙏

[@mgtabitha6139]

I don't always agree with you Mahdi but I respect you alot. I'm a catholic women that has a lot of respect for the Islam religion and tries to learn about it to better understand others. I come to your page often to try and get an authentic point of view of the traditions and beliefs that a muslim person has. My deepest sorrow and thoughts go out to you and your family for your lost. You're a brave man.

[@TheOrganics01]

There's nothing to respect about fhus guys and his preaching .find out about Islam elsewhere. Islam is not what he understands it is

[@juxtapositionMS]

@@TheOrganics01 Is Islam about preaching hate by a Muslim against another Muslim in front of non Muslim when that non Muslim wants to know about Islam?

[@girlivinglifex]

He doesn't represent Islam!

[@girlivinglifex]

​@@juxtapositionMSa non Muslim should know that this isn't what Islam is about instead of being misled!

[@juxtapositionMS]

@@girlivinglifex Who does? You?

[@Skannerz]

BRO... "Bad timing" is an *understatement.* However, God bless you both, and may your son rest in paradise.

[@shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564]

May Allah reunite you and your family with Abdullah in al-Firdaws.

[@apexpredator2118]

SIDS is rough brother. The horror of all new parents. May Allah reward you for your patience.

[@aminahbergliotrolsdorph7557]

سلام عليكم 😢.. That's just heartbreaking 💔 .. May Allah Let عبدالله waiting by the Door of Jennah for you and his Mum. Years ago a sister lost her Baby girl and we washed her together.. After we finished I swear by Allah She smiled... Many Allah Reward you for sharing this with us ..

[@missa7777]

So sorry Mahdi. May Allah reunite you in Jannah with your little boy

[@petersantoro6429]

This story is heartbreaking and you can see the pain in mahdis eyes whilst hes telling it God bless you and your family bro and r.i.p baby Abdullah Amen

[@saadpak1]

I am sorry about the loss of your son. I say this respectfully. The music started go change after you shared your news with your wife. And I can't stop laughing at the beat and the shift in story and tone 😂😂 love you bro, hope you don't misunderstand my feelings

[@avishaijahanian6472]

Mahdi I'm a Jew and of Jewish Iranian descent but if your situation would have happened in a total Islamic country you'd have had the upper hand

[@TheOrganics01]

But he refuses to leave the hands of shirk, kufr and batil

[@yvonnerangel7571]

This is the thing many Muslim men misinterpret from the Quran. When you Marry a second woman it’s not for anything other than helping that woman out. Meaning she either is a widow and needs a home for herself and her kids... but most men marry a second wife not for these reasons, they marry someone who isn’t suffering... men are providers for women who need the support as many women in islam dont work... but if that woman is still living at home and has been untouched she doesn’t need your help she’s well taken care of, don’t marry her, let her be the first wife for another man of faith. Don’t misinterpret the messages of the scripture

[@Biekoe]

Nowhere does the quran say that. Men are allowed to have up to 4 wives no matter the reason, surah nisah ayah 3. Give me now one ayah from the quran that says it must be a widow or something.

[@kakarot9149]

Marrying the 2nd 3rd or 4th is the same reason you marry the first wife. Bec you show interest in them?

[@abdirahman292]

A man is in charge of his life and his decisions. It is your decision to marry for the first time it's also your decision to take up second, third or fourth. Never allow anyone to make you feel you are doing something bad for wanting something that Allah made permissible for you.

[@Daniel-jm5ov]

Well said

[@TheOrganics01]

Indeed. But you're sharing your life . And you're forcing others to put up with your decisions ,wife and kids ,in laws . Wrong decisions or not wrong. Period !! 100%

[@naso603]

You are killing me brother 😢can't even imagine how you felt Brother please keep doing what you do Keep it real 💯

[@Falasteen7urra]

Heartbreaking and devastating…this is a parents biggest fear and the reason many of us constantly check if our kids are breathing at night. Unfortunately, when looking at statistics many couples don’t seem to survive after the loss of a child. I’m sorry you and your (ex) wife had to go through one of the cruelest tests of this world. It seems this loss may have hardened your heart a bit rather than soften it. It’s easier to look at the world from that ultra logical perspective where you acknowledge that everything is temporary and people can be taken away at any time, so why allow yourself to ever be too emotionally invested. A wife is now simply a commodity and this is what you’re preaching. Fair enough, a person can choose to live this way and protect themselves but they’ll probably be missing out on some genuine connections and will die never having experienced proper love. All I can feel is pity for people with this mind set.

