1 Month Post-Op | Gender Reassignment Surgery

[@KenOtwell]

Im a 64 year old CIS male and I have no idea why your videos popped up on my feed - but this is the 4th one I've watched and I just want to say you're an amazing person. You are so freakin' brave and together given everything - more than most who don't have your adjustments to deal with. I know you will survive and thrive - best of luck and have an amazing life!

[@andreaam805]

Adorable 💖💖💖

[@voornaam3191]

Your confidence she will be okay, that's so good to read. Ah, it'll be okay, she can cope with anything... Thank you for posting.

[@hattarapilvi]

this is such a sweet message, we need more people like you ❤️

[@jane46334]

you’re a good man, ken. thank you for supporting t girls!! 💓

[@cristyluv1205]

What is a "cis" male? You mean male???

[@judysmith6210]

Thank you for your honesty. My granddaughter will be going through this in a year so it is nice to know what will be happening.

[@leangroundbeef2322]

oof

[@Sarahlovexox]

@@leangroundbeef2322 ?

[@kagneykingston2035]

i know your granddaughter is so grateful for your acceptance. you are a good women, ma,am. stay blessed and safe

[@Nick-lr3ik]

Sad to hear because only god has the right to choose your gender, you don’t .On what authority can you say to god , I’m not a man I’m a woman.

[@guidemoepassant]

@@Nick-lr3ik Not everyone believes in your god, whichever may it be.

[@Allyson6C]

I’ve never heard anyone share the intimate details of a surgery like this, and so thank you for courageously sharing this. I hope that several months down the road, you’ve found that going through with this procedure has brought you every bit of fulfillment you felt you were lacking & more. You’re a beautiful, brave young lady. Continue to stay blessed my dear. Hugs from Connecticut xo

[@Mayavhenry]

Thank you Allyson 💗🙏🏼

[@MsCandyLynn2369]

This right here!!!

[@danny_fanta_692_9]

@@Mayavhenry I want to become a woman.

[@rondinelesilva4779]

beautiful words of love and affection for such a beautiful person elegant charming Just like this goddess

[@breshannondevereaux5712]

@@danny_fanta_692_9 If that is who you are, Sweetheart, then do what you need to, to become whole. It's a long, hard road. Do your research, take your time..Choose your doctors carefully. Treat yourself with love. I don't know you, but you have my love and support! XOXO, from Seattle.

[@aaeonfluxx2]

After many years in the medical field I can say without a doubt this is most REAL strait up honest talk I’ve heard. Best of luck .

[@katherinea.williams3044]

I stumbled across this video and I really must say, she’s a gifted storyteller. Best of luck doll Love & Light from Miami🦚✌🏼 Stay safe everyone🌎🙏🏼

[@joycedominguez1828]

@@katherinea.williams3044 she is. I love her voice and I love listening to her.

[@homegirl4155]

Agreed. No stupid outtakes, no staring into the view finder all the time, no life story explaining why her hair or face “looks a certain way today” and no “ um”/ “erm”/ “like”... very refreshing!

[@φιλοσοφία-η4μ]

"Her"

[@φιλοσοφία-η4μ]

@@abcdef9949 ?

[@biancacrawford7533]

I'm 6 months HRT and thank you for your video. You did a great job elaborating and giving me the confidence in my dicision.

[@amazonglamazon6633]

Decision

[@amazonglamazon6633]

@Follower yes she’s technically female

[@paulaharrisbaca4851]

Think very hard about neutering yourself.

[@seanjohnston1355]

Keep it up. Dm me if you need a friend

[@biancacrawford7533]

@@seanjohnston1355 hi

[@harrietclifford-varley9927]

My girlfriend still isn’t sure if she wants GRS or not so I’m trying to watch and read up as much as I can so I know what she might go through and experience if that’s what she decides to do further down the line. This was really informative and helpful for partners of trans people who want to support their SOs through surgery and transitioning, thank you so much and I hope recovery goes well for you! ❤️

[@katywalker8322]

Not sure where she is considering for surgery. But for most it is not too bad. Typically in the uk, 1 week in hospital. Surgery on the first day, with a few days bed rest. 5 days later, catheter out and allowed out of bed, and dilating starts (3 times a day). 2 days later sent home. 2 weeks at home before being allowed out. Another week until allowed to drive. Dilating 3 times a day for 8 weeks, slowly reducing until once a week. Pain minimal. Far less than you would expect. Paracetamol was all that was required after a couple of days. Worst part with some surgeons was 3 days of a “clear liquid diet”.

[@heather_857]

This is the most adorable post! Best of luck to you and your girlfriend for the future, I hope that whatever she decides to do goes well❤️

[@qq4954]

Hell na

[@Kourtneywoods1]

So adorable x

[@danielmconnolly7]

This is a decision you will regret for eternity. Seek God before you do any such thing.

