10 Common Flirting Mistakes To Avoid With A Woman You Care About

[@YourWingmam]

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[@RobertTaylor-gz2fu]

What are the best compliments to give if I know little or nothing about her?

[@musicandairplanes6330]

@@RobertTaylor-gz2fuDon’t compliment, ask about her with simple questions. What do you like to do? Do you like xxxx (put in something you like to do.). If she starts talking about herself, don’t interrupt her. Let her talk. I had a woman talk the other day for an hour about her life. We were sitting in a bar. I asked her if she grew up around there a while with her LifeLock and she talked for an hour. I learned a real lot about her. I’m still seeing her now then.

[@agentooe33AD]

My daughter is getting married in January. On her first date with her fiance, she told him straight up that she was looking to be a wife and mother, and didn't want to waste her time with a man who wasn't interested in that. His reply to her was that he's pushing 30, and was looking to have a family in the not too distant future. They got engaged 5 months later. They dated with a purpose. None of this wasting years of your life piddling around without any real goal in sight. Whatever your goals are, make them known from the start, that way you're not wasting your time, and your life, on someone who isn't up for what you're looking for.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@heyeverybody5616]

Perfect..

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*It’s important to know when to pull back and read the other person’s vibe. Flirting should be fun and natural, not forced or awkward.*

[@YourWingmam]

You're absolutely right!

[@andreasasthebrotherofsimon]

I really like and enjoy the way you present these topics. Thanks for being an inspiration 🌻

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you so much! 🙏

[@paultravis3249]

Thank you for sharing about flirting and flirting mistakes

[@YourWingmam]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@re8837]

Thanks for this & all the other vids you make.

[@YourWingmam]

My pleasure ❤️

[@shawnmcewen6210]

A good list, full of wisdom.

[@YourWingmam]

Glad you think so!

[@stuartwilson3753]

Very happy to see a coaster underneath your coffee cup .....is that flirting? Another excellent video. Your delivery style is an art to be enjoyed. The content is priceless. I think this one will be very beneficial to many. A genuine passion for sure! Im interested in all aspects of your material. I gave presentations to schools, OAP homes etc. ....not on the same subject 😮 with the same passion without any pre script. Admire your talent 😊

[@MrOgynist]

I appreciate your reliability and punctuality for these videos.

[@YourWingmam]

I appreciate that!

[@Americanpatriot-zo2tk]

Great outfit!

[@allesiofondressi2602]

I was complimented on my shirt today; I always leave the house dressed to impress and get noticed wherever I go.

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@johnholme783]

Flirting comes naturally to me, it's part of my personality, it's not contrived, but nevertheless a little forethought can enhance things considerably! Eg different tactics for different types of women. Thanks for the info, it's both interesting and useful!

[@YourWingmam]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@actmyage2149]

Very good list today! Seems like a bunch of these fall under the umbrella of a (possibly young) man who allows his enthusiasm for his lady to carry him away, instead of focusing on forming the connection (as you rightly point out). Focus on the physical: easy to fall into when she's the most beautiful redhead in north America and rocking a sweet black leather skirt about her hips, but then you remember that her personality, humor, and intellect dwarf her comely physical attributes ;). Great job! Praying for you. -- Russ P PS/The pooches are snoozing on the sofa on this drippy drizzly day.

[@YourWingmam]

That was a sneaky, sassy compliment-thank you! ;) Thank you for your prayers, Russ! Enjoy your cosy day. It’s a beautiful sunny, crisp autumn day here. Naps are good! ✔️

[@noelgibson5956]

All my life, I've just preferred being free and single. I just prefer a peaceful and quiet home. I have my work, my hobbies and family. I rarely chase women because although attracted to them, that alone doesn't override my need for freedom. I'm polite in the company of women but don't say much to them. They don't talk to me much.......but I'm told they talk about me, all good i hope! The drama, the expense, the arguments, the crying, the stress, the loss of spare time, the reduction of health and life expectancy......i don't want or need it. I'm just an ordinary guy who wants to live an ordinary life. I have no idea why people talk about me as I'm not that interesting. Same at school.......tried to avoid the spotlight, but classmates, male and female, picked on me. My obituary will say; "he lived a quiet life and enjoyed the simple things, was an enigma but never harmed anyone". I'm happy with that. We should never justify how we exist if nobody is being hurt in the process.

[@62meta]

Did you at least defend yourself in school or work life ?

[@fox1actual]

Maybe they talk about you because since you don’t talk much, they see you as mysterious.

