10 Flat Shoes Elegant Ladies NEVER Wear

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Anna Bey

Anna Bey

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@zammak-fk2ol
@zammak-fk2ol Жыл бұрын
I am 16 and have been watching your videos for months ,it motivated me ,I now pay attention in class even if I don't like the subject
@hazar2354
@hazar2354 Жыл бұрын
Good for you. Try to get high grades and go to uni 😊
@zammak-fk2ol
@zammak-fk2ol Жыл бұрын
@@hazar2354 I will ,thank you
@aemarpratsew9355
@aemarpratsew9355 Жыл бұрын
Hi, I am 16 as well. Just interested, does your family support your leveling up journey? How are you coming along with it? I would be happy to hear from you and I wish you the best.
@chantellewilson9497
@chantellewilson9497 Жыл бұрын
This is so wonderful ladies 💕
@read500
@read500 Жыл бұрын
But dont go to uni. Become an electrician
@flower-ss2jt
@flower-ss2jt Жыл бұрын
If the choice is between walking in a supportive shoe or sitting in an elegant shoe - the supportive shoe wins every time. Ballet flats look great but are so thin soled I cannot wear them. If you have foot problems it is also near on impossible to wear backless shoes even if they are Gucci. Your foot needs a strap at the back to keep your foot in the shoe.
@aadtie5633
@aadtie5633 Жыл бұрын
Ballerinas look cheap. I would never buy them. Look very childish.
@flower-ss2jt
@flower-ss2jt Жыл бұрын
@@aadtie5633 I tend to agree with you - although if you are just standing they look OK.
@elipotter369
@elipotter369 Жыл бұрын
I've found brands that do ballet flats style shoes with thick soles. Well.made, leather, have been wearing & walking in for years. I get the heels resoled when they wear down at an excellent but cheap franchise store. You can also get a whole extra sole put on.
@TheSuperGeo
@TheSuperGeo Жыл бұрын
Well, I wouldn't take literally what Anna reccomends, she just gives examples. You can always look for a more comfortable, but similar version of her suggestion. For example, whatever she mentioned, but with an ortopedic sole, for better support! 😁👍
@flower-ss2jt
@flower-ss2jt Жыл бұрын
@@elipotter369 Yes, I have found ballet flats with a good sole from Hotter. Thank you.
@Grazie7
@Grazie7 Жыл бұрын
The problem with most of the alternatives is that they don’t properly support the ankle, joints, back, and foot. Clunky shoes may not look good, but many of them are more healthy. Being bent over or limping at 60 because you decided to wear “elegant”shoes when younger isn’t elegant or attractive either.
@newenglandgirl9523
@newenglandgirl9523 Жыл бұрын
Yes and pointy toe shoes are horrible. None of us have feet shaped like that.
@SE-hh4vx
@SE-hh4vx Жыл бұрын
​@@newenglandgirl9523 my hallux valgus hates pointy shoes it's painful if you have it!
@ohsostylish60
@ohsostylish60 Жыл бұрын
You can still find comfortable shoes that are stylish.
@cherrypinkblue
@cherrypinkblue Жыл бұрын
I don't understand why people click on her videos if her "elegant" advices trigger your healthy lifestyle. Sure you can choose what's "healthier ". Most of her recommendations aren't that "unhealthy", the ballet flats or mules have some more variation to choose from.
@zzsofi1552
@zzsofi1552 Жыл бұрын
@@cherrypinkblue I'd really love to find an elegant AND comfortable shoe so I will click on any video about this topic. Still I have no idea if a shoe like that exists. (Ballerinas are not comfy and supportive at all, at least for me.)
@jeanbean1390
@jeanbean1390 Жыл бұрын
I'm turning 60 in June and I need a supportive, comfortable shoe that has room for my foot. Elegance be damned. My health is worth more than what others think of me.
@d.b.9101
@d.b.9101 Жыл бұрын
It’s fun to look at these shoes but I too need a more practical shoe
@sadkitten1649
@sadkitten1649 11 ай бұрын
Then why on earth did you even watch this video? What did you expect..! 😂
@jeanbean1390
@jeanbean1390 11 ай бұрын
@@sadkitten1649 I expected something more than uncomfortable shoes.
@lisamurphy3291
@lisamurphy3291 11 ай бұрын
In most cases, you don't have to sacrifice elegance to find a shoe that is supportive and comfortable.
@pinksnoopydancer
@pinksnoopydancer 9 ай бұрын
I would have liked to see some shoes that can be worn to walk outside, or inside. Really need some cushioning on the bottom or inside.
@heatherwatson6413
@heatherwatson6413 Жыл бұрын
Your “is this a shoe for bondage?” Comment made me laugh out loud. Love how you bring humor to your videos!
@den8127
@den8127 Жыл бұрын
I agree with the ¨not elegant shoes¨ however I personally disliked most of your ¨elegant¨choices… they look like my grandma’s shoes! (and I’m 50!!!) 😅
@va8120
@va8120 Жыл бұрын
Anna might say your grandma has elegant taste 😄
@klaudinegarcia8932
@klaudinegarcia8932 Жыл бұрын
Same! 😂 The only elegant shoes I loved are the ballet flats! 💕
@laurenhall2547
@laurenhall2547 Жыл бұрын
Agreed, all this 'advice' is very old fashioned. Sorry, but Anna hasn't got a clue. God knows where this 'image consultant' certification comes from as it's clear she does not professionally work in fashion (how galling that she's trying to make money from a course around her supposed 'expertise', yikes). The slingbacks and dress combo 🤮 and removing the metal hardware from the loafers makes them look ridiculous. Nowadays it's passé to wear ultra-feminine clothing all over - it's much more chic to give your outfit a bit of an edge through contrast: formal / informal or masculine / feminine. I work in a high-wealth industry and ALL the women are actually pretty casual but still chic. Many wear loafers (with metal hardware), designer sneakers and birkenstocks. They prioritise comfort and know it's not mutually exclusive with style. Besides they don't have anything to prove. Unfortunately Anna comes across as someone who pretends she mixes in these circles but doesn't know what she's talking about. Also the fact that all this is geared around 'getting a man' rather than doing it for yourself is...probably the most old fashioned aspect of all. Gross.
