#1 Sign He Loves You

[@StephanSpeaksClips]

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[@vickiklingebiel7349]

I put tired my whole life to be his independent as I am and she told me support myself nothing I have is for sale... 😂

[@vickiklingebiel7349]

Worked hard typo

[@TanikaNakeyaLewis]

"More, for Less" Is About Affordability, and Is very Comprehensive During Moments Inclusive of Price-Lessness, Also By Fungibility: What You Receive, But, You Can Never Purchase/Buy to Have, or Other-Wise, Specifically Exploit, As Personally Yours. 😶. Respectively. Tanika Nakeya Lewis, 6127

[@TemekaEscobar]

Enjoyed the video Sir, please continue sharing

[@Portia620]

Define investing?

[@JamaicaLove876]

If he can invest his time, attention, & gives unselfishly then yes he truly loves you.

[@pentracy]

Not really true I a guy who wrote blank checks for me only comes to find out he was cheating on me all the financial sacrifice was to please his parents who wanted us together but he wasn't ready for that kind of commitment

[@BaiQla]

No. It's not a good measurement.

[@danielburg868]

Narcissistic people view that as weak

[@beverlysquire9130]

@AliSand was he in Virginia?

[@slowonNurburgring]

And money

[@lindamichi540]

Women who are willing to accept less end up with less cause he loves himself more

[@gigidotto9014]

Yes and guys will call you a gold digger because he is not willing to give you anything not just money.

[@adriansquare2370]

He and you, should always love yourself more.

[@wendyford5050]

My mum told me this ....you only get back what you put in to a relationship .....so treat your lady like a queen and she will treat you like a king 🥰

[@cookieman9623]

Lol yeah right 🤣🤣🤣 that’s such cap 🧢

[@gigidotto9014]

​@@cookieman9623That's because you look for one night stands only and not for serious relationships what do you expect. This is no cap this is the reality cheap guys want to cover up.

[@lane524]

Facts : Stop Placing Yourself On All Clearance Racks!!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@hilo5901]

I put myself in the express lane. 🥳

[@SunnyDoesLife]

Yessss make him pay up 💰

[@folakeabioye1193]

Clearance rack? That’s hilarious!

[@ieshaanderson1317]

I found my match. I'm done looking. Thank God hallelujah 😍🙏

[@sweetcinnamon9894]

HalleluYah ❤

[@yolandatanner1509]

Same here,I got a real one

[@ieshaanderson1317]

@@yolandatanner1509 I'm happy for you 2🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@Arifumiko]

God is the best y'all ❤😂

[@rosiejackson7685]

he's open minded to the things you like, he's willing to sacrifice and make adjustment . noted!

[@daiseythomas3820]

A man that's serious is intentional out of the gate and wants his lady to know that first and foremost. He's also not selfish where her needs are concerned

[@Redrose-zc7hj]

Yep, he was trying to get more for less. Big lesson learnt.

[@exoticlove-sherine1234]

All true. I watch out for these things because time waits on no one and I have 0 time to waste 😁😌✍🏾

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response ❤

[@emilehartzell777]

Smart

[@k.nyberg9531]

I don't have time for a guy that just is concerned about him filling his life, only thinking about what he wants out of this relationship. And not caring about what I think or what my interests are. C ya! If a guy is really into you. I believe he will respect an honor you for who you are and not try to change you into what he wants you to be.

[@eltonjohn4239]

Wait...you're a Christian woman and you're talking nonsense?.... You were. Made for Man, not the other way around. He's not ob your program...that's why relationships fail at a Hugh degree..you can't got in two separate direction. This is why eastern relations last so long...there only one goal and that's legacy and family...

[@princessmabla6546]

I totally disagree with what he calls sacrifices, spending his time and his money is not a sacrifice. It's a choice! If a man thinks that he's sacrificing by doing these things for me. I don't want him. Sacrifice is missing out a big opportunity to work overseas just to be around your woman/ or family....men should just stop playing with us, period!

[@necatiekren5651]

Then you place no value on time. If a man spends 100 hours of his life energy and goes to war in the world to provide something for you. That’s giving his life over to you instead of keeping it for himself, and he’s not getting it back. If you don’t see that as a sacrifice, you don’t take men seriously or appreciate his value. He’s choosing to make that sacrifice, just because it’s a choice makes it no less a sacrifice. And it doesn’t always work out for the guy anyway…does it? And that’s just one example.