[@michaelshapiro9720]

This might seem like a weird request, but would you do a video with advice for short guys? And I do mean short: 5'3" in my case. It seems like the dating calculus is different for us. Flirting, for sure.

[@mikepeek5655]

Although I think your videos bring value , I can can't help but think how overwhelming relationships can be. I think no matter if your a man or woman and have your friends , that too can be complicated. Family, friends, and us humanoids in general are all a work in process thru this crazy thing called life. No negative attitude but honest statements about even our own self discovery as we try to mature and try to improve our worth or value to not only other people but especially to ourselves. Not to be self centered but, understanding yourself and your habits can only help you with relationships of any kind. However, I do think women are more complicated and navigating thru them is why we need coaching. Can be confusing no doubt but we men need some basics to simply initiate a way forward because of the😊 complex nature of the female mind. Cheers

[@mikedavid5071]

It’s been 20 years since I’ve been rejected. Not boasting , 0:05 out of the game. The thought of being rejected by a woman in public, not emotionally ready. I know when I’m ready for that. I’m ready to find a real woman.

[@YourWingmam]

🙏 I hope you reach the point of truly doing what is best.

[@mikedavid5071]

@@YourWingmam thank you.

[@WaterlooExpat]

5:43 Re: "Bring up ex's." Agreed, it can make a man seem like he is "hung up on the past." But, if a woman mentions a broken engagement, for example, a man would be well-advised to listen carefully because she is describing a significant - even traumatic - event that shaped her thinking about any future relationships with men.

[@MickeyC-o6v]

And this is when “ Discretion is the better part of valor” comes in.

[@YourWingmam]

Truth!

[@marklion]

Number 1 on your list, I am guilty of under texting. If I didn't get a definite feeling or her telling me she wants to date again, I wait too long after, to text again. Maybe because I think ladies don't like me, I leave it too long. Also, a lady in the Philippines would message me via Facebook, and she was boring, like you describe in the video. Numbers 7 and 8 apply with the yummy nurse at my work. She runs hot and mostly cold with me. She is a 10 on looks, but her personality is much lower. I am now giving her silence and will talk to her only if she talks first. Last week, I thought, maybe she isn't worth it, there is probably another much better lady out there for me.

[@YourWingmam]

If you average out, her looks with her personality score she’s probably a five. You can do better than that!

[@truhhhhhhhokIII3]

Get some help for your avoidance issues if you dont want to blow it with your nurse lady

[@marklion]

@@truhhhhhhhokIII3 I have thought I should look into avoidant issues. Her and I have made communication mistakes. Main problem is...she has a boyfriend. She did flirt with me a couple times, while with him. Months ago, she did say she wasn't happy with him, but she is still with him. I think she might be playing games with me, or will take time to make the break from him. At the moment, she is ice cold with me. So I look for another lady, I cut her off, enjoy interacting and have fun with other nurses (without it being a relationship),. expand my knowledge, keep busy and move on if she still ignores me.

[@marklion]

@@truhhhhhhhokIII3 I have thought I should look into avoidant issues. Her and I have made communication mistakes. Main problem is...she has a boyfriend. She did flirt with me a couple times, while with him. Months ago, she did say she wasn't happy with him, but she is still with him. I think she might be playing games with me, or will take time to make the break from him. At the moment, she is ice cold with me. So I look for another lady, I cut her off, enjoy interacting and have fun with other nurses (without it being a relationship),. expand my knowledge, keep busy and move on if she still ignores me.

[@marklion]

@@truhhhhhhhokIII3 I have thought I should look into avoidant issues. Her and I have made communication mistakes. Main problem is...she has a boyfriend. She did flirt with me a couple times, while with him. Months ago, she did say she wasn't happy with him, but she is still with him. I think she might be playing games with me, or will take time to make the break from him. At the moment, she is ice cold with me. So I look for another lady, I cut her off, enjoy interacting and have fun with other nurses (without it being a relationship),. expand my knowledge, keep busy and move on if she still ignores me.

[@hankreus7196]

Absolutely humbling to realize how much these mistakes resonate despite best intentions to be genuinely interested in someone I truly admired and only want good things for them. Perhaps I might be human???? Nah 😊

[@andersnielsen6044]

If you were a genuine adult human you would have learned these things in your teens already.. It is mandatory social behavior skills..

[@hankreus7196]

@@andersnielsen6044 wow you are a judgmental person are you not

[@andersnielsen6044]

@@hankreus7196 Trying to nudge you to grow up.. ;)

[@vernemil]

Hi Anna.