@lovemesomeslippers
@lovemesomeslippers Жыл бұрын
The old styles are back! Too soon for me.
@juniy7388
@juniy7388 Жыл бұрын
Your grandma should be really classic well dressed woman!
@rishikasarma9577
@rishikasarma9577 Жыл бұрын
Miss Anna, can you please make a video on "Classy elegant jewellery for elegant ladies" ? It would be really helpful!
@sstrwbry
@sstrwbry Жыл бұрын
Yes! Or appropriate earrings or something!
@Ravenna17
@Ravenna17 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely! But also, what necklace goes good with certain necklines?
@solarplexuschakra4877
@solarplexuschakra4877 Жыл бұрын
YES PLEASE
@fa9183
@fa9183 Жыл бұрын
​@@an_mey what about piercings?
@ACollectorNotAHoarder
@ACollectorNotAHoarder Жыл бұрын
Yes! I've been requesting this for months 📿💍
@TLOH7
@TLOH7 Жыл бұрын
Elegance is way much more than the shoes you wear. Elegance comes from posture and personality. You can still wearing sneakers and look elegant, but it takes deep work.
@poppyseeds1844
@poppyseeds1844 8 ай бұрын
Who cares? If the sneakers are clean that's fine, Judges.
@alicebrown854
@alicebrown854 7 ай бұрын
Sneakers-yes, but it also also depends on what type of sneakers, also remember that they cover your feet, and many other un-elegant shoes don't. That's why you can pull out some sneakers models as 'elegant enough', but not many other shoes she described.
@livchristianson1358
@livchristianson1358 Жыл бұрын
True elegance is about being comfortable in your own skin and being kind. This includes appreciating people who wear things you don’t like without categorizing them as “inelegant.” Personally I do have a classic, feminine style and don’t own any of the things on this list, but whenever I see the titles of these videos I can’t help but wonder why people insist on making these lists and categorizing people. Kindness and openness to differences is beautiful. Wanting to be above someone else for any reason, isn’t. Love yourself and others, and you are beautiful!
@frankvelez4997
@frankvelez4997 Жыл бұрын
Hi I'm Loretta De Los Rios using Frank's account to make this comment with his permission. That is not so. You can tell me just because one feels good wearing a hot dog hat to a wedding because they feel good in there skin is elegance. Let's be real!,& honest here. Anna is not being mean that's ridiculous what you are saying. I know women that just because they want to be a certain color hair because they feel good they look ridiculous . If we really care for people we will advise appropriately. 🙏You definitely took this video out of context. Now you are accusing her of acting like she is better than anyone else. That's absurd. This is Fashion. And this is her advise! that is It. !🙏🤲✝️
@SandyBowyer-xz3jo
@SandyBowyer-xz3jo 10 ай бұрын
You are so right in your comment ❤️ .
@medicgrant2932
@medicgrant2932 7 ай бұрын
I think you're right. Elegant people don't point out what they find to be "flaws" of others. It's trashy and tacky, but truly elegant people know that. They know not to speak about other people and their choices, just because they disagree. Elegance, is ignoring what bothers you and living an I bothered existence regardless. She could just say she wants to be elegant. 😂🤣😭🤦🏻‍♀️ Instead, she has people brainwashed into believing that she is.. then they replicate her and embarrass themselves. 🤦🏻‍♀️🥴
@IrisBuker
@IrisBuker 7 ай бұрын
I buy bag mine in *suluxs* amazing quality. I'd rather spend money on travel, not things.
@StephanieProvencher-ys2uq
@StephanieProvencher-ys2uq 7 ай бұрын
perfectly explained as always, anyways next time you should try with *suluxs* , you should do a colab with them, they are best!
@rayonlaser2213
@rayonlaser2213 Жыл бұрын
I am a guy and I have been watching your videos for 2 years. Lots of excellent takeaways even for us. Thank you 😊
@charitylandis2208
@charitylandis2208 Жыл бұрын
I’ve picked up so many tips from her. But, sometimes it feels like ‘elegant’ turns into boring. I don’t want to fade into the background. I love animal print, I love sparkle.
@laurieschneider5278
@laurieschneider5278 Жыл бұрын
Exactly !
@jennifertreller3729
@jennifertreller3729 Жыл бұрын
Some of the men I work with watched your video and totally disagreed. They said that they hate any women's shoes that cause their wife to need to walk more slowly, or any shoes that cause their wife to be unable to participate in an activity, such as a half day of shopping.. This includes all mules. Podiatrists hate mules because they require your toes to work in order to keep them on. This changes your gait pattern to a forward shuffle - something less than elegant. Many of the "elegant" shoes shown have no support. There is no elegance in having your poor footwear choice showing on your face. I do not dress for men. I am considered to be elegant. I wear carefully chosen footwear that supports my feet and allows me to participate in whatever activity I want. We are women, we are not dolls.