[@DY0309]

You are being too kind to this undeserving man

[@Falasteen7urra]

It’s Ramadan so I’m trying to be nicer in general, lol! Humans are complex and I do wonder if this man has issues after such a major loss, so I’m trying to look at his perspective from a place of compassion rather than judgement. The whole video was chillingly cold and him talking about his child’s loss in such a matter of fact way was a little unsettling.

[@DY0309]

​@Tifaa25 you are right.. I will remove my strong comments.. however, I have watched a few of his videos, the man is a cold hearted, selfish, misogynistic hypocrat.

[@apexpredator2118]

On the other hand, one could say that those who haven't experienced anything like this are way too soft, and living in a fantasy world not aware of the realities of this world.

[@Khalil.Ibrahim]

You're making this assumption about him being cold and all without knowing him in real life. The man has more than 1 wife and several children. How would he be able to handle all this if he was cold and not emotionally invested? Even during Ramadan you guys can't stop making bad assumptions and accusations. Wallah feel sorry for most of you lot.

[@kimo8211]

Ya Allah my brother you lost a baby 😢😢😢 may Allah grant him mercy and support you 😢😢😢😢

[@nidaqamar3246]

So sorry for your loss❤

[@shanaazabrahams1319]

So this video is all about him. His desires and his wants and his needs. From this video I gather that he blames his wife for his child's passing. Did he ever mourn his child's passing with his wife?

[@DY0309]

​@@Marwadear512 spelling it out for the slow.. his actions

[@EE-kt8sh]

Talk about wild assumptions.

[@civildiscourse7626]

It’s his channel…his perspective

[@nomadbiker4040]

Do not speculate and have soo adhdhann (bad suspicions) Surah Al-Hujraat, Verse 12: يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا اجْتَنِبُوا كَثِيرًا مِّنَ الظَّنِّ إِنَّ بَعْضَ الظَّنِّ إِثْمٌ وَلَا تَجَسَّسُوا وَلَا يَغْتَب بَّعْضُكُم بَعْضًا أَيُحِبُّ أَحَدُكُمْ أَن يَأْكُلَ لَحْمَ أَخِيهِ مَيْتًا فَكَرِهْتُمُوهُ وَاتَّقُوا اللَّهَ إِنَّ اللَّهَ تَوَّابٌ رَّحِيمٌ O you who believe! Avoid much suspicions, indeed some suspicions are sins. And spy not, neither backbite one another. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his dead brother? You would hate it (so hate backbiting). And fear Allah. Verily, Allah is the One Who accepts repentance, Most Merciful.

[@shanaazabrahams1319]

@@Marwadear512 he whined about how his wife kicked off when he after SEVEN months he was considering taking another wife. His wife who carried that life for NINE months. Spent hours feeling that life coming into the world and nursing that infant for his first few weeks. That woman felt that baby for longer than he mourned.

[@dia3364]

Please do NOT sleep with your babies in your bed. SIDS is commonly caused by accidentally smothering your baby whilst asleep. It's likely that this may have occurred but Allah SWT knows best.

[@moali7158]

SIDS could be caused by a variety of factors. You cannot speculate the cause.

[@susanneal6063]

My Babys always slept with me but i have a big pillow which i lay the Baby on. The Baby has his own space in the Bed and through the big and high Pillow the Babys Body is higher. Of course if you just put the baby next to you like a Teddy Bear it can be very dangerous.

[@ikr2377]

The fact that his wife lost a baby and you said you'd marry another wife. She probably would have felt she was being punished for the baby being lost . She didn't want the baby to die she didn't fail as a mother so you wanted another wife . And Islam you must ask the first wife before taking a second wife

[@adamhussain6651]

@Mo Bi .....no school of jurisprudence states you need the permission of your 1st wife to get a 2nd ...or the 1st&2nd wife to approve the 3ds etc......please go educate yourself I say that with respect

[@ikr2377]

@@adamhussain6651 this man is not an example to follow. Seriously he has not managed to keep 3 women . Infact he only has 1. He is the prime example of how not to behave in a poly marriage.

[@adamhussain6651]

@@ikr2377 that's not what I'm discussing here....

