10 Life Skills Every Woman NEEDS | Becoming Self-Sufficient

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Which was your favorite? Also, feel free to share your best life skill or hack below so we can all benefit!

[@mahilopi]

Idk if it relates or not... for moms out there: please please please please teach your daughters about body boundaries because these little girls are gonna make the next generation and having a bad experience when they're a little girl ... it makes the way to be more in their feminine energy so hard ... I had multiple bad experiences when I was 5...6 and before I saw this channel I was in my masculine energy just because of those experiences and it was so so sooooo hard for me to know my worth and love my body and saying no TEACH THEM❤❤

[@evenatandnico3771]

Being alone is one of my favorite. I will a solo trip that I planned next weekend

[@islandgirl220]

Cpr and first aid training was my fave im certified and had to use it twice with choking children. I was hoping it would be implemented in schools. So many ppl dont know what to do

[@adventurousdaydreamer]

The entire video is golden girl!!! Thank you for your investment in this pro-woman community!

[@arkangelmerici1170]

Learning CPR and first aid! Never thought on that! Thank you!

[@Esther-le8jf]

I solo travel a lot and I look for cheaper flights so I can spend more on safe hotels. Wouldn’t recommend Airbnb when solo traveling as a girl.

[@FashAveGirl]

& even in hotels I secure the door & block it at night😌 I don’t know or trust their staff, too many stories to learn from.

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Absolutely to both of these. I much rather splurge on a hotel than a flight. I use the devices to lock the door from the inside too!

[@annebrower3241]

Exactly. I’ll Airbnb with my husband or a bunch of girlfriends but never when I’m traveling alone.

[@plzdrinkyourwater]

Amen. This is a GREAT tip ❤

[@leese-anngordon4704]

Hi, I'm struggling to plan my first international trip and I don't know where to start interest of booking and getting around..any tips please?

[@annebrower3241]

Learning to cook has not only done wonders for my waistline and my wallet but for my skin too. I am a mature woman and I get compliments on my skin all the time. I swear it’s thanks to all the fresh produce and wholesome food that I eat. Being addicted to green tea helps too 😉

[@losmit2194]

What kind of food do u eat.? For Breakfast? For lunch? And for dinner?

[@annebrower3241]

@@losmit2194 I am a vegetarian. For breakfast I’ll eat oatmeal with blueberries and almonds. For lunch I’ll eat rice, beans, avocado, and fresh tomatoes (like a bowl from Chipotle, only homemade.) Dinner will be a salad with spring mix, chopped almonds, dried cranberries, roasted beets and asparagus, and shaved carrots. And I have three cups of loose leaf tea every day. It took me a couple years to fully transition to this diet. It was just a matter of making healthier choices day by day. There are some really good resources here on KZbin to learn more. It’s worth the effort!

[@msatutude17]

Effect of communication

[@vsg5549]

Just make sure the green teas are not in plastic teabags that which put microplastics in the tea when heated

[@sorlag_x]

Also don't be drinking tea every meal if you are iron deficient. The tannins inhibit iron absorption. I eff'd myself up real bad drinking too much tea every meal, but I was already low 😭 I just gotta be careful when I drink it

[@kayllaspinks]

Please don't quit KZbin ❤

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

I plan to be here for a while, Kaylla! We've got work to do together😘

[@naturalbeauty9202]

We need her! She bet not quit lol. April Fools jokes are fine but dont make it a reality. We love and need our Goddess.

[@anayookosisi]

Effective Communication. Driving too should be a basic skill

[@Hairitage2023]

Knowing CPR came in handy at a church service. A little girl was choking on a piece of candy and no one knew basic CPR. I immediately did Heinrich maneuver on her and the candy came out thankfully. She was fine and her parents were overjoyed 🙌🏾💜🙏🏾

[@onevenus6040]

God placed you there for that! Blessings to you 🙏 ✨️ 💛

[@ajohonly3721]

I just ended 11 year long, one-sided friendship, and I feel sick to my stomach . Your words are very helpful 😢♥️.

