Reasons Why A Woman Sends You Mixed Signals And What To Do

[@mkd4life40]

Ignore her, there's many others who won't play this game. Why stick around, the juice isn't worth the squeeze.

[@YourWingmam]

Either ignore it or call her out and then go about your life. Never reward bad behaviour. :)

[@boethius1812]

Yes it is, stupid. Fat ass is better than the flat of your hand pounding on your hip bones.

[@andybarboza9134]

Why do them a favor? :)

[@elijahschnake3863]

@@YourWingmam Why would you call her out? If she's not sure about you she'll (rightly) feel unjustly criticised.

[@VanielDeeform]

@@andybarboza9134Because it might not be intentional, she may be going through some things and healthy relationships are about leading by example and communicating and not getting butthurt.

[@chrismais]

Just walk away. Mixed signals early on are a clear sign of drama and a lack of strong interest. Strong interest overrides all of the BS and rationalizations made. She will choose you, text you and call you and make things easy in terms of dating and connecting with you. You have to prioritize your time and access to YOU a gold tier worth for those who respect your time. You don't reward someone treating you like a simp puppy tail wagging barking and begging for kibble dropping from her hands. Stop being manipulated. Beautiful is as beautiful does, and those are not beautiful actions.

[@christopherandrews9232]

Well said!

[@Tom-cp6yj]

What about the right person but the wrong time? I've been there..

[@christopherandrews9232]

@@Tom-cp6yj I think it’s better to just be a man and walk away after sufficient time has gone by. Doesn’t mean you necessarily walk away forever, but don’t just wait around in hopes of a change

[@chrismais]

@Tom-cp6yj No. Connection is connection. The wrong person is simply the wrong person no matter the time right or wrong. That cliche is to provide some soft, comforting salve or consolation. Here is the truth. If she was really INTO you, she would break it off with the other man, and you would Mr Right place and right time. That is a line we buy into to soften the blow whether she deals it or that's what you want to tell yourself to sleep better at night.The strength of the connection is fairly weak and NOT enough to override her self-doubt, doubts about you and her, anxieties, and even logistical concerns. I have met women WILLING to go into long distance relationships in the US and overseas because of the strength of connection and gut instincts overpowering ANYTHING that runs counter to it.

[@eriks75]

As others also mention. Mixed signals usually means you are wasting your time. Trying to call her out might not be a good idea. It can easily turn into a «how could you even think that I was your type» type of response. I got that twice.

[@stuckp1stuckp122]

Nonetheless, getting that clarity from the person after that coversation prevents further wasting of time.

[@cizzymac]

Correct. Just say "This isn't going to work out" and leave. If you call her out, you're giving her exactly what she wants.

[@christopherandrews9232]

Just sent this to a chick I was texting for a while lol! “I wanna be clear I’m not upset or anything, but this is why I disappeared the first time lol. Your interactions seem strange to me and I simply don’t know what to make of it 😂” I got the ol I’m not interested, I’m not looking, I’m really busy. She was very nice about it. I ended it with, “actually, I was just seeing if you were being genuine in our interactions, but now I understand things better.”

[@YourWingmam]

🙏 I hope she reaches the point of truly doing what is best.

[@christopherandrews9232]

@ thanks! She did say we were just friends, but she would text at the end of the day “hey text me tomorrow!” “Hey how’s your day?” I hung around longer than normal because she was dating someone that turned out to be engaged, it was all confusing so I finally said that to her.

[@ackbuilder8262]

With all due respect, if she is not sure of you for whatever reason, that only means you are not her first choice and there is no genuine burning desire. What that means is that there is a good chance you can still “obtain” this woman but it also means there is a 78% probability she will initiate break up at a later time ( 87% if she has a degree). This is because you did not trigger hypergamy where attraction towards a man is not negotiable. Attraction and biological choice are not negotiable. Smart quality guys and men will only agree to be in the other %13-22 where they choose from women that have already selected them aka triggered hypergamy. Women don’t divorce men they selected on a biological level. Very rarely. If she selects and chases ( invests) in a guy, there is no way she would dump him. Guys, date women that have genuine burning desire shown not by words but by actions only and select from women that have already chosen you. This is by far the best long term mating and dating strategy for men.