[@Sejo088]

Run Emma, run!

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙏

[@nickpeluso7511]

in short, men have to do all the work and have to walk on egg shells. one screw up and he will get ghosted. do you think Harry Styles or George Clooney have to deal with all this?

[@re8837]

I've heard from many that the early stages are dating are fragile. That's why folks end up marring friends, co-workers, & friends of friends; there is a relationship of sorts beforehand, so there is less 'egg shells'.

[@ccriztoff]

she never genuinely liked you then bro

[@johnhartsock1891]

Harry Stiles ate 444 green spearmint leave candies on New Years Eve

[@shimon1166]

I'm officially flirting with you. Steve from Brooklyn USA

[@YourWingmam]

lol hello Steve from Brooklyn, thanks for watching!

[@davidbundesen5867]

I have dated some very beautiful women. And never did a “shower them with praise”. They all mentioned it. They liked the fact that I was not constantly complementing them. They did not wanna be put on a pedestal

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@karihamalainen9622]

Cat has sliped lately! Very sneaky!

[@Brendan-05]

Learning, hoping to get a girlfriend

[@YourWingmam]

Practice what you learn in the real world where it feels less intimidating. It’ll help you continue practicing. You got this!

[@alphonsorichardson5635]

'Being hung up /going on about exes'. Tricky this - personally I've never spoken about exes unless the woman has directly asked me. Because my situation became toxic then damaging, many dating/relationship 'experts' advise the "It's complicated & I'm not sure or comfortable discussing it. This, in my experience has been seen by women as a red flag, or at least gives the impression of being shady. I try to take an honest yet measured approach about those disclosures - there's no need for teeth-grinding detail or constantly bad-mouthing your ex, but if you're open and honest, if they don't want to pursue it further then they're probably not for you.

[@YourWingmam]

Absolutely. The best way to handle it if asked is to describe what you learned from the relationship that makes you a better mate now without blaming yourself or your ex.

[@antoerickson4152]

Men makes more mistakes in flirting than women because it was men who always makes the move first. I thought that flirting was something bad in the past. I agree that talking about our exes is not worth it. I talked lot about the girls who rejected me before and you corrected me on that. Sometimes we sabotage our own relationships because of the flirting mistakes you mentioned in the video. we have to give it all to the person we are in relationship with. I complimented you few times and I admire your character and personality more than your appearance, but you look very good to be honest . You are very funny as well which makes me laugh 😊. So, thanks for the video Anna and it really helped.

[@YourWingmam]

Glad you find value and a few laughs in my videos! Thank you for the compliment!

[@nobodysperfect06]

Here is a quote that changed my mindset and perspective. The quote is "either get bitter or get better". Do you think that quote applies to men only? The reason why I like to think that quote applies to men only is because women simply by default are good with men for simply just being born or simply just existing because for all time they're the ones that get approached and pursued or hit on or get advances made on them or have men making passes at them, always have men hitting them up, sliding into their DMs, swiping on them, and when you are in that position, it means that you always have offers, options, so because of that it means you are simply by default attractive to the other sex.

[@YourWingmam]

I understand where you coming from. Having said that, I know a lot of bitter women who don’t like the kind of men they attract and feel better toward all men. those women need to get better at their selection process, not bitter at men. Makes sense?

[@nobodysperfect06]

​@@YourWingmamwell it naturally makes sense that women typically don't have this issue because women have always had the luxury of getting chased and pursued and hit on

[@Aamir694]

I got it 😂

[@lalalali9767]

Hey Anna I need your help so there is a girl and we used to talk alot and she had attachment issues and she said she is attached to me and she is very shy and introvert type of girl and we used to make jokes and talk freely and very personally on insta and she showed many signs that she liked me and one day I confessed my feelings to her that I liked her and that's where everything changed she started ignoring me, her text messages started to get shorter and shorter day by day and she took hours to see and reply to my messages. Now I am not contacting her it's been 2 days since I last contacted her so now I need your help how to normalise everything with her.