[@avrilakmal210]

Try to understand what stephan said

[@aml8760]

​@@avrilakmal210exactly

[@Maria-0017]

Yes very true, my advice is , keep him at arms length , till you know what he’s about!

[@frenchfries2378]

Ahh well 💔😬 I wish I saw this 10 years ago. I don’t think it’s that black and white. Sometimes a man can treat you like a Princess but STILL isn’t serious about you. He was constantly cheating. But Someone could treat you like you’re nothing to him but you know deep down there’s emotion there. Either way both had to go. I also trust Gods timing.

[@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858]

Nah someone who treat you like nothing does not care

[@tottryship5608]

@@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858 Not true. Some people go through past trauma and don't feel they can be vulnerable.

[@ermalovette2075]

If he's cheating he's not treating u like a princess ,we as women know when men are not serious about us by their actions it's call common sense I'm single n love making my choice to see a man I'm more happier

[@nayjavu]

Seems you have some things you need to work on if you've convinced yourself someone treating you like they don't care actually loves you. Seems to me you value the one that didn't let you know he cheated compared to the other one and that loser is looking all great but in reality you're settling for the idea of one of them instead of moving on.

[@nayjavu]

@@tottryship5608 that's called not ready to be in a relationship and still not the person for you. That's how yall get with these people. Making excuses for their.poor behavior.

[@Ebee7]

Yup, he’s right! Was in a four year long distance relationship with a man and he only visited me once, at the most twice a year. He owned a business so his excuse was that if he loses customers he wouldn’t get them back. Crazy thing is that the amount of money he made in two days could have covered a plane ticket and at least five days with me. Fast forward some time, I stopped working my stressful job and I decided to visit him. I flew across country to visit him for a prolonged amount of time. VERY DISAPPOINTED AT WHAT I EXPERIENCED. One time (out of many) comes to mind when I was eating and started choking and he did not even flinch from his video game. He kept playing and he said ‘you’ll be alright’. I helped myself to stop choking, got up, and ate in the other room while internally regretting ever entering this relationship. IT BECAME GLARINGLY CLEAR THAT HE HAD NEVER CARED ABOUT ME. I SACRIFICED YEARS OF MY LIFE FOR A MAN THAT I THOUGHT WAS THE LOVE OF MY LIFE. HE FOOLED ME WITH HIS EMPTY NICE WORDS AND PROMISES. I realized what I had mistaken for affection at the beginning of the relationship, was only love-bombing to get in my pants. Thankfully, we broke up shortly after I arrived home. I thank God everyday because I dodged a bullet! If a man wants a deal, go to Ross but don’t come over here!

[@neriah3857]

4 years? Im sorry you wasted good years

[@Ebee7]

@Neriah Thanks for your empathy 💛yea it’s crazy how some people are pathological liars and users. I lost some prime years but I learned a lot of valuable lessons that will help me to protect myself in the future, all thanks to God.

[@queenvictoria4732]

@@Ebee7 agreed blessing to u shalom 😇

[@loujackson1917]

Sis count it all joy this built character in you !! And your A blessing with your life story!! And He will wish he had worked at this relationship!! Let's not cry over spilled milk!! And God will give you Stars for your scars ❤

[@Ebee7]

@@loujackson1917 thank you very much for your kind words! This blessed me greatly and lifted my spirit at a very necessary time in my life. Thank you again and may God bless you Lou Jackson, in Jesus name Amen.

[@lifeline_]

This is only a good measure for certain types of guys, more specific than a guy looking to commit or not. A man who is looking to commit, who views love from an altruistic standpoint will be like this, but will also expect the same in return from a partner. Others who do not view love in an altruistic manner, which is also a valid for of love, will not act in these manners while still loving their partner. Altruistic love I shown in studies to create longer lasting relationships when mutually applied, but not everyone is capable of that because it requires a lot of risk and sacrifice that most are not willing to do as a result of past experiences.

[@Minime669]

Well said my friend

[@rosebud_blooming]

This warmed my soul. Waiting for love like this. Already got it from God so the man will have to be top tier and God approved

[@pernicerblair5155]

My man found me I'm done looking for means. I already have one and he's a great man too. Im done searching for mans in he love me to That's my superhero❤️

[@sweetynice1487]

Thanks for sharing this important information. I needed that.