[@_samanthalux]

I’m so glad you’re doing alright and healing well, great video! 💚

[@Mayavhenry]

Thank you Samantha 🙏🏼♥️😊

[@dariusrekasius4985]

@@Mayavhenry you are my dream girl in the world becouse you are very very beautiful 💋😍😘❤

[@osmanxxrngxx1369]

No pls when day you will regret when you grow up 🤮🤮🤮 just be happy the way god create you omg and good luck in the grave and hereafter l wish all the best

[@diamond5156]

@@osmanxxrngxx1369 boy stfu

[@lopezzz.annie31]

@@osmanxxrngxx1369 boomer🤢🖕🏻

[@Shannakitty1]

Your video popped up in my feed and i just LOVED how honest, real and Still positive you are!! Gender reassignment surgery IS the BIGGEST and difficult surgery to heal from!! Even back surgery is hard ... But i think what you went through is harder. And i love that you're explaining the truth of how you feel about this stage of your surgery. Super mentally healthy for you. I enjoyed your video. Thank you for sharing it!!!

[@jimmysjamin1]

Wow you are really beautiful and brave. To go through that huge operation and pain your truly an amazing person many blessings 🙏 ❤ 🌹

[@kevincampbell5785]

I haven't checked in with Maya's videos for quite a while. So happy for her that she had this surgery! Wishing her many years of happiness to come.

[@jeremycastro3712]

Maya I’ve been here since you started your journey. You’re literal first video...I’m so happy for you. I have faith you’ll heal beautifully and that you’ll soon be up on your feet and fully healed. You are such a great role model for Trans people!

[@Mayavhenry]

Wow, that is amazing to hear, Jeremy! Thank you for all of the support over the years. 🙏🏼💗

[@paulaharrisbaca4851]

I feel so afraid for how you guys and gals will feel about this in 10 years. BUT I sense you will be incredibly wealthy after you get a good attorney.

[@zipaprika]

​@@paulaharrisbaca4851your existence and opinion here is not only not needed, it's also not welcomed at all. From the same crowd that yells "Stop pushing your agenda" it's pretty ironic that you can't seem to let go of trans safe spaces...Hope you get better soon of whatever is irking you to comment non-stop negativity here.

[@thereturningshadow]

You look like Chloe Grace Moretz and Amanda Seyfred had a baby together. That was NOT an insult by the way.

[@Jjjbbb5678]

And sounds like hulk hogan

[@Marshiethemarshmallow]

Um.... Any comment you post that you feel the need to say “I’m not trying to offend you, but...” “Not to be rude, but...” “Don’t take this the wrong way, but....” “This is not an insult or a joke btw...” Don’t say it. Because if you feel the need to say that, it probably isn’t necessary to say in the first place.

[@thereturningshadow]

@@Marshiethemarshmallow Well I guess the 76 people who liked my comment don't agree with you.

[@idaormark3079]

How is that an insult, do you mean Amanda Seyfried? cause I would take that as a compliment they're both beautiful women

[@thereturningshadow]

@@idaormark3079 yep

[@seanfarley8382]

I’m so impressed by your composure following what sounds like an awful and scary process. I think you are so brave. Sending loads of love and healing thoughts xx

[@DarleneDickerson-y6t]

Finally a video telling more truth about the surgery than all of the videos I have watched on KZbin. In fact this video has me excited as I myself am scheduled for the surgery in a few months. I want to say thanks for the most detailed informative video I have seen so far👍

[@User0000000000000004]

Didn't anyone tell you gender is a social construct and you don't need to change your physical sex to be transgender? But please, PLEASE get the surgery. I wish ALL trans people would get the surgery, especially women turning into men. We need as many of these as possible. PLEASE get the surgery!!!

[@davidm4566]

I just wanted to see if you're ok because you posted 10 months ago

[@captainnibby]

I myself am a straight male, but I have 3 friends that are trans, and I'm trying my best to understand it and not be a crappy friend. Thank you for documenting your experience!

[@ScienceGuy232]

I am exactly in the same spot, my long time friend is going through this

[@DJMightyChip]

@@ScienceGuy232 You and the original commenter both sound like amazing friends. Tell your friend that you're putting in this effort. You're not tooting your own horn... you're showing them you care, and learning things without asking them incredibly personal questions.

[@ScienceGuy232]

@@DJMightyChip I'm just worried. In the outside im a very aloof guy but inside I can't stop thinking about his sadness, I couldn't imagine looking at myself in the mirror and feeling so much disgust to the point of doing this extremely agressive procedure. I do not consider myself a good person, but i want to at least show my silent support to him.

[@012751W124K]

Try fucking tham. That is the best way to understand them.

[@captainnibby]

@@012751W124K that’s not an option for many reasons, so I’ll just have to do the best I can…

[@VerityGradin]

Has it been one month already?? Crazy! Happy for you Maya :)

[@Mayavhenry]

Time goes by so quickly 💗

[@michellemybelle5282]

I just had my surgery six weeks ago here in the states, so I can relate to almost everything you mentioned. It is nice to hear your experience since I don't know many trans women who have had surgery. I wish you the best with recovery going forward!

[@tashagamble1883]

Yay Maya! So happy for you! Thank you for describing everything in detail. These are things one does not consider often when contemplating surgery.