[@TheeBratzDollxox]

Wishing you peace, happiness and healing for your new chapter! You are embarking on a journey that’ll change the trajectory of your life for the better. You deserve this! ❤❤❤

[@naturalbeauty9202]

I feel you! I ended a one-sided "friendship" over a decade ago and have zero regrets. I was "friends" with the girl since HS and I'm now in my 40s, but I was the only one who cared and was trying so she had to go.

[@onevenus6040]

Great for us! Establish and maintain your boundaries! We got this ladies! 🙌 ❤

[@arkangelmerici1170]

It's hard but you know how toxic that can be. Things will be better after this!

[@preciousuwadiae5311]

Effective communication

[@AndreaPortley]

I used to think sharing my location was invading my privacy. Unfortunately, there are 60K black females missing or dead and this changed my mind about sharing my location! 😢😟😔🥺

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Whew, those stats are horrifying😭 Yes, sharing location with family and close friends (especially while travelling) has become the norm for me too. Thanks for keeping us informed, Andrea!

[@naturalbeauty9202]

That part. ❤

[@arkangelmerici1170]

Just make sure to do it with someone you trust like a friend or family member.

[@joanfundi325]

The 50, 30, 20 rule has blown my mind, like thats a life saver. Thanks

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

I love that tip too! Glad it was helpful.

[@Berlanciamyrtil]

As a nurse, I am so so so so so proud of you for this video!!!!! ❤❤❤❤ Well done!!!

[@delicatemoves123]

I swallowed coffee on a bus and couldn't breathe out of mouth nor nose. I was saved by a young man who had been a boy scout. He did the heimlich maneuver.

[@taylorsteinfeld8346]

But how were you choking on coffee lol

[@basharalbutseggs8056]

@@taylorsteinfeld8346?? You’ve never had liquid go down the wrong pipe

[@a_la_drinah]

Thank God

[@nonononono8194]

A life skill that's really high up there is saying no when it's in your best interest to do so, protecting your energy. We are coerced into selflessness and it's bad for our progeny in the long run.

[@daniellerola6637]

Loved this one. Budgeting is definitely the tip I'm working on the most at the moment. The tip I want to share is about social interaction. Hopefully everyone here already does this, but getting off the phone or pausing your conversation while interacting with your cashier/waitress/doctor/etc. I'm always shocked by the number of people who think it's appropriate to be in the middle of a phone conversation while ordering at a restaurant. Not only is it rude but good luck getting that person to do you a favor or go the extra mile for you. The people who exist in the service industry are just that people worthy of respect and kindness.

[@naturalbeauty9202]

Yesss! I do this too, and I use the cashier's name. My mom taught me that. They want to be acknowledged and seen just as we all do!

[@senatemona5402]

Budgeting and reflecting on your finances is a big one for me. I use a simple spreadsheet and jot down EVERYTHING, even a good cappuccino. I also have an extra column that indicates what porrion of my income is being spent. The next big one is time management. I try to challenge myself when getting groceries to take at most 45 minutes and not do any endless strolling in the supermarket

[@moodygirlmusic]

Going to London and Paris this week and IMMEDIATELY sent my flight itinerary and places of stay to the US Embassy. Stay safe girlies

[@food4thought692]

Just want to mention, use Uber in France. Never take the taxis from the airport guys. They’re all scammers.

[@anmorgan3129]

I never thought about that. Thank you for that tip!

[@moodygirlmusic]

@@food4thought692 I was given a chauffeur! Thanks for the tip though love. Sprinkle sprinkle ✨️✨️✨️

[@food4thought692]

@@moodygirlmusic Even better and safer! 💕 ✨

[@mpilokgotso]

Thank you so much, I have been crying the whole weekend cause I couldn't seem to manage my life. I made drastic changes but it seemed like I'm still struggling

[@AdwoaAvor]

Just take it one day at a time. You will be okay.