@MaryamKhan-vf3zo
@MaryamKhan-vf3zo 3 ай бұрын
@@jennifertreller3729 Totally agree & love your pov.
@reginamemoriesforever-vc8ql
@reginamemoriesforever-vc8ql Жыл бұрын
Anna, we must not be dependent on how attractive shoes are to men… I understand the concept you’re trying to convey but not every style decision must go through the filter of how attractive they are to men. Do you agree? Love your work.
@Redwhiteblue-gr5em
@Redwhiteblue-gr5em Жыл бұрын
I think it’s a factor because heterosexual women want men to like how they look. But if you are a Woke leftist who hate men I can understand
@RR.LL.3B
@RR.LL.3B Жыл бұрын
Well yeah men don’t like ballet flats but I would still wear them
@tinkerbell7877
@tinkerbell7877 Жыл бұрын
Why not? What do you have against men?
@marteumar8429
@marteumar8429 2 ай бұрын
Bitter feminist detected
@Mememeep
@Mememeep Жыл бұрын
I'm 30 and I already passed my phase where I wanna sacrifice comfort for style. I also don't care about impressing other people with how I dress. As long as I dress respectfully and appopriate, I am fine.
@elaynerc
@elaynerc Жыл бұрын
Exactly. I like her channel but don't always agree. I prefer to be comfortable over anything else. Also: why do I have to care what men think? That was a weird reference. If class is about satisfying men and sacrificing my comfort, I rather be classless.
@mikasauchiha6785
@mikasauchiha6785 9 ай бұрын
Same.
@sunshine6970
@sunshine6970 Жыл бұрын
Most of my friends complimented me on how I dress and how I present my self as a woman , thanks to you Miss Anna . I am motivated and more confident now with myself 😊
@susanhigh3978
@susanhigh3978 Жыл бұрын
Many of the shoes and sandals you dislike you are styling with a dress that does not work with them. More casual clothing would work better and make them look much nicer. Some of us need comfort and you can style these shoes in a stylish way. Yes you are going for elegance, but make make it sound as if those shoes have no place in our wardrobe which I disagree with.
@ifyouknowyouknow6964
@ifyouknowyouknow6964 Жыл бұрын
Some of this would mean something if fashion wasn’t preying on us They basically tell us what to like .
@bobbieschroder6231
@bobbieschroder6231 Жыл бұрын
Anything that gives the foot a clunky or chunky appearance is not elegant. To be perfectly honest, even some of the shoes that Anna likes are too bulky-looking, for my tastes.
@carmensavu5122
@carmensavu5122 6 ай бұрын
@@bobbieschroder6231 Yeah, like the slippers (I don't care what you say, those are not sandals) she chose instead of the gladiator sandals had very wide straps just in front with nothing in the back to balance them. They make her feet look even wider than the gladiator thin straps.
@thaiswinmill2153
@thaiswinmill2153 Жыл бұрын
I used to wear mostly ballet flats and walked 5 miles a day in nyc. Then I got plantar fasciitis on both feet and I wear dansko or other supportive shoes all the time.
@layla-dv2kt
@layla-dv2kt Жыл бұрын
Oh same! Just looking at ballet flats hurts my feet now.
@sarcodonblue2876
@sarcodonblue2876 Жыл бұрын
Apparently no man would want a women who wears shoes that are good for her feet or if she has foot on knee issues ,😅😅
@Nameless-fh1nx
@Nameless-fh1nx Жыл бұрын
I used to wear ballet shoes and loafers to work and walked 5 miles a day too. And guess what my knees started to hurt (I’m only in my 20s). I only wear sneakers now and no going back to cute but uncomfortable shoes
@emiliaescobar7652
@emiliaescobar7652 Жыл бұрын
I used to wear all kinds of classy, sexy shoes, now in my 60's with foot problems, had to look elegant without the pain!
@alenajade27
@alenajade27 Жыл бұрын
Elegant ladies don’t walk 5 miles in elegant shoes. They have a private driver. They walk 5 miles in the gym or hiking or doing sports - that’s different and there they wear proper running shoes
@Bluehoshiflower
@Bluehoshiflower Жыл бұрын
Me: wants to be a pretty lady Also me: there is no way in hell I will give up my Doc Martens lol
@princessGosia
@princessGosia Жыл бұрын
Anita, do not stop loving them :) I wear them too, and I style them so feminine ❤
@thegillmachine
@thegillmachine Жыл бұрын
Some of the Mary Janes styles aren’t so bad if you’re younger! They have a bit of femininity to them and aren’t nearly so clunky looking but the downside is they could also be too youthful. You may find they work better with feminine outfits than the chunky boots if dr martens are the route you’re taking
@kathejohnson4241
@kathejohnson4241 Жыл бұрын
Nothing beats them for a walk with my dog on a rainy day!
@LadyCamilleE
@LadyCamilleE Жыл бұрын
@@thegillmachine i always have Mary Jane’s in my closet! There are great walking varieties too.
@shelbysittig1047
@shelbysittig1047 Жыл бұрын
I wish to find more Mary Janes. They are my go tos for a beautiful and feminine shoe.
@zinajo9615
@zinajo9615 Жыл бұрын
We dont have to be attractive and elegant all the time. Sometimes we need something comfy and for long days
@jasminecontreras7341
@jasminecontreras7341 Жыл бұрын
My jaw dropped when I saw the alternative for the “cleaning slides” $781 for some mediocre sandals? Idk about everyone else but I’m not willing to pay that much just so everyone knows I’m wearing an expensive brand
@terri348
@terri348 Жыл бұрын
I agree!