[@debbieapostol7783]

Good to see you looking well! Bless your heart❤️ Sounds like you have been through a lot! Sorry that you had to be alone during such a challenging time. Continue healing, getting stronger, and feeling better! Prayers and much love, dear one!

[@Mayavhenry]

Thank you Debbie 💗

[@natowen8057]

Wow 😮 thank you for sharing your experience it's really quite something, I hope you're doing well ♡ even though theres no pictures or anything just your beautiful self talking, I loved listening to you telling us your confirmation story 🥰 the insight into a trans experience is great

[@elektronskalet]

Been following your channel since 2015 now, and you’ve helped me through some rough times. I really wanna thank you for that, and I hope your recovery will get easier soon. Hugs from Sweden ❤️

[@isla1595]

So glad you're doing well! You're so wonderful for sharing this with all of us, I still watch your 'How to Love Yourself as a Trans Woman' video every time I'm having a rough day ♥♥

[@nygirl1616]

You are so brave to be sharing your experience so openly and in such detail. I hope the best for you and your recovery!! You have a new subscriber :) cheers from Seattle Washington x

[@Mayavhenry]

Thank you 🙏🏼💗

[@lollollolskeet]

You are such a great person, I'm looking at getting GRS within the next year and its so helpful to have other women talk about what it is like so I can prepare myself mentally 😊❤

[@lollollolskeet]

@Code_

[@LEGENDSIN4KREMASTERED]

DONT DO IT!!!! You will live to regret this decision.

[@lollollolskeet]

@@LEGENDSIN4KREMASTERED no, I won't. I am a 22 year old woman and I am in the medical field. Just because SOME regret it doesn't mean all of us will let alone me with my background

[@lollollolskeet]

@@LEGENDSIN4KREMASTERED and after looking at your other hateful comments I can tell you that I don't care what you say. Take your "you still look like a man" comments to us and shove them

[@LEGENDSIN4KREMASTERED]

@@lollollolskeet That was a constructive criticism advice!! How dare you tell me to shove it!!! It’s okay - I still pray for you 🙏🏼

[@3llevate]

Girl! So proud of you, take good care of yourself! I really wish you some healing, in all aspects and i hope everything turns out perfect when you do! Please keep us posted 💗

[@jenneljustus9601]

So happy that you are now complete. I transitioned in 1988 at 36, and now at 69 planning on getting my SRS next summer now that I can finally afford down here in the states with the cost of $24,500. But, I am really looking forward to it

[@miahurtado]

Congratulations! I'm so happy that you're finally able to get your surgery!💜 I hope you have a safe and speedy recovery!

[@sinemguclukol1932]

Hey there! How have you been doing? Did you get the surgery? Would love to hear about your experience!

[@jenneljustus9601]

@@sinemguclukol1932 Yes I did. Got it July 6th of last year, healed fast with very minimal pain, and I haven't been any happier at 7 mos post-op

[@Trotsky0518]

One line, from the Final Fantasy VII Remake, you might like is "True beauty is an expression of the heart. A thing without shame, to which notions of gender don't apply."

[@EmeraldEdge72]

This is actually a great quote that I fully agree with.

[@akaahri]

Andrea is such a good chatacter

[@douglasferguson8631]

Maya Thanks for updating us with this video. I have been sitting on the edge of my seat waiting for news. I am so glad to hear that everything is going well.

[@genevievesuzi1549]

My best friend will be going through this more than likely in the next 6 to 7 months and I want to learn all I can so I can be there for her. I want her to still be seen by someone just so she doesn't get depressed afterwards. I don't know a whole lot but maybe I can help some ❤️ you are absolutely Beautiful 😍

[@verbrugghezelda3808]

You are so sweet xx

[@oliviaprisacaru8367]

If he/she is your best friend, convince her/him not to mutilate her /his body!

[@kileyfitzgerald6792]

I could listen to her talk all day. Just so eloquent, even when speaking candidly about something so private ♡

[@Mandy-nt2cs]

Eloquent.

[@micaalcantara7063]

I’m a cis female and nurse. Lately, I’ve been watching so many videos regarding GRS and let me just say I’m glad YT led me to your video! First of all you are gorgeous! You are very well-spoken (medical and general wise) and pleasant to watch! You explained everything well and honest. I am sure this video will help trans women decide if they want to do GRS or just relate to your experience. I’m glad you are healing well and doing everything to prevent infection. Wishing for your speedy recovery!😊

[@Mayavhenry]

Thank you for the kind words Mica! 💗

[@detective2221]

shut

[@robcreel4257]

You are such a brave young lady to share with all your experiences throughout this process as well as the complete journey. I wish you all the best. Take care.

[@carolinepaige217]

Its interesting how we all react differently to the surgery. I was operated on the 14th August and had little pain. But when it came to dilation....horrendous! I remember waking up in the middle of the night a few days after going home and bursting into tears because of the thought of having to continue with dilation with unbearable pain..... but now I'm ok and glad its no longer painful. Good luck and well done xxx

[@melissacurtis9492]

You do such a great job at assessing the situation & giving straight forward honest answers. So interesting to hear about the recovery & pain. You are a Rock Star Girl!