[@cuttiecrazy11]

Consider that you might have adhd! I found out I have that, and now I understand why I’d been struggling so much. Now I have new tactics to help

[@venessamoon3741]

Great video! I agree with the life skills that you mentioned in your video. I need to learn how to do CPR and I need to have a safety kit in my car. I think that another life skill a woman need to have is learning how to their hair in simple hairstyles (hairstyles for everyday life).

[@Purplelily24]

Great content as always! I love how she said always keep learning! Classes at libraries, community centers and community colleges are way underrated. Get out there, learn something new (or a refresher) and meet your neighbors!

[@LynAllure]

Ouuu loved this style of video 😍 Such a valid conversation, keep them cominggg 🥂💕

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Ahh! Thank you, Lyn😊 I love what you do in the finance and lifestyle space💕

[@Zara_Luna]

I appreciate you sharing safety first as #1 and health #2. Self-defense classes and learning how to use self-defense tools, if you know what I mean is imperative. Impressive video! Thank you!! ❤

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

I appreciate the feedback, Rebecc! It's tough to do great things when we're unsafe or unhealthy, right? Glad you appreciated those points 😊💕

[@vichuhhh]

Effective Communication!! I am in school and I work. I will have to interview for my doctoral program and some tips would mean so much! 🌸

[@ms.payton1458]

I really need to incorporate the 50/30/20 rule in my life! Thannk you for dropping another gem 🥰🌷

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Sharing is caring! Happy to help, darling 💕

[@emilyg9108]

Thank you for all of your videos and being a positive influence on women!

[@melindar4107]

I love how non toxic this page is. no unnecessary comments about religion or God, no comments about how to take advantage of people. Thank you for making this account. I look forward to your Instagram and website!

[@cherissewilliams8748]

Another one to share with the group chat! Great points and reminders. I'm going to need more on that effective communication and on budgeting. I could be doing a better job with my saving. Thank you ❤

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Thanks for sharing the content, love! Appreciate you as always. I've got you with that content 😊

[@vanityvixen19]

I love this channel! You’re well spoken and very knowledgeable! Everything is always informative and well researched❤

[@naturalbeauty9202]

She drops gens each and every time!❤️✨

[@natashawatkins7647]

I am so happy you made this!!! You are so appreciated 🩷♥️!

[@NelaEllaAYE]

Yes to life skill 4! It’s soo important also I recommend Stop the Bleed training as well!

[@Divine__Hala]

Love this channel The cpr and fire safety skill has definitely come in handy!! You don’t think you need it until you need it!! In a room full of people where a friend was choking I was literally the only person who knew the Heimlich.

[@naturalbeauty9202]

Wow! Thank goodness you were there

[@onevenus6040]

God sent you 🙏 ❤

[@utyasuquo7726]

So much wisdom in a few minutes! Great job! Thanks.

[@kairosunltd130]

I love it sis. I'm definitely learning new skills that'll also add to multiple streams of income. Always getting ideas and familiarizing myself with the internet, haven't been really big on technology but if it's for a positive and progressive cause, then I'm down! I'm in a season of transformation and reinventing myself. So excited. Thankyou for this video, it's the exact fuel I need and inspiration to carry forward my aspirations, goals and motivation 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🔥🔥🔥🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿💎💎💎👑👑👑😍😍😍

[@BettyLea-kr9rw]

I love this❤ thanks so much I would really love to start journalling but im clueless and dont know how that works or what i"m suppose to write Hopefully you make a video on it in ghe future

[@Fantasy4SF9]

I love love all of your videos, you've taught me a lot about being a feminine lady. I'm still learning. I love your voice

[@herantomas20]

This channel is Amazing! I love how you’re so articulate with your points. Thank you and God bless!

[@alextheegreat]

Thanks for all of these wonderful tips. I think another hack for safety especially for women who live alone is carrying a taser or pepper spray with you whether you are taking a walk or taking the trash out. I read that it needs to be black or a dark color as well.