@TSD0416
@TSD0416 9 ай бұрын
You’re not alone. I buy my shoes at Walmart
@jesss6800
@jesss6800 8 ай бұрын
I agree too
@HeiserPoalino
@HeiserPoalino 7 ай бұрын
it is the wiser more intelligent thing to do *suluxs* , buy replicas and the money saved you can invest it in a business or keep it... at the end of the day, it is just a bag after all, a thing to put stuff in. And in this times of inflation and uncertainty it is always better to have money on hand.
@mavistransportationmavis477
@mavistransportationmavis477 5 ай бұрын
Totally agree
@Seleste777
@Seleste777 Жыл бұрын
I can see how these are better options aesthetically but many of the options that you provided are very thin soled which might not work for people with foot issues. What are some options for people who have orthopedic issues ie plantar fasciitis?
@elipotter369
@elipotter369 Жыл бұрын
Look around the shopsnin your area. I see heaps of options in mid level shoe brand stores & better dept stores (still have trouble getting ones to work on my difficult feet though)! Sometimes small independent shops have good choices too
@lisar915r9
@lisar915r9 Жыл бұрын
Vionic makes nice shoes for women with feet issues.
@lisar915r9
@lisar915r9 Жыл бұрын
Also the German brand Ara makes nice ballet flats.
@LostInThought4ever
@LostInThought4ever Жыл бұрын
I can’t give you any ideas on the loafers or mules that she suggests. I have plantar fasciitis too and I only wear flats if I’m only going to be on my feet no more than an hour or two. But if you get a sneaker that is very similar to the Louis Vuitton’s she likes, they work really well. Make sure the sole of the shoe is sturdy, not too bendy, and thicker to absorb more shock. And I always make sure my sneakers have removable inserts so I can put in the plantar fasciitis inserts. I have several pairs that are similar and they work well for me. I know we don’t all have the same feet, but maybe give them a try. Also, a slight heel, like maybe half an inch to an inch helps too.
@starsying
@starsying Жыл бұрын
Look for the brands Aerosoles, Ecco and Clarks
@francescaicaza5148
@francescaicaza5148 Жыл бұрын
I would add espadrilles to the "good list" specially for summer time, there are some very good quality ones that look very elegant, not all of them of course
@aprilp2875
@aprilp2875 Жыл бұрын
Anna! Please do a video on elegant beach wear. I’m not sure what shoes to wear because I want to look elegant but I don’t want to spend a lot of money on shoes that will get dirty.
@daisyle1203
@daisyle1203 Жыл бұрын
My life long style motto: Just because a famous person wears a certain item or has a certain hairstyle, does not mean they have good taste or that it looks attractive. I have not always dressed with latest trends but I always feel that I look feminine as well as elegant. I think the most attractive that women have looked in the past 75 years was most of the 60s styles. Makeup, and some hair was often over done but clothes and shoes, mostly right on spot.
@audrey6026
@audrey6026 Жыл бұрын
And why do men's opinion seem to be such a big argument for us women wearing or not wearing these shoes here? Plus recommended shoes in this video are always boring even ugly sometimes tbh, not saying that the slandered ones here are necessarily beautiful but still I don't think that being elegant means having zero fun nor originality with our outfits... Maybe more discernment, modernity and less underlying condescension would be welcomed for this type of content.
@thefayyazis
@thefayyazis Жыл бұрын
I agree with ballet flats. They are so versatile and comfortable. A staple in my wardrobe is a pair of nude ballet flats with a pointed toe. I think the pointed toe elevates them and makes them even more versatile.
@sienkiewiczmonika1161
@sienkiewiczmonika1161 Жыл бұрын
Hallux valgus and fallen arches entered the chat. Seemingly comfortable and safe, they are not a good choice for feet and legs. The problem is the thin sole, which does not provide cushioning, they are not profiled, so they do not support the feet. They can cause foot deformities, calluses and knee pain.
@michellemcgill9328
@michellemcgill9328 Жыл бұрын
Arch support inserts. It doesn’t seem like I would need them with high arches but I do. I often wear a different type and height shoe to change it up and not stress my feet.
@payattention31
@payattention31 Жыл бұрын
Can you walk a long time with ballet shoes, does it hurt? I never had any.
@michellemcgill9328
@michellemcgill9328 Жыл бұрын
@@payattention31 yes
@payattention31
@payattention31 Жыл бұрын
@@michellemcgill9328 you mean with the arch support insert?
@roxanaurquiza2030
@roxanaurquiza2030 Жыл бұрын
Gracias a ti mejoro mi inglés y aprendo a ser más elegante y tener un mejor estilo. Gracias, Anna! 🤍
@heathermanning5368
@heathermanning5368 Жыл бұрын
Maybe it’s just me but i could never wear slides , Especially with socks! Love Clark’s shoes for comfort
@applesnicolle5144
@applesnicolle5144 9 ай бұрын
Miss Anna, your HAIR is the best🎖 here!!
@Ilina_Velkova
@Ilina_Velkova Жыл бұрын
Hey Anna, I would looove to see a video from you explaining how to be elegant wearing sport clothing/shoes. I think this will be so helpful for those of us who love to be comfortable, but at the same time elegant 😊
@shreyasigarg8163
@shreyasigarg8163 Жыл бұрын
Yeah me too
@Swifftylady17
@Swifftylady17 Жыл бұрын
Ditto
@dianapohe
@dianapohe Жыл бұрын
I think that's sort of against the kind of style she teaches. On multiple videos she stated that she believes one should mostly wear occasion-appropriate clothing, so sport clothing only while doing sport (and not in your everyday life, or while travelling or flying or at home), equitation clothing only when riding, and so on. Videos like this one are made to give alternatives 😊 Then of course, this is only if you want to follow what she says. Of course you can decide to still wear sport clothes in your daily life 😊
@26Sundrops
@26Sundrops Жыл бұрын
@JosieLDN is very elegant and loves exercise! She mostly does vlog style videos, but she also has a blog, e-newsletter, and shopping lists you can browse. She knows where to buy the best athletic wear that is high quality and gorgeous.