[@NoOneWhoMatters1952]

I hope these radical procedures bring you peace and happiness rather than regret.

[@AndreeaMihai]

Wishing you a speedy recovery! I'm not transitioning nor I intend to, so maybe I'm not the target audience, but I wanted to tell you how informative your story was, so thank you for sharing it with us. Sending you love!

[@ricardonascimento1162]

Congratulations, Maya. I’m watching your 1 month post op video, and I’m so happy for you. Thank you for your courage in truthfully sharing your experience with your gender confirmation surgery. I know that you are helping hundreds if not thousands of young women who may be waiting for their own surgery. I have to admit that I’m still learning about all the LGBTQ community and experience, but my daughters have been very patient and generous in explaining things to me. I watch your videos to further educate myself, just I think to be a better person. So again congratulations, and thank you for your videos. Cheers, Ricardo Nascimento

[@FrostyFate]

Its great to see you! I cant imagine being conscious during that surgery. I hope it doesnt hurt so much now

[@davidhopkins6946]

Around when I was 15 or 16 years old, I found myself really wishing I'd been born a girl. I am now 34 and have decided I'm happy being a guy, but I still stand by the decision that if I'd had the choice at my conception whether I wanted to be a boy or a girl, I would have chosen girl.

[@oliviaburch7971]

oh honey. how are you doing now?

[@davidhopkins6946]

@@oliviaburch7971 I'm fine now. Maybe if reincarnation exists, I can be reborn as a human female in a future life.

[@fashupora5487]

You will eventually want to transition. Mark my words.

[@kerrycook1744]

Thankyou. This is really helpful. I've got my surgery this year and really good to have an idea what to expect x

[@Emiegie]

Thanks for picturing this "adventure" so truly. Usually girls just picture it wonderful and not much to go through.

[@ashleeylyn]

I can’t remember if she said anything about going to the bathroom on her own after. I can imagine both peeing and pooping would be incredibly uncomfortable experiences plus you’re trying to keep that area constantly clean and free of bacteria because you quite literally have open wounds down there. Every aspect of this type of transition and healing has got to be one of the most difficult things a person could go through and I will never understand how anyone could think a person would go through it for attention or as part of a “phase”. If she does read this comment, I’m so happy you’ve got such a wonderful supportive partner and I wish you nothing but the best and a smooth recovery.

[@Mayavhenry]

Thank you so much for the kind words Ashley! 💗 using the bathroom was definitely an uncomfortable experience for the first couple of weeks! I will try to go into further detail on a future update video! 🙏🏼

[@ensulalachance8353]

@@Mayavhenry that must have been so painful! Like one huge UTI 😬

[@mmojorissen]

It's not one of the most difficult things s person can go through... trust me on that!!

[@tamarak9393]

@@mmojorissen it may be the worst thing she will go through and I think that’s what she meant. Of course they’re worse things other people go through.

[@christiegroves]

My friend had awful problems female to male where my girlfriends who were male to female had a better time of it.

[@roseelliott2728]

I’ve been following you for about 4 years and am so happy you posted. I was thinking of you this past month. It takes time but I have faith you will heal beautifully 💜

[@AngieS23]

Thank you, for that.

[@ShadyLady988]

The way you talked about how you feel post surgically about the most private parts and loss of inhibition, I couldn't help but notice the entire experience sounds almost EXACTLY like what childbirth is like. The epidural, having everyone seeing your private parts, the sitz baths...they offered me a mirror when the baby was coming out, I chuckled knowing the exact feeling you had when they removed the packing and asked if you wanted to see it...same feeling, the soreness, hunching, feeling of stitches pulling...the catheter because of the swollen urethra, I mean, girl, you just experienced the birth of a new human, instead of it being an infant it was your true self...I understand the differences but couldn't help but notice the parellels!

[@krystalcheena]

I just want to say, I think everyone who had these surgeries are incredibly strong and brave. I feel so privileged now that I was born in my preffered body. It's so easy to take ourselves for granted. I randomly came across this video. I'm hoping you have a smooth recovery and everything heals amazingly. ❤️

[@willowbranch5237]

A friend of mine had this surgery a few years ago and it was a huge success. She ultimately healed beautifully and has gorgeous lady parts. Wish the same for you. Hugs and support..

[@Bountylicious]

thats fucking wierd

[@bananaspice1967]

@@Bountylicious And why is that weird?

[@armellentalaja3972]

@@bananaspice1967 it is.

[@bananaspice1967]

@@armellentalaja3972 Still not giving a reason why that's weird

[@Anonymous-dy5hb]

@@bananaspice1967 it’s weird that op said “she has gorgeous lady parts” which means that those two friends are probably being NSFW with each other. How else would op know that the ‘friend’ has “gorgeous lady parts.”

