10 Advantages of Being a Single Man | Why Single Life Can Be Amazing

[@nolim99]

This guy is a true single brother. He even knows that I am waiting for a supermodel to knock on my door :)

[@heikoreinhard]

For me there are only advantages of being a single man. I never was married and not even lived together with a woman. This kind of freedom is standard for me and I could not imagine otherwise.

[@alastairtheduke]

One of the biggest advantages is being able to move to a cheaper city, a cheaper area, get roommates if you need to in order to get your financial situation better

[@tuesdayswithed]

That is a good one. Thanks for sharing.

[@MikeHunt-h5c]

No wife, no strife. 👍

[@THEMANWITHTHEYELLOWHAT.]

No wife, no stwife 😂.

[@yanatas]

I know a guy who stayed in the gym Sat 5-9 pm. He was afraid to go home to catch his wife cheating. So, he said he rather hide out. He didn't want to lose his house & kids. It's nuts out there.

[@tuesdayswithed]

wow, that's insane

[@dayytube]

“You wanna fly, you got to give up the shit that weighs you down.” break all anchors of marriage and relationship and sail free. If one is single, he/she does NOT to have to worry of feeding a family besides, prices are soaring and all time rocket high which is a valid reason not to be in a relationship also bachelors don't have to worry of getting dumped someday , say after Valentines Day. Great topic by the way Sir, I wish you all the best for the New Year 25 on your You tube journey and endeavors , you are doing absolutely Great !

[@tuesdayswithed]

Thank you, that means a lot to me. And you bring up some great points. I will look into doing a Valentines video for you.

[@pantherman8719]

Yeah. I like this

[@emiliokonieczny6256]

I love the way you speak, you don't have to work at it IMHO. People tend to speak fast these days and the listener has no time to think about it

[@tuesdayswithed]

Thanks that means a lot to me. Just seems like as soon as I hit record my brain just flies out the window....

[@ahack8964]

I was engaged once. But called it off. I see my friends' marriage & I'm scared. The married are miserable & afraid of wives. The divorced are dating ladies with 3 - 5 kids. It's beyond desperation.

[@jokerpilled2535]

What type of person was your fiance?

[@Wakeupandsniffthecoffee]

11:26 married men or guys with girlfriends are always treated with suspicion if they try to alter themselves. Women always assume that the man is changing for some other lady and not her. I was married twice and both times, the wives made comments about my being too easy going and people tend to walk over me and I need to stand up for myself. So I did and both times the marriage ended soon after. They want you to stick up for yourself with others, but not with them. If I am going stand up for myself and not be walked over, it applies to everyone around me. Its all the mysterious part of women and their emotional changes day to day. What they say they want and really want are the opposites. Guys change and do everything to please them and they no longer have respect for that guy. In the meatime they have eyes for the bad boy that gets them all worked up, but don't you dare to act the same way. Just hand over your wallet and be a good little ouppet and ignore her extramarital affairs.

[@tuesdayswithed]

Yeah it seems like there is some double standard going on. It scares me from ever getting married

[@randombandit362]

They assume you are changing for another woman because they are projecting what they do onto men

[@ceejay9663]

Yeah, women rush to sleep w/ the bad boys, then "settle" for the stable (normal) guy when it's time to have kids. Then, once the kids are all born, the married guy is looking around stunned, unable to figure out why all the s-e-ck-s has been curtailed/eliminated. It's because he was never her FIRST choice. I had a girlfriend like that and she thought I was buying the story hook, line, and sinker. Nope! I dumped her when it was convenient FOR ME! 🤣🤣

[@THEMANWITHTHEYELLOWHAT.]

Well I'll just say if your living with someone or even dating especially on first dates, don't be afraid to let it rip 😂. On a more serious note trying to combat sadness as a single person can be extremely hard, but it also has its own perks in that if you're married or even dating you'll probably feel pressure to hide it, but if you're single you can process those feelings more openly.