[@Mr.Lateralus]

Damn well said, sir. Thank you. It’s really that simple isn’t it? People just don’t have this type of wisdom. I definitely didn’t when I married my terrible BPD wife…. Now divorced. Now I know since I am fully aware and awake, thus I have understanding. I have also seen GBD in women btw. I had two separate women in the past who literally will KILL to get me… not tooting my horn over here, but you’ll know when it’s genuine because she’ll make it SUPER obvious.

[@cazzawazzawoowoo1600]

Do you have a source for your very specific percentages?

[@ackbuilder8262]

@@Mr.Lateralus agreed. You can’t confuse GBD. Attraction is not a choice. If she is free and initial attraction is there, I found saying just “hello” is enough. She will make it easy for you to continue - saying something along the lines - you have a nice voice, you have a good energy about you, I like your shoes, no one ever says hello to me etc. it takes 7 seconds for a women to determine what she needs for initial attraction, plus she looks at your shoes, nails and hair. As far as cluster B personality disorders, I hear you. It’s tough. If a woman says - I am afraid to get hurt, I need time, if she wants you to chase her - to me, it’s potential diagnose criteria or initial red flags for potential BPD, Bipolar or some other weird stuff.

[@Mr.Lateralus]

@@ackbuilder8262 Amazing.

[@justinharris5434]

My advice for mixed signals and mixed messages is this: it can be found in the title of a Pink Floyd song on "The Wall." The song is called "Run like Hell."

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@keepmovingforward571]

As an older guy who has been single for years, I am just not willing to deal with any BS

[@pommie111]

Well said mate

[@ZacharyTaylorBaxter]

Seems like a lot of work to me, how about this instead, she's either into you or she's not.

[@YourWingmam]

That works!

[@Mr.Lateralus]

@@ZacharyTaylorBaxter Yes. Thank you. It should be that simple. These mind games really screw with us men who don’t want problems…. If I have time for you, I will communicate with you. If not, be patient. If I am not into you, I will make sure to communicate that as well.

[@vince8436]

If either person has to think about it too much. Just forget it.

[@YourWingmam]

Depending on how much self-awareness you have and where you are on your personal development journey, yep

[@Dellelonaronno]

@@YourWingmamIt’s time to enjoy life! Anyone’s who’s still trying to figure life out and is (as you say-cray cray) is too draining in the long term. What’s pertinent is trust, respect and integrity. No reciprocity and unable to compromise and talk about feelings and articulate them? These people are rare. I don’t get paid for coaching. Rather go travel or take a fishing trip. Literally or figuratively. Anna is a city girl now. God bless ❤

[@vince8436]

@@YourWingmam I have all the awareness I need. I know where I stand and I know what would change my mind. I know it's possible to go a different direction if I so choose. But I also know that I can weed out most people in my life in a short time frame and only stay in contact with whome i wish to. That would include both possible girlfriends and regular friends male or female who just don't fit.

[@JohnADuerk]

As always, great content. Thank you for the effort that you put in. I think that many people who send mixed signals know exactly what they're doing and can see how it negatively affects someone. When a person's behavior is contradictory or simply doesn't make sense, I suggest walking away. This should not be done to get their attention. It should be done to protect yourself from emotional harm. We always have a choice and can exercise our power. We teach people how to treat us.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@KristopherStidd]

Thank you for the video ❤

[@YourWingmam]

I appreciate you watching! 🙏💞

[@HMileas]

Focus on yourself and move on. You are grown up and dont play this games.

[@YourWingmam]

First, call her out, you would want the same chance, and then if she won't or can't "woman up" then move on, but yes always focus on yourself first and foremost regardless...wise words!

[@actmyage2149]

Good content today, I remember a period while my late wife and I were dating when she seemed to go hot and cold. As I recall, this was about the fact that she had been hurt pretty bad by her last boyfriend, and any time I seemed to act/talk like he did, she'd pull back. It took a lot of conversation, but we got past it. You: beautiful (always) even if cold. Praying for you. -- Russ P PS/Both furballs are passed out on the sofa, so a raincheck on the tailwags today. Maybe some post-turkey tryptophan involved. ;)

[@YourWingmam]

Ah yes, so common for people who have been hurt in the past to be extra sensitive to signs of similarity. Glad you got through it together! Communication is so key yet most of us are terrible at it. Thank you for the compliment, Russ, and your prayers have really helped! PTT (post turkey trypto) for the win on a holiday Sunday afternoon! God bless you! :))

[@rjmamula]

I have been working on getting out of the friend zone with someone. She has given me mixed signals but I made a significant feat recently. Someone asked her if I was her husband and I said “no I’m not her husband yet.” It could have driven her away but instead it seemed to have the opposite effect. Our hugs started lasting longer.