[@EE-kt8sh]

​@@ZARA-to9fp It burns you so much Allah has given men the option of marrying more than one wife. Does it burn that you are not special princesses? Grow up.

[@Nope991]

"you must ask" nope he doesn't have to. You just comitted Bid'ah. In fact, he doesn't even have to tell her.

[@gugagugadj4464]

No man, you should’ve waited at a year to marry again, just out of respect to your first wife, man. She was hurt and you left her. You are not Top G to demand like that. You are just normal dude tbh.

[@mirzabros3618]

Wtf u mean top G. Anyone can marry. That experienced turned him into a Top G y'all love discrediting people dick riders

[@TolerantAcceptingModernCommuni]

Wouldn't say he is normal/average, there are objective metrics that prove this isn't true. Nonetheless, average w0men have no right demanding their husbands to not marry again, they could request that in a contract, and if they don't agree, they could just not get married. Since the beginning of humanity, average men had multiple average w0men, because despite the man being average, he is average only compared to men, not the whole human species. That means he is likely more educated, skilled, mature, wise, strong, fit, responsible, influential and more compared to the average w0man.

[@Kubilay3502]

He didn't leave her did you even listen to the story they stayed together for another 5+ years.

[@halimab7752]

The guys a narcissist got done for beating his other wife and kid up

[@fatemad4012]

How Muslim women trust Muslims men?

[@zenkahnz3859]

What the hell is this comment??

[@fatemad4012]

@@zenkahnz3859 because Muslim men are like animals 🤣🤣just thinking about se x and desires not human values

[@Sara-216]

​@Hèlmi YAHYA Muslim men are very different from non-muslim men Alhamdulillah!

[@Sara-216]

​​​​​@Hèlmi YAHYA Indeed Subhanallah 🌹💯 Allah's righteous slaves are different. "Islam began as something strange and it will return to being strange, so blessed are the strangers.” This is what sets them apart (righteous muslim women too)!

[@Sara-216]

​@Jihadi Conqueror Ameen🤲🏻

[@nomadbiker4040]

انا لله وانا اليه راجعون Sorry to hear your story, we lost a child also. رحمهم الله There are monitors you can buy for SIDS and it helped with one of our daughters who had stopped breathing sometimes during sleep when she was an infant and she alhamdulillaah survived

[@endtimes0]

Assalam Alaikoum warahmatu Allahi wabarakatuh, Very sorry to hear, may Allah grant you patience, mercy, strength, and eternal Jannat. Ameen!

[@nomadbiker4040]

@@endtimes0 و عليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته جزاك الله خيرا Thank you for your kind reply Your username endtimes made me remember this audio from shaikh ibn baaz rahimahullaah kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZoOrk3WCpLatd5o

[@Inspire2786]

May Allah have mercy on him and grant him jannatul firdaus, ameen

[@cyclingwithmohammed358]

Brother last year my daughter also passed away due to the same condition. She was also 3 months old

[@mileywest4402]

My heart breaks for both of you. I am not going to judge ur choices. I feel both of you blamed urselves and went through a lot already. May Allah be with both of you and help you heal and move forward. Your angel is in a better place ❤

[@ahr7730]

Assalamu alaykom wallahi brother I love you. I watch your videos whenever I can. May Allah reward you for your work

[@j0kez708]

Dafuq is that thumbnail bruv. Mans be goofin around lately. Appreciate the content bruv. God bless thee.

[@YusufAli-gh8er]

i wish i had 4 wives but no girl wants to commit to it

[@YusufAli-gh8er]

@Jihadi Conqueror shut up its beautiful

[@mzaidi256]

Cuz of jealousy

[@ikr2377]

Can you even provide for one let alone 4.

[@Marwadear512]

Because women of all ages actually have tons of options, more than men, despite what Muslim men claim. Only women in certain sub-groups face struggles. It’s not the norm.

[@CamelJockey562]

If you were famous and wealthy with strong confidence, you can find more than 4 that will commit to that.