[@johngonzalez4298]

Spicy señorita Anna ❤

[@YourWingmam]

Happy Sunday, John! 💞

[@johngonzalez4298]

​@@YourWingmamHappy Sunday to you too, Anna! Hope you're having a great weekend 💟

[@joem.8277]

Dear Anna: How are you doing on this fine Sunday? It is nice in Central Texas, not sure how the weather is on your part of the world. If you were here, we would be flying kites in Zilker Park in Austin. So, out of the 10 mistakes you posted, I must say I have screwed up on probably 9. I am sure I am not guilty on talking about "where the relationship is going" too soon; matter of fact, I have been accused of the complete opposite. Which goes hand in hand with my poor communication in relationships. I also have to say, I am not a fan of how much getting to know each other is happening over texting nowadays. I sure miss the old days of landlines. That is all for now. I hope you have an amazing Sunday and a prosperous week. I liked your outfit today, you looked very pretty. You know Anna, you present explain things very well. Hug and a peck on each cheek. Lots of love from Texas!!!

[@YourWingmam]

It's sunny and fresh here today, a beautiful fall day! :) Definitely lead in moving to a phone call, then video chat, then in-person meet sooner than later. *Always leave them wanting more.* Thank you for the classy compliment!

[@karalp9898]

There was girl who has clearly given me the green light signal. I got nervous and showed some clear anxiety signals last time I encountered her and quit the place immediately. I know it's embarrassing. But I was very sociable with her until then even making subtle compliments. Do you think should I try again? Motivational or realistic comments. I really wonder if someone had a similar experience. 🙏 Women or men.. It doesn't matter. 2 weeks ago btw.

[@Varonno]

Women we care about usually want to talk about it. Avoidant with anxious / detached attachment styles watch out! What if she crosses the line too soon? Men and the line - don’t cross at all. She’ll let you know when

[@YourWingmam]

Great points about attachment!

[@noopy24]

Adorable 😊

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you! *blushes*

[@audioelitist3677]

1. Yeah, since the whole cell phone thing happened, people have descended into this abyss where they're not good communicators. You talk to them directly, or by voice, and you can see them wanting to use an emoji, because they're at such a loss as to how to say anything meaningful. I'd use a drool emoji here, but I'm in denial technology has had an effect on me. It's hard to find a text conversation with any substance at all. Alex, as you've described him, is destined to annoy women. 2. This is a narcissism thing, or a boredom thing. People try to recount what they've done in the day as a substitute for actual conversation about real things, because they've never actually thought about reality. They tend to be feelings based people. It's not what's going on, or what's real, but how they feel in a given moment. This leads them to BAF status. (boring as f**k). Conversations go something like this.... "I did this thing... and then this person did this thing... and I was OUTRAGED..." or "so I went to the bank, and there was this guy that held the door open for me and smiled... it felt SO GOOD!" It's not that you don't want to hear what's gone on in a person's day, but when they're limited to recounting events and how they felt about them... BAF. 3. People are used to exchanging validation as a currency. It's not so much about what's real to these people, but as they view everything as transactional, they get the crazy idea in their head that if they pay enough forward, it will be a debt in need of repaying. It's a way of them assuring themselves, because they're fishing for the reciprocation of validation, so they know the other person isn't at odds with them, and things are going smoothly. For women, where they're looking for a man of solidarity, or one that can be assured of himself independent of such validation... this is going to be the biggest red flag. We call these annoying men, "mommy's boys" and want nothing to do with them. it's disgusting. As a side note, this is somebody that wants the validation of those around him, and not the approval of his Creator. The binary nature I speak of relates to this. The person that seeks the validation of those around him, is acting in the capacity of a narcissist. 4. This is something else that's inline with narcissism. It's sadly one I struggle with myself. I'm entirely too impressed with myself sometimes (maybe more than sometimes), and I have to remind myself... I'm not all that and a bag of chips. While I'm working on myself diligently, I'm no closer to perfection than the next man, and I should let my achievements speak for themselves, rather than to blather on about them. I'm a good blatherer, and have been known to relentlessly blather to others. Very uncouth. I should be terribly ashamed of myself, yet I find myself inadequate in my level of personal shame as well. I have issues. Even if I was all that, and a bag of chips, something tells me I'd be lacking dip. I was once really good at Pac Man. Just sayin. 5. Yeah, nothing screams "excessive emotional baggage" like constantly bringing up exes. Sure, it's important to let a woman know where you've been... It's important to frame where you've been in the context of where you're going with the woman in front of you. Personal accountability is important here. We all make mistakes in relationships, or worse, choose to do the wrong thing. We're all a work in progress, and it's important for women to know you've learned from your past, and are taking those lessons forward with her. Strangely, it's important to remember to love the sinner and hate the sin here. It's to say, we need to separate a person's action from the person. The more you think about it in the midst of discussing such things, the more you'll realize how relevant this is. 6. Sure, but if you're in this situation, you're doing it wrong to begin with. Ultimately, you want a woman to pursue you. You lay out the bait, and then you see if she grabs it up. It's like dropping candy down for her where she's saying, "OOOO, piece of candy... OOOO, piece of candy.... OOOO, piece of candy..." The idea is to lead them on a rewarding trail, until they're under the box you've propped up with a stick, connected to a string. Once under the box... THAT'S when you pull the stick out, and you've got them. They'll NEVER go under the stick propped box if you try to convince them to do it. I call this the James Woods approach to catching a woman. 7. I'm glad you got that. Yep. Never give a woman certainty. She should always be looking to secure something she'll never securely have. Think of it as the hamster wheel approach to women's psychology, with a carrot on a stick to motivate them. That's not to say you shouldn't allow them to think they're making progress. Like, out of the blue one day.... "you know, you're really special to me..." (if it's true - never give false hope to anyone) And then don't throw down another piece of candy for a few weeks. Hot and cold isn't the way to do this.... You should be constantly warm, but never hot. Never where she thinks, "got him". The minute she thinks "got him", you might as well break up with her, because you ended the relationship. It's not a solid trail of candy, it's a piece here.... a piece there.... a box propped up with a stick. For the record, it's a very nice box with air holes poked in it. 8. Yeah, not much to say about this one, other than... if you're looking with the eyes at her physicality, you're not looking with the right set of eyes. 9. Yeah, those grand gestures make you look like a simp anyways. Not much to say about this either. 10. Future plans you should state up front. Where you're going in life is one of the first things you should put on the table. Make sure they want to be your +1, before you lead them into their own personal hell. Felt like writing. I've got a thing for leather skirts. Well done. Great video, Anna. You're an intelligent woman. It's a rare to find a woman that's as logical as you are, outside of Vulcans.