[@thelimey351]

You're her emotional tampon, sorry man but that's the truth - she either has genuine burning desire for you or she doesn't, you can't make it happen...

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@x-man5056]

I've got one. I have met an attractive woman, 5 years my junior. We had an energetic conversation, she held my arm making a point a couple of times during. She mentioned she was born and raised in Vancouver.😳 So I had an ah-ha moment and asked her if she can Ice Skate. She says yes, of course. I say"we should go Ice Skating". She says; "that would be great but I need to tell you I have a boyfriend"...I start to back pedal, she says It's OK, let me give you my number.🥴 WHAT! It feels like a big red flag but I have a notion, maybe the boyfriend part was over stated. Regardless, I now feel very dubious about follow up with her. What a cluster. Normally after these encounters I am disappointed I didn't get the number. Now I have it and it feels icky. I know the lyrics to "Run Around Sue". (add primal scream here)

[@dsummers1755]

I would go for it, whats to lose, she might be keeper

[@YourWingmam]

Yes, go for it, cautiously. That may have been a default excuse. Before you go, however, find out if it really is the case. You can simply say something like, "I'd like to see you again but I wouldn't feel right about it if you are in a committed relationship." That tells her your values. Her response may reveal hers, whether it's "we're breaking up" "we're allowed to have friends" "we're in an open relationship"... gauge and go from there. Report back! 😁

[@x-man5056]

@@YourWingmam OK, that sounds reasonable. The "find out first", I should have done before I asked her but things seemed to be on autopilot.

[@cedricnicholson7446]

Gentlemen, just walk away. Let her figure herself out. You’re not responsible for another person’s insecurities. If enough men start doing this then they will start being more decisive. It’s not hard at all. All these “what if’s” and “what abouts “ will go away.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@acegikmoii]

That fisherman arrived right on cue, just like this video did for me! Thanks, Anna!

[@garyaction7106]

Hahaha ME too .

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@stuckp1stuckp122]

It does highlight the need to develop a skillset or group of friends to help diagnose the issues and to conduct that conversation.

[@YourWingmam]

I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

[@CoffeeChai]

Wishing You a blessed Christmas season,Anna🎄✨💐

[@YourWingmam]

Merry Christmas to you, too! Hope it brings you much joy and love! 🥰

[@eh3535]

Always great straightforward advice Anna!

[@YourWingmam]

💯 yes! Thank you for watching ❤

[@angelosantaniello4113]

Excellent advice

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@antoerickson4152]

First of all I think it is only women who used to send mixed signals not men, but some men may send mixed signals, but I never know anyone done that before. When you said that one of the reason women sends mixed signals was that because they are having other options and honestly that is not right and I understand it is before she is commited into the relationship. These mixed signals are not a good sign to be honest and men can be tested by women to know his worth, but that can't go for long. It's very hard to understand women and you are also a woman who is having a pretty face, pretty smile, and always has good sense of humor ☺️. That location where you made this video is beautiful and I think I never told you this before Anna. I love Canada a lot. Thanks for the video Anna and it's a very good one.

[@YourWingmam]

Some men do send mixed signals. This most often happens in the pickup artist community when a man says the things a woman needs to hear for him to get some action but then doesn't treat her like he wants more. In this situation, the "things she wants to hear" relate to messages of long term future potential, meanwhile he really just wants sex stat potential. lol

[@antoerickson4152]

@YourWingmam I understand only the bad guys may send the mixed signals.

[@n.m.3760]

Campbell River? Nice! I live nearby in Nanaimo. Vancoucer Island is beautiful.

[@YourWingmam]

That’s awesome! Nanaimo is such a lovely spot, and yes, Vancouver Island is absolutely stunning, so much natural beauty to enjoy! 🌊🌲

[@BlakeC27]

If it is not a 'Hell Yeah' from both parties', it's a 'No'.

[@YourWingmam]

Usually. Even if it could be right, the timing might be wrong.

[@HerveMendell]

In my experience they do it for "ego points," it makes them feel good if they can string a man along even though they are not actually interested. Personally I don't like games or being manipulated. My rule is "three strikes your out."