@diana.290
@diana.290 Жыл бұрын
I think elegance and sportswear contradict each other.
@carac8527
@carac8527 Жыл бұрын
It’s like you read my mind. Excited to watch.
@sarabekela9419
@sarabekela9419 Жыл бұрын
Me too thank!
@karungarimaina7613
@karungarimaina7613 Жыл бұрын
🤣When Anna started moonwalking, all I could hear was, ‘Annie are you okay?...🎶🎶’ Great tips as usual👏🏾
@Em_Elizabeth
@Em_Elizabeth Жыл бұрын
🎶Anna Bey are you okay🎶
@anyH20
@anyH20 Жыл бұрын
To me the main difference is casual vs. formal. The "elegant" shoes are much more formal. I don't dress formal and am on my feel a lot, so need support.
@chandrawitts3304
@chandrawitts3304 Жыл бұрын
I bought a pair of those chunky, housecleaning slides for my last vacation in Bali. Saved my life walking around the rainy and muddy streets in Ubud. I even had to wear them to restaurants lol
@sue7621
@sue7621 Жыл бұрын
I love my ballet’s and all my elegant shoes sling backs kitten heels etc I’ve just bought a pair of Russell and Bromley loafers and I love them!
@rowentree3999
@rowentree3999 Жыл бұрын
Ballet flats just do not work for my feet. I need some arch support! I actually quite like loafers, oxfords, and those retro style shoes (if the material and detailing were different).
@minjuai
@minjuai Жыл бұрын
I’ve been watching you since I was 14 and now I’m turning 19. Your videos have helped me to make the best decisions with purchasing clothes and shoes 🙏🏾
@massis9069
@massis9069 Жыл бұрын
I wish I learnt all of this when I was your age. Congratulations for leaning towards this type of content.
@minjuai
@minjuai Жыл бұрын
@@massis9069 🙏
@maggiejean_nahas
@maggiejean_nahas Жыл бұрын
The dad shoe is so unflattering oh my goodness!! Thank you so much for inspiring me for footwear it's not easy shopping for shoes!
@usualsuspect5197
@usualsuspect5197 10 ай бұрын
Moi, j'adore les chaussures "gladiateur " . J'en avais une paire de couleur jaune. Super .
@Jenekks
@Jenekks Жыл бұрын
Great tips Anna! It used to be that the unattractive shoes were the most comfortable shoes. Now I'm finding so many more choices, where the shoes are not only attractive but comfortable especially for those of us with major foot problems.
@LisaMarieAdams
@LisaMarieAdams Жыл бұрын
Any recommendations on brands that fit both those criteria? 🙏
@WesleySutherland
@WesleySutherland Жыл бұрын
I love leopard print in calfskin and the right tones of brown ❤
@tanyavalishvili2247
@tanyavalishvili2247 Жыл бұрын
Okay but the first “appropriate option” is soooo granny 😅 and I do love a good dose of Anna Bey! ❤️❤️
@JNAllenstv
@JNAllenstv Жыл бұрын
I like the chain detail on the loafers. My Coach loafers look really nice with the chain. I never go out the house looking anything but expensive.
@Kittyheavenwith21cats
@Kittyheavenwith21cats 7 күн бұрын
So glad it's not just me
@kaunas88
@kaunas88 6 ай бұрын
I agree with almost everything that Anna is saying in terms of avoiding the fashion horrors/extremes and sticking with classic elegant attractive designs. It is classic because it has stood the test of time.
@glitterkissbex
@glitterkissbex Жыл бұрын
I doubt many ladies would have $800 to spend on a pair of shoes. Some of us are very elegant ladies who unfortunately don't have the budget that you enjoy.
@elipotter369
@elipotter369 Жыл бұрын
There are usually nicely styled shoes available at the $200 mark, & lots of sales.
@ОляД-л8у
@ОляД-л8у 20 күн бұрын
@@glitterkissbex budget to enjoy ? Organize your self and your life then you will have bigger budget. It’s all about self organization. People today have an access to all types of work and salary.
@mariannab.5884
@mariannab.5884 Жыл бұрын
There are some great suggestions here! Likely most people will be able to find an alternative that works for them. But I have to take issue with the "repel a man" or "attract a man" discussion. The attractiveness of a woman, if that's even something that needs to be discussed, comes from so many things. And what two people find attractive in one another cannot be measured by "elegance" or a "style". I mean, what century are we living in? Long gone are the days when women had to twist themselves in knots in order to "get" a man. One of the first women to take that stand? Coco Chanel. She had lovers, but she made her own way on her own terms. These days, we make our own money, own our own homes, invest, adopt and raise children on our own, and make our own rules for a happy life. How about a discussion of how MEN need to make themselves more attractive to US.
@vladarLarynx
@vladarLarynx Жыл бұрын
I love this video. I love wearing heels but I love having an option for flats, especially when I want to walk a lot, which happens often as the weather gets warmer. Thanks for sharing this. Love your content!