[@2ndavenuesw481]

Imagine sending text messages from a smart phone to a woman. I'm glad I'm too old for that bullshit!

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙏

[@andersnielsen6044]

Texting is not for people in love.. It is for people who hates their lifes..

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I appreciate hearing from you 🙏

[@tod3msn]

I got called on too long a text. I’d be conservative about texting a woman.

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙏

[@innergoof19]

Follow their lead: if they send 1-2 sentences, don't blow up their phone with 2 paragraphs over 4 texts.

[@PU238Wave]

Nice skirt!

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@johnanderson1245]

Men don’t usually look for conversations when they text. They like it short and to the point.

[@x-man5056]

Confirm time, place, directions, NOT Chit Chat.

[@YourWingmam]

True! However, women often do look for text conversations and some men get sucked into them lol

[@paulrettig1507]

​@@YourWingmam I find if she wants to get into a conversation I tell her I'd prefer to hear her voice than read her texts. This usually stops the texting, but then you'd better call her after sending that text.

[@truhhhhhhhokIII3]

I do, i cant find a woman who wants to have good coversations in 10 years and its prob bc you avoidants make them think hot/cold is healthy when its actually abusive

[@fg-pv5ht]

The trouble with texts are you only get a limited amount of information. No facial expressions, tonal voice changes etc. Although emojis can help texts are to be avoided. They can be misunderstood to easily.

[@mitchmack5223]

Even though it happened to women, there was a recent case of scammers pretending to be Brad Pitt. Cost them thousands of $$$

[@YourWingmam]

That sort of thing happens to both men and women. Never never never never send someone money.

[@dennisneel9788]

Hugs for you

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you, back at you!

[@dennisneel9788]

@@YourWingmam what is your favorite color I’m making you something out of wood

[@crazyedo9979]

When Alan Turing did a mistake in decoding enigma messages a ships convoy would have been attxxked or a city got bxxed . When I make a mistake in decoding women I get 20 years bootcamp.😁

[@EricMoore790]

It's so easy to make a mistake and blow it.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@initiatorhater0688]

"I used to work with a woman who didn't have much of a personality and I believe might of suffered from social anxiety, didn't do well in social situations She never had a problem getting boyfriends since she was cute/attractive, despite her "social awkwardness". Cases like that make me angry and pissed off because its a reminder that the reverse is normally not true, guys, men, who are described that way, will normally have a difficult time getting girlfriends, attracting women, can easily remain a virgin later than normal.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@bullmoose6739]

Women don’t have to ask.

[@Trazynn]

A cute handsome guy's shyness will be construed as stoical and selective by women. They'll see him as a challenge. The problem then is that when they finally get what they want they find why the guy was such a challenge and then it immediately becomes less interesting.