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@stuartwilson3753]

This video serves to remind me , letting women showing an interest in me. After my initial invitation for a date. If she accepts, then it's down to her to reciprocate an interest. If that suddenly cools off, then its game over.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@JSFGuy]

Well timing is everything so let's have a look here.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for showing up today! Any good reminders for you in this one?

[@JSFGuy]

@YourWingmam need to make a fourth attempt to watch this without interruption, I'll let you know haha. 🤷🏼

[@karihamalainen9622]

I think these issues is exactly for me. And cat is here again.

[@YourWingmam]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@Stanley_Furley]

The BEST advice yet (for me). Thx for your advice.

[@YourWingmam]

Happy to help, glad this one resonated for you!

[@per-andersmalmberg6248]

Mixed signals. Been there and experienced that many times. You are obviously not her first choice, at best a backup that probably will not materialize. It is understandable that one can be somewhat attracted to someone without actually wanting something more. However at the end of the day, this will probably end up being a waste of time. Move on and try elsewhere.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@Ed-quadF]

Worry about your own life. Anna, great advice. Sometimes you're just another count. Oh well!

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@Dellelonaronno]

Campbell River? I’d be heading over to Cortes. The fishing is epic. Dress accordingly and let her pick the lure on a fishing date. A woman who can hang on a fishing date is a resourceful woman. Take the plunge and catch dinner! 🎣 ❤

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@Steve24527]

If she’s sending mixed signals she doesn’t want you enough! Walk away and find someone that does.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I appreciate hearing from you 🙏

[@davidcarbone3385]

Distinctions without a difference? In a relationship that's understood by both parties to be serious, playing games - mixed signaling - is not cool no matter the reason(s). If the expectation is the other person is supposed to be there for you emotionally and sexually then addressing the mixed signal behaviors is warranted. But in casual relationships, whether they involve going out to have a good time and/or going out and having sex, or just having sex, mixed signals would seem to matter less.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@pommie111]

Good info young lady

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@chrisomalley1105]

Emotional unavailability: 100% what I deal with as I continue to meet all these women in " group activities"and " socializing" that is SO highly recommended for meeting ' the one's. And they're not changing! They love to continue the breadcrumbing. Why do you think they're out there socializing in the first place!

[@YourWingmam]

A lot of single people are guarded and hesitant these days and because women tend to create community more easily than men there's less internal need for them to let their guard down to men. It's a shitty situation for everyone. For your situation, the only solution is to give them a few chances then move on. Never chase. Chasing vs Pursuing: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hWfComuMfKulqqc

[@cazzawazzawoowoo1600]

Maybe they're actually there to do the hobby or make female friends? Maybe they don't want to meet men or have a relationship? Why do you presume they are there to find a relationship?

[@lauriesbella1252]

*TIMMYYYYYYYY'S!!* Was in AB & BC in 2017 - got to try a Timmy's at the airport. The coffee was wonderful and the doughnuts were excellent. THANKS, Canada!

[@YourWingmam]

A national treasure! (Now owned by a US company but Canadians still think of it as home) :)

[@DEBTFREEMIKE769]

Hey Wingmam. I have a female friend who went to work where my ex works. My ex blocked me on everything earlier this year. My ex saw my friend and hugged her. About a week later, she saw my friend in the cafeteria and walked up to ask how I was doing and if she still talks to me. My friend said yea he’s good and that she should reach out to me. My ex was like I dunno he may not want to talk to me. My ex said she would think about it over thanksgiving.

[@darlawrence9295]

Run Forrest, RUN... Away!!!

[@YourWingmam]

Before you decide if you even want her to reach out to you, sit down and be brutally honest with yourself about what YOU would need to see changed in her for you to even consider reconciliation. It doesn't matter if she was the one to break it off. Then also ask yourself where you contributed to the split. There are always two responsible even if one simply allowed bad behaviour from the other. Make sense?

[@DEBTFREEMIKE769]

@ yes ma’am. Thank you!