[@skip081961]

You're amazing! I'm a closet follower of you and now I'm "out of the closet", with respect to your story. Congratulations on your bravery and your surgery! I work for the L.A. County Public Health Division of HIV and STD programs and I have the pleasure to work with so many of our transgender population here in Los Angeles. I wish you the best in your continued recovery Maya.

[@78deathface]

Congrats, girl! Not gonna lie, Maya, the whole experience sounds super intense. I’m a bit squeamish/straight up scared of hospitals and medical stuff and I was feeling a lil lightheaded at points during this video! 😅

[@lindamon5101]

This procedure/ surgery is no joke. Cudos to your bravery& to your friends and family that cared and support you through this daunting change.

[@DMV8662]

Its downright Sacriligeous... Wrong on every level IMAGINABLE...🙄

[@staygau9132]

Your videos are amazing, you have really helped me understand the aspects of this surgery in so many ways, my primary fear was pain and you have cleared that up in a straightforward way that is very human, I thank you, from Montreal

[@knockknockleo]

It’s so cool watching this as a trans male to see what we go through similarly but also so different

[@AngieS23]

Yeah, I still appreciate, so thanks.

[@danielmconnolly7]

No, it is not "cool".

[@Eutropios]

@@danielmconnolly7 yeah, it’s interesting.

[@ep3k24]

It will get better at 2 months and you will see what shes going to look like more. I used topical cream on my incisions which helped with the healing and scaring. also bamboo silica vitamins for skin hair and nails.

[@daisyrose9968]

Chelsea. Wow - after researching bamboo silica vitamins for skin hair and nails - I want to use this for myself as a normal part of the rest of my life - not only for my skin health but also to help with the problem I have been having with hair breaking when brushing my hair. I just have wanted my hair long ever since I was a teenager. So now at over 60+ and at 9-Months 20-Days on Hormones -- and 1-Year 4-Months 7-Days of living full-time authentically -- and having already been growing my hair long for years -- for me this is really an emotional thing because of how much I love my long hair. Then too with my nails included -- you have really touched my heart. Thank-You can never tell you how much I deeply appreciate learning about Bamboo Silica Vitamins for skin, hair and nails. From the depth of my heart -- Thank-You, Love, Daisy Rose

[@ep3k24]

@@daisyrose9968 Your Welcome... I’m glad I could help

[@AshleyFox275]

I had mine on Oct 20th. And I am right there with ya girl! This is a life changing surgery. You have to relearn yourself all over again

[@justanothersmith6012]

Having a son with chronic medical conditions ( teeny preemie) and multiple surgeries, I can’t imagine not having a loved one there after surgery. They help so much & make sure the staff is doing their job !! Glad it all worked out. You’re a beautiful woman 💞

[@SewingLara]

Listening to this makes one realize how brave anyone who goes through this must be. Respect, girl. It's not an easy procedure 😱

[@diannejolly2071]

Why!!!!!

[@thc-thehiddenclout2263]

When the world is on fire your gonna say ooh it’s chilly today. Girl smh ur mother should have raised you not to lie.

[@Youtuberlandscapes]

Love you darling 🙏🙏❤️

[@detective2221]

man*

[@Youtuberlandscapes]

I want get friends here

[@MirabelFan]

I’m so happy for you! I can’t imagine the level of pain and the intense recovery. You are inspiring and brave. Hugs from North Carolina🤗

[@itsarah]

Fun fact: Maya makes our day 100x better!💗 I create vidz btw

[@bloodcoldshawty]

Yeah, indeed :)

[@Mayavhenry]

Thank you!! 💗

[@jabuiltmore745]

11 months later 1st time seeing this...girl you did the damn thing amazing that you went through this in that manner...I would need full sedation don't wake me til its over type thing. Amazing glad you're doing well and thnx for taking the time to make this video. Yell are so gallant

[@JWHEdwards]

Isn't it strange that we focus on a result but not the individual steps necessary to achieve victory. Hang in there and carry on. A year or two from now you'll look back and understand how strong a person you were and are to persevere and succeed!

[@vicotoriapalermo355]

I’d love to know how your mom and rest of your family responded to your surgery. Congrats on getting thru the first month💕 only up from here!!

[@r.clemons8037]

Congratulations on the success of your surgery. As an "old fart", I've had numerous operations, so your descriptions of the pain, discomfort, annoyance of the hospital food and general reactions to the surgery seem to me to be spot on. Hospital food has improved dramatically over the past 50 years; one of my meals when I was young was cold meatloaf and mushy peas! Your boyfriend deserves a big "thank you" for his attention to your well being. Stay safe, stay sane and enjoy life. My hope is that you continue to do well and have a long and loving life. namaste, Roger

[@Ashley.falcon]

It’s so crazy this type of surgery is possible, that someone figured out how to make this possible for those that want it.

[@phowbow3161]

Well fyi the very first vaginoplasty surgery already was done in 1931 !

[@beckiehubley5798]

My mom was a nurse, in the 60's. I read about surgery to change sex in her textbooks. For babies that were born with ambiguous genitalia, or anything like that, the recommendation was surgery to make the baby a girl, regardless what the biological sex was, because vaginas are easier to create than penises.