[@fatimabaig5286]

Salam. I am sorry you had to go through that! May Allah bless the child eternally and reunite you

[@user-ve4zw6jp9i]

Mahdi not initiating divorce doesn't make you a great man.. it just means you took the cowardly way and you simply Neglected her And one day she got fed up and left. The end P.s she didn't want to leave most likely but you chose that not her . Ramadan Mubarak

[@nomadbiker4040]

Have to hear her side but how do you assume he neglected her? Surah Al-Hujraat, Verse 12: يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا اجْتَنِبُوا كَثِيرًا مِّنَ الظَّنِّ إِنَّ بَعْضَ الظَّنِّ إِثْمٌ وَلَا تَجَسَّسُوا وَلَا يَغْتَب بَّعْضُكُم بَعْضًا أَيُحِبُّ أَحَدُكُمْ أَن يَأْكُلَ لَحْمَ أَخِيهِ مَيْتًا فَكَرِهْتُمُوهُ وَاتَّقُوا اللَّهَ إِنَّ اللَّهَ تَوَّابٌ رَّحِيمٌ O you who believe! Avoid much suspicions, indeed some suspicions are sins. And spy not, neither backbite one another. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his dead brother? You would hate it (so hate backbiting). And fear Allah. Verily, Allah is the One Who accepts repentance, Most Merciful.

[@hooman467]

Inalillahi wa ina Illayhi rajioon. My condolences to you...

[@LaHijab23]

This man talked about the his baby dying. Then 7 months later. He tells his wife who is grieving that he wants to take a second wife. How sick, deluded, and hypocritical can you be? This man is hilarious. You are NOT a man. 😂😂 but tell yourself whatever you need to say :)

[@TheMrpalid]

Polygyny is a Real solution to the marriage crisis

[@sarahosman9030]

Are you aware what the marriage crises is?. Stats show that 60% of men are single and 30% of women. In polygany most women will go for the top percentage of men. So if all the women are sharing the top few men what happens to the rest of men?

[@nazrey8910]

​@@sarahosman9030 Women will choose top percentage regardless of polygyny or not. The rest of the men will be single because their proposals keep getting rejected. Almost all women won't settle for a lower level men. Especially nowadays since they can earn for themselves. I don't believe in evolution, but these men basically become the causality of natural selection. They don't get to continue their genes. Just like how Netherlands have tallest average height. The women mostly reproduce with tall men.

[@MK-hw2ir]

@@sarahosman9030 modern women nowadays (as they become more educated & earn more money) , have a VERY hard time going voor average Abdullah. That’s their nature when they match your wealth level, they want to go up, result of that: zina becomes widespread, no halal marriages anymore, broken homes; no commitment etc etc. You could make the argument that women should stop earning as much, so more type of men become available to her, and she can look up to & respect abdullah the plumber. But then you’d ofcourse be seen as an oppresive mysoginist. So the other solution: the men they go for can marry 2/3 wives , so the family structure stays in tact. With Women earning their arrogance go up and they feel discontentment for Abdullah the plumber, because she earns more/ educated more. With men we don’t have that opportunistic type of look to relationship, a millionaire could marry a woman from kfc, but never the other way around, that’s life

[@dalagangla7406]

Would you like it if your wife got married to second man no right then why say don’t ever tell your wife that you want a second wife because they go crazy of course everyone has feelings and if you have a happy life with your wife and kids why go marry again are you missing something or what please everyone who is married respect your marriage and always try to make it work special if you have kids because the kids faces a lot of mental problems after divorce’s.

[@civildiscourse7626]

It’s not halal for a woman to have another husband

[@CassimRawat]

This is 100 percent true

[@prizma45]

not sure how this man will teach his audience to grow to 6ft1, good face, fair skin

[@spawnnpwn4166]

I thought he's 6'3"

[@KD400_]

Dont be silly. Use the knowledge gained from him and apply it to urself

[@prizma45]

@KD400_ won't change anything dude

[@Mariamelhajouti]

What a twisted and overall dangerous mindset to just play with woman for your own needs and abandon / replace them for another woman. Men just disgust me, even the pious ones that think they got it all sorted out are sick and hypocrites. 🤮

[@highlightdaily4828]

Of course its for our own needs and there’s nothing wrong with that. Scholars such as Shaykh Albani have said its fine, so who are you? Keep seething 😂

[@Marwadear512]

Well he wasn’t abandoning or replacing anyone, to be fair. His wife left him, after he told her he refused to let her go. So you’re kind of claiming the opposite happened than what actually happened, which means you’re spouting cliches.

[@Khalil.Ibrahim]

May Allah grant baby Abdullah jannah. InshaAllah Mahdi you will be reunited with him again soon.