[@ceejay9663]

A disadvantage: Assuming you have no kids, who's going to take care of you when you are old and unable to care for yourself? It's an honest question that has me scratching my head.

[@tuesdayswithed]

That's exactly what I'm facing or will face and I'm scratching my head on it as well.

[@alastairtheduke]

That is a good point. However, look at the guys whose wives have left them when their health has failed them.

[@AZRealtorPro]

Lifestyle built by Design is the way to go through self-reflection

[@tuesdayswithed]

Amen brother

[@alastairtheduke]

Anytime you avoid something, that's a single that you should continue to chip away at it

[@Smuggler169]

I agree. Singe men seem more fit and healthier than married men.

[@thealanshow25]

There are zero advantages to being married with any human being.

[@tuesdayswithed]

Some people are happily married. Just never worked out for me.

[@martinschulz9381]

Marriage is a great thing if you're married to the right person....women make better men out of us. I wouldn't return to my old single life for a billion dollars. Single people generally are not better off financially when they retire. Your video wasn't a rant and you made some good points so I gave you a thumbs up.

[@tuesdayswithed]

Agreed, "if you're married to the right person"

[@randombandit362]

Being financially better off at retirement comes down to assets and savings, not marital situation. If you have a complimentary wife who will accept her role in a partnership, you could end up with more assets and money by retirement. Again, it really comes down to how well you prepare over everything else

[@martinschulz9381]

@@randombandit362 That’s exactly what I meant. I’ve noticed throughout my life that people who remained single are far from being better off financially as a result. This has nothing to do with any financial advantages that marriage provides, it comes down to how people manage their money and map their futures. I’ve also observed that couples who never had kids are generally not better off financially in retirement as couples who did. These are both popular notions that aren’t true. Nothing against staying single or not having kids, just my observations.

[@antonionotbanderas9775]

Food is a big one for me, I have a sensitive stomach and prefer to eat the same safe food that I think is delicious but girls need more flavors and variety. They're really annoying around food, like they want to dictate what is safe for my stomach to eat.

[@tuesdayswithed]

I have a poor immune system( that I was born with ) and face the same issues.

[@mrstyle4863]

Now do the disadvantages

[@tuesdayswithed]

It's coming...

[@casio007]

I think everything is like sine wave, so after being single too long, is worth it to be engaged again, and so on.

[@MrMonikura]

I'm a single male... had my chances and opportunities... 44 no children, no women. Very lonely, feel broken... I just work just to stay a float. Seem like, I'm on the path to dying alone.

[@tuesdayswithed]

Never give up. Find things you like or want to do and pursue them. We all go through what you are experiencing. The brokeness, the loneliness, the feelings of isolation etc. Don't let these things get you down. Remember everything in this life is temporary. What a difference a day makes. I had many chances and blown opportunities also, but the way I look at it now is that a higher power was protecting me. You are amazing, and you will win if you don't give up. Being with the wrong woman is catastrophic to your life and it is much better to be alone than with the wrong person. You are always welcome here on this channel. I barely make ends meet these days too. I've never been wealthy but I don't give up. Your day will come if you hang in there with us. Have faith and push through and observe what works for you and what doesn't and adjust. We are all on your side here and we need you because your experiences might be something we can learn from as well. Just get up each day with the attitude that you're going to kick the day's ass and don't give a damn about what other people think. You do you and keep going. Thanks for watching my channel it means a lot to me. Never never never give up, it will get better, just hang in there with us.

[@MrMonikura]

@@tuesdayswithed Feel ashamed... thank you for your wisdom.

[@timeTravellin]

Hey man, dont be so down on yourself.44 is a perfect age, you're old enough to sidestep nonsense but young enough to live out your dreams. Focus on your health and your finances. The only thing that can stop you, is you. When you feel confident other people can see it. Find a good barber and let him turn you into the badass you're meant to be. Make no apologies.

[@MrMonikura]

@@timeTravellin Thank you.