[@sakurabloom4863]

@@beckiehubley5798 ambitious genetalia lol I think you mean ambiguous ✌️

[@beckiehubley5798]

@@sakurabloom4863 autocorrect hates me. Yes, I mean ambiguous. Thanks for letting me know. 🙂

[@sakurabloom4863]

@@beckiehubley5798 I should have realised it was autocorrect being ambitious 😂

[@Pops5033]

congratulations lady, i hope the rest of your life is blessed with all the happiness one heart can hold.

[@eileenhealy6524]

You speak beautifully and honestly, thank you! I wish you a smooth recovery.

[@asheleventy7]

you're literally SO gorgeous!! This all sounds so scary but I'm so glad you're able to make this happen even during the pandemic. You're so brave, and you just gained a subscriber

[@shadowdancertheredmage6798]

Can't wait for chat, have to work. Wishing you a happy recovery.🎉

[@meglud8681]

Been watching forever and I’m so happy for you! 💕

[@wamosm]

God bless you! I'm glad you are doing well and healing beautifully! I am very proud of you for being brave and daring! You ARE a beautiful young lady and I hope you are truly happier more now than ever!! Stay strong!👍😊

[@beyfan2465]

im a transgender minor and i really want to get this surgery when i am older. thank you for this because this really helped me feel less scared about this surgery even though i wont be getting it for a couple years. thanks ❤

[@idah3806]

Don't do it! You'll regret it

[@eveethegay]

@@idah3806 people don’t regret it. I’m in the same boat and I can’t wait to get the chop.

[@idah3806]

@@eveethegay are you kidding? So many people regret it. Look online.

[@dakotastorms1255]

@@eveethegay you shouldn't lead children astray that is evil. So many regret the surgery and it doesn't make the people what they suddenly identify as so please don't encourage this body mutilation

[@tintin6291]

Accept yourself as you are. Don't do this

[@miketrotman9720]

Maya, so glad you're through it. Sounds like you could write a nice little screenplay treatment about that Montreal Holiday Inn! Best wishes for a smooth, uneventful full recovery!

[@XXporporXXKK]

This journey sound so scary i dont think i am ready. but you’re so brave recover well love ❤️

[@tatocientos]

I didn't read the title of the video when I clicked on it. I love eating eggplant and I thought this was one of those "I've been vegetarian for one month and here's how I make eggplant tacos" videos. Good video either way, I'm happy for you

[@armellentalaja3972]

Did you not read the title, said nothing about eggplants or food...smh

[@thomassutherland5188]

As a straight guy, I would of never guessed you had reassignment surgery. You are rocking womanhood.

[@XInuKagXOXORobStarX]

@J K lmao no, cis women can also have deeper voices. Either way, she's a woman

[@aerokayo]

As a gay man I would have known. But what relevance does mentioning your sexuality have?

[@vonmcafee40]

@@aerokayo hi how? Ty

[@taraalan1131]

She is so brave. It sounds like quite an ordeal. I’ve never had gender issues , but.the surgery is bound to be traumatic and slow to heal. I wish her the best of luck .❤😊

[@robertcolfack26]

I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers for someone who went through hell you still look beautiful I hope you have a wonderful future and you can get back to normal and you can enjoy your new self....It will take time but others have went through what your going through and you can handle it your strong, and God Bless you and take care young lady.....

[@Pandore29]

You’re so brave ! Seems painful to just imagin. As a cis woman I can’t imagin how it is to create a vagina etc but i understand well what you explain and it’s really amazing to be able to do surgeries like that, I’m happy for you /) take care of yourself to heal. Looking forward to hear about how you feel after :)

[@Jenna08848]

congrats,, welcome to the other side sister,, much happiness and fast healing.

[@Jenna08848]

Dont fall asleep with the dilator in,, it will get stuck and getting it out is incredibly painful

[@BadboyBadboy-jm8nx]

I love your KZbin channel I prayed for you God bless your very beautiful

[@hatsunemikussnzbmindcontro4444]

The other side ,? I a, stuck in between ✌🏼

[@LaLagunz187]

@@nunya973 sounds very painful and not worth it 😂🤦🏾‍♀️ it’s not a vagina 🤷🏽‍♀️ never will be

[@Jenna08848]

@@nunya973 Careful your level of intelligence is showing. Or lack there of.

[@norabellerose8560]

I can’t stop watching this information is so useful and it’s incredibly immersive.

[@jannettaktibbs7268]

I just was scrolling thru and found this. I have always had so many questions about this surgery. Thank you so much for being open and honest about your experience. So very brave of you. I hope you keep healing and finally get the feelings you want about yourself and your essence. Being a woman is a hell of a wonderful thing. I am a 59 yr old woman. I was married for 28 years to the love of my life. He passed away just over 6 yrs ago. He would have been fascinated by this. I wish you every bit of luck in your life. You seem to be very aware of who you are, I think you will come through this and do great things. Blessed be dear.