@maureens9536
@maureens9536 Жыл бұрын
I like a lot of your suggestions in other videos, but honestly, every pair here that is comfortable was replaced by something better looking but likely very uncomfortable. Can't walk for any length of time in these things!
@madhuparnachaudhuri9492
@madhuparnachaudhuri9492 Жыл бұрын
Ladies, wear shoes which are comfortable to YOU. There’s nothing wrong wearing these “ non- elegant” shoes 😊
@kariay50
@kariay50 6 ай бұрын
I agree 💯💃🏻👟🩴👡👌🏻
@bamafencer12
@bamafencer12 Жыл бұрын
There is a time and place for Birkenstocks, I won't give them up. Great list Anna!
@feelthejoy
@feelthejoy Жыл бұрын
Yep, Birks are classic and preppy. I’m never giving up my Birks!
@katemiller7874
@katemiller7874 Жыл бұрын
They look like crap. Not feminine at all
@maddieb2763
@maddieb2763 Жыл бұрын
@@feelthejoy They look awful, sorry to say. But if you like them, go ahead.
@feelthejoy
@feelthejoy Жыл бұрын
@@maddieb2763 I mean they’re in style where I live so I’m really not pressed. They’re cute and my bf wears them too.
@maddieb2763
@maddieb2763 Жыл бұрын
@@feelthejoy Above all, we have to wear whatever suits us best so if you like them, it's fine. It's like what Anna said about animal print, some people love it, some can't stand it. Fortunately we have a lot of different options to choose from. 😊
@carmenatudorei8930
@carmenatudorei8930 Жыл бұрын
Anna, your gentle laugh in the middle of "debate" says everything! No further explanation is required for something you don't like 😊 I absolutely love your soft way of saying things straight forward ❤
@jessicalynnstrom
@jessicalynnstrom Жыл бұрын
On crazy downtown walking days I’m still wearing sneakers. I have plantar fasciitis and I just would be in horrible pain walking in list of those :/
@LauraAmanda8888
@LauraAmanda8888 Жыл бұрын
That's awful ! I get the same kind of pain just walking a few hours in ballet flats. It's terrible. Better to wear supportive shoes!
@ColleahG
@ColleahG Жыл бұрын
Same! I have plantar fasciitis and would need some tips that are a little more practical. I am seeing a chiropractor, as well and doing foot massages daily. Comfy shoes are a must for me.
@dianav.5837
@dianav.5837 Жыл бұрын
Agreed! I work on my feet all day. I need supportive shoes.
@songbirdmahb
@songbirdmahb Жыл бұрын
I am known by my friends and family as someone who dresses pretty elegantly, classy and with good taste. I am 55 and can't afford designer shoes but there are just as good and cuter, more functional shoes out there. I agree with about 80% of the selections here or at least the reasonings. I have a hard time wearing flats without arch support. So some of these flats or slingbacks are really impractical from any standpoint. I would be more comfortable wearing high heels. Fyi..I love the fisherman shoes and not all men think they are grandma shoes. It really depends on the function or event the shoe is worn to. Not all choices should be for some fancy outing.
@Seldarius
@Seldarius Жыл бұрын
Birkenstocks have their uses as work shoes and casual wear. The enclosed ones with back strap are the go-to shoe for German nurses and doctors. They are also usually recommended for people with foot problems as they give much more support than most flats and are often worn as house shoes or for casual outings. (Germans tend to walk a lot, so good support is important.) I‘m not sure when and why they became a fashion accessory, but I’m fairly certain they were never meant to be. 😁
@sienkiewiczmonika1161
@sienkiewiczmonika1161 Жыл бұрын
Seemingly comfortable and safe, balet flats are not a good choice for feet and legs. The problem is the thin sole, which does not provide cushioning, they are not profiled, so they do not support the feet. They can cause foot deformities, calluses and knee pain.
@chicagogyrl4846
@chicagogyrl4846 Жыл бұрын
The gladiator sandals are cool for a rock concert! Or, for someone sporting a Goth look.
@ShivangiNaithani
@ShivangiNaithani Жыл бұрын
Anna educating us and making us laugh at the same time 😂
@mariatopczij4525
@mariatopczij4525 Жыл бұрын
You had me laughing so hard! I hate Birkenstocks too😅😂
@vanessab.6682
@vanessab.6682 Жыл бұрын
My mom told me that about chains. Well, her reasoning wasn't about classy or not classy. She said you know what Vanessa if you buy purses with gold chain straps, it's only going to make your purse that much heavier, so be careful with gold chain strap purses.
@genevabrantner365
@genevabrantner365 Жыл бұрын
The rubber 'cleaning shoes' look like the same shoes we issued to inmates in jail. Yes, I worked in a jail.
@nahambohilma8598
@nahambohilma8598 Жыл бұрын
Lol, really ?So we are out here looking like semi- jailbirds lol
@amazingyummy2
@amazingyummy2 Жыл бұрын
Ha exactly
@fredahwiwu5219
@fredahwiwu5219 Жыл бұрын
I live in Uganda not only were the men wearing them but the women too ooh lord
@heathermanning5368
@heathermanning5368 Жыл бұрын
I found that if you are doing a lot of walking and want to wear a dress but be super comfortable wear Sketchers mary janes or similar mary jane type sneaker shoes! I wore mine to an amusement park and they were so comfortable! 💜no foot pain whatsoever!
@JayedGabor
@JayedGabor 4 ай бұрын
Great video. I’m new to your channel and I love your vibe. And, I can’t tell the difference in the two Bottega bags and the HIDUPZ is close enough and it’s cute so that’s good enough for me.