[@DavidZ4-gg3dm]

@@Trazynn That only applies if he's handsome. If not, he'll get nowhere.

[@karihamalainen9622]

3 books and flower-pot`? Paper under all of that?

[@cowboy44319]

Unless Stuffy has been declawed ( something I personally oppose ) you might want to consider the consequences of making that particular area a "welcome" haunt for him. ( I could send you photo's. Now that Nick is deceased it brings fond memories for me, but that's me )

[@riccaruso7791]

How i innocently flirt: 👃 💵 freshly printed greenbacks! ~ lol 😆 💗 ☮️

[@DSRE535]

@@riccaruso7791 lmfao very innocent, like accidentally dropping bank statements lol

[@YourWingmam]

That attracts a certain kind of woman for sure lol

[@x-man5056]

@@YourWingmam Bingo.

[@johnpaul2285]

❤️🙏

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙏

[@davidshoyt1979]

Well, you look super cute in this video.

[@SpeCialeDDoC454]

#8 !

[@YourWingmam]

Well, thank you! ;)

[@davidshoyt1979]

You’re welcome Anna ☺️

[@jrsimeon02]

Women make mistakes? Whaa?? Are you a time traveler from the 1920's? HA! I like your taste in interior decor, you always have a good blend of texture and colors without being too cluttered.

[@YourWingmam]

Lovely compliment, thank you so much! PS lol

[@trillmix0652]

Dealing with women can be a headache. I just wish people can say what's in their heart and express themselves without all of these rules and guidelines. Maybe, I should just be more cold and act like I'm not thinking about her when I get an urge to compliment her or express myself.

[@gentkamberi8533]

They don’t make Jorgensons like this anymore 😜

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂

[@marvthedog1972]

still wondering why a pretty lady who does what you do isn't attached yet. thanks for the tips.

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate your feedback!

[@spankyharland9845]

Complimenting a woman on her hair, clothing always makes them happy, in fact I know it works because some of the ladies I compliment wear the same clothes and sport the same hair style every day for years😊

[@YourWingmam]

It's a great compliment because if validates her choices not just her body :)

[@spankyharland9845]

@@YourWingmam very true, in this day and age, it is taboo to compliment body parts, focus on complimenting on ideas, thoughts, resolutions and achievements, attitude, and humor and all around wit and common sense…. However there are some women who don’t mind you telling them that they have a very healthy looking gorgeous body.

[@RiseofTaitoShirei]

I never flirt at all. I feel good when I don't.

[@YourWingmam]

If it feels good and hurts no one, keep doing it ;)

[@RiseofTaitoShirei]

@@YourWingmam I'm autistic and really should not be in a relationship as I am capable of being what a woman needs.

[@x-man5056]

@@RiseofTaitoShirei You could find an autistic woman. There is someone for everyone.

[@merleroberts1921]

I flirt a bit but watch for signs of being too much and watching for signs of someone wanting too much attention.

[@YourWingmam]

Smart!

[@mikestroud9969]

Take care Red. God bless you sweet lady ❤😍🙏🇺🇲💯

[@YourWingmam]

Thanks for showing up today! 💞

[@mikestroud9969]

@@YourWingmam welcome AJ ❤️🙏

[@Trazynn]

I've simply stopped contacting them at all but I'm extremely rewarding to the ones who do end up contacting me (that I like). I find that works really well because it's implicitly acknowledging that women crossed a relatively larger hurdle to make the first move.

[@FitzkeithFitzhugh]

Happy Halloween 🎃 So when's the wedding date? Or are you back to single status like many of us? We all want you as well as ourselves to feel needed with peace, love, and happiness!

[@jordanluenz9263]

There seems to be a generational divide in women in this country on their comfort around men. Women born in the 80s & older seem very comfortable around men. I've even experienced married women shopping in the store I work at flirting with me in front of their husbands - not for real, but just to make me blush. On the other hand, the women of prime child-bearing age around me seem very timid, are very laconic, & just look at the floor mainly.

[@YourWingmam]

Great observations! Too many young people lack experience having conversations in real life, not on a device

[@tibifiu955]

Who is this beautiful lady?!😻🫠

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for watching and appreciating my video! 😊

[@acatal2919]

I've seen today's younger women that their love are not so real, they're more of gold digger. I never flirt to them at all.