[@katiadiaz443]

Miss Your vídeos … never stop making them … pleaseeeeee. 😘❤️😘

[@Mscocoapuffz]

Effective Communication. This channel gives the most life applicable advice and every video is rewatch able.

[@anettjessop9102]

Excellent! Putting 'glass breaker' on my shopping list!! 💖💖

[@naturalbeauty9202]

Me too! Amazon here I come!

[@rollerhopgirl]

All of this is great advice. Thank you.

[@mbamemarieclaudine1628]

Liking even before I start watching because i know it's gonna be another fire🔥 video

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

You're too kind! 💕

[@barthazesiro9064]

Your tone just gives big sister vibes❤ I am glad I met you in my mid twenties❤❤❤

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Love that - I am a total big sister! I'm glad you're here, love 💕

[@craven_angel3105]

I am so glad you found the extra time to create this channel. Its easy to do these things in college or at the beginning of your career and then let them slip as the time goes by. So thank you for keeping it front and center.

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

It's a process😅 but it's _so_ worth it! It always makes my day to know that my efforts are helping and being appreciated.

[@thequeenmidas]

Your voice makes for easy listening. So soothing and gentle ❤

[@deethefrenchie]

Excellent video as usual my girl! Thanks for reminders!

[@Карина-м9у]

Thank you for the work and research you always put in your Videos! + Effective Communication

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

You're very welcome, love! I've got you covered 😘

[@kampwoods]

I really love this channel!

[@c.l.9106]

i’d love a video on effective communication. Love all your videos, this chanell is the most valuable on YT, thanks for your work

[@DMKC]

Great lesson on teaching of life skills! As for the next video’s suggestion I look forward to watching and learning is, effective communication.

[@nikkimarie7]

Thank you for this amazing video. I'm watching it with my 18 year old who will be going off to college in the fall.

[@Lynnzberry]

Loved every minute. I'm so happy I found your channel. ❤️🙏❤️

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

I'm so happy you're here! 😘

[@chryszapenera8981]

Hi! I really love your channel ❤ please make a video for us women on how to handle being called "too much" and how to embrace ourselves more.

[@IreneThomas]

Yes please, or over ambitious

[@trienicealston8876]

Thanks for this. Shared it with my teens because I couldn't have said it better myself.

[@maxhams58]

Thank you so much for making this informative video🥺❤️

[@patriciathomas9299]

Sistah-Gurl...YOU are soooo appreciated.👑

[@MomsMoneyMindset]

I could have sworn I mentioned this but just in case… effective communication is a key skill and would be a great topic 💕

[@cherylmartinez3306]

Effective Communication. And thank you for this video.

[@wanangwankhoma6779]

Effective communication.

[@arinpaul5878]

Thank you for your wonderfull videos! I've watched'em all and can't wait for new ones.) thank you♥️ Effective communication!

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

I appreciate you, darling! I'll be working on that upcoming content for you 😘

[@waruruwanjiru8295]

Hey girl, I am from Kenya a single mother at fact. I am having a hard time with consistency. I need a change in behaviour in order to implement skills I have learned but idk why I remain in the past or rather not making changes when clearly I need a change help me girl.

[@jamie1879]

Hey wanjiru....I also struggle with this sometimes....let's connect...are you in Nairobi? I could be your accountability partner

[@waruruwanjiru8295]

@@jamie1879 yes am in Nairobi how do we link up

[@julieokoki9493]

I am also from Kenya and am going through it,a single mother can't find jobs and it's crazy out here .I need a skill set as well ideas ???

[@IreneThomas]

Sending you love ❤, you got this

[@lifenlegacy7333]

Girl I feel you. It's tough out here

[@TheEssenceofBEINGwithBlessed]

Effective communication, please and thank you

[@MissK-xi9zo]

Beautifully said 🙏💜

[@sarahtietje]

Effective Communication! Thank you♥️

[@blobofdespair]

Effective communication!!!

[@DS-uh2sf]

Much needed. I was literally researching about this recently. Thanks.