@juvolp1052
@juvolp1052 Жыл бұрын
I came into this video prepared to disagree with everything and roll my eyes but urgh…I stand corrected 😬 you’ve convinced me Anna! Good stuff
@l.ameenaa4669
@l.ameenaa4669 Жыл бұрын
I have sore feet so I wear running shoes to at from work. I keep them on regardless of how they look.
@annsmith7939
@annsmith7939 Жыл бұрын
I used to have them also until I found different things in the therapeutic areas and now the swelling is minimized
@zwischenburkaundbikini2418
@zwischenburkaundbikini2418 Жыл бұрын
I am sure there are shoes out there that are both comfortable and nice looking.
@hakuna8374
@hakuna8374 Жыл бұрын
We should always wear comfortable shoes! I don't care what anybody thinks of my shoes. She is so limited and superficial! If you are in pain why would you harm yourself even more?
@sarahterry2140
@sarahterry2140 Жыл бұрын
I love my fisherman sandals from The Row - I dress for myself (not for men) and get many compliments on them. If you know, you know.
@amberevol
@amberevol Жыл бұрын
I appreciate some of her style advice but I honestly cringe every time she uses men's opinions like it should influence what we wear. I love when my girlfriends like my outfits n shoes, I honestly couldn't care less what men want to see me in.
@MadonnaGrogan
@MadonnaGrogan 10 ай бұрын
Dress for your self
@bethbeebout2738
@bethbeebout2738 Жыл бұрын
My man calls Birkenstocks ‘birth control shoes’😂
@Godsmasterpiece1993
@Godsmasterpiece1993 Жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha! I can’t stop laughing!!!
@aaliyahalicia8383
@aaliyahalicia8383 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@laurarosenbergart
@laurarosenbergart Жыл бұрын
😂😂 it works other way around too.. my ex had them all the time and it was such a turn off for me. 😅
@fidgetkib8142
@fidgetkib8142 Жыл бұрын
"Jesus sandals" My God I HATE those. Lol
@Stefyyyx
@Stefyyyx Жыл бұрын
I don't blame him!
@pinkmagnolia921
@pinkmagnolia921 Жыл бұрын
Anna, what shoes do you wear when you are on vacation and walk over 5 miles a day sightseeing?
@ELSITAFERNANDEZ
@ELSITAFERNANDEZ Жыл бұрын
I have those exact $250 beige flats for 10 bucks from another store and they are my favorite. Classic, elegant, match every outfit so comfy, i bought 5 pairs
@thegentlewardrobe
@thegentlewardrobe Жыл бұрын
I ove your selection! Especially the Superga sneakers. I also have them in my wardrobe.🥰
@TriebAlvilag
@TriebAlvilag 5 ай бұрын
HEY LYXBAG !! I have been watching you for years and im so proud of where you have made it! I love you so much! Also thanks for making my day.
@jelenamilic883
@jelenamilic883 Жыл бұрын
I like loafers, but when my husband saw them for the first time, he said, "That's exactly what my grandmother used to wear".🤦‍♀️😂I'm 1.74 tall and loafers fit me much better than ballet flats, in wich I look ridiculus. Loafers look better on most women. I completely agree with all the other examples in the video 🤮🤣.
@northgeorgiamom8956
@northgeorgiamom8956 Жыл бұрын
Yes. Not giving up my cute loafers!!
@Em_Elizabeth
@Em_Elizabeth Жыл бұрын
Honestly I didn't think the loafers looked bad at all, especially compared to the other shoes.
@hakuna8374
@hakuna8374 Жыл бұрын
He isn"t very polite. Your well being should be the most important thing. If my hustand told me that he would get a mind you own shoes reply.
@niyahpia
@niyahpia Жыл бұрын
Anna's dog is sooo cute😊
@astrocat88
@astrocat88 Жыл бұрын
Omg!! I love how you admittedly cut the extra straps off the shoe!!❤❤❤😂
@arcana_inamorata
@arcana_inamorata Жыл бұрын
As someone with a high arch, i have trouble keeping some shoes on like ballet flats or pumps without straps. Can you offer any advice?
@telmaalexa.8392
@telmaalexa.8392 Жыл бұрын
Dear Anna, I've enjoyed this video very much. It gave me some ideas for this next Summer. I live in Denmark and don't know where to buy nice shoes, or the best shops to go (without losing an arm and a leg, ahahah). I've been taking care of myself, losing weight, exercising... and now I want to be more classy and dress with good taste. Thank you for sharing all this precious information, it is very appreciated.
@jenricardo9905
@jenricardo9905 Жыл бұрын
This was a funny one! I just came back from a classical music concert and actually was surprised and impressed by the number of people who were wearing nice elegant clothing. And there were many young people. I think the world still has a chance to make it pretty again.
@ladydeathstrikeX
@ladydeathstrikeX Жыл бұрын
I would never understand those Yeezy's. I mean they do look comfortable but as Anna said, I too would use them as washroom slippers.
@salikaoma555
@salikaoma555 Жыл бұрын
I don’t understand the alternatives provided. How can a sandal be replaced with a sling back?
@jcmhanel1
@jcmhanel1 Жыл бұрын
I am pro animal, mainly faux leopard print, but tasteful. Nothing huge like you were showing that looks like plastic. I am so glad you’re pointing all these things out! So helpful!
@candelabra7764
@candelabra7764 Жыл бұрын
This is the video I have NEEDED. Shopping for flats that are both comfortable and nice looking is harder than it looks.
@charmainethomas8755
@charmainethomas8755 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for doing this. I was a pump wearer and unfortunately was paralyzed on one foot and only an wear flats. It’s been a struggle.