[@capncrush6729]

@friendzone @debtfreemike You're girl bestie should have instructed to tell your ex that you are seeing someone new, since your ex gf is actually seeing 3 new guys

[@tod3msn]

I can only ask guys here to be honest with yourself when you are getting mixed signals. Ask yourself one question, “Am I doing anything to encourage these mixed signals?” Is my lack of confidence causing some hesitancy on the woman’s part? Is my neediness by always sending long texts causing problems? If you feel you are good, then move on to other women but it always helps to do a self check. One thing that remains true is that by hanging around with mixed signals going on and things unclear is not in a man’s advantage. If I get mixed signals and I’ve not done anything to encourage them, I’d move on without any speeches or saying a word because the mixed signals mean confusion and my saying anything is not going to clear it up. If she calls and asks why I split, then maybe I could say you seem conflicted but if she doesn’t text or call and I split, good bye and on to greener pastures.

[@cizzymac]

If you have to ask all these questions, it's already over for you.

[@shimon1166]

Love the Peacoat. Look great in it. Steve from Brooklyn USA

[@YourWingmam]

Thanks for the compliment, Steve.

[@jefffch]

Because she's crazy! She needs a Psychiatrist.

[@greggy283]

SHE'S MUSHOOOKA !!

[@YourWingmam]

All women are cray cray ;)

[@jefffch]

@@YourWingmam LOL I love you ! When are you coming to Cali?

[@jetstartransportation3366]

@@YourWingmam you're absolutely correct.

[@greggy283]

@@YourWingmam YOU SAID IT, SISTER !

[@mikestroud9969]

Take care Red your wonderful. Good personality and beautiful ❤🥰🙏🇺🇲💯

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much. I appreciate that 🙏

[@m_jay5]

Pretending to like someone romantically by stringing them along and giving the other person that false hope just to get your ego and validation boosted is just cruel!

[@YourWingmam]

Most definitely!

[@hyugahyuga3761]

Confidence, connection, and understanding-‘Magnet for Women’ by CrypticLore covers it all. This book truly delivers insights that can transform your approach to relationships

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@Mark_The_Mayven]

OK, so you’re wearing an overcoat and the guy outside reeling in a fish is in shorts and a T-shirt - so are you trying to say something?? I’m thinking it’s not as cold as your thinking - lol😂❤ Oh yeah-Loved the vid too!

[@statusboom-x6348]

Keep giving people this work. -Team Anna

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for showing up every week, much appreciated! :))

[@ianbetts4435]

If she is unsure about you, let her remain unsure and move on.

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙏

[@thelimey351]

If she is sending you mixed signals then she doesn't have real desire for you, if you just want to bang her then you might want to keep dealing with that - but if you are looking for a relationship she's a _really_ bad bet...

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@JohnSmith-ij4xe]

This just means she’s not the one and I’ll move on permanently. I don’t play games and if I feel like she’s playing games or ghosting am out and I move on. I have found women that don’t play games and if they disappear it’s there running because of there emotions and feelings to collect them self BUT when she’s in person it’s clear how much you mean to her. Yes there’s a difference between ghosting and running away.

[@mrbabyhugh]

0:32 Estrogen is the reason why lolol

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@angstrom1058]

If I get mixed signals, I'm out. I'll find someone who knows who they are and what they want.

[@oceanrunnerx8655]

If you have to teach her ANYTHING it just shows that she doesnt have the maturity level required for an adult no drama relationship. Walk.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@Aamir694]

I also send mixed signals 😅

[@charlesboston1]

mixed signals = look else where ..... don't waste your time

[@YourWingmam]

Call her out, respectfully and move on.

[@drawwing]

is there a way to have a conversation or email exchange with you or your team?

[@Florida_gyrl]

💯

[@YourWingmam]

💯 yes!

[@justjames1111]

Would a female friend treated to the same hot and cold treatment continue with the friendship..?..I doubt it.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I appreciate hearing from you 🙏

[@DiZZoLabs]

Understand her cycle and you'll understand her swings.... Subscribe for more. :) Happy Thanksgiving Anna! Muah!

[@daleb5967]

All seven are right on target. In a simplified definition, she hooking you enough to keep you in her orbit, but can't close in on you yet. I do this often. Flirt then pull back. Keep them interested and in my gravitation. Reel the fish in, then give it sum slack. It's still hooked...... No rush...... Old habits......

[@MottJohnson]

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[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate your feedback!

[@REXOB9]

Why mixed signals? 1) she's not really listening to you, 2) by sending mixed signals, she maintains control and keeps you off balance. Yes, she's narcissistic.