[@evenatandnico3771]

Excellent video... Great content .

[@marieclaire6060]

Effective communication, such good points brought out in this!❤

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Will do! Glad this was helpful, love 😊

[@pavlavalkova9926]

Thank you so much for your videos! They are so inspirational. I always learn something new or it reminds me something important I sometimes forget about.

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

You are very welcome, darling! I'm so happy you find value in my content. More to come! 💕

[@aylin7716]

Effective communication ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

[@tubagogo5817]

thank you, very good video🌹

[@SolomonsfitnessWorld]

Sure a wonderful enlightening video 😊

[@jessicadelores2022]

Thank you ❤❤ once again! For your awesome content

[@mahilopi]

OMG my queen has posted A life changing video for me again.... actually nobody tought me these tips I really see you as a big sister to be honest🫂 I really wanna thank something that put this idea of recording and teaching us about feminine wnergy and stuff in your head❤

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

You are so sweet! I'm so happy I can help, and I'm honored that you see me as a big sister. Much more content to come. Looking forward to hearing more from you and how your journey is going 💕

[@asiaisabellaa]

Great video! ❤️

[@onevenus6040]

Excellent content as always! I might add learning how to swim!? Water safety is imperative for your life and those around you ✨️

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Very true! Swimming is such a good one. Thanks for pointing that out, love 💕

[@pretty56567]

Great video as always. Effective communication

[@asiamahboatengdeborah2909]

Effective communication and how to prepare for an International trip as a first timer. It's my first time traveling and I'll really appreciate learning from your experience Also I'll appreciate a video on effective communication because I'm really bad at it even as a leader of an organization 😢

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Love this for you! I definitely have a few things I could share. When are you leaving? Maybe I can fit in a video before then. Or I'll just come back and update this comment. Congrats on your leadership role as well! Being a leader is an ever-evolving dynamic. We will touch on communication soon. I think Simon Sinek does an amazing job talking (and writing) about leadership and building teams in the meantime.

[@RACHAEL____]

Awesome and insightful video

[@jazmynbell9025]

Effective communication would be a wonderful topic

[@sherrysunshinefreeman3434]

Effective communication ❤😊

[@morgantaleb9707]

Loved this ❤

[@Southeastasiankitchen]

Effective Communication❤️

[@chloeturnage6623]

Effective communication

[@Iamzintlejita]

Effective communication.🥺

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

Got you, babe!

[@nannajacobsen8951]

Effective communication 🙏🏻

[@EmmytheBelle]

Effective communication 💚

[@thatomofokeng316]

EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION

[@fantasia243645]

I would really appreciate a video on effective communication and time management.

[@denaysham.4307]

Effective communication!

[@dafnneperez9577]

Effective Communication please and Thank you!!🙏🏽 ❤

[@christy3d]

Effective communication❤❤

[@Sweetheart0189]

Effective communication 🥰

[@wendyayebale8979]

Definitely effective communication id love to learn about

[@bethelsileshi7900]

Effective Communication!❤

[@ohsostylish60]

Effective communication

[@juliettejuliette-bf8df]

Effective communication!

[@cynthiadawson6348]

Effective Communication Great video BTW👍👏

[@Denisebemmett]

Blessings! 🙏😊

[@TheFeminineUniverse]

To you as well! 🙏🏾

[@cilixialatinantillaise8664]

I so love the different pictures U put on your videos! 🥰. It's not only black women or beautiful women, it's all of them (U even put a French actor I know, good actress by the way 😁), I like it. It's all of us women💪🏽. And of course, I would love to watch a video from U on effectif communication. 😁🥰

[@naturalbeauty9202]

She's very inclusive and that makes her dope AF!

[@nycgirl6978]

An “Effective communication” video would be helpful. 1st time viewing your content… very informative. Thank you.

[@yasminkhan9956]

Thank you for sharing all this great advice I absolutely loved this type of vlog ❤

[@teresalavoie]

Affective communication!!! ❤