[@Mentocthemindtaker]

I loved your video! I mean, it was pretty gross and discomforting (obviously not as much as your post-surgery experiences - OMG!), but I loved that it was so informative and that you were willing to share so much detail. I'm sure this will be helpful for a lot of people. Thank you for sharing your experiences!

[@KatherineRoseLindsay]

I’ve just had surgery as well on the 19th. I’ve followed you on and off for years so feels nice we kind of did together. It’s harder than I could have ever thought. I only have to dilate 3 times a day thank god. I struggle as it is. Sometimes I find it the mental build up the hardest. Loved hearing your experience as you didn’t sugar coat. A lot of fake post opp videos out there. ❤️

[@thenazirite3828]

Please forgive my ignorance, but what does it mean to dilate 3 times a day?

[@Xxaire31]

Serpentum Vectem The vaginal walls need to be stretched so that they retain some elasticity.

[@thenazirite3828]

@@Xxaire31 Thank you, I honestly did not know👍

[@emilyadams3228]

@@Xxaire31 And to keep it open. Just like any other piercing, ya hafta keep a stud in it, or it'll close up on ya! tee hee

[@caseykittel]

I am interested how much feeling people expect to have down there post surgery. I guess it’s worth the trade off if it’s what you really want. Thanks for sharing.

[@FliffinsOfDoom]

As a bio female who has had a c section, your whole process sounds a lot like what I went through, just a different surgery. I feel for you lol! I’m glad you got the surgery you needed to be you ❤️

[@beanj580]

There is just no comparison. I too had a c section and after a week or 2, you're golden and there is no follow up care besides one time stitch removal. Your vagina is also not an open wound.

[@jasmineboucher2756]

What kind of a comparison is that ? It makes no sens

[@FliffinsOfDoom]

@@jasmineboucher2756 I'm talking about how traumatic a big surgery like that can be, and how recovery can be a long road.

[@Prairie_Gypsy]

C-section (I’ve had 4,) is NOTHING, (and I haven’t had reassignment surgery,) like gender reassignment surgery. NOTHING! They go through far beyond what we went through. They are being filleted, completely basically amputated and patched back together and to urinate alone the first time is like a bladder infection x’s a 1000 I’ve seen on documentaries! No, a c-section would not compare. No disrespect at all.

[@FliffinsOfDoom]

@@Prairie_Gypsy I only said it sounded like what I went through because my c-section went horribly wrong and I almost died, then needed more surgery for how badly they messed up and died for 3 minutes on the surgery table during the second surgery. I literally have PTSD from it. Not all c-sections go seemlessly.

[@VengefulAngeI]

I'm so glad everything went ok, and you are such a good sport about it! When you were describing the dilating, keeping things clean & the other random pains down there, I couldn't help but think "Welcome to the joys of vagina ownership!"

[@samanthavandusen]

Okay, exactly 💯

[@mikebison9838]

That is still a man!!!

[@scatterbrained1457]

Healthy women do not in general experience any vaginal pain like that, nor is any special care required to maintain it. Of course, there are other female conditions that hurt pretty bad. In response to Maya though, that surgery seems absolutely brutal. You must have been desperate to transition to undergo that. Geeminey, as my mom used to say.

[@jesusislife9259]

@@mikebison9838 Exactly! And it's NOT a vagina either...

[@rickwalker9464]

Such a pretty, personable, and brave girl!

[@empressviv638]

Honestly, I appreciate you so much, Like Alot. This was so helpful especially the visuals on the catheter (WHICH FREAKED ME OUT). I've been sitting on the GRS application form for 2 weeks now because I'm just not sure if i'm prepared mentally and this video gave me my answer. I definitely need more time, research and probably a shoulder to cry on lol! Thank you so much for sharing your journey, I look forward to more updates & a speedy recovery!

[@cynaptyc]

It is certainly seems a traumatic situation. Not that it is "bad" it seems more it is in an overwhelming context. I am a cis male 49 years old but very open-minded and empathetic student of life. Always been fascinated in how, we as humans, find our way to make things better for ourselves and eachother. It does seem to be a thing that you can digest and accept better once you're at a point of "Zen" about. I wish you the best, yourself, no matter what choices you make and when you do! Keep your support network tight and never regret being YOU no matter where that journey takes you!

[@teresapitts2021]

As a biological woman I really don't like the term CIS Woman, I AM NOT A CIS WOMAN!!! I am simply WOMAN period

[@elained.8240]

Your cis in the same way you're a skin color. Sorry that you don't understand descriptors.

[@blackwidowspider9852]

It is never going to be like a natural V. Because skin can grow hair you will have to use A dilator for the rest of your life . As the human body will try to close up unnatural openings. I really wish you the best I hope this life works for you and you never change your mind and want to transition back because you will never have the normal genitalia you were born with. Scientifically without hormones you could hurt yourself so you're going to have to stay in hormones for the rest of your life good luck and blessings

[@cynicalrabbit915]

@@blackwidowspider9852 How positively negative!