[@katrinajackson7994]

Sacrifice is key as it comes directly from the heart of God as a real sentiment of True love in a relationship much like our relationship with God to the sacrificing of his son in his Love for us as his children, So sacrifice is a great act of True Love and I greatly appreciate one's sacrifices for me.💯💜

[@susannaannawitherington9332]

susanna anna witherington one God love man happy man sun dad love

[@sandradavis3795]

Ur one of the good decent man.& it's not about money only.

[@lanapalij4014]

Truth…, very well said, and I thank you! Simple, and to the point.😊

[@sherylmerville3971]

I understand completely. I have moved on.There is no relationship and I've moved on.

[@traceycrouch5532]

If you find yourself doing and saying everything, it's time to go home alone. Peace and happiness 😊

[@omegadivinelyprotectedchos3883]

I pray to meet this man soon who is sacrifice for me in my family..

[@jeanettekelly6258]

I believe it they will go out their way for you

[@Rose-gy1cc]

He does not cheat. I don’t understand why men say they love you and still cheat.

[@Awahforever]

Love can only go so far, if a man doesn’t respect you… I don’t think he’s worth it. Sometimes the love for yourself gotta be bigger and that energy will attract better.

[@privatepo5876]

They are looking for validation; sometimes it's not found at home or within themselves or both.

[@Celestia1111ove]

Thank you for your guidance

[@angelabasby2532]

Most definitely 👍 👌 💯 Thank you for that powerful truth.

[@lisawiggins4670]

Are you married or in a relationship. You are on point; with the things you say about relationship with males.

[@griseldasmith1652]

Well said.

[@AnaEliNoble]

“What you won’t do. Do for love.”

[@hmqvictorianefertiti7571]

U are so correct .. I am getting married thanks to your teaching

[@carmenelizabethchamorro8608]

Thanks great Video Stephan love & Blessings ❤🙏🏽🥰💕

[@siaitsme6800]

Thank you so much. 🙏⚘🧚‍♀️💚🧚‍♀️⚘🙏

[@LukkieCharmz8512]

I learned this a long time ago. Sad to say is that they never loved me...they only used me and accused me of everything that they were doing. This year made me give up on love.

[@vvvccc8820]

YES!! WE CAN SEE THEM ACTIONS. IT VERY TRUE 👍

[@cindyvazquez4333]

SB you are a good man! 🙏🙏❤❤btw u look great in blue. The shirt looks great on you.

[@hilo5901]

Okay he and I are now in the “let’s just be friends” stage. Wow! Bewildering. Like what happened? 🤔

[@lashondarochell7584]

A Man that truly loves and value you would not just want to be friends with you.

[@user-gs1et6sx4k]

​@@lashondarochell7584 I wish I saw your comment sooner)

[@gloriacruz6454]

Thank you 💖 for your words Mr. STEPHAN.❤❤

[@realashandaatlarge]

My husband in a nutshell. We just celebrated 17 years of marriage. Praise Yah.

[@cindythomas6011]

Thank you for your blessings us with your words Amen Thank you for the time you sharing your words Amen

[@butterfly6756]

Thank you for the teaching🙌

[@user-le8qv6ux4m]

Hahaha your energy is wonderful!!! 😂💞✨

[@deborahadams3745]

Where are they????

[@anitakoh1434]

Thank you 😊

[@chicajimenez6187]

Love your polo!

[@Nadege2022]

Hi handsome you speaks sense. I relate to what you Say...but i don't see your wedding Ring...how Come?😏

[@Forrsierra]

Thank you!

[@Cute__Noob]

Thank you so much for all of the valuable information you give us❤ I've learned so much

[@AstonOnYT]

I did that money thing once to support her dreams because I believe she could be more. I ended up in debt, couldn't pay some people I owed. I chased them from my house with a gun when they tried to take my possessions. While I paid off 75% of the debt , she was already looking for other men. I've had to apologise to people for the "sacrifices" I made for her. Pay them back. Made my first $8m after separating with her and focusing on growing my business.

[@pazvilmainovero3249]

Thanks l agree with you STEPHAN God Bless this CHANNEL

[@TheCanadianDreamEvergreen]

Nice polo! I want one like that

[@jenniferarzadon2525]

Sacrifices compromise invest time money true thank you for sharing peace and blessings🙏🏽👍❤️

[@vhayashi7369]

This is Spot On!!!