[@YourWingmam]

I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

[@agxec2932]

That's true because one of the most powerful forces in the world has always been the power of the beauty of a young woman. That was a quote by an Eastern monk, philosopher and minister called Chanakya who existed around 200 BC and formed one of the powerful empires at that time. The quote was from his book "Nitishastra" - a book on maxims on social life written by him during his era. It's online though for download. So it's always been like that throughout the centuries across all continents and cultures. Young women today with the weapon of social media often have thus far more multiple "orbiters" than their ancestors - so the gold digging part always often comes in the forefront.

[@Eventual-Visitor]

You can flirt with them telling them you can't wait to give them half your shit, then do a hit and quit job and go on with your life.

[@Marcin-vn4kk]

9:33 - men get complements? Really?

[@YourWingmam]

In my world they do ;)

[@YourWingmam]

Though, in the real world, not enough!!!

[@Marcin-vn4kk]

@@YourWingmam Men are lucky in your world. 🙂

[@SpeCialeDDoC454]

No. That's why strip clubs exist, only for men. Go pay for it like any respectable capitalist. One of my favorites was a psych major. I believe her the way she markets "unconditional positive regard. "

[@SpeCialeDDoC454]

​@@Marcin-vn4kk😂gotta find that warp zone!

[@journeyquest1]

#1 Mistake: Flirting with the wrong person.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@mypov4343]

Be present and observe before flirting....that might save a few "open mouth, insert foot" comments from happening LOL...oh and it never hurts to ponder what you see....like a potted plant on top of books? hahaha

[@YourWingmam]

It has a water-catch brim, I promise ;)

[@x-man5056]

Your list is excellent top to bottom. Many of them seem so obvious but somewhere along the way I have failed about all of them. I think flirting by text should be very few and far between because it is just not as effective as voice. Your voice inflection is very important when flirting, particularly early in the relationship when she my be less familiar with your brand of humor and YOU don't know her sensitivities either. Just as a comedian makes the joke funnier with voices, inflection, and expressions, your best attempts to flirt by text are more likely to land like a lead balloon because she can't read your inflection and you can't see her sour face when she reads it so you can't clean it up afterwards either. #2 is critical and a very common mistake men make (I have). It will kill a yes. You want her for your mate, co-conspirator and confidant, not your fan club. It shows low game, a bit of self centeredness, and is having too much need to sell yourself, having too much currency in the approval. How foolish to miss her words when SHE may be trying to sell herself to you. Random example: She says to you while you are not mentally present that she loves horses but hates horse racing, thinks it's cruel. 5 minutes later you say, "hey, big horse race at the fairgrounds tomorrow, let's go"

[@YourWingmam]

Brilliant additional tips! And we've all made plenty of these and other mistakes lol

[@64maxpower]

I notice with cooler weather we get a more styled Anna Jorgensen. I can't remember you ever missing a weekly uploaded video. You are allowed to have a vacation

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you! I may have missed some videos a few years ago after my mom died, though I do remember engaging with viewers here in the comments helped me get through some of the grief (even though most probably didn't know). The best way to get through your own pain is to help someone else get through theirs. p.s. Vacation?? What's that? ;)

[@64maxpower]

@@YourWingmam plan for Anna fun. We don't need you burnt out. Grab someone and come visit the East Coast

[@davidcrandall2415]

Anna, women dont have to come up with something to say to draw a mans attention; just wear a leather skirt...like the one Anna is wearing here. Anna, you have me drooling here. ❤❤❤❤❤

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@andersnielsen6044]

97% of American women ruins their attraction as they start talking..

[@Florida_gyrl]

Oh my gosh! I HATE it when I meet men that have ZERO boundaries! It’s a HUGE turnoff! I hate it when a man puts his hands on my body without any consent from me at all. He just assumes I like him so I will like the touching. Absolutely not! Learn boundaries men!

[@JSFGuy]

🙋

[@YourWingmam]

Thanks for showing up today!

[@JohnM...]

haven't watched your videos in a while. I forgot how absolutely gorgeous you are. True story. ;)

[@YourWingmam]

Wow, thank you and welcome back! x

[@noelgibson5956]

Well you're not so bad yourself, my firm thighed friend! I'd love to whisper sweet nothings into your ear, and share precious moments! Since reading this text, you're all I think about! 😉

[@douglasalan5783]

Emma shouldn’t waste her time with Alex.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@redgegraves8749]

Too much work...thats why God made golf!

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙏

[@gentkamberi8533]

And that is top dollar straight forward advice all for free gents .