[@gazoo7411]

Nice location. Are you a boating enthusiast? You must be a cat person. Hey Anna, go somewhere warm for the winter! I recommend Hot Springs Village. 🙃

[@RetroCaptain]

In my situation she was on the fence me or this other guy (I found out eventually though I figured it was the case right away). So chalk it up to Unsure

[@adamdanielson5605]

If she wants you..... she will... no other..... options..... super simple...

[@mrbabyhugh]

3:03 this fails with me every time because she pull back i do too... simple.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@alohaohana901]

Try an open forum video. For example, what do you think of Brekka's donuts? I think they are the best in the world.

[@YourWingmam]

I have not heard of those tasty delights

[@Leslie-es5ij]

Women don't like accountability. They don't want to be held to any they say, and they like to keep their options open ! I was getting mixed signals from a woman, and decided not to text her for a day, she came back with all kinds of accusing questions, and I just told her I didn't think that we were very compatible, or not on the same page , she said oh I feel the same way, I said oh good, good bye then ! It was easier than I thought it would be .

[@YourWingmam]

You'll find my video on why women don't accept accountability interesting and informative. Check it out here 👉 kzbin.info/www/bejne/nonZhJWPpaiMo68

[@cizzymac]

If she's sending mixed signals, you aren't her first choice. If she likes you, she will make it very easy for you. Just move on.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@VitoVeccia]

Life is short. We don't have time for games. Tell her you are not a mind reader, and walk away. If she regrets it, oh well.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@VitoVeccia]

@YourWingmam I appreciate your understanding of my perspective.

[@bgustinjr]

"If she's giving you mixed signals, she may be dead." Hmm, interesting. *takes notes*

[@jackslapp9073]

Plain and simple, don't put all your eggs in one basket. Don't over invest. That should be a no-brainer any time you get mixed signals. If you aren't up for dealing with the fickleness, just drop it and move on. Otherwise you are going to be constantly frustrated.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I appreciate hearing from you 🙏

[@frankrhynes4121]

I saw stuffy kat

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂

[@tdrive398]

If she sends you "mixed signals" or gives you 💩 tests... just walk away.

[@YourWingmam]

Absolutely! Mixed signals and mind games aren't worth your time. Walking away shows self-respect and sets the standard for the kind of relationship you truly deserve. 💯

[@girishthendi6815]

I asked her directly, why is she sending mixed signals ?? But she didn't reply, was my question wrong ??

[@kingdavid772]

To keep you on the hook and in her orbit of men to give her attention and to boost her ego more

[@samxd9468]

@@girishthendi6815 If she ain’t even bother to answer she not interested. Just tell her “if u not really messing with me delete me”. Typically even if it’s just for attention she’ll do away with you as she’ll feel like she being stressed by someone who doesn’t care much for.

[@girishthendi6815]

@@samxd9468 I just told her today that i was interested to build a relationship with her and I also said that she never seems to be interested at all and I promised that I will never ever phone her gain..then she replied let's be good friends, then I told her I am sorry I am not interested in getting friendzoned...what do you think about how I ended it??

[@YourWingmam]

Women are often not consciously aware what they're doing or why but your question wasn't wrong. It should make her pause but her level of self-awareness and emotional maturity will determine how she responds or if she does. Don't chase her, let her come to you. Recommended video: Chasing vs Pursuing: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hWfComuMfKulqqc

[@cizzymac]

She's not interested, man. Just ghost.

[@paulcooper5748]

If youv'e ever seen the movie gone girl with ben affleck that's female nature in a nutshell in that movie.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@paulcooper-n2v]

@@YourWingmam Also men should read the manipulated man by esther vilar written by a german women about female nature its a classic all men should read.

[@warrenrobinson1525]

If it becomes this complicated to start a relationship than something is wrong . What’s with the cat? And what is that relationship all about? Are you working for the cat? Lol 😊

[@rexferalman4543]

So....pursue gently, and be patient and understanding for a confused woman...? 😂😂 Nope. Just walk/run.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I appreciate hearing from you 🙏

[@draltamimi]

Gentlemen, just stay away from women who either don't know what they want or play games. Simple as that.

[@crlaw75]

Just stay away from them, period.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@ricklegendary2990]

i dated a woman on and off for 3 years, she ran hot and cold, i moved out of the state for a year, she said she missed me, i ended up coming back to my state, moved in with her " saw a letter in the drawer about her wanting me to marry her, the more time we spent together the more irritated she got, going from hot to cold, from sex one night to " Jesus another is punishing her so we slept in separate rooms, she than said " she doesnt get butterflies, so i moved out, 2 months go by, she starts saying she misses me, i dont respond, we are amazing as friends but im happy sleeping alone, however shes becoming persistent, shes 50 not a child

[@YourWingmam]

🙏 I hope she reaches the point of truly doing what is best.