[@cynicalrabbit915]

How positively negative!

[@lauraelainedesilets1189]

I grew up with Gene who went through this process. You were recommended. I watched and subscribed. Gene did all this in 10 years.. She became the person she dreamed of. You will too. Its more forgiving nowadays.. Gene had alot of negatives to walk through. Heal well. Love from Los Angeles ✝

[@sweetaria]

So nervous going for my consultation in October. Even though it sounds so so so painful, I can't wait to be my authentic self. Thank you so much for the update on you surgery.

[@Maverick-ne3mr]

Don't do it.

[@putaromason5234]

Do what's best for you sweetheart 😊 I hope it goes well for you ❤❤

[@phoebeharmon912]

It’s much safer to not use general anesthesia! But the “awake” part sounds scary. This is the first video of yours I’ve watched. Congrats!

[@Mayavhenry]

Thank you! 🙏🏼

[@Anbdhsuw]

I think you’d just be a bit to high to comprend it never had mtf surgery but I have had my dick opereted on for a bike accident and I was just on laughthing gas and I dident even notice

[@incognitoalister]

truly cant believe this the new trend im lost for words lmao well best of wishes

[@georgephillips3625]

I never heard how a gender reassignment went before. It sounds rough. Hopefully everything will eventually turn out the way you want it to. I have to say,even without makeup you look like a woman. I know I may sound a bit ignorant,well I am. Just haven't heard anyone talk about it before. Thank you.

[@georgedonovan6877]

At least you are able to not only admit your ignorance, but stay open minded and seek out the knowledge you need to understand

[@georgedonovan6877]

At least you are able to not only admit your ignorance, but stay open minded and seek out the knowledge you need to understand

[@kourtneyfierce]

I’ve love to see a what I eat in a day post surgery video. I’m also vegan now & was worried about how that may affect my healing time. This video was so informative & i’m glad I watched it

[@jsan3743]

How generous of you to share your experience! You are so courageous. I'm so happy for you!

[@Mayavhenry]

Thank you Jan ☀️🙏🏼

[@damienmulder909]

@@Mayavhenry It doesn't take courage to do exactly what you're told by the media.

[@ldburroughs]

Among the hardest things to do postop is to be patient with yourself. Everyone heals differently, so it's important to "listen" to your body throughout your recovery and to do everything asked of you by your surgeon. Unfortunately, there are no shortcuts and it can really become challenging after a while, but the best results will occur for those who are faithful to the recovery regimen (good hygiene and proper dilation). Be kind to yourself. You've come this far, so trust that you have it within you to continue, even when you feel like you just can't go on. Dilation is no joke and is most critical during the healing process. Congratulations and best wishes for a speedy recovery!

[@ohhaiitsshelby]

So crazy, your experience with this surgery was almost identical to my c-section surgery!! I can relate so much!

[@EricaBurns426]

I just had my SRS 1 month ago! Thank you for sharing this!

[@amazonglamazon6633]

Would you consider it genital mutilation? Penile inversion? Do you regret your decision?

[@EricaBurns426]

@@amazonglamazon6633 No, I do not. I only regret that I didn’t deal with it sooner so that so I could be a more successful adult at this point, but there is still time.

[@kathleencastle8631]

@@EricaBurns426 regret it now?

[@EricaBurns426]

@@kathleencastle8631 No. I regret giving people like you the power I have given you

[@LEGENDSIN4KREMASTERED]

YOU ARE REGRETTING THIS - STOP LYING TO YOURSELF. I KNOW THAT WHEN YOU LOOK IN THE MIRROR YOU ARE NOT HAPPY AND STILL SEE A MAN. I AM PRAYING YOU 🙏🏼

[@jenniferbraun2491]

Maya, I haven't 'tuned in' for over a year and I have to say I'm shocked at how beautiful and feminine you have become. You were always beautiful, but you are so 'womanly' (for lack of a better word) and feminine. I actually had a 'is that MAYA?' moment. Your boyfriend is a very lucky guy, I hope he knows it. Have a wonderful life, you are living your dream. You are lovely on many levels, have fun. Stay beautiful! Jennifer (63 yr old transwoman)

[@nealbangia4525]

I see that this video is three years old. I wish that I had seen it earlier, so that I could have imparted my very best wishes to you for your recovery, but there is no reason why I should not wish you ongoing success in your new life, so best of luck to you! I have subscribed to your channel and I hope that you will continue to post a lot more content about yourself and your journey. You are unquestionably a very pretty lady and I am not just referring to outward appearances. Your courage in going through the surgery and the fact that you are vegan is so incredibly telling.

[@stevegagnon4747]

I enjoyed your video as my younger brother is getting ready to have his MTF surgery. Your vids give me a lot of info and I thank u for that

[@mparagames]

Sister, actually; if i understood it properly

[@T.D.8]

@@mparagames I thought the same, but then wondered if maybe his sibling identifies as a brother regardless of being trans. Or the commenter was just trying to be clear to make us all understand what surgery it would be. Either way, I don't think this was malicious in intent.