[@fatimavargas]

😊 I enjoy so much h your lessons about love, relationships and all 😊

[@arnitawilliams8792]

AMEN!! THANK YOU FOR THIS MESSAGE!! AMEN! Praying for Christensen!!!

[@jacquelinejackson1641]

Thanks!

[@AK-ut6nn]

I just want to thank you, your advice has always helped me ❤

[@Indigenousqueen56]

I Experienced that with BM So I don't go there Anymore, Truth more for less, so I left it there and moved on and doing a hell of a lot better and I'm happy.

[@michellebell9931]

All relationships are about open to your partner. To work

[@heatherjeffrey8997]

So true Stephan thanks

[@mariecadet1607]

That's is very true my brother

[@Jenny-jj3it]

YESSSSIIIIIIIIRRRRRRRR I AGREE WITH YOU 💯💯💯🙏🙏💯💯💯 💚💚❤️❤️😇🙏🙏💯💯💯😇😇

[@deborahbrown8570]

I agree with you.

[@nataliatorkhova8793]

Awesome color polo shirt. :-)

[@evelisisdavis7242]

Thank you

[@Realness4sho]

Facts! ✅💯🌺

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

💯 Yes!

[@emilehartzell777]

DEFINITELY ONE-HUNDRED-PERCENT!!!!!!!

[@jeandewet7413]

Thank you dear

[@brettastone8107]

True, speak it from experience but I wasn’t in love with that person.

[@WSJ3-31]

Repent Jesus Christ loves you and saves smile “GOD”Bless

[@supernatural2762]

No

[@emilehartzell777]

AMEN!!!!!!!

[@PhyllisNj]

Only God Knows Amen!

[@anotheythomas2320]

And I give all that to Wife and Family. TheChef.

[@youlovemeIloveme]

You remind me of a country song from Joe Nichols called "Yeah", as I listen to your short

[@fredajohnson506]

Amen I definitely agree with you hundred percent

[@tinker2217]

What if the guy that doesn't want to compromise or sacrifice is your HUSBAND???

[@CarmenMae-eu5pw]

Thank God for let me have a good man in my life

[@titanniki412]

My Bi Polar/Narcissist Ex GF use to say You r the one who always gives 80-100 % to the relationship. When I asked Y is that, her reply I'm trying!" Her Mom told her He's a Keeper. Mom said to me a few times I need to take you home with me. Her 26 yr old daughter said I know he treats you like a Queen. My Ex always had time for every one/everything else. I hung in there telling my Trauma Bond self, It's the illness, not her, it will get better. She set me FREE 3 1/2 months ago after 17 months. She probably had a new supply weeks b4 she set me FREE 2023 NARC FREE!!

[@CuteBamboo2012]

That is the real advises we are here form

[@meramera5689]

So so true. He tried it and I denied it.

[@hemiltongrace6699]

Yes sure

[@jeahlashelifestyle6816]

What about a older guy who is set in his ways???

[@Beautiful24511]

100%true fact,☝☝☝☝☝☝☝☝☝☝👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍u are so right Stephen ... Amen brother🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@Startingagainlils]

I’m confused I’m dealing with a guy who keeps saying he is in but then gets scared from past relationship issues he has had.

[@waynebonavia6471]

I was married to a psychologist I was and family for doctors with my ex's family I was a psychology buff when I was young one of my best friends was his good psychologist I didn't know myself at that time that well spiritually and not sexually I am definitely a male sexually although you might know or not know that or perceive that is not my problem I know myself quite well now I didn't then and I'd still knew that I was a guy. I never had a problem that way except after my divorce I felt a little bit confused about a lot of things but definitely I did not ever or nor was I ever attracted to men I wish you would stop and I wish the people out there in the media would stop it I don't know why they spread this stuff because it's not true now I am very secure and I know who I am spiritually and man I feel so much more stronger and confident and I'm getting better every day anyway that's after my divorce and not hooking up with a woman for a long time I can't wait to and I keep trying there's a lot of candidates but you know please I am not gay I wish the gay men yeah find good health and enjoy yourselves but please don't approach me that way I'm not gay and I'm not bisexual and I'm not any of the mixtures out there I'm pretty much stable I said you know something something like a divorce that point in my life when I was all around 30 no 40 years old made me confused about myself but there was a good reason for that and I won't get into that right now it had nothing to do with sex stuff please understand this I can't make this any clearer to people any other way I can think of so I don't know what else to do. Like the word if you can if you see somebody hey I know that guy went yet well Wayne is also somebody else spiritually and that doesn't mean I'm two different people or think that way I just didn't know something about my heritage and who I am spiritually because no one told me which was very troublesome in my life and now you know and I'm not going to go into who it is or what I mean by that just believe me I know what I'm talking about solidly scientifically and every which way you could look at it I am very smart and I know what I'm talking about don't doubt me I wouldn't lie I have no reason to I am known for my honesty.