@jollygood8828
@jollygood8828 Жыл бұрын
The problem with most of these shoes is that.....they exist. Having said that I live in london and walk about 8 miles most days. So for me no feminine shoe or sandal cuts the mustard, it has to be trainers all day every day. If I'm wearing a dress I will take a pair of low heels with me.
@courtneyandrews9035
@courtneyandrews9035 Жыл бұрын
I think everyone would love a video about boat, beach or lake shoes! Also you could do a video about style and keeping in mind the activities for the day at each location.
@JustMamman
@JustMamman 10 ай бұрын
I'm glad I'm not weird. I also found most of these shoes ugly and disagreeable but then I thought It was just a 'me' problem. Thank you Anna for making me know I'm elegant😊
@amyV10844
@amyV10844 Жыл бұрын
If the rest of your outfit is elegant ,it’s nice to have a trendy ,in style shoes to make it look modern. Princess Diana wore chunky dad shoes , cowboy boots, jeans, bomber jackets and other casual clothing and she was a fashion and elegance icon. If it’s good enough for her ,it’s good enough for me 🤷🏾‍♀️ I’m not wearing grandma’ patent leather church mules sorry..
@youngfrijoles
@youngfrijoles Жыл бұрын
I was not expecting your moon walk 😂
@lightylicht4373
@lightylicht4373 Жыл бұрын
I had always varicose veins, never could wear high heels. Flats are so comfortable
@julieme7927
@julieme7927 Жыл бұрын
True but there are pretty flats and uglier flats. Having said that, wear the things you enjoy x
@sranyak
@sranyak 6 ай бұрын
Anna, you took the words right out of my mouth, if the print is done in good taste. 💞
@_Amy
@_Amy Жыл бұрын
Other than the white sneakers, most people can’t wear the recommended shoes if they are going to be on their feet for a while. They are all great to wear to an event or short occasions but not practical
@GotoMaki4Micah
@GotoMaki4Micah Жыл бұрын
to be an elegant woman, you never walk. you get chauffeured around everywhere in a limousine. walking is for peasants.
@hncmedia
@hncmedia Жыл бұрын
What about an espadrille? I always feel so feminine and beautiful when I lace them up!
@jeandennison8702
@jeandennison8702 Жыл бұрын
I love the Birkenstock platforms. They may not be "elegant" but they are cute, IMO on a dainty foot like mine. Women with small feet can get away with chunky shoes.
@Staaaarrrrrrrrrr
@Staaaarrrrrrrrrr Жыл бұрын
No way sorry. Ive seen women with dainty feet wear them and still looks hideous :)
@sarahterry2140
@sarahterry2140 Жыл бұрын
More if you have nice ankles and know how to style them.
@caribbeantigress
@caribbeantigress Жыл бұрын
I disagree, small feet look terrible on chunky shoes, like wearing a tugboat. I wear size 11 with strong, muscular legs, and I look fantastic
@burghbrat3319
@burghbrat3319 Жыл бұрын
Yes we CAN. The shoe might not be elegant, but if the foot is, we can wear anything.
@burghbrat3319
@burghbrat3319 Жыл бұрын
@@caribbeantigress And I'm a 6.5 with strong, muscular legs. Slim ankles, too. I can wear any shoe, including chunky soles and ankle straps.
@touchmyroses6308
@touchmyroses6308 Жыл бұрын
Would loooove to see a video of your take on men's elegant fashion!
@newenglandgirl9523
@newenglandgirl9523 Жыл бұрын
Please do!!
@IrisBuker
@IrisBuker 7 ай бұрын
*suluxs* almost identical, i couldn´t see the difference until you said which one was replica & authentic. Anyway thanks for sharing.
@rudogwang6060
@rudogwang6060 Жыл бұрын
Hhaha, Anna, I totally agree with you. We use those red sandles for shower and bath in China. I can't believe people wear them for an outing.
@EnniSuorama
@EnniSuorama Жыл бұрын
As someone who has insanely small feet (size EU 34) and is very distinctively pear shaped, chunky bottom shoes that are slim on the ankle are one of the most attractive shoes on me since it balances out my much larger upper thighs and butt. With very small, dainty shoes I look totally unproportionate.
@linapeeva
@linapeeva Жыл бұрын
Omg, I also have size EU 34! It's such a struggle to find good shoes!
@_sramirez_8266
@_sramirez_8266 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for showing budget versions
@AnnaHarley-he8se
@AnnaHarley-he8se Жыл бұрын
I really loved this video. So funny - great to see your personality come through Anna!
@Yooperskepticz
@Yooperskepticz Жыл бұрын
I must admit, I loved the gladiator sandals and the ones you called "intellectual" or something.
@jonahandthewolf
@jonahandthewolf Жыл бұрын
Elegance quite depends on how you define it! I think it's Elegant to respect the subjectivity of taste ofc and also elegant to wear things you feel comfortable in. I also find nude backed dresses elegant personally but some people may not! I have those more chunky sandals with the straps, and I like them a lot for comfort and basic style, they're elegant to me in a way. I do like those slingback shoes also :) they would be a nice option -if- I did want a finer shoe instead of my sandals Loafers are my favourite. I take your advice where it applies to me. Thank you for the flat options!
@Transforma_tu_futuro_ahora
@Transforma_tu_futuro_ahora Жыл бұрын
In Spain, ballerinas are very common, I also wear them, it will be three years that I live here in the United States and I still wear my clothes and shoes the same as I did in my beautiful Spain 🙈
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