[@jayreazy1]

He is in paradise brother

[@mamamarcano5300]

I literally dislike this brother so much.... I can't believe I'm gonna say this but I think he actually gave solid advice, Alhamdulilah, May Allah bless him, and lighten his and his ex wife's burden for the lose of they're son and their marriage. May Allah aid the believers

[@Walem_B]

May Allah grant you sabr and reunite you with your son fi Jannah brother 🤲🏽

[@amar3548]

إِنَّا ِلِلَّٰهِ وَإِنَّا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعُونَ May Allah make your heart content and grant your lil one Jannah Al firdous and reunite you with him there Aameen 💕 strongest soldiers get the hardest test Allah make it easy for you Aameen

[@rocktanker]

سبحان الله الحمدلله الله أكبر

[@endtimes0]

Assalam alaikom warahmatu Allahi wabarakatuh beloved brother. May Allah grant you and your family blessings, mercy, strength, and eternal Jannat. Peace dear brother.

[@bigdadynickable]

I had to shut my brain off and listen . Powerful .

[@elizabethbailey5731]

I'm really sorry you had to go through that..

[@minireshala1228]

May Allah granted you jannah Al firdaws Al ala so you can meet your little Abdullah Amin bruv

[@Jdac333]

Rip, so sorry to hear about your son

[@Trendkanal]

Is 999 the number for the ambulance in the uk?

[@KD400_]

That absolutely sucks. I'm sorry for ur loss.

[@zenzyvinsmoke5168]

God bless you bro🙏❤️

[@ikr2377]

When a party doesn't want to be in a marriage it can turn toxic

[@machinegunkely4417]

May Allah bless you akhi , you and people similar to your case have gone through allot only Allah knows how much pain you've gone through and how much blessings he's going to give you in return from his tests . May Allah make it easy for you akhi remember Allah always subhanhu wa tala

[@iliasajjaji]

May allah put you together in djennnat al firdous. Ameen. I do have a question if you dont mind. Did hé got a vaccine before this?

[@Inspire2786]

I couldn't say one word without crying if that was me

[@mohammed96011]

Cant imagine the pain

[@shadmani9687]

I can confirm what he said at the end is true. When women dont fear losing you, they are more likely to leave you.

[@محمدفايق-ص6ت]

God bless you brother.

[@atme7375]

I have a question I want to get married I’m 20, but how do I get married and do education as well, how did u do it as you’d said u had 3 kids and wife and was at university. How did you support ur famliy

[@girlivinglifex]

This guy does not represent Islam!!!!

[@zerorepsinreserve]

This was a really well put together video bro 🙌

[@minireshala1228]

I heard that in Islam if a women initiate for divorce she is going to get laana from the angels

[@DannyD-lr5yg]

Ps it’s SIDS

[@terrellbennett1685]

He literally said that at around 9:15. So chill

[@DannyD-lr5yg]

@@terrellbennett1685 Lmfao about my comment said “whoa this person needs to chill” to you? 😂 All I said was “Ps, [objective fact.]” Anything beyond that was you misperceiving or projecting.

[@zemma7963]

I am no way an expert and may Allah forgive me if I am wrong but the naturopathic doctors relate SIDS to childhood vaccines. Please do your research on it. Not on google because the first few sites of course say there is no relation. You have to go down deep into the rabbit hole about vaccines and pharma. May Allah guide us on the right path.

[@nomadbiker4040]

While it's true there may be a relationship to vaccines, SIDS happens in some who have not had vaccines. There's a correlation to premature birth too

[@fatihmehmed6268]

May Allah make it easy for you brother ❤

[@umairidrees7291]

I thought you weren't gonna make any content in Ramadan?

[@nazrey8910]

no livestream, he'll still make other content.

[@MezbahRijvee]

Damn this is super deep

[@memoriesofalifeoncelived3098]

May allah unite u with abdullah in jannah ameen🤲🏻. Brother I’m sorry it broke my heart

[@abdulkareem7671]

What is the background music or nasheed it’s so nice

[@niallhoran4894]

The timing was VERY bad. No excuses.

[@Walem_B]

I actually respect you brother. I wish I had righteous ppl like that in my entourage. Gheir haraymia wa s'hab materiel and good times. To the point I m always alone or gonna end up being pulled down to sin. Again I feel so sorry for your loss its absolutely heart shattering. May Allah grant you a righteous offspring brother 🤲🏽

[@TheOrganics01]

Audhubillah. Respect rubbish ?