[@thetruther954]

“You’ve got a second to look at the dark side of a man” Yeah, I don’t understand any of that. I have no idea what’s going on. Thank you, my friend. “When you look over your shoulder And you see the life that you've left behind When you think it's over, do you ever wonder What it is that holds your life so close to mine? You love the thunder and you love the rain What you see revealed within the anger is worth the pain And before the lightning fades and you surrender You've got a second to look at the dark side of the man You love the thunder and you love the rain You know your hunger like you know your name I know you wonder how you ever came To be a woman in love with a man in search of the flame Draw the shade and light the fire For the night that holds you and calls your name And just like your lover, knows your desire And the crazy longing the time will never tame You love the thunder and you love the rain You know your hunger like you know your name I got your number if it's still the same And you can dream, but you can never go back the way you came You love the thunder, you love the rain You know your hunger, you know your name You love the thunder, you love the rain I got your number, you know your name” --- Jackson Browne.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for watching and sharing those song lyrics :)

[@thetruther954]

And thank you for telling of your Dad or Grandad, I believe it was who taught you to be sexy as one of the guys. A girl who won't snap in two. Comfortable. At ease. Can laugh at herself. You can trust her.

[@SweepTheLeg2023]

😆 *Never stick it in crazy.*

[@YourWingmam]

So you're going gay are you...? ;) x

[@SweepTheLeg2023]

@@YourWingmam 😁😁I'm married 27 years I'm a masochist.

[@samxd9468]

It’s between 1 and 2. We don’t even talk no mo smh

[@YourWingmam]

Ouch. It won't get better unless one of you is brave enough to start doing something different to see if you can back on track. Not easy! But worth it. ((Big hug))

[@alohaohana901]

They have Starbucks in Canada.

[@YourWingmam]

This is a true statement lol

[@RobCoghanable]

If she wants something to play with she should go and find herself a toy. Hesitation is indicative of abbreviation ,it is a test of her own making. When I meet the one we should both know, or it is likely not right, and the quest continues. Thanks GB

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@thehowlingmisogynist9871]

Mixed Signals = Plausible Deniability!

[@tomdrummy4984]

Why mixed signals ? Because she is a woman…….just being who they are 🙂

[@joeschmo7957]

"The lesson this teaches her". Do you sincerely believe a woman is up for or interested in learning a lesson? Not so much, lady.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I appreciate hearing from you 🙏

[@VCZ-49r]

🍿

[@thewaytheyknowvedra-13]

🤧 6th point

[@grahamturner1290]

As perceptive as always.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for watching and appreciating!

[@andrew-ij1or]

Thanks Anna, your hair is the perfect length.

[@YourWingmam]

Glad you enjoyed it and thank you so much!

[@j.a.velarde5901]

I understand that mixed signals occur because men need to be tested. This is a great way to see how a man will respond under pressure or other behavior.

[@YourWingmam]

It's definitely a way to see how someone will react under stress though sometimes it's more about her than him. Thank you for watching and commenting!

[@williamosgood3565]

The thing is if a man has got his act together testing him will drive him away. The weak needy men will "pass" this test. You will separate the good from the bad but end up with the bad.

[@cizzymac]

If you are trying to pass her tests, you've already failed.

[@GolfChef99]

Stop with the confusion!!! life's too short damn it. Tomorrow is not given

[@clint120]

so? She can be a flake, toy with you, ghost you, etc., and you’re supposed to just tolerate it and accommodate this. Not so much.

[@1521joe]

99% of men literally past caring. Either level up, or ship out.😂

[@localbod]

Just walk away.

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙏

[@adamdanielson5605]

OMG!!! This is ridiculous. MOVE ON! She's not worth it.

[@daleb5967]

The more i think about it, the more i remember the big four Ds and high stress moments are the time to strike while the iron is hot n cash in on hot mess sex. 😎

[@gadgetman_nz4092]

To thine own self be true. Can't say I've experienced any of this nonsense.

[@HunkyMan777]

Do not get invested in any woman. Focus on you and your life. All women are replaceable.