[@BA86AB]

My boyfriend loves sex! I asked him to pause because I wanted to wait for marriage. It was hard for the both of us, but it was based on principle for me. He is waiting for me. Sometimes I get anxious that he will want to leave, but he continues to text me everyday/night, cuddle with me, kiss me, and do everything loving possible. I love him deeply for this sacrifice. I know it’s a big one to ask.

[@irenekimvlogs]

Then again when does the sacrifice becomes too much to the point you are being used in the relationship and not love. This is something I had to understand when it comes to relationship and what I have seen with my own parents. When one was always giving and the other felt it’s never enough. I told the parent who was always giving why are you always staying in the relationship when you know it is becoming toxic? The toxic part was when the one parent used the children as a way to avoid their own problems. The child was the scapegoat. They told me it was because of not wanting to lose the assets. I was somewhat baffled by the answers but I understood that the cost for divorce surpasses than marriage. It is cheaper to get married than get a divorce nowadays. But you are also detrimenting your own kids in the process. A lot couples ought to sacrifice but not to the point it is impacting your children’s lively hood. Acting like a happy family outside but behind closed doors it’s another story. There isn’t much realness in the homes. The children can’t say much because they will end up getting the brunt of the situation. I am speaking from experience I grew up in the suburbs.

[@gigidotto9014]

And they call women gold diggers for wanting a good man that will love them just as much as a woman loves her man. A good relationship is about team work and compromising. A man that loves you will be always careful with what you like and will already know if to buy you a present without having to ask them. Doesn't have to be a massive diamond. A pair of shoes, a nice bad, a small bracelet, a bouquet of flowers These are things will do for his loved partner without asking each time.

[@lisagarrett6523]

Love this man

[@user-dt5he8wx1h]

Thank you ❤

[@mrs.w8193]

Right exactly. This is why you don’t waste your time with a time wasting man who won’t commit. You are a place holder. Move on

[@Cuban_coffee]

I like your shirt

[@itisfinishednowtimetoclean2723]

You are like a modern day Moses to those of us wondering the deserts starved for Good, men. I have to wonder if there were 10 commandments to stick to as Vital to know about finding Good relationships with men and identifying them, what would they be??? Just a thought…

[@keishabazile]

The husband I have of 13 years no longer provides or help pay anything. He no longer tithe. I tithe, I pay the mortgage, light , water, gas, car note, car insurance and groceries etc. I don't understand what's going on...

[@milagrosortiz7923]

He’s spending his hard earned money on someone else perhaps? I say check his phone.

[@sarahthomas3493]

Know Your Worth & Add Divine Tax 1/8/23 11:59pm

[@janierobinson6512]

Amen amen amen thank you

[@lollipupke4212]

Real love? Wen he learn you? And you say I dont leave my mam she has cancer? He come live with me. Bring her to hospital wen I cuted because work. That was or furst years. MY MAM SAY! HE IS A GOOD MEN! WHO DOU THAT? WEN FALL IN LOVE? ANS BEGINS WITH MISERY? WE 26 AUGUST 23 YEARS TOGETHER.

[@stenvenslouisius6616]

Where he’s ring at

[@juliannerose296]

I ,(sort of), think, that we are, (sort of), in the "same place." I think Im, "like, "a man," in a way, that, Im, (sort of), "s.a.t.i.s.f.i.e.d", (where) we are, relationship wise, (at a distance), with our "causiousness" of eachother. ☆ But, I dont "like", being "used", "desire fumed" and camera surveilled.

[@huigao1404]

MEAT = money , efforts , attention and time