[@kingdavid1614]

Since dating usually results in 95% rejection then the chances are that 90% of these flirting ideas will not work. Will always depend on the personality of each indiviual. Nice video however.

[@YourWingmam]

Probably 99% to start realistically but with practice and skill building (and paying attention to her signals) you can get that down to 50% while still actually approaching specific women. And yes, individual personalities vary to a huge degree. The good news for most men who want a relationship is that they only need one, the right one. Glad you enjoyed the video!

[@yugimuto9763]

First mistake you made. Cariing about that person. People are majorly turned off/ detracted by anyone who cares

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@yugimuto9763]

​@YourWingmam of course! Appreciate your content more

[@truhhhhhhhokIII3]

Nope just means you are an avoidant (aka covert narcissist abuser) and will never find love because the entire point of relationships are to find someone you CARE about forever

[@yugimuto9763]

@truhhhhhhhokIII3 I mean showing care. This about when someone randomly shows you acts of kindness, you will assume they are trying to use you and that's natural. So you have to play things cool or you will freak everyone out

[@yugimuto9763]

@truhhhhhhhokIII3 but you're not wrong, im not willing to go through Any confrontation so even if i was with the absolute dream perfect love of my life and it came to like they were upset or anything like that I would just tell them it's been nice but it's not working because I clearly am not keeping them happy if they are at all upset

[@RobCoghanable]

So don’t toot your own horn, just play it. My dad realized he would not be the next Harry James and pivoted to business a much better choice.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@Dr.CJ21]

cute dress

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you!

[@shahmundell34]

It would help women were more interesting, most have nothing going on beyond their own superficial focus

[@shreyanshdas7481]

Too much hassle.

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙏

[@stevenbastien9028]

A woman lead footing the brakes? Now that's a rare event.

[@rfrf4795]

Never text. What are you going to talk about if you and her have been texting all day. Save it for when you get to gather. Now you have something to talk about. Unlike the Bozo next to you texting his girlfriend all day long. NOW GET BACK TO WORK, SO YOU CAN GET THAT PROMOTION.

[@YourWingmam]

Wingmam motto: always leave them wanting more!

[@truhhhhhhhokIII3]

@@YourWingmamnope. Great way to make a woman feel insecure which will make her look for options and most likely cheat on you (bc apparently girls nowadays says its ok for them to cheat if they were “thinking about leaving the guy” according to the internet)

[@karihamalainen9622]

If woman is truly loving then 30 txt messages per day is not enough for her. There are no barriers.

[@YourWingmam]

If she likes that.

[@karihamalainen9622]

@@YourWingmam If`? Curent Lady even called POLICE when I have spent extra hour in forest! Is my choice of ladies odd?

[@karihamalainen9622]

Pillow cat.

[@PeterShaw-ne1yq]

The first mistake is flirting ( Harrassment, hitting on) Guys! rent! Don't buy

[@chinoisbase]

Wow what a sexy tie!

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you!

[@fargeeks]

​@@YourWingmamactually what I find sexy is leather spandex and skirts to which I see you wearing

[@MrMcguire89]

From one man to another with a son. You, as an individual don't require anyone else to tell you what you need in your relationships. Men, build yourselves up and become worth staying around and you won't have to worry about a female's attention or validation. Any woman will be willing to "sacrifice" (mostly in their dreams and head) any perspective to live the lifestyle you lead. Saying no to women is the true start of a man's journey. Sorry not sorry, but the truth is never something comfortable ladies. Get used to it, because God is coming & the truth will out. For the Emporer! lol

[@kongvolmerii2683]

11.10 mark- your laugh...is this whole thing just a joke?

[@YourWingmam]

Sometimes I laugh at inappropriate times...I find the human condition humorous :) no joke

[@LordMuzhy]

I flirt with my hand 😊

[@YourWingmam]

Details! ;)

[@kdlehel]

womans are complicated. Can not be understand. What womans cost for a man in 5 years, from that money can buy a 40 Tonner Truck. And make good money with it. Not worth it to gut oocupied with woman what is just couse of nonsense.

[@gazoo7411]

Emma and Alex are obviously narcissists and gay. Oh wait, that's a different channel. oops. Never mind. Great job Anna, Hey, nice outfit.....................haha.

[@YourWingmam]

lol, 🙂 thank you for watching!

[@lordwallie24]

you grew up in the 70s what is your favorite music?? 😊

[@lordwallie24]

Can you explain to me why I see all women running with spadax on? Is that deliberate? 😮

[@fargeeks]

I think so it makes it easier for me to look at them without anything on